Sunday, January 12, 2014

This Day In Gay Utah History January 12th

January 12
1903 HARRINGTON IS BOUND OVER He Is Placed Under $10,000 Bonds To Answer For His Revolting Crime “Red” Frank Harrington was given a hearing Saturday evening on the charge of a crime against nature. The testimony in the case was taken at the hospital where the victim of Harrington’s brutal assault is ill with rheumatism. The testimony is too revolting for publication. Harrington was bound over to the district court and his bond was fixed at $10,000.1903 Ogden Standard Examiner page 5 

1978 Thursday An attorney for television personality Paul Lynde pleaded innocent for
Paul Lynde
his client Wednesday morning after Lynde ‘s arrest for interfering with police officers. Salt Lake City Judge Paul G. Grant told attorney John Kesler that Lynde, 51, Beverly Hills, Ca. Would stand trial January 30 at 2 p.m. Lynde was arrested at 12:30 a.m. Wednesday by City Police Officer Scott Candland who had answered a vehicle vandalism call at 51 South 400 West. According to police reports Lynde began complaining to Officer Candland that he needed a different case investigated. He told police thieves had stolen his brief case from his black Cadillac limousine. The television comedian spent about 3 hours in
Salt Lake City jail before posting $50 bond. (SLTribune 01/12/78 page 14 A)

1986 Sunday -The Gay/Lesbian Alliance and The Heterosexual Alliance, two controversial student clubs at Utah State University are now officially recognized. The Gay/ Lesbian Alliance is a support group for homosexuals that has met weekly on Campus since October 1985.  Club goals include “educating the public that we are normal people” and providing emotional support for homosexuals, then friends and families according to club representatives.  The Heterosexual Alliance advocates the “advantage of being heterosexual” according to club president Nyles Stoddard.  They also plan to provide information about AIDS and will attempt to provide counselors for homosexuals who wish to change their life style.  The Heterosexual Alliance began meeting in November 1985 in response to a three part series about homosexual groups in the Utah Statesman, the university’s student newspaper.  The series began with a front page photograph of two bare chested males in a partial embrace.  President Nyle Stoddard 27, pre-law student said his club will monitor valley publications and watch for further questionable, distatsteful, or offensive material.  Members of the Gay/Lesbian Alliance who attended the first meeting of the Heterosexual Alliance characterized it as a hate group. Stoddard said the club also seeks answers to many questions about the spread of AIDS “Does society have a responsibility to stop it?  Does government? Do individuals?  I point at homosexuals because they comprise 75 % of the spreaders of the disease.” Heterosexuals meets monthly with 25 members. Gay/Lesbian Alliance meets weekly with same amount. Darren was the co-President of the Gay/Lesbian Alliance. (SLTribune 2B 01/12/1986)

Patty Reagan
1986 Salt Lake AIDS Foundation Headed by Dr. Patty A, Reagan will Provide Information Dr. Patty Reagan, as founder director of the Salt Lake AIDS Foundation may have jumped in where angels fear to tread. It’s part of her academic training and humanitarian concern, she said, to provide accurate non speculative information about AIDS, a medical condition 1st discovered in the United States in 1981. AIDS attacking groups on the margin of society-Gay men, intravenous drug users, certain immigrants from Haiti-leaving them vulnerable to diseases healthy people rarely contract.  By background and training Dr. Reagan is a University of Utah associate professor of health education, who this fall began sharing ½ her professional time as the new director of the Women’s Studies Program succeeding Dr. Margo Sargman.  Dr. Reagan has shared information on women’s health, sexuality, women’s issues and health issues on and off campus.  She’s a frequent and popular community speaker whose topic now includes AIDS.  She was recognized for her concerns as a recipient of the Susa Young Gates Award presented each year by Utah Women’s Political Caucus for service to the state of Utah and a commitment to human rights. Dr. Reagan returned to Utah in May from a Sabbatical at the University of California at Berkeley doing post doctoral work in public health.  It was hard not to be involved with AIDS as a health concern while there.  The Bay Area is at the hub of the AIDS crisis and UC Berkeley has a million dollar grant for AIDS epidemiology study. “My concern coming back to Utah was that no one was doing anything as far as AIDS education.  I’ve discovered since, there are individuals and groups a lot with in the Gay men’s community doing everything from collecting money to provide emergency food and housing to forming AIDS support groups.  The need for education remains. “For example the social implications for mothers, families, extended families, significant others need to be addressed. The SLAF can help people like the woman whose sun was hospitalized with AIDS at the UCLA medical center.  He was within three days of death  He hadn’t told her until then because he didn’t want her to know he was Gay.”  Part of what the foundation does through an AIDS telephone line, is provide accurate health information and referred. AIDS myths abound, Dr. Reagan said. If people generally deal poorly with sexually, they deal even less well with a sexually transmitted disease.  Adding to the misinformation is a social system hostile to Gay men.  On the patient’s side is a concern for the right to privacy while dealing with illness “In addition to a concern for physical illness, Gay men face a whole new set of social stresses growing around AIDS- loss of job, loss of housing, loss of support, in and out of the Gay community. According to a National Gay Task Force study, ¼ of American families has a Gay member. Dr. Reagan said in a 4 year study conducted in her classes, 8 per cent of students surveyed said they were Gay.  “the data remains the same in Utah with rational figures begun with the Kinsey Studies of 1949. What that means is that here or elsewhere, the chances are not good for wiping out lifestyles that people don’t like.  She said there is a large Utah community of bi sexuals, the least studied of sexual variations. She said she has anecdotal evidence of Utah men, sometimes married, active sexually with women and men. That puts Utah women general in a low risk AIDS group at risk in a bi sexual community.  “its my job as a sex educator to help eliminates or eradicate the AIDS myths. The most serious is that AIDS is easily communicable.  The medical research and now history say that is not true.  A person really has to work hard to get AIDS, with repeated encounters as the passive recipient of multiple, anonymous partners.”  Dr. Reagan said the foundation’s AIDS information line originates with a telephone at the Wasatch Women’s Center , Ste. 102 3450 Highland Drive where space is donated. Dr. Sandra Weins-Bagley is director.  Lori Gregory a clinic health educator and Kristine Wimmer, a graduating senior in health educator and University of Utah, answer calls media attention to AIDS seems to trigger concerns and questions.  Dr. Reagan pays the $70 a month to maintain the phone line. Ms. Gregory said half the calls come from those probably at risk, seeking referrals for testing and/or treatment.  Questions from the public indicate the caller is misinformed, after asking ridiculous, but serious questions. On a Friday by  1:45p.m. she had juggled 12 AIDS questions with Wasatch Women’s Center calls. “Sometimes someone calls, asks a question, hangs up, and then calls back 2 or 3 more times,” Ms. Gregory said. “It seems that one question unleashes a whole lot of concerns. Some days I get calls from a university student who may have seen our number published and who’s concerned about a contact he may have had 2 years ago.” She said the number of calls from men and women are about the same. “We get a lot of calls from women who panic and need information.”  Dr. Reagan said the AIDS crisis has brought into focus some philosophical questions for instance school districts may consider policy on children with AIDS.  Boys with hemophilia are another at high risk AIDS group.  Although there’s no evidence that boys with hemophilia present an infection health risk, some schools are setting policies keeping these children from attending public schools. “the public heath question is where to terminate the civil liberties of a few for the rights of the many. Medical evidence says AIDS  There aren’t many kids with AIDS. This is a chance for people to be advocate for those who need advocacy.  Besides the information line, the foundation publishes a newsletter keeping volunteers and interested persons informed.  Funding is an on going concern.  Dr. Reagan said telling AIDS jokes as telling ethnic and religious jokes is a from of bigotry and prejudice. It shows insensitivity and personal insecurity she said. “Besides there’s a danger in telling AIDS jokes.  You can never be sure to whom you are speaking and for whom it won’t be funny.  Especially if 1 in 4 families in America has a Gay member.  AT a recent American Public Health Associated meting in Washington DC. Reagan said the largest number of participants attended sections on women’s health concerns and AIDS.  She said there was a lot of interest among Professional health care givers as to the role of women and AIDS.  “Women are playing a special role in the AIDS crisis. Not because we are biologically nurtures, Men are that too. Women are the best possible ones physically and emotionally to deal with AIDS.  We are at least risk.  Women are at a unique pace to turn their energy and personal resources against AIDS.”

1988-Tuesday- Unconditional Support topic “Beating the Winter Doldrums” (83) “At lunch today I typed up articles for the Triangle on the AIDS Quilt and Concerning Gays and Lesbians’ February schedule. I called Becky Moss at her work and got her approval for final copy.  Randy Olsen is supposed to have written an article for Unconditional Support. Ken Francis, Randy, and I are supposed to meet at 6 p.m. for a planning meeting. I need to call the leaders of LGSU, Affirmation, ResurrectionMCC etc. to see when we can get together to plan a Valentines Dance and to let them know about the Water slide fund raiser. While talking to Beau Chaine yesterday, he said he probably will be in the hospital for brain surgery that weekend in February. I wonder if Dave Malmstrom would let us use the Unitarian Church for a dance on Sunday the 14th? I need to call him right away. When I came home on my afternoon break, I called Dave Malmstrom about co sponsoring a Valentine’s Dance. He said Affirmation would, but we couldn’t have the dance on the 14th because Alan Gundry is coming to speak to them that evening. Alan Gundry is the LDS Church’s liaison between the church’s Department of Homosexual Concerns and the Gay Community.  If the church was really concerned with our community perhaps they could start by calling us Gay and not homosexuals. Anyway we decided that the 12th of February which is a Friday would be the best date for a dance.  I then called Bruce Barton up and talked to him. I’m glad I did because he needed to vent. He’s having problems with some on his board named Arthur who is usurping pastoral responsibilities. A lot of people forget that Bruce is a Minister of the Gospel not just the head of a support group. Anyway he said he couldn’t see any problem with having a dance that day but will have to clear it with his board for certain.  I now have to get Chris Brown to get LGSU’s approval. I was hoping to see him at Unconditional Support tonight but he wasn’t there. I met with Randy Olsen and Ken Francis at 6 p.m. for a planning meeting and basically we agreed to keep the topics spontaneous rather then having a set of discussion subjects for the month. Randy is going to get a hold of Jim Hunsaker to find out how to get incorporated and a non-profit status. We need to get a checking account or savings account started.  We had a 16 year old Lesbian attend our meeting tonight named Becky Smith. She was the only Lesbian at the meeting.  She is the 3rd teenage Lesbian to approach me and I don’t have any advice or counsel for her. I’m not qualified to counsel a Lesbian and I know of no support groups for women. All are secret such as OWLS or Order of the Rose.  I made her feel welcomed but I wish there was a women’s coming out group in the community. Anyway our topic tonight was Beating the Winter Doldrums. We ended up suggesting that people use thus group to announce activities in the Salt Lake community at large like free concerts, lectures, etc. Different kind of crowd tonight. Kind of a “entertain me because I’m stand offish” type. I had to really work to make the group come together and be successful and all in all it was a nice evening. One of our group member is leaving for Japan, another went to Chicago, another to Indiana, and two more are moving to Denver. Seems like so many are leaving Salt Lake. Can’t say that I entirely blame them but it sure is hard to develop a sense of stability in such a transient world. [1988 Journal of Ben Williams]

Maureen Davies Chuck Whyte Brenda Voisard
1992- Unitarian minister Barbara Hamilton-Holway officiates as Maureen, left, weds Brenda. Maureen wore a gown -- rather than a tuxedo -- to avoid mimicking a heterosexual marriage. They exchanged gold wedding rings, carried bouquets and wore white gowns.  When Brenda Voisard married her longtime partner Maureen (Davies) at the First Unitarian Church in 1990, the minister pronounced theirs a ``holy union.'' Friends gathered for a formal dinner, and the two brides cut the cake. ``I didn't know initially if I would feel like this was a parody,'' said the Rev. Barbara Hamilton-Holway, who officiated at the ceremony. ``Then the deep love Brenda and Maureen have for one another was immediately apparent and it made me and everyone else feel comfortable, and like this is a good and right thing.''  Brenda and Maureen, who asked that her last name not be used, are among a growing number of gay and lesbian Utah couples getting ``married.'' About 30 such unions are conducted yearly in Salt Lake City by the Unitarian Universalist Society and the Metropolitan Community Church. The Quakers have performed one gay ceremony (Rocky O’Donovan and Robert Erichhson).   No state issues marriage licenses to gay or lesbian couples, according to the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force in Washington, D.C., so the ceremonies have no legal standing. Property rights normally bestowed by marriage are handled through private contract. Brenda and Maureen obtained powers of attorney, allowing each to make financial and medical decisions for the other if one is incapacitated. Wills also were prepared giving each inheritance rights over the other's belongings so ``it wouldn't be assumed that our parents are the primary beneficiaries,'' Maureen said.  Since most policies don't cover same-sex spouses, each woman obtained her own health insurance. Each must also file individual tax returns. Brenda and Maureen also are considering having a child. If they choose artificial insemination over adoption, Brenda will carry the child. Once the baby is born, more legal maneuvering will be required so Maureen can become the legal guardian, should something happen to Brenda. ``I was always told by my parents that your partner should be somebody who makes you a better person,'' said Brenda, who is completing a doctorate in counseling psychology. ``We do that for each other.'' But when Brenda told her mother she had found ``Ms. Right,'' her mother's initial reaction was disbelief -- coupled with silence. She hoped Brenda would abandon the idea. Months later Brenda's mother asked her to call off the ceremony. Finally, her mother told her that Maureen was not welcome in the family's Midwestern home. ``My mother sees it as a choice between me or her church,'' Brenda said. ``And she can't fit us in together in her life. She and dad just pulled out all the stops as to how it was unnatural.'' Maureen has not told her parents she is a lesbian -- or that she's married to Brenda. ``Telling them would add stress to what I thought was a happy situation,'' explained the computer systems manager. Maureen's sister, however, did attend the wedding. ``It is a wonderful thing and it is a holy thing,'' Brenda said of the ceremony. ``And our commitment is that we will be together forever, if we can.''  : (01/12/92 Page: A8 SLTribune)

1992:Sunday HIDDEN POPULATION:WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE HOMOSEXUAL IN UTAH? Byline: By Carol Sisco, Paula Huff and Lili Wright `` One in 10 Americans is gay or lesbian, according to the late Alfred C. Kinsey, the first biologist to study human sexuality. Utah is no different, says Patty Reagan, a University of Utah health education professor, who surveyed 1,000 students over eight years. ``Since my own study says 8 percent are gay, and national studies say 10 to 12 percent, that suggests 10 percent of any population is gay.'' Yet only 2 percent of the state's gay and lesbian population openly acknowledges their sexuality, Ms. Reagan adds. Most fear they will be stereotyped as freaks who prowl parks and rest stops for illicit sex. It's a secret that some 165,000 Utahns may keep for life. If the truth were discovered, they could be attacked by strangers, branded as perverts or banned from church. What these men and women are afraid to admit is that they are homosexual. ``They can lose their jobs, friends and family,'' says Salt Lake Police Officer David Ward, who served as the city's liaison with the gay community. ``They can be kicked out of their homes when the landlord finds out.'' The AIDS scare has prompted more monogamous relationships. And few heterosexuals realize
Robert Austin
that many gay couples have stable, happy relationships, says Robert Austin, vice chairman of the Gay and Lesbian Community Council. He and his partner Bradley Weischedel go to movies, shop for antiques and care for their pets. ``Our life revolves around learning and caring about each other,'' he says. ``Together we create a relationship that, except for our genders, is pretty much the same as another adult couple trying to make a go of it.'' Most gay and lesbians interviewed say they've found a rich social life in Salt Lake City. Downtown boasts 11 gay bars and clubs. By comparison, Philadelphia has 10 times as many residents but only 23 gay bars. The state has 55 gay and lesbian social and support groups, from the Utah Gay Rodeo Association to the Older Wiser Lesbians Society. Some activists expect that number to triple in the next two years. ``Things are changing almost daily,'' says Bobbie J. Smith, who works at the new lesbian
Robert Smith
and gay book store, The Rhino's Nest. ``We have made great improvement over the last four or five years.''  Once a year, there's a high-profile bash. On Memorial Day weekend more than 600 gays and lesbians gather at the Salt Palace to crown the Emperor and Empress of ``The Royal Court of the Golden Spike Empire,'' the Utah chapter of a national social services organization. Drag queens and local entertainers lip-sync Top 40 hits to raise money for Utahns with AIDS. ``It's a very elegant affair,'' explains reigning Emperor Jeff Smith, 36, who works in a Salt Lake City hospital. ``Tuxedos, formal
Jeff Smith
gowns for the drag queens, lots of sequins and rhinestones, limos, the whole nine yards.''
  In other circles, gay life is less carefree. Most religions view homosexual behavior as a sin, and continued practice could lead to church sanctions -- including excommunication. ``Every time you sin seriously, you de facto excommunicate yourself, or separate yourself from the church,'' says Father Robert Bussen, vicar general of the Catholic Diocese of Salt Lake City. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has strict rules of behavior: marriage in the temple, children and a religious life. If obeyed, heaven is the reward. Unwilling to forsake their faith, many LDS gays and lesbians lead traditional heterosexual lives. Some have gay lovers and frequent gay bars -- taking a second name for their secret lives.  ``You have two lives when you are gay,'' says a secondary school teacher as she sips a beer at the lesbian bar Puss 'N' Boots. ``You have to hop in and out very fast. You get good at it. You play the game.'' Perhaps that's because Utah legislators make little effort to protect their homosexual constituents. While it's not against the law to be gay or lesbian in Utah, sodomy – for heterosexuals and homosexuals -- is illegal. There are no city, county or state laws to protect homosexuals against either housing or job discrimination. And the state's anti-discrimination office keeps no records of complaints. Not that Utah is unique. Nationally, homosexual sodomy is illegal in 24 states. Of those, 17 also consider heterosexual sodomy a crime. In 18 states, public employees cannot be fired because of sexual orientation.  In the legislative session that begins Monday, Utah activists will lobby lawmakers to include sexual orientation in a hate-crime law. This would increase penalties for assaults or vandalism because of race, religion or sexual orientation. Seventeen other states have adopted similar legislation. But it's doubtful that any law will stop the hatred -- here, or else where in America. ``The gay community is under siege in this country,'' says Robert Bray, spokesman for the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force in Washington, D.C. ``We are fighting an epidemic of violence.''  During 1990, 377 verbal and physical assaults were reported by gays and lesbians to the Utah Anti-Violence Project, a grass-roots group that records crimes against homosexuals. Some were kicked. Others were threatened with weapons. Strangers screamed ``Lesbo,'' ``You homo,'' or ``Hope you die of AIDS.''  ``We had a case last year in West Valley City where neighbors were victimizing this gay man,'' says Michael Aaron, founder of the Anti-Violence Project. ``They poisoned his dog, they sent him a dildo in the mail which was covered with excrement.''   Adds Marshall Brunner, manager of the Sun Club in Salt Lake City: ``On
Marshall Brunner
Thanksgiving, we had some body hit with a lead pipe.''
   A poll of 215 gay and lesbian Utahns conducted by Anti-Violence Project volunteers in 1990 revealed that 91 percent of gay men and 75 percent of lesbians were victims of either verbal or physical violence. One out of every four respondents -- men and women -- said they had been raped.  Most gay bashers are teen-aged, white, middle-class males, says Les Cooper, a psychologist with Mountain West Psychiatric Associates in Salt Lake City. Some are frightened by their own sexual ambivalence. The mentality is, ``Gays are bad. Gays caused the AIDS epidemic, therefore, if we squash them we are doing good.'' Mills Crenshaw, a disc jockey at KTKK-KTALK radio, has been accused of homophobia for the opinions expressed on his weekday talk show. He denies it. But this self-proclaimed ``lover of truth'' believes homosexuals should not teach school because it would open the door to other ``deviant behavior.''  ``What's next?'' he asks. ``Pedophiles?''    -- Saundra says she loved the LDS Church. But in her mid-20s she was forced to choose between her faith or lesbianism. After a long struggle, she chose the latter. She became sexually active at Brigham Young University while serving as Relief Society president of her ward. ``After I acted on my feelings, I didn't know what to do, so I talked to my bishop,'' recalls Saundra, a Salt Lake City social worker who requested anonymity. ``He thought it was a fluke. But his attitude was, `You're obviously a feminine woman. You couldn't be lesbian.' '' He advised her to marry, and she took his advice. But she quickly realized it was a mistake, divorced her husband and moved in with a female college friend. That relationship lasted 10 years -- years ridden with strife. Saundra abandoned the church. Her lover didn't. ``We took divergent paths,'' she says. ``Mine was, `I can't play the game any more.' Hers was, `Things could change. I might find the right man and marry.' '' Erick (Meyers) tells a similar story. He filled a Mormon mission, served in the military. But his childhood yearnings intensified when he went to college. ``I was so overwhelmed by the good looking men at BYU I finally went to counseling services for help,'' recalls Erick, who asked that his last name not be used to protect his four children. ``The counselor acted under the assumption that sexual identity is a learned behavior. He thought that through conditioning I could develop another sexual identity.''   A year before graduating, Erick experienced ``senior panic'' and decided to marry. Two years later his wife found a letter he had written to a friend, disclosing his homosexual feelings. ``She was disappointed and hurt,'' Erick says. Still, the couple stayed for another decade before his wife demanded a divorce. ``I realized you don't need to fix what ain't broke,'' says Erick. ``That's when I started becoming healthy and feeling good about myself.'' After the divorce, Erick went to gay support groups such as Affirmation, Unconditional Support and Gay Fathers. ``I decided I did not believe some of my LDS beliefs and customs. So, one by one, they dropped by the wayside.''   But he longed for a sense of spirituality, which he now shares with other gays and lesbians at the Resurrection Metropolitan Community Church. Many Mormon homosexuals continue to go to weekly meetings at their LDS wards. Take one BYU ward in Provo. ``Most of the ward would freak out if they knew half of the back row is gay,'' says Randy Weight, executive director of the Legacy Foundation. Nikolai, a large man who wears a bear-tooth necklace, isn't fazed about the church's stand on homosexuality. ``We still believe in the church,'' he says. ``They will accept it one day.''   Rather than waiting on the church to change its doctrine, T.J. Burke decided to change himself. The 44-year-old Salt Lake City business owner says he overcame his homosexuality with three years of counseling -- and a lot of basketball.  Mr. Burke, a pseudonym, was married in an LDS temple and fathered three children. But periodically, this ``sex addict'' sneaked away to rest stops and parks for homosexual sex.  Then he turned to Evergreen, a support and therapy group for Mormon men that claims a 1-in-5 success rate. This organization -- which is not affiliated with the LDS Church – believes some men develop homosexual tendencies because they had bad relationships with their fathers, explains Mr. Burke. Scorned boys turn to their mothers and become involved in ``women's activities.'' To suppress his homosexual urges, Mr. Burke played team sports to bond with men, read books by sexuality experts and talked with peers. Now, he says he fantasizes about women. ``I am thrilled,'' he says. ``My wife is definitely happy now. Change is possible. God may allow [homosexuality] to happen but he doesn't want us to end up that way.'' --  At one time, Utah was known for its tolerance. The Bohemian Club, the first gay social club in the country, was founded in Salt Lake City in 1886, according to Rocky
Connell Rocky O'Donovan
O'Donovan, founder of the Gay and Lesbian Historical Society. Utah's public library system was founded by a lesbian, Ann E. Chapman, for whom a down town library branch is named. Westminster College student Mildred Beryman conducted one of the first studies on lesbians.  But when Utah became a state in 1896, sex became political. Polygamy was outlawed and homosexuals were increasingly persecuted,  Mr. O'Donovan says. This reached a crescendo in the '50s when officials went on homosexual witch hunts. Twenty-five years ago, police regularly raided the Radio City bar in Salt Lake City, says Les Emmett, who works at the University of  Utah. ``Police would line us up against the wall and demand to see our ID. Ostensibly they were checking for under age drinkers, but it was a matter of harassment.''   Major advances have been made in the last decade. 1990, when the first Gay Pride march was held, was a big year. The Utah State Democratic Party added sexual orientation to its non-discrimination clause. City police appointed a gay liaison. And the first issue of The Bridge Magazine, a monthly gay and lesbian publication, was published. Last year, the U. of U. -- the state's largest employer --added sexual orientation to its non-discrimination clause. The Utah Stonewall Center, a community meeting hall, was opened.  Perhaps no group has done more to bolster visibility than Queer Nation, a radical organization that fights homophobia. Activists staged a kiss-in at a Salt Lake night club. As part of its Suburban Homosexual Outreach Program (SHOP), members don wild garb --army boots and pearls -- and walk through ZCMI stores. In November, members covered city buildings with posters: ``Heteros go homo,''``Dyke Power,'' and ``A queer was here.''--   Some activists criticize community leaders --judges, doctors, police and  restaurateurs – for not acknowledging that they're gay. ``They cannot afford to come out and chip in and help,'' bemoaned one gay man. ``They can't afford to give the leadership we need.''  Alice Hart was offered a buy out when she came out at the office. ``The more visible I became, the more concerned the company became,'' said the former controller who now co-publishes The Bridge Magazine. ``So they paid me to quit.''   Tony and his lover live in the same apartment building as Sen. Orrin Hatch. Tony, 46, owns a travel agency that offers gay vacation packages. ``I would never deny it, but I wouldn't run out and tell the world,'' he says. ``One homophobic situation can ruin your business.''   But many echo the sentiments of a lesbian bartender who says she will never march on Gay Pride Day: ``You'll be run down or shot if they recognize your face. It's simple.''    No Utah groups have resorted to ``outing'' -- exposing a public figure's sexuality without his or her permission. Queer Nation believes in the right to privacy unless someone is making anti-gay remarks, says Mr. O'Donovan.  And choice is at the heart of the gay rights movement. More than anything, homosexuals say they want to be accepted for who they are, not shunned for whom they love. ``What makes you gay is the same thing as what makes someone be an artist or like the color blue,'' Kathy, a 27-year-old lesbian says sadly. ``It's just what makes you- you. Everyone who is gay has tried to make it go away, but you can't. Why would anyone be gay if they didn't have to be?'' (SLTribune pg A1 01/12/92)

1992   A8 LDS CHURCH IS COMMITTED TO CHANGING HOMOSEXUALS Byline: By Peggy Fletcher Stack The Mormon Church has come to view homosexuality much like Jews and other Christians. Same-sex attraction is not a sin, but homosexual acts are.   Unlike other faiths, however, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is convinced that ``such [homosexual] thoughts and feelings, regardless of their causes, can and should be overcome.'' While other religious leaders believe altering one's sexual orientation is possible, no other church is as institutionally committed to the idea of change.   In 1959, Mormon Apostles Spencer W. Kimball and Mark E. Peterson were
Spencer Kimball
assigned to investigate and counsel cases of sexual misconduct. From this experience, Elder Kimball began to formulate church policy on gays and lesbians.   ``Homosexuality in men and women runs counter to . . . divine objectives and, therefore, is to be avoided and forsaken,'' Elder Kimball wrote in the 1973 Priesthood Bulletin, an official LDS publication. ``Failure to work closely with one's bishop or stake president in cases involving homosexual behavior will require prompt church court action.''   By the mid 1970s, aggressive efforts were made to find, counsel and, if necessary, discipline practicing LDS homosexuals. Methods to change homosexual feelings and behavior included prayer and fasting, hypnosis, mind control, and encouragement to follow the normal Mormon social patterns of serving an LDS mission, getting married and having children. Gays and lesbians were told to avoid masturbation and association with other homosexuals.   Possibly the most controversial counseling approach practiced during this time was known as ``aversion therapy.'' This program, long since abandoned, was built on the concept of negative reinforcement. Volunteers who wanted to change their sexual orientation were induced to vomit or shocked on the arm while viewing erotic pictures of naked men.   ``When shock was being introduced during the viewing of a male slide, I could stop the shock by pressing a plunger, which would cause a slide of a clothed woman to appear on the screen,'' Don D. Harryman, a former Mormon who had aversion therapy twice a week for a year, writes in the recently published book Peculiar People. If all therapies failed, a church disciplinary court was called to ``hasten'' the process of repentance.   Roger Salazar, 37, an excommunicated Mormon described his experience: ``I had a year of weekly counseling sessions with my bishop, in which he basically asked, `Did you do it [have homosexual sex] this week?' I always answered, `No. 'But I was still troubled. When I told my stake president that, although I was not having sexual experiences, I still needed counseling on how to quit being gay, he responded: Do you think you need a court?   ``A disciplinary court was held for 8 hours during which I was grilled by the High Council [made up of 12 church high priests] on the specific details of my sexual experience, attitudes and attractions. Nothing was said in my defense. I felt like a Jew in front of Germans, hated for what I was even though there was nothing I could do about it.''   In the late '80s, more awareness of homosexuality began to emerge in church circles through Mormon-oriented independent periodicals. Perhaps the most widely read work on the subject was Carol Lynn Pearson's 1986 book Goodbye, I Love You, a wrenching tale of being married to an LDS homosexual who eventually died of AIDS.   The church responded by revising the Bishop's Handbook, an official LDS guide to policy and procedure, to make a distinction between homosexuality and homosexual behavior. Now marriage is rarely pushed as a solution, and excommunication is used less frequently. Such disciplinary actions are only mandatory when ``the person holds a prominent church position, [the behavior] is widely known or continues a pattern of serious transgression.''   Adds Don LeFevre, LDS spokesman: ``the extent of ecclesiastical discipline of members of the church often depends upon the attitude of the member.''   The church continues its efforts to change homosexuals. LDS Social Services recently hired psychologist Dean Byrd to gather data on the number of gays and lesbians changed by therapy. Alan Gundry, a licensed therapist, is developing methods to treat homosexuality as addictive behavior.

1992 AIDS cases rise dramatically in Utah. (SLTribune Page A-8 01/12/98)

1992  Suicide is the No.1 cause of death among homosexual teens. (SLTribune Page A-9 01/12/98).

1993 Cory Nick Cozza (1957-1993) died of AIDS. Formerly Phoenix Princess Royale VII of the Royal Court of the Golden Spike Empire Cory Nick Cozza, age 35, died at home January 12, 1993 after a long illness. Cory was born July 3, 1957 [in Salt Lake City] and adopted by his grandparents, Nick and Thora Cozza. He graduated from Gem State Academy in Caldwell, Id. He had worked for his Dad as a butcher at Cozza Market. He is survived by his father, Nick, who always loved and looked out for Cory. Other survivors include his mother, sisters, brother, three nephews, two nieces, and special friend and companion Kenn Shosted. Cory also leaves behind an extended family of friends that he held dear and that loved him. Cory had a love for life that, if given half a chance, he would share with you. His untimely death leaves us broken hearted but happier for having known him. Special thanks to Dr. Kristen Ries and Maggie Snyder who always gave special attention and care to Cory. Thanks to the Med III staff at Holy Cross Hospital and to family and friends who comforted and cared for him during his illness.

1997 Sunday, COURTS THWARTING PEOPLE'S WILL Americans are defaulting on their civic responsibilities and bringing upon themselves, their children and grandchildren, the awful tyranny that will surely come if the federal courts aren't brought into conformity with the divine laws that overarch and undergird our national security.     Judicial autocrats are clearly thwarting the people's will. A recent assault on popular sovereignty occurred when the Hawaiian Circuit Court ruled that the state had failed to show a compelling interest in not issuing marriage licenses to homosexuals in spite of the fact that 73 percent of its citizens opposed legitimizing this moral corruption.     Hardly a week goes by without fresh evidence of judicial arrogance and usurpation. Recently the Supreme Court overturned an Arizona initiative to designate English as the official language for government business. In California, a federal judge has restrained enforcement of Proposition 209, approved by the voters in November that would halt reverse discrimination. Earlier in the year, federal jurists challenged the right of Californians to restrict services to persons illegally in their state. In overturning Colorado's Amendment 2 earlier this year, the Supreme Court absurdly held that a ban on special gay-rights laws was a denial of equal protection. In 1995, the high court told voters in 23 states that they could not limit service in their congressional delegations. This week Utah's ban on second-trimester abortion was overturned by the 10th Circuit Court as denying a woman's "right to choice."     Whose country is this? Does it belong to the sick minds at the ACLU and consorting judges or the people? Where does the raping of the Constitution end? The 10th Amendment clearly states that all powers not designated to the federal government shall be retained by the states. There is no vagary or maneuvering space in this simple language. Why then do we citizens allow judges, without protestation, to systematically slice away at the wise and divine calculations of its authors and replace concise, meaningful language with complicated jargon, convoluted and oftentimes unintelligible and incorrect rulings? Judicial muddling has become a brooder for endless and unnecessary constitutional challenges. It is time for Americans to insist that our congressional delegations impeach, as they are empowered to do, partisan jurists who arrogantly, ignorantly or willfully ignore the pure intent of the Constitution.     Write your congressman or congresswoman today. There is nothing any of us have to do that is more compelling.     Lance Turner     Provo

1997 The Salt Lake Tribune News Briefs: PAC Leader David Nelson, founder of and
David Nelson
spokesman for the now-defunct Gay and Lesbian Utah Democrats lobby, has been appointed a director of the Washington, D.C.-based Gay and Lesbian Victory Fund, a political action committee. The national group claims to be the only  PAC in the United States that works to elect openly homosexual candidates to local, state and federal elected office.

1998-Attorney Robin Shahar lost her Supreme Court appeal. Georgia Attorney General Michael Bowers withdrew a job offer when he discovered she and her female partner were planning a commitment ceremony, saying he could not employ someone who would have so little respect for the laws of Georgia as to break its sodomy law. He later admitted to having an affair for several years, which was a violation of the same law at the same time he was prosecuting Michael Hardwick for Sodomy

2000-Clinton administration officials met with representatives of US gay and lesbian community centers.

2004 The GLBT Public Safety Liaison Committee and the SLC Police Department held a Safety Workshop for GLBT community groups, businesses, and individuals at the Gay and Lesbian Community Center

2006 Thursday –: Readers rebut stereotypical views about Utahns By Holly Mullen Tribune Columnist Salt Lake Tribune Ever since Larry H. Miller suddenly decided to pull "Brokeback Mountain" from his theater chain, everyone from "Brokeback" star Heath Ledger to an Ohio film critic to Jay Leno has been painting the whole state as rubes and bigots. Yes, Miller made a personal and business decision. Yes, this is his right. Too bad the world's critics don't know my readers. Many of them see Miller's move as the knee-jerk reaction it was, and understand the depth and beauty of this film. They responded to a Tuesday column in which I defended "Brokeback's" plot as legitimate as any other saga of love and loss. The following is by no means a scientific representation, but I'd hate for Ledger's stereotypes of Utahns, Mormons and the usual blah-blah-blah to go unchallenged. Here are some reader comments: "I just wish everyone would actually see the movie before passing judgment. There would still be naysayers but maybe it would help people see the pain that is caused by this society. I wanted to see what all the fuss was about so I saw the movie and it touched me. I am a mother and a grandmother who would just like to see a world of inclusion without all the labels that create so much pain." – Salt Lake City. "The theme of acceptance is identifiable across gender, sexual orientation and societal lines. The juxtaposition of traditionally very masculine symbols (gritty landscape/cowboys/cowboy culture) and homosexual love, symbolizes for me that even being a part of a socially acceptable life, you can feel the loneliness of having to hide something." - Salt Lake City "I have been reading about all the fuss regarding this film, as well as the editorials and viewer comments on Web sites. I was excited to finally hear someone - you - make the connection between the main actors' family problems and the lie they were forced to live by society. This is one of the film's most important messages and something that most heterosexuals do not understand. You were also right about love. I just lost my partner of five years on Christmas Day. Truly the most valuable experience in my young life has been the opportunity to deeply love someone and be loved back. That is true for people of either sexual orientation." - Moscow, Russia "I saw 'Brokeback Mountain' and it is certainly one of the best movies of the year. I suspect Larry H. Miller is even more sorry that he allowed the movie to be pulled than he is about his tirade after the Jazz-Knicks game. It isn't stopping anyone from seeing the movie and it only serves to make those who try to ban such fare look shallow, petty and foolish. It's too bad that Miller, who is a notoriously kind and sensitive individual, allowed himself to be used [by right wing interest groups] this way. 'Brokeback' is a movie about the physical and emotional violence society inflicts on homosexuals in the name of conformity. It shows that hatred, whether directed at homosexuals, African-Americans, Jews or Mormons for that matter, is destructive not only of the object of the hatred but of the society that tolerates it. - Salt Lake City "I've e-mailed you when your column set me off and motivated me to throw some rantings and ravings your way; so it's only fair when you've got one I agree with I should let you know that, too. With 'Brokeback Mountain' you've hit the nail on the head and you have written a very powerful summing up of a film filled with love, angst and heartache that doesn't see a happy ending for anyone, gay or straight. I just thought you should know from this Republican who did grow up herding sheep on our family's permit near Strawberry Reservoir and who did go and see the film with a group of gay and straight friends, you nailed this one. – Sandy hmullen@sltrib.com

2006 Media pros say silence on pulling gay movie gives the story legs By Lesley Mitchell The Salt Lake Tribune After pulling the film "Brokeback Mountain" from his Megaplex 17 theater at Jordan Commons, Larry H. Miller could have said he wasn't comfortable with the idea of a movie chronicling a clandestine romance between two male cowboys. He also could have said he didn't believe the highly acclaimed movie was going to make enough money in conservative Utah. Or he could have said it all was a mistake. But the Utah businessman and owner of the Utah Jazz has not said a word since last Thursday, when his theater company yanked the film from its lineup - less than two hours after Miller apparently learned of the movie's subject matter from a reporter. Media professionals say Miller's silence has helped give the story international appeal and encouraged people worldwide to poke fun at Utah with negative stereotypes about the state's predominantly Mormon population. In Australia, Heath Ledger, one of the movie's stars, called the decision "immature" and told Australia's Nine National News that "personally I don't think the movie is [controversial], but I think maybe the Mormons in Utah do. I think it's hilarious and very immature of a society." "In general, no comment is never a good strategy," said Melissa Clyne, president of Scribe PR and Marketing in Salt Lake City. "At the very least you need to explain yourself. It's his right to decide what he wants to run and what he doesn't want to run in his theaters. But if he isn't comfortable with the content of that film, he needs to say that. The 'no comment' is giving this story legs." Tim Brown, partner with the Richter 7 advertising and public relations company in Salt Lake City, said in 25 years he has never recommended one of his clients refuse to comment to the media. "I applaud Larry for everything he has done," Brown said. "But no comment is always interpreted by the public as, 'I'm guilty' or 'I'm hiding something.' We counsel clients that they always want to take an opportunity to explain the reasons behind their decisions or behavior." Amid all the controversy, four Utah theaters - two in Salt Lake City, one in West Jordan and one in Park City - are all running the film. Four more theaters - in West Valley, Layton, Provo and Sandy -will be running the film by the weekend, said Jack Foley, head of distribution for Focus Features, which released the film. Even though it is approaching one week since the movie disappeared from the lineup at the Megaplex 17 theater at Jordan Commons, Miller still should make a statement, said Cheryl Snapp Conner, partner of public relations company SNG in Draper. "Even if it's tough news, it is better to be out with it. It wouldn't necessarily undo the damage that's already been done but it would help prevent the story from taking on further life of its own." lesley@sltrib.com

2006 Stand-up guy Salt Lake Tribune I applaud Larry H. Miller for choosing not to show the movie "Brokeback Mountain" at Jordan Commons. People may accuse him of infringing on others' liberties, but he stood up for what he believed was right. Isn't that our greatest freedom, to be able to stand by our convictions without fear of danger or retaliation? That is what Mr. Miller did, and I thank him for it. It's time someone took a stand. Brandtley Henderson West Jordan

2006 See the movie first Salt Lake Tribune I'm baffled by Larry Miller's decision to ban the film "Brokeback Mountain." Unlike Mr. Miller, I have actually seen the movie, which is about two individuals and their personal story. The film does not ask you to approve or disapprove of their relationships. Instead, it attempts to be an authentic account of what might have happened to people in a certain time and situation. I didn't leave the theater thinking that it might be time for a lifestyle change any more than I'd decide to attempt murder after seeing any of the many films Mr. Miller has allowed to run in his theaters in the past. Perhaps "The Producers" should be banned as well, since it features an openly gay actor in a lead role, and is full of jokes and innuendo about homosexuals. If Mr. Miller is going to start censoring films due to objectionable content, I fear he won't be seeing much of a profit. I'm just happy that my personal beliefs include understanding and tolerance. Maybe Mr. Miller should actually see the movie before making a decision. Jeri Stoeber Park City

2006 No Wal-Marts Salt Lake Tribune After seeing "Brokeback Mountain," I can see why at least Sandy residents would be repulsed by it. It is set among grand sweeping vistas, green fields and majestic mountains - with nary a Wal-Mart plopped in the middle of it. Scott Perry Salt Lake City

2006 When did Hate Become an Admirable Value? Even though I don't know you, my Values tell me it's ok to Hate you. Reading some of the opinions regarding Brokeback Mountain, I question anyone who says that Larry H. Miller is standing up to for his Values and what he believes in.  Yet others say, "it's only business" Do his Values include Hate? Obviously his values include, sex, drugs, violence and murder.  Those are prevalent values, in the movies he chooses to show at his Theaters. When did Hate become an Admirable Value, yet Love is not? Some peoples hatred drives them to kill using guns, knifes, and drugs.  Others peoples hatred drives they to kill with bigotry, intolerance, and lack of understanding. Larry H. Miller's hatred chose to killed Brokeback Mountain with his bigotry, intolerance, and lack of understanding, yet he's only standing up for his Values. The gay and the straight community have supported Larry H. Miller  through his good times and his bad.  Each of us gay or straight is part of this  community. It saddens me to see a Leader in our community behave this way. For Evil to Survive all it takes is for people to say: “It’s only Business”. James Hicks Sandy, UT

2006 I have this t-shirt I haven't worn in a long time (yet it still sits in my closet). It reads "fag drama" with one of those ghostbustery red circles with the slash through it. I wish I were wearing it today...So, apparently the call to boycott Larry H. Miller is either way too hard, a waste of time, or a violation of Miller's rights and beliefs! For the last two days, I've heard excuse after excuse about why we shouldn't boycott Larry H. Miller. They break down into about four arguments:1. We shouldn't be wasting our time on this when we have bigger issues to deal with like the impending legislative session. 2. Boycotts are ineffective (and, some argue, only impact the working class and not the top-level decision makers). 3. We're over-reacting. There are far worse sources of bigotry that we don't fight. 4. We're guilty of being hypocrites, violating Miller's own business and religions rights. My response... 1. The fact is that getting people to engage in the legislative process is not sexy. It's not easy (actually it is, but no one believes that), it takes time and commitment, and it takes a level of awareness that all the faux-hawk boys at the clubs (apologies to Michael Aaron for stealing his descriptor) just aren't interested in. A boycott, on the other hand, is easy. All we're asking people to do is to STOP doing something. Namely, STOP spending hard-earned dollars at businesses which support anti-queer policies and politics. For all but the die-hard shoppers, the rabid Utah Jazz fans, and the blissfully ignorant, this should be easy to do. Really easy. For those who are really steamed, a quick letter to the LHM corporate offices reinforces the process, but it's not totally necessary. 2. I think Coors would beg to differ. Am I really getting so old that I'm among the few who remember the great gay Coors boycott? It took years, but Coors finally had to face its demons (high-level executives making large donations to anti-gay causes) and has one of the most expansive programs in corporate America for supporting and attracting GLBT employees. The company has tried to divorce itself from the political leanings of the Coors family by sponsoring and donating to GLBT causes from the corporate side. Even so, there are people in the GLBT community who still won't drink Coors products. Statistically speaking, companies which adopt queer-positive practices have ultimately been stronger as a result. So my boycott is as much for the "little guy" who works for LHM as it is for anything else. My hope is that the "little guy" won't get fired or passed over for promotion just for being gay. But so long as the owner of the company feels so uncomfortable with the idea of homosexuality that he has to pull a movie from his line-up, well, I wouldn't bet that the little guy has much hope of someday making vice president status. 3. Are we over-reacting? I don't think so. I mean, the story was playing out in the national news, Jay Leno was making jokes, and Heath Ledger implied all Utah Mormons are ignorant bigots. As a community, we couldn't let Larry's actions pass without a fight of some kind. It would be like throwing our hands up at the anti-gay marriage amendment and declaring that because we have no chance to win, we shouldn't even try to fight it. Such thinking only reinforces the perception from within and without the queer community that we are an irrelevant minority voice without personal or political power to affect change. I don't believe that and neither should anyone else. 4. Complete and utter bullshit. This is the quandary that too many liberals like myself get the panties bunched up on and become ineffective. Tolerance and acceptance of diverse viewpoints and religious beliefs DOES NOT mean that I cannot voice my objections to bigotry, censorship, hate and ignorance. In a capitalist system, is there any purer form of protest than in choosing where to spend your money? I try to avoid the race analogies when talking about sexual orientation and gender politics, but if Larry H. Miller had yanked a movie featuring an interracial couple because of personally held beliefs, do you think any sensitive liberal person would spend a dime willingly at his movie theaters in the future? What LHM did wasn't just censorship, it was hurtful. Maybe there are queer folks out there who have thick skins from being "out" for a long time who couldn't care less, but there are also young, questioning, and deeply conflicted people who will interpret the action of Larry H. Miller as yet another sign that no one will ever accept them, that they will always be an outcast, and that there's no hope for anything better. In addition to the points above, I also argue for the boycott on a few other grounds... Too many people are oblivious about where they spend their money. I think that given the choice between two vendors, one of whom supports causes you support and the other who supports causes you oppose, most people would rather see their money go to the vendor who backs the same causes they do. I know that if I'm paying ten bucks for a movie pass, I don't want to think that I've just handed John Swallow or Bob Bennett ten cents. The boycott provides a way to begin educating people about which businesses truly are GLBT-friendly and which ones are not. Following LHM's actions with the boycott has brought about a public dialogue on the ideas presented in "Brokeback Mountain" that, quite frankly, LHM was trying to avoid by pulling the movie in the first place. The right-wing Mormons would like to see that discussion shut up and shut down. Simply by keeping the story in the buzz of hot news, we're inspiring dinner table and water cooler conversations that many would normally try to avoid. The boycott is good for the state as a whole. I mean, have you heard the jokes being made about Utah on late-night talk shows? As much as the Mormons would love to end the stereotypes about them being bizarre, ignorant country hicks, the actions of a single man has embarrassed each and every one of them, and the rest of us by association. The boycott gives us the opportunity to show that there is more diversity in Utah than many think, that we're not ALL ignorant yokels, and that not everyone agrees with Miller's decision. In a way, the Mormons will benefit by our boycott, probably unfairly so. Anyway, those are the thoughts in my head today.-Jere Keys

2006 I worked almost the whole day yesterday and several hours this morning trying to "package" the boycott for the community to make it easier to swallow. The crux of my complaint about the boycott in my blog was that the boycott was not fully thought-out before thrown to the public. In researching for the upcoming issue, I found that the daunting list of businesses to boycott included anything and everything that Miller had ever registered with the state. If you will go to the page that we published, you will see that almost half of the listed businesses are dead. I also spent time locating business addresses for people to mail in complaints and am working on a page that has simple clickable links to "Contact Us" pages on Miller's business sites. If anyone has any other suggestions on how to make this boycott work, including my concern about making the boycott more visible, please email me. Thanks for keeping the discussion going, Jere. -Michael Aaron

2006 I'd love to see a website up for the boycott. Something catchy like www.boycottlarryhmiller.org or www.boycottutahjazz.org, something that people can remember as long as the boycott is active. I also think that a list of "demands" for ending the boycott are in order. Ultimately, I think that we need a good clearinghouse for listing all the businesses which have egregious anti-queer policies and donate to organizations like the Sutherland Institute. If this boycott can help inspire more people to be active consumers instead of passive ones, it would be a good thing all around.- Jere Keyes
2006 Once we get organized, we can get our allies in other states involved to boycott and even picket the Jazz when they are on the road- Stuart Merrill

2006 Look need we say more to those damn Republicans- Dumbfuckmountain As to those damn Republicans; I am referring to assholes Chris Buttars, Gayle Ruzicka, Pat Robertson 700 club, Donald Wildmon AFA, all those far righters that keep us having our rights and liberties. There are some moderate republicans I do like and appreciate for there support for our rights and liberties and the Log Cabin Republicans in Utah that I know.... Mark Swonson

2006 Awesome post, Jere. Regardless of what the "community" decides to do as a whole, Larry Miller is not knowingly going to get another dime of my money. Why would any thinking person wish to kiss the ring on the hand that slaps us? I wonder how much ethical hand-wringing Larry did before he pulled the movie? It didn’t seem to paralyze him like it seems to paralyze a lot of liberal causes these days. I am sure if the gay media outlets in this state present the facts about this incident, I think most people with a few brain cells to spare will make the decision that is more in step with the best interests of our community than any group or coalition of groups openly calling for a boycott. However, it would be nice to see some unity and leadership in the face of this kind of backward decision for some of the non-political folks in the community to look up to and in which to participate. Jere has pointed out the propaganda poison that the right wing uses to discourage dissent and grassroots action and make liberals and their causes seem like jokes. I hope our community does not cave into that, no matter how effective or ill-labelled our efforts.- Ruadhan [Kevin Warren]

2006 Bigotry trumped integrity Salt Lake Tribune No one disputes Larry Miller's rights, as a business owner, to show whatever movie he likes at his theaters. The issue I have is that he broke several contractual agreements with other businesses and violated the public's trust by pulling a movie at the last minute. My mother taught me as a child that a man is only as good as his word. I guess Miller's bigotry trumped his integrity. My question now is, can I trust him with any of my business? Isn't integrity a moral issue? Ben Williams Salt Lake City

2006 Miller's moral compass Salt Lake Tribune I think that the decision of Jordan Commons theater management to not show the movie "Brokeback Mountain" provides an interesting insight into our community's world view. Jordan Commons owner Larry H. Miller is quick to point out that not showing a movie which has already proved to be successful in the box office is a "business decision," not censorship. According to the Associated Press, Eagle Forum leader Gayle Ruzicka believes that pulling this movie tells young people that "maybe there is something wrong with this show." Let's follow Ms. Ruzicka's argument through to its logical conclusion. If pulling a movie sends the message that something is wrong with the movie, then not pulling a movie sends the message that there is nothing wrong with it. To sum up, pulling "Brokeback Mountain" tells young people that being gay is unacceptable, so not pulling the movie "Hostel" (being shown in the same theater complex) sends the message that torturing and mutilating other human beings is all right. Thank you theater management, Mr. Miller and Ms. Ruzicka, for allowing us a brief glimpse of your moral compass. Robert Seifert Sandy

2006 Don't like, don't watch Salt Lake Tribune The decision to cancel the showing of "Brokeback Mountain" at a Jordan Commons movie theater is yet another small example of censorship in Utah and freedom of speech being influenced by the so-called religious majority. It is echoed throughout all aspects life in Utah, from alcohol laws to what we see locally on our NBC station, KSL Channel 5. When is Utah going to understand that people will make their own decisions regarding censorship? If you don't want to watch it, don't go and see it. But don't make the decisions for those who may want to see it. When (the LDS epic) "The Work and the Glory" was released, I did not see it. When "The Passion of the Christ" was released, I did not see it. When LDS Conference is shown repeatedly on KSL television, I do not watch it. And, to be honest, I doubt I would see "Brokeback Mountain." In summary, I make the decisions as to what I will watch, and what I see as being inappropriate, and I can now add to my list not purchasing cars from Jordan Commons owner Larry H. Miller or supporting the Utah Jazz. Stephen McGowan Riverton

2006 Miller's move: shrewd or rash? Views: Some say it's smart, but a PR expert says it's fiery Larry of old By Steven Oberbeck The Salt Lake Tribune Salt Lake Tribune Family values activists gathering in Salt Lake City this weekend will urge supporters to steer their dollars to Larry H. Miller's businesses because the auto and movie-house magnate yanked the critically acclaimed gay romance ''Brokeback Mountain'' from his Sandy theater complex. Miller's move will provide plenty of fodder for this year's meeting of the conservative Utah Eagle Forum, according to the group's president, Gayle Ruzicka. "I for one will certainly be trying to support his businesses," Ruzicka said. "And I'm sure that others who already have done business with his companies will be supporting them even more." "Brokeback Mountain" is based on a story by Pulitzer Prize- winning author Annie Proulx and is about a 20-year romance between two Wyoming sheepherders. The Utah Film Critics Society named "Brokeback Mountain" the year's best movie, and also gave top honors to director Ang Lee. The movie has received similar honors from critics' groups nationwide, as well as seven Golden Globe nominations, four Screen Actors Guild nominations, and nominations for Directors Guild, Writers Guild and Producers Guild awards. Miller initially told a radio reporter he would not act as a censor and would let the market decide whether the movie was worthy of its billing. Then, two hours later, he pulled the show from his theater's lineup. The decision drew national and international criticism and once again made Utah the butt of numerous jokes poking fun at the negative stereotypes surrounding the state's predominantly Mormon population. But even members of Utah's gay and lesbian community concede that, given the overwhelmingly conservative nature of the state's residents, Miller may have scored a marketing coup and could end up attracting a lot more customers to his auto dealerships, professional sports teams and restaurants than he has driven off. "If you want to look at it strictly from a playing the numbers standpoint, it probably wasn't too bad of a move," said Valerie A. Larabee, executive director of the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered Community Center of Utah. "At the same time, he's certainly increased interest locally in what is a very beautiful movie." From a marketing standpoint, Miller appears to have read his audience well, although it would have been better for his businesses had there been no controversy at all, said Russell Belk, a professor at the David Eccles School of Business at the University of Utah. "You have to assume he was expecting more support than backlash," Belk said. "And considering the demographics of Utah, he probably wasn't too far off." Miller continues to remain silent about the reasons behind the decision. But one public relations professional, Politis Communications' president David Politis, doubts that Miller's decision was a calculated move. "I believe it was the result of a spur of the moment decision, a passionate reaction that came about after he learned what the movie was about," Politis said. "We've seen him make split-second decisions in the past when things have upset him." In October 1994, Miller canceled a Delta Center appearance by shock rocker Marilyn Manson, the scheduled warm-up act for industrialrock band Nine Inch Nails. Miller said Manson's stage show was too offensive. At the concert, Nine Inch Nails frontman, Trent Reznor, invited Manson to the stage anyway, where the rocker ripped pages from The Book of Mormon and threw them to the audience. Five months earlier, Miller, fed up with verbal assaults from a Denver Nuggets' fan, punched him and later apologized in a tearful news conference. Since then, Miller's outbursts have been aimed at his own players, usually after lackluster play. Another observer suggested that the decision to cancel "Brokeback Mountain" will neither hurt nor help Miller's businesses. "My guess is that most people probably aren't that aware of all of his business holdings anyway," said Paul Mero of the Sutherland Institute, a conservative think tank in Salt Lake City. "Considering the conservative nature of our population, I'm sure a lot of people think: We'll, it's his business and he's entitled to do with it what he wants." steve@sltrib.com

2006 'Brokeback Mountain' Still playing: Broadway Centre Cinemas, Salt Lake City Century Cinemas 16, South Salt Lake Cinemark 24 at Jordan Landing, West Jordan Redstone 8, Park City l Opening today: Ritz 15, West Valley City Century Cinemas 16, Sandy Cinemark 16, Provo Tinseltown 17, Layton

2006 ZIONIDE Thursday, January 12 I knew it. Right away, I found something that annoyed me enough to bitch about. Yesterday, KUER-FM's RadioWest program (which I believe is syndicated regionally), focused on the Brokeback Mountain/Larry H. Miller debacle and included commentary from GLBT Community Center of Utah executive director Valerie Larabee, among others. I didn't hear the program myself, but a reliable friend told me that midway through the discussion Larabee said something along the lines of, "I haven't seen the movie myself, but..." HUH?!  If the information I received is accurate, that is one of the most annoying things I have ever heard. I'm sure Valerie Larabee's a very busy person, but, to paraphrase my friend, the leader of a community center should be intimately, personally familiar with one of that community's most important cultural events.  And I think it goes without saying that should especially be the case when you're going to be interviewed about it. Isn't that just common sense? And yes, I know that Larabee was probably on the show mostly to talk about her organization's thoughts on the LHM cancellation and on the "boycott" they organized, rather than about the content of the movie itself. But how is she supposed to do even that effectively without knowing the material about which the Center is so passionately up in arms? I also know she probably wasn't given much advance notice of the interview, but knowing RadioWest, I'd bet it was at least 24 hours - enough time to cancel a meeting or dinner or whatever and catch the movie the show was focused on. At the very least, it sounds like Larabee needs a refresher in savvy media relations. Why not refer RadioWest to someone qualified who'd also actually seen the movie? I know one such Center board member who would've done an excellent job on the show. Or, if all else fails, fake it, fake it, fake it; don't admit, on-air, you don't know what you're talking about, and definitely not once you're already halfway through the program. I can only imagine what the RadioWest producers thought when they heard Larabee say she hadn't seen the movie. I was all set to send in my letter to the editor about Gayle Ruzicka telling the Deseret News, "It's [Brokeback Mountain] such a terrible show..." when we all know SHE hasn't seen it. But now, I don't feel particularly comfortable complaining about Gayle's uninformed comments when Valerie has apparently done a similar thing, just on the other side of the issue. Zionide written by a Nick

2006 Read this on a Blog called Zionide written by a Nick. It's his opinion not mine but I found it very interesting. Additionally I been reading opinions from community members that say all this fuss about a movie is misdirected and should be focused else where. I think this notion demeans the context of this issue. Make no mistake, we are in a cultural war against tyranny and bigotry. We should be rightfully angry that any attempt to keep the portrayal of Gay and Lesbian people from the public is worthy of indignation. Especially a film that tries to portray an honest and moving Gay relationship. Madstone Theater justified their censorship by saying the film Latter Days had no artistic merit. That can hardly be said about Brokeback Mountain. Films are more then the sum total of their parts. As paraphrased from the Maltese Falcon, "Its the stuff that dreams are made of." Every one of us has watched a movie that has profoundly changed our lives. Gay people know what is important to them intuitively, and do not need paid professional people telling them what their issues are. Films reflect our lives to the world like no other medium. Film is the art form of the 20th Century and will be probably for the 21st. In a world so full of bigotry and disillusionment the escapism of a moment in a darken theater, connecting with a love story that mirrors our lives is essentially soul satisfying, and more than just watching Heath and Jake snoggle. It is the small frustrations that lead to revolutions not major events. People are being pushed and there will be a time we will push back. And not just the Gays. AND in Utah, those who think we will ever achieve anything from a Priesthood holding state legislature are truly day- dreaming. Talk about fantasy. Culture will change the politics in Utah not visa versa. Until the far right is neutralized by people saying enough is enough nothing will change on Capitol Hill. So there is Hate Crime Bill that still doesn't mention sexual orientation. Don't we have that already? Rallying on Capitol Hill will not change Utah, but rallies in the streets, and building communities in our neighborhoods will. That's my opinion.-Ben Willliams

2007  UTAH PRIDE CENTER AND UTAH CYBER SLUTS PRESENT  GAY BINGO - FRIDAY, JANUARY 12TH - "LUAU" WHERE: NEW LOCATION - BAPIST CHURCH 777 SOUTH 1300 SOUTH  WHY: TO HAVE FUN, WIN PRIZES, WHEEL CHAIR ASSESSIBLE, PLENTY OF PARKING SPACIOUS SEATING, SURROUND SOUND, REFRESHMENTS AVAILABLE UTAH CYBER SLUT BROWNIE  POINTS TO THOSE DRESSED TACKY HAWAIIAN  ADMISSION: $5.00 FIRST BINGO BASH (Ben Williams comments) Cyber Slut Bingo at First Baptist Church I took Friday off so I could enjoy a four day weekend but it's so Freaking Cold!. Last night it was 1 degree! Yikes. Ben Anderson and I decided not to play dress up for Gay Bingo because it was so damn cold but rather wore sensible warm and fuzzy clothes all though did don my red pill box hat with the black Vail as well as pearls. I had never been to Gay Bingo before hosted by the Cyber Sluts as a monthly fund raiser. It was the first time at the First Baptist Church so Ben and I decided to give it a whirl. Mike R. would never have gone with me. The place was packed and they had to put up more tables. I'd estimate that between 150-200 people were there and the Sluts raised around $1400 for charities that night. It was an interesting crowd, totally new to me. I only recognized Debbie Rosenberg, Becky Moss, Mark Swonson, and Michael Aaron among the crowd. Poor Deb committed some type of party foul and had to don a pink wig and dance around the room for money! I made sure I kept my elbows off the table, my mouth shut, did not call out Bingo or anything else that might be considered a foul. Becky Moss sure had a cute Gay cousin at her table. Speaking of Becky I had no idea that she lost her house on Commonwealth Ave due to identity theft several years ago. Felt really awful for her. I sliced my middle finger pretty deep upon sitting down on one of the metal chairs as I reached underneath to pull it closer to the table. Thank goodness Ben had a band-aid in his pocket. All in all it was a nice evening and I may go back now that I know some of the ground rules. I can see that it would be a lot of fun if you had a group with you. Ben wants to try the Monday night Bingo at The Try-angles but I have classes on Mondays.

2007; Join the Bi-Community group for an open panel discussion about what it’s like to be bi, especially in Utah at Pride Center.  Participants from the Bi-Community group will be on hand to talk about tolerance, understanding, love, and to answer any questions you might have.  Refreshments will be served.

2011 New resources for LGBT youths, parents LGBT FYI BY ROSEMARIE WINTERS
There has been heightened concern this past year about LGBT youth suicides and anti-gay harassment. Now, there are some additional resources available in Utah to help youths and parents.
Film • "Lead With Love," a 35-minute documentary, features the stories of parents of gay children and advice from mental health professionals. Watch it online here or go to the film's premiere followed by a discussion with the filmmakers and families, Jan. 19, 7 p.m., Salt Lake City Main Library, 210 E. 400 South. Free.
Help line • Starting Feb. 1, the "Pride Empathy Line" will offer help at 801-GO-PRIDE to LGBT youths or those with questions about sexual orientation and gender identity. Volunteers will be trained on Jan. 15 and 22. To volunteer, contact Tiffanie Cole, 801-696-0074 or prideempathyline@yahoo.com.
"Kids Like Me" • In addition to the support groups already offered by the Utah Pride Center, the center is starting a group for "gender exceptional" children — those who don't fit in with typical gender norms — and their parents. An open house is Feb. 12, 12-1:30 p.m., Utah Pride Center, 361 N. 300 West, Salt Lake City. Find more information at http://bit.ly/hK58Z6.

2012 On Jan. 12, Utah Rep. Brian Doughty proposes and sponsors a bill to amend the state Code by providing health-insurance benefits to the adult designees of state- and local-government employees. Utah House of Representatives Business and Labor Committee members vote 13-0 to table the bill, and it isn't adopted

2018 Salt Lake Tribune By Ellen Fagg Weist  This Utah Democrat is famous for running his mouth on the political stage. Now Jim Dabakis will reveal a more personal side in a one-man show. The state senator is getting an acting education as he rehearses. State Senator Jim Dabakis, center, is telling his life story in a one-man show this Saturday and Sunday, coached by Charles Lynn Frost as the two have been rehearsing at the senator's home on Tuesday, Jan. 9, 2018. Letting his humor shine through, Senator Jim Dabakis has been busy rehearsing for a telling his life story in a one-man show this Saturday and Sunday at the Salt Lake Acting Company. He says it's a reaction to all the politicians who poll and focus-group their messages and avoid their constituents by not holding town hall meetings.  
If there’s one thing Sen. Jim Dabakis is known for on Utah’s Capitol Hill, it’s his stories. You could call him a loudmouth. You could label his rants as diatribes or attention-grabbing monologues. But no matter your political persuasion, you’ve likely heard the torrential power of Dabakis’ words. This weekend, Dabakis is raising the political bar. He’s stepping into the spotlight to perform “Stories From My Soul,” a one-man show on the Chapel Theatre stage at Salt Lake Acting Company. It’s an unusual one-person show in that Dabakis isn’t playing a character, says director Charles Lynn Frost. “I’ve seen Dabakis in a one-man show before — I just called it the Utah Legislature,” quips Salt Lake County Mayor Ben McAdams, a Democratic political ally who appeared with Dabakis and other politicians in last year’s hammy carpool karaoke “Hamilton” video. “I think the idea of Jim Dabakis sticking to a script will be entertaining in and of itself.” The three-show run is ostensibly a fundraiser, and, yes, he plans to run for another term. Politics aside, says Dabakis, a longtime theatergoing geek and arts lover, the show represents more of a life goal. “This is not going to be a whitewash,” he says. “There are warts.” Another thing that makes the stage show so unusual is that Dabakis might be a performer, but the former talk-radio and TV personality isn’t an actor. “I don’t have any actor’s training,” he acknowledges. “And anybody who comes will realize that quickly. Give me testimony before Congress or meetings at the White House, and I am fine, but that stage is so out of my comfort zone — it has me petrified.” Even after writing his material, Dabakis confesses he’s likely to go off script. And that’s where his genius will show, says Pioneer Theatre Company artistic director Karen Azenberg, who directed him as the No-Neck Narrator in two concert stagings of “The Rocky Horror Show.” “When he goes off script, he is as connected and in the moment and reading the audience as well as anyone I know.” Dabakis showed his game nature in a marketing video in which he was depicted roaming the theater company begging for future roles. “He’s not a great actor, but he is an incredible persona. He’s great at being him,” Azenberg says. “And he’s got great stories. I’d watch him any day of the week.” Dabakis is aware, of course, that the idea of a one-man show seems pretentious. But at a time when elected officials are likely to focus-group and poll-test the spin of their sound bites, he hopes it will throw open the doors to another kind of political theater. “It’s a direct reaction to politicians who don’t want you to know anything about them other than the package that’s been worked on by all the PR people,” he says. “I think if the public knew much more about us, then they could make much more solid decisions when they are voting. What’s important is not all of our parrot speeches, but what’s at our core.” To direct the show, Dabakis enlisted his old friend Frost, a longtime theater performer, noted for creating the persona of Sister Dottie Dixon in several hit one-person shows. The beloved Spanish Fork Mormon housewife regularly performs on Facebook and X96 radio segments. Frost helped the political showman compile his stories into mini-arcs with a bigger overall arc. “Jimmy is an extemporaneous performer,” Frost says, “which is a director’s nightmare.” Frost says the first draft was more than two hours long, which caused him to tell Dabakis the play simply couldn’t be longer than an LDS General Conference session. Dabakis says hitting age 64 caused him to look back at the turning points of his life, rising from a hardscabble childhood as the son of a drug-addicted mother and a working-class father. He joined The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints at age 11 to play basketball and moved to Utah to attend Brigham Young University before serving a Mormon mission. After being kicked out of BYU, he was broke when he moved to Salt Lake City. That’s where he launched a career as a talking head, volunteering on the state’s only talk-radio station. Then there’s the unlikely story of moving with his boyfriend, now husband, Stephen Justesen, to the Soviet Union, where he worked as an art dealer and started a variety of businesses. “Many adventures. Including getting kidnapped. Made a fortune,” is how he shorthands that time, before he found himself swindled by his Russian business partner. When he moved back to Salt Lake City, he plunged himself into advocacy, helping to co-found the Utah Pride Center and Equality Utah. “Went through AIDS times — lost so many,” he says. In 2010, he jumped into politics, serving as the state’s Democratic Party chairman, then eventually running for McAdams’ state Senate seat. No matter how much Dabakis runs his mouth publicly, the range of his background and passions continues to surprise even his longtime friends. As Rep. Carol Spackman Moss, D-Holladay, explains: “Jim has got to be Jim.” Jim Dabakis: Stories From My Soul  When • Saturday, 7 p.m.; Sunday, 1 and 6 p.m. Where • Salt Lake Acting Company Chapel Theatre, 168 W. 500 North, Salt Lake City Tickets • $20



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