January 9
259 AD Today is the feast day of Saints Polyeuctus
and Nearchus, two men who were canonized as a couple. Two early martyrs who were paired together by early Christians as
a same-sex couple, and invoked as such in the "adelphopoiia"
ceremonies, recently discussed by historian John Boswell as indicating a
Christian tradition of exclusive and publicly recognized same-sex unions. St.
Polyeuctus had a huge church, modeled after the Temple of Solomon, built in his
name in 6th century Constantinople.
1978-A full page ad was taken out in Time
magazine by twenty-nine international celebrities including Jean-Paul Sartre
and Sir John Gielgud, protesting political opposition to gay rights in the US
and condemning those who lacked courage to oppose bigotry.
1980 The Stonewall Club proposes opening, a
“Stonewall Center” to be located in a storefront downtown Salt Lake with
Metropolitan Community Church, Imperial Court of Utah, Affirmation, and Lesbian
and Gay Student Union to share space.”
Farrell Hurst |
1987--3rd District Judge Raymond Uno heard
arguments whether should Gay bath
houses be allowed to remain in business.
Bruce Baird attorney for SLC stated “the mere existence of these nuisances
constitutes a nuisance to the public at large.” Because the private rooms
violate sodomy statutes and laws against lewdness, Baird made the city’s case
with the assumption that homosexual activity was always illegal. Club attorney
Jerome Mooney asked police whether arrests for public sex weren’t also made in
other areas of the city. The response was that one arrest per week at Liberty
Park was not uncommon and the lists of illegal sexual activity occurring there
and in Sugarhouse Park would probably each be longer than the list of sex acts
observed by vice officers in Jeff’s Gym. The witness also reported having made
similar arrests at ZCMI, Crossroads Malls and Sears. Dr. Harry Gibbons,
director of Salt Lake City-County Health Department testified that bathhouses
allowed for a significantly greater number of sexual contacts than other
meeting places that
encouraged the spread of diseases. Dr. Patty Reagan of Salt
Lake AIDS Foundation testified that education is the solution to AIDS and suggested
that the baths served as an environment for conveying that information. Baird
told The Triangle Magazine that the recent concern about heterosexual
transmission of AIDS may have been the spark that moved the city to close the
bath houses 11 years after Jeff Gym opened and five years into the AIDS
epidemic. Mooney stated, “Why the city
wants to put Gay men back into the parks and bars ‘where they belong’ I don’t know.
Bruce Baird |
Patty Reagan |
1988 Saturday I called Russ Lane today to tell him that it
wasn’t Robert Nelson who turned him in [to his Bishop] or anyone else like they
said. I told him I knew who did it but I
wouldn’t tell him who, just that it was all a lie, and that he was
excommunicated partially on a lie. Some
inspired men. I’ve had prank calls on my recorder again today. I think they may be coming from Provo. Kid’s
getting their kicks calling up a homosexual. [1988 Journal of Ben Williams]
1992 Thursday- Jeff Workman and I went to
Unconditional Support where we met in the Stonewall Center’s library. At the
meeting we went over our by-laws and reelected Michael Bryant as director,
Frank Lomeyer as Assistant director, and David Ball as Secretary-Treasurer.
Kind of a small group tonight. We
discussed taking Unconditional Support into new directions but where? I went to the Rhino Nest for a little bit but
I am tired of leading the community. Time for a hiatus. (Ben Williams journal)
1996-Alabama state senator Bill Armistead
requested that Roger Sayers, president of the University of Alabama, prevent
the Southeastern Lesbian Gay and Bisexual College Conference from being held at
the University.
Bryce Jolley |
- 1998-Friday-: Salt Lake City Councilman Bryce Jolley says he is not homophobic. As proof, he said, ``I love the theater and plays and movies . . . I have many friends who are in that field.'' At least he didn't mention male hair stylists or female golfers, scoff some observers. At best, they say, Jolley's comments show a misguided attempt at sensitivity. At worst, his comments betray a bias camouflaged in double speak. ``Some of my best friends are Jolleys, I mean gay,'' said Allen Nevins, Salt Lake Acting Company executive producer. ``I say that tongue in cheek, but there's a sense of sadness that we even have to address this.'' But Jolley's ``some-of-my-best-friends'' defense was not the worst stereotype evoked during more than two months of public debate of Salt Lake City's new anti-discrimination law. Pedophilia, necrophilia and sodomy also came up. It would be better, critics say, for Jolley, and the other three councilmen who oppose Salt Lake City's fledgling anti-discrimination ordinance, to acknowledge a religious objection to the law, rather than hiding behind pseudo-legal fluff and hurt feelings. Salt Lake City's month-old law, which prohibits ``discrimination against an otherwise qualified employee or applicant based on race, color, national origin, sex, religion, age, sexual orientation or disability,'' is scheduled to be repealed next week. The law -- similar to those adopted by Salt Lake County and the University of Utah -- does not provide benefits for partners of gay city employees. How the law was passed and now is nearly null due to four council members' rush to repeal is a morality play peppered with innuendo and euphemism. Jolley, Carlton Christensen, Keith Christensen and Roger Thompson say the law is fatally flawed. They say a lame-duck council slammed the ordinance through without appropriate decorum. Besides, they don't want to grant ``special rights'' to a new class of people. No gay city employee has filed a complaint about discrimination. A more generic law drafted to protect everyone would be much better, they say. And, by the way, they're not bigots. Gay-rights advocates are not surprised by the turn about. If anything, they were surprised when Salt Lake City leaders approved the anti-discrimination law in the first place. ``This isn't new or original,'' said Cathy Renna, communications director for the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation in New York. ``Special rights has no meaning what so ever,'' said Rebecca Isaacs, political specialist for the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force in Washington. ``All we've asked for is the right to work with other people and not face discrimination.'' The debate is tired, she said. Indeed, national conservative groups have used the same arguments to block state and federal legislation that would include sexual orientation in civil-rights laws. ``You can't do anything about your race, what gender you are,'' said Jeff Hollingsworth, executive director of the American Conservative Union in Alexandria, Va. ``To link homosexuality to some of these other long-standing elements that are subject to discrimination is pushing the envelope. It's an effort by gay and lesbian groups to make them seem normal, correct, every day. That is not the case.'' Salt Lake City civil-rights attorney Ross Anderson, however, believes the legal arguments against including ``sexual orientation'' in nondiscrimination laws are shallow. ``You only have to look at the Utah code and you can find far more serious problems in terms of equivocal language or lack of clarity,'' he said .``Those things are always left for the courts to sort out. I don't think the courts would ever have a problem applying this ordinance the way that it's written.'' But some say the four councilmen's righteous indignation is just that -- a repugnance of homosexuality bred in religious training. All four councilmen in favor of repealing the law are members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The LDS Church-owned Deseret News published an editorial Dec. 8 supporting Jolley's less-specific ordinance and lambasting his colleagues for ``ramming the new ordinance through.'' The newspaper's editorials generally reflect the views of Mormon leadership. ``There are personal motives for fighting these laws, political motives and religious motives,'' said Jennifer Pizer, managing attorney of Lambda Legal Defense's Western regional office in Los Angeles. ``People in public life don't like to mention that because they know there is supposed to be a separation of church and state.'' None of the four councilmen has used a moral argument against the law. They limit their debate to legal arguments. But the under current of their remarks reveals a different motivation to some of their colleagues. ``They're fearful that if we extend this provision to the gay and lesbian community, it will lead to benefits. Then we'll legalize same-sex marriage,'' said Councilwoman Joanne Milner, who also is a member of the LDS Church. ``That's not the issue. The issue is focused on discrimination. Isn't discrimination immoral?'' The irony is not lost on Councilwoman Deeda Seed, who worked for two years behind the scenes to persuade her colleagues to support the law. ``This city was founded by people who faced profound discrimination and persecution based on their religious beliefs,'' Seed said. ``It's terribly ironic that the same group of people is seeking to take protection away from another group that is facing discrimination and persecution.'' But Councilman Keith Christensen said, ``That's a crock. If religion had anything to do with it, I'd be discussing this issue on a moral basis, and I'm not. It's not my choice to choose what other's morals are.'' However, national conservative groups proudly note the moral foundation for their campaign against gay-rights legislation. ``The moral objection is fundamental,'' said Arne Owens, communications director for the Christian Coalition in Chesapeake, Va. ``There are secondary legal arguments, but fundamentally, we don't believe that governments at any level or their entities should be in a position of legitimizing or endorsing behavior that most Americans believe to be wrong. These measures are simply government promotion of the gay lifestyle.'' The arguments sound startlingly similar, Anderson says. ``These people have a school somewhere, where they all go to make their ridiculous arguments. They just keep playing them over and over again,'' he said. `Those in opposition to this non discrimination ordinance are not honestly expressing their true motives.'' (01/09/1998 Page: B1 SLTribune)
Doug Fadel |
2003-Hello, Many of you have made inquiries about
the content and dates of this year's
PRIDEFEST Gay and Lesbian Film Festival in
Logan, Utah. Hope some of you can make it. A good time will surely be had by
all. PRIDEFEST, The Gay and Lesbian Film Festival will mark its fourth
anniversary January 13 through 18 on the campus of Utah State University in
Logan. This festival brings a wide variety of gay and lesbian films, short
features and documentaries, from serious to over-the-top, otherwise not
available in Utah.Ticket information, a detailed schedule and synopsis of films
can be found on line For education, fun and pure delight of visual affirmation
of Gay and Lesbian lives, take the short scenic drive to Logan. WE'RE HERE,
WE'RE QUEER AND THE BIG SILVER SCREEN IS OURS! THERE WILL BE AN "AFTER
HOURS PARTY" "Mild to wild," whatever floats your boat Saturday,
Jan. 18, 11:00 p.m. until whenever BYOB At Courtney’s and Kelly's house
Directions available at festival .
Kelly Byrnes & Courtney Moser |
2003 Help Us Stop Anti-Gay Legislation on Capitol
Hill! Town Hall Meeting For the GLBT Community Wed, January 15, 7:30 PM - 9:00
PM Salt Lake City Council Chambers (rm. 315) City County Building WE NEED YOUR
HELP! Many of you have asked what you can do to help politically in Utah. This
is your chance to make a difference!
Please join us for this very important town hall meeting sponsored by
Equal Families, a coalition of community-based organizations formed in response
and in opposition to an anti-gay resolution being proposed for the upcoming
Utah legislature. We'll be talking about
our large campaign to let the legislature and Utah know that we are families,
we are Utahns and we are tired of hateful legislation! A resolution has been
proposed by State Sen. Tom
Hatch (R-Panquitch) in favor of the Federal Marriage
Amendment that would limit marriage to a man and a woman in the United
States. The amendment would also
restrict the legal incidents of marriage - including any benefits that some states
and over a hundred municipalities have seen fit to bestow on same-sex couples -
to opposite sex couples exclusively. Additionally, the Federal Marriage
Amendment would represent a gross encroachment of the federal government into
marriage, an area that has always been a state's right to administer. Speakers
include: State Rep. Jackie Biskupski (D-SLC); Utah ACLU Director Dani Eyer;
Unity Utah Executive Director Michael Mitchell; Univ. of Utah law professor
Terry Kogan; and Salt Lake attorney Scott McCoy. Equal Families Sponsoring
organizations include the Utah Stonewall Democrats, the Gay & Lesbian
Community Center of Utah and Unity Utah. Please let us know if you're coming by
calling 801.355.3479 or emailing
info@unityutah.org. Feel free to distribute widely. Unity Utah is a Utah
gay/lesbian political action committee that works to empower our community and
allies to actively participate in all levels of the political process.
Tom Hatch |
2003- Chad Keller-Oh this is good....Joe Redburn calls
me this morning....Apparently I am among the suspects that caused the problems
for Blue.....I may appear stupid and bitchy but I think this time the gossip
mongering community may go too far....Very bad mood now.....and I’m sure it
will get worse....No wonder no one want to ever do anything for this Freaking
community....damned if you do, damned if you don’t, and that is just the
men....the AL's are a whole other story. Somehow I will accomplish my goals,
and then I hope my gay guardian angles leave my fate, destiny and dreams up to
me.
2003-Hello all! Just a Reminder that we will be
having a General Membership Meeting for Utah Gay Rodeo Association on Sunday,
January 12th at 3:30pm. It will be held at Angles Coffee Shop located at 511
west 200 south. I hope you can stop by! Thanks- Paul Cucunato
2006 Monday- COMMUNITY CALL TO ACTION NEW YEAR'S
RESOLUTION! VOTE
WITH YOUR DOLLARS EVERY DAY! "Brokeback Mountain" is a film with the power to open mainstream America's eyes to the experience of two Midwestern men, and to generate productive discussions about Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer experiences. Late last week, the Jordan Commons Megaplex (owned by Larry H. Miller Holdings) abruptly changed its screening plans and decided not to show the film. This is yet another example of a prominent business withdrawing support for GLBT supportive events and media at the last minute. If you believe it's time to show Utah's prominent businesspeople (like Utah Jazz owner Larry H. Miller) that treating queer people as "controversial" and supporting anti-GLBT politicians and initiatives is a poor business move, vow to make 2006 a year to vote with your hard-earned dollars! Make a concerted effort to put your money to work! If you take the challenge, consider the first of many important steps and avoid the following list of Larry H Miller Holdings in Utah as you look for places to spend. If you are a current customer of any of these entities and do choose to
stop spending
your money with them, please let them know why! You could also visit the Larry
H. Miller Group web site at http://www.lhm.com/ and post your comments under
the "Contact Us" tab. This "Community Call To Action" is
part of an ongoing effort to strengthen our call for equality in Utah! We, at
The Center, will continue to work in collaboration with other GLBT and non-GLBT
organizations to identify those businesses who support progressive business
practices (e.g. Domestic Partner Benefits) and embrace diversity! Valerie A.
Larabee Executive Director
WITH YOUR DOLLARS EVERY DAY! "Brokeback Mountain" is a film with the power to open mainstream America's eyes to the experience of two Midwestern men, and to generate productive discussions about Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer experiences. Late last week, the Jordan Commons Megaplex (owned by Larry H. Miller Holdings) abruptly changed its screening plans and decided not to show the film. This is yet another example of a prominent business withdrawing support for GLBT supportive events and media at the last minute. If you believe it's time to show Utah's prominent businesspeople (like Utah Jazz owner Larry H. Miller) that treating queer people as "controversial" and supporting anti-GLBT politicians and initiatives is a poor business move, vow to make 2006 a year to vote with your hard-earned dollars! Make a concerted effort to put your money to work! If you take the challenge, consider the first of many important steps and avoid the following list of Larry H Miller Holdings in Utah as you look for places to spend. If you are a current customer of any of these entities and do choose to
Valerie Larabee |
2006 LARRY H. MILLER HOLDINGS (Source: State of
Utah Department of Commerce
register) All-Star Catering, American Capital
Services, American Toyota Used Car Super Center, American Toyota Used Car Super
Center, ArenaCross, Arizona Tank Lines, Arrowhead Honda, Backcourt Barbecue,
Barry Engle Chrysler Plymouth Jeep, Brry Engle Suzuki, Big Dogzz, Broadway
Sweets, BTL Group, Inc., Burger Works, Café Etc., Café Ole, Csitas Del Sol (St
George), China Express, Club Emilia, Commerce Financial, Cottonwood Post #15,
American Legion, Cottonwood Thrift & Loan, Emilia, Emilia, LLC, Fast Break,
FastCast, Finet Broadcasting, First Western Heritage Leasing, First Western
Heritage Leasing, Fitnet Network, Ford Super Store, Gateway Grill, Grill Works,
Heidelberg West, Inc., Heritage Imports, Honeybees, Icy Eagle, Icy Golden
Eagle, Icy the Eagle, Jordan Commons Megaplex, Kar Mart Automotive, KarKredit,
Karmart Automotive, KG Retail Stores, Magnificent Movie Showcase, Main Street
Deli, Mayan Express, Megamax, Megamax 70, Megaplex, Megaplex 17 at Jordan
Commons, Old Chicago Dogzz Company, Presidential Club Homeowners Association
Inc (4625 S 2300 E), Prestige Leasing, Rapid Enterprises, Romano's Pizza,Salt
Lake City Bees, Snack Attack, South Parc, LC, South Town Auto Mall, Sportsfest,
Super 70, Super 70 Theatre, Super Screen, Super Screen at Jordan Commons, The
Delta Center, The Event Headquarters, The Mayan, The Mayan Café, The Mayan
Restaurant, The Movie Guy, Thrifty Car Rental, Thrifty Rent A Car, Thrifty
Sales, Utah Auto Credit, Utah Auto Credit – Downtown, Utah Automobile Dealers
Association, Utah Car Credit, Utah Sports Marketing, Value Auto Center, Value
Auto Center, Valumax, Walking Taco
Larry Miller |
2006 W. Cleon Skousen died (Jan. 20,
1913 - Jan. 9, 2006) He used polygraph tests to hire policemen with most questions
on sex. When did you first want a woman? When did you first have intercourse?
Did you ever cheat on your wife? Etc. He
justified it by saying he wanted to steer clear of sex fiends on the force.
When Mayor Lee argued it was unfair to intrude in a man’s private life and
wanted the practice discontinued. Skousen ignored Lee and said that the tests
were used to determine “moral turpitude.”
He desired to weed out applicants “involved in promiscuous immorality or
homosexuality,” because they would be vulnerable to blackmail and stated that
the questions were routine and same as asked throughout the country. Skousen’s
detractors stated that he ran the police department like the Gestapo primarily
through the use of fear. In March of
1960 Skousen was fired as Chief of Police of Salt
Lake City Utah by Mayor J. Bracken Lee. As I remember the story Skousen raided
a poker game at which Mayor Lee was a participant. That is the kind of man
Skousen is, he would have raided that card game no matter who was at the table.
Lee who had issues during his political career tried to muddy the waters by
calling Skousen "an incipient Hitler". In March 1960 he fired Salt
Lake City police chief W. Cleon Skousen, a man widely admired for his
conservative views, professional law enforcement background, and tough stand on
vice. The firing sent shock waves though the community, and once again Lee was
thrust into the local and national limelight as accusations flew back and forth
between the two men. While mayor he waged unsuccessful campaigns for the U.S.
Dennis L. Lythgoe Utah Historical
Quarterly Fall 1974 Vol 42 #4 Political
Feud in Salt Lake City
2007 Deseret Morning News, Tuesday, January 09,
2007 Huntsman PAC raised over $1.4 million in 2006 By Lisa Riley Roche and Josh
Loftin Deseret Morning News More than $1.4 million poured into Gov. Jon
Huntsman Jr.'s political action committee last year — including about $92,000
since just before the November election.
Other special interest PACs, such as Equality Utah, also raised and
spent relatively large sums of money. The gay rights group spent almost
$100,000, but they also have $243,000 left in their fund.
2007 The Men's Support Group meets at the Utah
Pride Center (The Center) from 7:30 to 9 p.m. the second and fourth Tuesday of
each month. All who identify as male are welcome, 18 and over. There is no
charge. The purpose of the group is to provide a safe, comfortable place where
men can talk about whatever is on their minds without fear of judgment. We
don't have a predetermined topic(s) for the evening, so you can bring anything
to discuss that is of importance to you. It can also be a place to make new
friends. The group is facilitated but it is not a therapy or counseling group.
Suzanne Westenhoefer |
Dominique Storni |
2009 From: Michael Aaron Subject: Pride booth idea To: "'Brad Di
Iorio'" "'Tony Hobday' Don steward, Ben Williams, Joselle
Vandergriff- Yes, while lying in the tub drinking wine, I was thinking about
future events. That’s what happens when I don’t have to do an overnighter to
get the issue out. Yaay! Below, you will see two views of an idea I have for a
pride booth. (One overhead and one face-on,) The idea is simple (and a simple
construct): We build a 20’ long wall with the title, “Dear Utah: We the Gay,
Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender People of Utah …” And we invite Pride participants to write
their message to Utahns on the wall using multi-colored Magic Markers. There
will also be a 4’ wall for “In Memorium” notes – which acts as a brace for the
wall. On the backside of the wall, we can have another booth activity, like the
photo shoot for the next book. There is
also room for storage of QPages and QSaltLakes, etc. The construction is
simple: 2x2 frames with a 4’x8’ foam core front. There is cross bracing on the top in case of
wind. The bottom can be attached to the ground with stakes. Cost = 6 foam core
sheets @ $20ea = $120 + 28 2x2s @ $2ea = $56 for a total of $176. I’m thinking
of no cover over the top unless it looks like rain. This exhibit is very light
and simple to construct/reconstruct, making it possible to travel to other events/rallies/actions/exhibits.
I can see this displayed at city hall, at the Salt Palace during UAF Oscar
Night and Equality Utah Allies Dinner, at Bruce Bastian’s HRC dinner, at peace
rallies, the Farmers Market, etc. We would make it part of our sponsorship to
allow it to be displayed. I even think a stint across from the Church Office
Building would be possible Thoughts?
- Well, I was working at the bar and not sitting in the bathtub so I guess that’s why I wasn’t thinking about Pride, too. I really like the idea. We’ll have plenty of time to decide how/where the wall will be placed in relation to the rest of the booth materials and table. I think the wall will draw a lot of attention and help continue what has been happening since Prop 8 and the protests. Especially on Pride Day, I think people will appreciate another way to have messages out there in a peaceful way. I also like that it would be easy to construct/deconstruct so it could be displayed at other big events. J
2010 Saturday Lesbian lawmaker is surrogate mom Capitol colleagues may
not approve but respect sanctity of life By Elaine Jarvik Deseret News SALT LAKE CITY — Last April, Utah legislator
Christine Johnson wrote an e-mail she titled "You may want to sit
down." It was a long e-mail to two friends, and it boiled down to this:
She would be honored to have their baby. She would be willing to endure the
varicose veins, she said, and the mood swings, and the questions that would
certainly arise. Johnson, a Democrat from Salt Lake City, serves in the Utah
House of Representatives, one of two openly lesbian legislators. So the fact
that she is unmarried and now pregnant will undoubtedly raise eyebrows, as will
the fact that she is carrying this baby for two gay men. She has chosen to speak
publicly about the circumstances of her pregnancy now, before the Legislature
convenes this month, in the hopes of preventing distraction during the serious
work of the session, she says. She is now in her fifth month, and her slender
body is starting to show a slight bulge. She knows that it is hard, as a public
official, to have a truly private life. But even beyond that, she says,
"It's my goal to live my life authentically." Johnson's decision to
be artificially impregnated rose out of a dinner conversation with the two gay
Utah men last spring. The men, who were married in California during the brief
period when gay marriage there was legal, talked about how much they wanted a
child. Adoption is out of the question, since in Utah there is this Catch-22:
an unmarried couple can't adopt, and Utah does not recognize gay marriage. Johnson,
41, has a 17-year-old daughter from a two-year marriage. She got her daughter's
approval, and the support of her own mother and siblings, before making her
decision to become the surrogate mother. She is not being paid to carry the
baby. In the parlance of surrogacy law, Johnson is a "traditional
surrogate" rather than a "gestational surrogate"; the latter is
the term for mothers who carry a child but are not biologically related to it.
Under Utah law, gestational surrogacy is allowed only for married couples. The
two men who will be the baby's fathers "will be wonderful parents,"
she predicts. To those who argue that a child does best with both a mother and
a father, Johnson counters that "gender or sexual orientation is less
important than children being welcomed into a supportive, loving home." "This
child is going to have an amazing life," she says about the baby.
"It's going to have so much acceptance and love." To have a child who
is wanted so much — "how can that be wrong?" She was only six weeks
pregnant when she told her first legislative colleague, Sen. Howard Stephenson,
a Republican from Draper with whom she served on the revenue and taxation
interim committee. Since that day, Stephenson has periodically brought Johnson
eggs from his chickens. "I thought it might be helpful for the nutrition
of the baby," he explains. Stephenson is a conservative man. You can hear
the hesitation in his voice when he is asked to talk about the potential
reaction of his colleagues to Johnson's pregnancy. But he is clear about his
own feelings: "I'm not one to judge other people, but I do respect any
woman who will carry and bear a child for a childless couple." He adds,
"I have my own standards and beliefs, but I don't want to impose them on
another person. … I don't want to impose my judgment on Christine or the couple
that is receiving the baby." In 2003, when he attended the Giant in our
City award given to then-LDS Church president Gordon B. Hinckley, he was seated
next to Congregation Kol Ami Rabbi Tracee Rosen and her gay partner. "She
told us of her admiration and respect and love for President Hinckley,"
Stephenson remembers. "And she said he contacted her personally to make sure
both she and her partner would attend. When I heard that, I thought 'Should I
take a lesson from the way a prophet of the church treats gay people?' Frankly,
that has changed my approach to how I interact with gay people and gay
legislators." He still thinks marriage should be reserved for a man and a
woman, and that having both a mother and a father in the home "is the
optimum, and what every baby deserves." But, he adds, "it's my
responsibility to show respect and love for one of God's daughters." Babies,
no matter how they are conceived, may trump ideology in the Legislature. House
Speaker David Clark, R-Santa Clara, also a Mormon, echoes Stephenson's
reaction. "At the end of the day, it's the gift of life" that is
important, he says. He adds that "there is an unusual ribbon on this
package." Johnson says she thinks most of her constituents — in a mostly
liberal section of Salt Lake City's east bench — will not react negatively to
her pregnancy. She acknowledges that "there are so many parts of this story
that people could object to," but asks this question: "Who wants to
live their life dependent on the affirmation and approval of others as evidence
that their life has value? I certainly don't." She wants to make decisions "that feel
true to me," she says. Johnson was born on the East Coast and moved with
her family to Provo when she was 8. After graduating from Timpview High School,
she moved back east to be a nanny and left The Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-day Saints. She says that before agreeing to be the surrogate, she did online
research about how surrogate mothers cope with handing over a child after
pregnancy. "I found out that although surrogate mothers have a vested
interest in the health and well-being of the child, they know that they're
carrying the child for someone else, and that makes it easier" to give the
child up, she says. Johnson's arrangement with the men is that the child will
know her as its mother but that she will have an "aunt-type
relationship." She has not revealed the names of the fathers. The baby is
due on the summer solstice. Johnson hopes to have a home birth. In the
meantime, she is eating organic foods and is craving clementines.
2012 SLC Ranked No. 1 Gay City Posted By Jerre Wroble Salt Lake City Weekly The truth can now be told -- despite annual legislative skirmishes, entrenched LDS views (and a state constitutional amendment) against same-sex marriage, and church-endorsed programs to change gay men into straight ones -- Salt Lake City is still a great place to be gay. --- It is so great, in fact, that the nation's oldest continuing LGBT publication, The Advocate, ranked Salt Lake No. 1 in its recent "Gayest Cities in America 2012" list, beating out Seattle and San Francisco, for Pete's sake. The article acknowledges that few American cities can beat out established big-city hot spots. This is a list where a great scene exists in "less-expected" locales. And it's not scientific, like these findings of The Gay and Lesbian Atlas are, (which excludes Salt Lake City and Utah). But we'll take The Advocate's word for it. Of Salt Lake City, the article states: "While those unfamiliar with the Beehive State are likely to conjure images of the Mormon Tabernacle Choir, far-less-oppressive-than-it-used-to-be Salt Lake City has earned its queer cred. There are more than a half-dozen hot spots for men and women, including the eco-friendly nightclub Jam (JamSLC.com), though the sustainable bamboo flooring is perhaps less of a draw than the packed dance floor. The Coffee Garden (878 S. 900 East) is a gathering spot for those looking for a caffeine fix, the Sundance Film Festival brings LGBT film buffs to screenings downtown, and lesbian-owned Meditrina (MeditrinaSLC.com) is a true wine bar — yes, you can get a drink in this town." One of the first things I learned about SLC when visiting many years ago -- via a gay waiter -- was that SLC was a great town to live in if you were gay. I almost laughed at the notion. But he went on to say that SLC offered all the basics: jobs, affordable housing, a wide-ranging arts calendar and a surprisingly vibrant club scene. There was an intangible he failed to mention: community. This man eventually died of AIDS and was cared for until the end by family, friends and co-workers. The community is nurtured and informed by the Utah Pride Center, a veritable hub of local LGBT life and sponsor of the city's annual Pride festival -- one of the summer's liveliest gatherings. City Weekly published "Born to Run" July 6, 2011, by Darin Jensen. Jensen grew up gay in Utah but left, believing he would find acceptance and tolerance outside the state. Back for a visit decades later, he was brought to tears while attending Salt Lake City's Pride festival. He began to see all that had changed since he'd left. "I was amazed by the number of obviously not-queer people who came out to celebrate the diversity of Utah," he wrote. "I had some idea of the turning tide toward tolerance in Utah as I had noticed, while driving around the valley, how many people proclaimed their support for gay rights as human rights, by tagging their cars with the Human Rights Campaign’s blue and yellow equality sticker. In California, this sticker mostly marks the cars of queer people as a symbol of their beseeching for equal rights. But in Salt Lake City, the sticker on so many allies’ cars is a proclamation: 'I—we—stand for equality!' " Richard Florida, who wrote about The Gay and Lesbian Atlas' top 20 cities in an article for The Daily Beast, defends such lists, saying they point to a more open-minded and innovative society. "A visible LGBT community is the proverbial 'canary in the coal mine,'" he says, "signaling openness to new ideas, new business models, and diverse and different thinking kinds of people—precisely the characteristics of a local ecosystem that can attract cutting-edge entrepreneurs and mobilize new companies." So, hey, we're Number One. Outside of City Creek Center's grand opening, which will likely be very gay, it might be the best news of the first quarter.
2014 Meet the man behind Utah’s same-sex marriage lawsuit Activist • Mark Lawrence
faced
uphill challenge in conservative Beehive State. BY BROOKE ADAMS THE SALT LAKE
TRIBUNE When Mark
Lawrence heard that a federal judge in California had overturned that state’s
constitutional amendment banning gay marriage, he had an immediate reaction:
This could happen here. Of course, most people thought Lawrence was nuts. California
is a blue state, Utah the reddest of reds. California has one of the nation’s
largest gay and lesbian populations with some 98,000 same-sex households, Utah
has one of the smallest at 3,900. California is, well, California. Utah is
Mormon central. But the 57-year-old Lawrence was undaunted, even when national
gay rights groups didn’t take him seriously and local groups took a “wait and
see attitude.” “It was kind of difficult to get them to pay attention to what
we were doing,” Lawrence said. Lawrence began having “what if?” conversations
with friends in July 2011, as California’s legal fight over Proposition 8
continued its march through the courts. While religious and conservative
factions in Utah were an obstacle, Lawrence said the real challenge he faced
was apathy. “That was the hardest to overcome,” he said. “I’ve never been one
to accept apathy. I don’t like it.” So he kept talking and meeting, talking and
meeting. And soon he was convinced he was on to something. In February 2013,
Lawrence formally set up Restore Our Humanity for the sole purpose of staging a
legal challenge aimed at toppling Utah’s constitutional amendment banning
same-sex marriage. And he began searching for a legal team willing to take on
the David v. Goliath legal fight, exchanging emails with several attorneys and
having at least one conversation with a lawyer that went “nowhere.” Then, he
met with two attorneys at Magleby & Greenwood in Salt Lake City. Within
five minutes, Lawrence said he knew James E. Magleby and Peggy A. Tomsic were
the perfect fit. “It was magic,” he said of that two-hour conversation. “They
were very driven. I thought, ‘This is it.’” Lawrence is perhaps an unlikely
candidate to be at theforefront of the gay community’s effort to topple
Amendment 3. He is an information technology specialist with the Unified Fire
Authority’s emergency center and lives at home with his elderly parents.
Lawrence moved in with his parents a couple years ago to help care for his
father, who is in the later stages of Alzheimer’s disease. “I don’t have much
of a life outside of that,” he said. Lawrence came out to his family in the
late 1970s, when he was 17. “I’ve got a great family and parents who always
showed great support,” he said. His past political experience consisted of
protesting Anita Bryant, who in the ’70s led an anti-gay movement, and being a
delegate at a Democratic Party convention. Six years ago, a bout with lung
cancer rousted Lawrence from his own state of apathy. “When you go through
that, you look at things differently,” he said. To take his mind off chemo
treatments, Lawrence began following politics, particularly events involving
the gay community. The idea that maybe he could be part of making a change for
the better took root. By the summer of
2011, he was ready. “This seemed like a good fit, like something I had to do,”
Lawrence said. Lawrence said he found two couples willing to be plaintiffs in
the lawsuit: Karen Archer and Kate Call, whom he had met through The Salt Lake
Tribune’s comment boards, and Derek Kitchen and Moudi Sbeity, whom he met at an
LGBT Chamber of Commerce event. The attorneys brought in the third couple, Kody
Partridge and Laurie Wood, who were legally married in Iowa but unable to have
their marriage recognized in Utah. Sbeity’s reaction? “That scared me,” said
Sbeity, who owns a food business with Kitchen. “We hadn’t had our business for
a long time, and weren’t sure how it would affect us, what it would mean for
our daily lives. We were scared of putting ourselves out there and exposing
ourselves.” But they kept talking to Lawrence and mulling it over as a couple. In
the end, “we thought it was a fight worth fighting for,” Sbeity said, “that
this would benefit us and everybody else. It was a fight not just to help us,
but to help future generations of LGBT youth so they might grow up without the
social stigma of being gay. With that in mind, we decided it was the right
thing to do.” Plus, there was this: “We really wanted to get married,” Sbeity
said.
Christine Johnson |
2012 SLC Ranked No. 1 Gay City Posted By Jerre Wroble Salt Lake City Weekly The truth can now be told -- despite annual legislative skirmishes, entrenched LDS views (and a state constitutional amendment) against same-sex marriage, and church-endorsed programs to change gay men into straight ones -- Salt Lake City is still a great place to be gay. --- It is so great, in fact, that the nation's oldest continuing LGBT publication, The Advocate, ranked Salt Lake No. 1 in its recent "Gayest Cities in America 2012" list, beating out Seattle and San Francisco, for Pete's sake. The article acknowledges that few American cities can beat out established big-city hot spots. This is a list where a great scene exists in "less-expected" locales. And it's not scientific, like these findings of The Gay and Lesbian Atlas are, (which excludes Salt Lake City and Utah). But we'll take The Advocate's word for it. Of Salt Lake City, the article states: "While those unfamiliar with the Beehive State are likely to conjure images of the Mormon Tabernacle Choir, far-less-oppressive-than-it-used-to-be Salt Lake City has earned its queer cred. There are more than a half-dozen hot spots for men and women, including the eco-friendly nightclub Jam (JamSLC.com), though the sustainable bamboo flooring is perhaps less of a draw than the packed dance floor. The Coffee Garden (878 S. 900 East) is a gathering spot for those looking for a caffeine fix, the Sundance Film Festival brings LGBT film buffs to screenings downtown, and lesbian-owned Meditrina (MeditrinaSLC.com) is a true wine bar — yes, you can get a drink in this town." One of the first things I learned about SLC when visiting many years ago -- via a gay waiter -- was that SLC was a great town to live in if you were gay. I almost laughed at the notion. But he went on to say that SLC offered all the basics: jobs, affordable housing, a wide-ranging arts calendar and a surprisingly vibrant club scene. There was an intangible he failed to mention: community. This man eventually died of AIDS and was cared for until the end by family, friends and co-workers. The community is nurtured and informed by the Utah Pride Center, a veritable hub of local LGBT life and sponsor of the city's annual Pride festival -- one of the summer's liveliest gatherings. City Weekly published "Born to Run" July 6, 2011, by Darin Jensen. Jensen grew up gay in Utah but left, believing he would find acceptance and tolerance outside the state. Back for a visit decades later, he was brought to tears while attending Salt Lake City's Pride festival. He began to see all that had changed since he'd left. "I was amazed by the number of obviously not-queer people who came out to celebrate the diversity of Utah," he wrote. "I had some idea of the turning tide toward tolerance in Utah as I had noticed, while driving around the valley, how many people proclaimed their support for gay rights as human rights, by tagging their cars with the Human Rights Campaign’s blue and yellow equality sticker. In California, this sticker mostly marks the cars of queer people as a symbol of their beseeching for equal rights. But in Salt Lake City, the sticker on so many allies’ cars is a proclamation: 'I—we—stand for equality!' " Richard Florida, who wrote about The Gay and Lesbian Atlas' top 20 cities in an article for The Daily Beast, defends such lists, saying they point to a more open-minded and innovative society. "A visible LGBT community is the proverbial 'canary in the coal mine,'" he says, "signaling openness to new ideas, new business models, and diverse and different thinking kinds of people—precisely the characteristics of a local ecosystem that can attract cutting-edge entrepreneurs and mobilize new companies." So, hey, we're Number One. Outside of City Creek Center's grand opening, which will likely be very gay, it might be the best news of the first quarter.
2014 Meet the man behind Utah’s same-sex marriage lawsuit Activist • Mark Lawrence
Mark Lawrence |
The
lawsuit was filed in U.S. District Court for Utah on March 25 — a day before
the U.S. Supreme Court heard oral arguments in the Proposition 8 and United
States v. Windsor cases. With more
than 30 lawsuits over same-sex marriage bans pending in state and federal
courts, most backed by gay rights groups, it may be understandable that a case
brought by private attorneys in Utah — one of the nation’s most religious,
conservative states — got little attention or support initially. Then came the
pair of landmark decisions from the Supreme Court in June. Among those paying
attention to the rulings: Patrick Byrne, founder of Overstock.com. Byrne said
he took particular note of how Justice Anthony Kennedy “went way out of his
way” to say the federal judiciary would, as a result of the court’s rulings, be
hostile to attempts to discriminate against people. Within days, he got a call
from Magleby and Tomsic asking for help. “I think it is obnoxious for states to
have an amendment to their constitutions discriminating against some people as
far as who can love whom, who can marry whom,” Byrne said. “I’m a small
government guy. My great fear in life is overzealous government. This seems to
be a very clear case of that.” Byrne pitched in $50,000 and agreed to speak to
other business leaders about why ending the state’s ban on same-sex marriage
made economic sense. His message to them: “Amendment 3 was putting a black eye
on the state” and potentially hurting business growth. Byrne said he decided
from the get-go, when he founded Overstock.com in 1999, to offer a
“rainbow-friendly workplace.” “A company that [is supportive] can get some of
the best talent out there that is frustrated by and has experienced unfriendly
environments,” he said. Fast-forward to December. Lawrence was in the spectator
seats as Tomsic made an impassioned speech before U.S. District Court Judge
Robert J. Shelby about why Utah’s ban harmed same-sex couples in Utah. He was
at work the afternoon of Dec. 20, when Shelby issued his ruling. Like most
people following the case, Lawrence didn’t expect Shelby would rule until
January. “I couldn’t believe it,” said Lawrence, who immediately made the
12-minute drive to his home to more thoroughly check the news reports. “I was
numb. I didn’t know what to think.” He then made his way to the Salt Lake
County Clerk’s Office to witness first-hand the crush of same-sex couples
queuing up for licenses. Lawrence has taken the state’s effort to block
Shelby’s ruling in good stride. “This is normal process,” he said. “I’ve been
expecting this all along. This gives us an opportunity to take a breath,
regroup and get some fundraising done. I actually think the stay is a good
thing as long as it’s not in place for very long. When we get through this
process, everyone can calm down and relax, plan some nice weddings and do
this.” The state has estimated it may have to spend up to $2 million to defend
Amendment 3 and related statutes barring gay marriage. Restore Our Humanity is
also gaining support for a protracted legal battle. In addition to Byrne’s
donation, Restore Our Humanity has held several small fundraisers to pay the
“very large” bill due to attorneys handling the case. More are in the works. And
local and national gay rights organizations are now lending support and
resources. On Thursday, for example, the National Center for Lesbian Rights,
which tried but was unable to file an amicus brief in the federal lawsuit, has
joined as co-counsel to represent the plaintiffs at the 10th Circuit Court. The
Utah Pride Center and Equality Utah also are on board. “We’re very happy about
that,” Lawrence said. “This has gotten too big for us now. We are talking to
them now, and I think we are going to see a lot more cooperation with them.” That
said, it’s the individual responses that have really moved Lawrence — the $5
check from a Virginia man who said he was on disability but “just wanted to be
part of it” and $10 from a Chicago man who said he was unemployed but wanted to
help. “Those are things I never expected,” Lawrence said. Another
kind of ‘legal limbo’ Utah counties that didn’t finish processing same-sex
marriage licenses for couples who turned in their paperwork before the U.S.
Supreme Court ordered a halt to the nuptials Monday should finish and mail out
the certificates, Utah Attorney General Sean Reyes said Thursday. In Weber
County, about 30 couples turned in their paperwork on time but workers hadn’t
sent out their certificates when the stay came down, according to a Wednesday
report in the Standard-Examiner. The county clerk/auditor wasn’t sure whether
his office was legally allowed to finish. But if the unions were solemnized
before Monday, finalizing them is an “administrative function and not a legal
function,” Reyes said in a press release. He recommended that counties issue
the certificates so the couples have “proper documentation in states that
recognize same-sex marriage.” In Salt Lake County, meanwhile, couples who got a
license but didn’t have a ceremony in time could be eligible for a partial refund
of their application fee. Regardless of the outcome of the court battle over
Amendment 3, license applications expire in 30 days if they’re not completed
and returned. Salt Lake County Clerk Sherrie Swensen said she planned to ask
the county council’s permission to issue refunds after the 82 incomplete
licenses’ expiration date on Feb. 3. “We normally say no refunds, but I think
this is kind of an extenuating, unusual circumstance,” she said. Completing a
marriage license is a three-step process: A couple gets an application for a
$40 fee, is wed in a ceremony and has the officiant return the signed form. The
union isn’t legal until the whole process is done. A total of 1,061 licenses
were issued by Salt Lake County during the nine business days same-sex marriage
was legal, compared to 279 the year before during that period. If the council
approves the refund, Swenson said her office could return $30 of the fee. By
law, the other $10 has already been sent to the state for a Children’s Defense
Fund. Couples would come into the county clerk’s office and return the
application with a note explaining why they couldn’t finish the process. Proponents
of same-sex marriage will gather at the Utah State Capitol on Friday at 12:30
for a press conference and to deliver an online petition, signed by 41,000
people, urging Utah Gov. Gary Herbert not to pursue an appeal of a ruling
overturning Amendment 3. The press conference will include remarks from Tim
Wagner, who started the petition drive; Troy Williams, a radio host and gay
activist; and Derek Kitchen and Moudi Sbeity, plaintiffs in the lawsuit that
challenged Utah’s ban.
2014 HRC urges
U.S. AG to ensure validity of Utah same-sex marriages BY BROOKE ADAMS THE SALT
LAKE TRIBUNE The Human Rights Campaign has asked U.S. Attorney General Eric
Holder to take immediate action to ensure rights of more than 1,300 gay and
lesbian couples who received marriage licenses in Utah are upheld. In a letter
delivered to Holder Thursday, the civil rights organization said there is no
“legal reason to question the validity” of marriages that occurred between Dec.
20 and Jan. 6, when the U.S. Supreme Court stayed a federal judge’s ruling
overturning Utah’s ban on same-sex marriage. The letter pointed out Utah Gov.
Gary Herbert initially directed state agencies to recognize the marriages. “Even
though the governor’s office has now made a political decision to cut off this
recognition, it continues to insist that it makes no pronouncement about the
validity of these unions,” wrote Chad Griffin, president of the Human Rights
Campaign (HRC). “There is simply no reason for the United States government not
to extend federal recognition to these more than 1,300 couples.” HRC also sent
a letter to attorneys general in 17 states where same-sex marriage is legal,
calling on them to recognize the Utah marriages. “I urge you to issue an
advisory opinion declaring that treating all legally-conferred marriages
consistently as a matter of equal protection and basic justice is consistent
with the public policy of your state,” Griffin said in that letter. On
Wednesday, the U.S. Department of Justice said it is reviewing Herbert’s
decision to not recognize any marriages that occurred during the 17 days
between U.S. District Court Judge Robert J. Shelby’s order and the Supreme
Court stay. That fact that HRC is “going on the record asking the
administration to recognize these marriages puts the credibility of our
organization behind it,” said Fred Sainz, a spokesman for the advocacy
organization. “The attorney general has been very fair, as has his
administration, in recognizing legal gay marriages. We are hoping he will take
our opinion into account as they decide which way to opine on this.” On
Wednesday, Utah state officials announced that recognition of same-sex
marriages that occurred before the stay would be “on hold” until a final court
decision on its appeal of Shelby’s ruling, a process that could take more than
a year. The state said any rights same-sex couples pursued after being married
are now frozen at whatever step they had reached. Within hours of the announcement, the ACLU of
Utah said it was seeking plaintiffs for a potential lawsuit. On Thursday, the
ACLU said it had received an “overwhelming” response to that request. “We have
a great pool, and we are working through that and plan to bring litigation that
will protect all marriages, whether the couples are named plaintiffs or not,”
the ACLU said in a tweet.
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