October 9th
John Taylor |
1890 The case against Frank Dunn charged with the crime against
nature was taken up and tried. Those not interested in the case were asked to
retire as it was one unfit to be tried in public. The principal witness for the
prosecution was a small boy twelve years old Tomie Henderson upon whom the
crime against nature had been committed who gave evidence of Dunn having
committed the act charged against him. The defense that was set up was that of
drunkenness. The case went to the jury without argument. Salt Lake Herald
Cleon Skousen |
1964 Female impersonator, Leslie Douglas Ashley escaped from the
maximum-security ward of the Texas State Mental Hospital where he had been
committed after being declared legally insane during a murder conviction. “Another
search for Leslie Douglas Ashley, a onetime female impersonator, who drew the
death penalty for killing a Houston man in 1961 but later adjudged insane. The
insanity finding kept Ashley from being tried again.” Leslie Douglas Ashley was
a flamboyant drag performer who in the early 50's fled Houston for Manhattan.
Failing to make it in the Gotham clubs, Ashley, still in drag, took to the
streets as a prostitute. Returning to Texas, he encountered Carolyn Ann Lima, a
slightly retarded 17-year-old hooker at a lesbian bar in Houston. The two
joined forces, servicing clients from schoolboys to traveling salesmen. One of
the pair's johns was a local real-estate agent named Fred A. Tones
who--according to their later testimony--became threatening during an
assignation. Lima pumped six rounds into the man, and then helped Ashley drag
the body to a nearby vacant lot, where they set it on fire. Taking their
victim's car, the two set out for Manhattan, pausing briefly in New Orleans
during Mardi Gras. They were Picked up in N.Y.C. on a minor charge, and were
returned to Texas on murder charges. They were charged with fatally shooting a
customer at a sex party in his Houston office. After being arrested by Texas authorities, a
legal battle and media circus ensued. The couple were found guilty of murder
and sentenced to die in the electric chair at Huntsville. In 1963, just four
hours from the electric chair, the pair was given a two weeks stay of
execution. Lima, who was 20 years old at the time, would have been the first
woman executed in Texas in 99 years. After the stay, Ashley was still condemned
to death, despite an insanity defense; but Lima plea- bargained and received
time. During an appeal, it became clear that the prosecution had improperly withheld
psychiatric records regarding Ashley's mental condition; therefore his death
penalty verdict was overturned. Ashley
was sent to a mental hospital, where he escaped with the help of a female staff
member. On April 23, 1965, FBI agents arrested Ashley in Atlanta, Georgia. He had
been working as a Bobo the Clown at a traveling carnival. Another carnival
worker saw a wanted poster and called authorities. After serving five years in
prison, Ashley was released and underwent a sex-change operation, becoming
“Leslie Elaine Perez” and became politically active in Houston's chapter of
ACT-UP. Ashley was eventually pardoned; today, after a sex-change operation,
she's politically active as a spokesperson for ACT UP--although Bentley
indicates that her abrasive personality goes unappreciated even by that
organization. Ashley was
condemned to death, despite an insanity defense; Lima plea- bargained and
received time. During an appeal, it became clear that the prosecution had
withheld evidence regarding Ashley's mental condition, and, after a new sanity
hearing, the transvestite was put in a mental institution. Ashley was
eventually pardoned; today, after a sex-change operation, she's politically
active as a spokesperson for ACT UP--although Bentley indicates that her
abrasive personality goes unappreciated even by that organization. An
engrossing look at a shadowy area of American life--and the dark underbelly of
the Reagan years. Ogden Standard
examiner.
- Political Sex Change Guess who's
embracing GOP family values? By Tim Fleck Thursday, Jan 13 2000 Leslie Perez ran an insurgent campaign
against then-Harris County Democratic Party chair Ken Bentsen Jr. in 1990
and was rewarded with one of the great garish headlines of all time by the
Houston Chronicle: "Killer Transvestite in Runoff." Although
future Congressman Bentsen eventually won the race, the strong showing by
Perez garnered national publicity and severely embarrassed local party
leaders. Now Perez and her mother, Sylvia Ayres, have resigned from the
Democratic Party, though there's a question of just how final Perez's
break really is. Ayres, who over the years has also run for a number of
municipal and Democratic party posts (most recently last November, when
she pulled 37 percent of the vote against at-large Councilwoman Annise
Parker), is actually switching to the Republican Party, citing family
values as one of her reasons. Perez was once better known as convicted
murderer Leslie Douglas Ashley, before receiving a pardon and undergoing a
sex change operation. Over the past decade she continued to run for the
party post and forced Bentsen's successor, David Mincberg, into several
more runoffs. "I do have a kinda colorful background,"
understates Perez. "I do understand, because every time I run for
something they bring everything up." Unlike other high-profile
defectors from county Democratic ranks, the departure of Perez and Ayres
is not likely to provoke regrets or much hand-wringing from party
officials, who regard them as major pains. County Democratic Party chair
Sue Schechter, who defeated Ayres in 1998 to win the position, indicated
the two will not be missed. "What a great millennium present,"
she commented dryly. The sentiment is returned in full by Ayres and Perez.
"It's just a total disaster down there," says Perez of the state
of the local Democratic machine. "It's nothing from nothing." "The
party has a platform that no sane person could follow," wrote Ayres
in a New Year's Eve letter to Schechter announcing her defection to the
GOP. Considering that Ayres's onetime son and a female prostitute killed a
Houston businessman and torched his body, Ayres seemed rather easily
shocked by current Democratic lapses in morality. "A president that
is a total disgrace," sputtered Ayres. "Imagine being married,
and having cigar sex with an intern. A party that both believes and
promotes late-term abortion. Ms. Schechter, I can't follow that
lead." Ayres is swearing allegiance to a new political hero on the
local scene. "I find that Republican Party Chair Mr. Gary Polland is
a fine man and has the leadership qualities I can follow," she wrote.
"My future energies will be to elect Republicans to public office,
from the court house to the White House." Polland was unavailable for
comment on whether he and other GOP officials will welcome Ayres with open
arms. In her letter Ayres also took a swipe at the Democrats for promoting
homosexuality, an odd position for a woman whose son/daughter underwent a
sex change in 1980. "I'm a strong believer in family values,"
wrote Ayers. "I don't embrace homosexuality. It seems the Democratic
Party does." In a confusing passage, Ayers cited Democratic
endorsements for "lesbianism, transgendered (transvites)
bi-sexuals." Schechter expresses surprise that Ayres would oppose the
homosexual and transgendered community. "It's strange to take a
position against something that is at your own house," muses the
chairwoman. Perez's explanation of her mother's comments hardly clarifies
the contradiction. "She's just saying homosexuality leads to death
which is caused by AIDS." Asked whether she considers herself
homosexual, Perez issued a firm no. "I'm female -- I can't be but one
or the other." Then she laughed. "I don't do anything. I'm a
regular Virgin Mary." The decision by Perez and Ayres to send their
resignation letters was sparked by an attempt to oust Perez from her
position as Democratic chair of Precinct 542. Ayres claimed someone put up
a candidate to defeat her daughter and that Ayres filed as a candidate
"to help my daughter, by splitting the vote, [but] I've decided that
was a mistake." While the Republicans will now have to deal with
Ayres, Perez is not ruling out future involvement with the county
Democratic party. "I might come back," she warns. "It was a
sinking ship, and it's a sunk ship now. I couldn't do worse than what
they've done."
Dr. George W. Crane |
1977 " My wife and I can't stay apart but how can we stay together. I need to put spiritual things back into my life but with honesty, not deception as the Church leaders seemed to have needed to receive from me. I wish I could be what Heavenly Father wants me to be. I am so different from his plan." (diary of Earl Donald Attridge who worked with Spencer W. Kimball to cure his homosexuality)
1979 -"Chad Dobson said he was filming the documentary with my
face showing. I don't know if I am up to doing the filming that way. They told
me that it was time to get the issue out of the shadows and speak openly. Chad and Karl
assured me if anything happened to my job the television station would endeavor
to assist me in finding a new job or financial assistance until I became
employed. Still I have been reviewing my journal so I can explain what I have
been through in the Church.” Later I would learn from my roommate who was a
radio commentator that Channel 2 News would deny even having started plans to
film such a documentary. I was never given any assistance or validation from
what was to follow as the end of my employment. [Diary and Memoirs of Earl Donald
Attridge who was fired for appearing in a documentary on Homosexuals)]
1985-New York City mayor Ed Koch wrote a letter to the New York
County American Legion asking them to reconsider their decision not to allow
the Gay Veterans to participate in the annual Veterans Day Parade. The American
Legion did not respond to the request.
20 Rue Jacob now Moochies |
1987 Four members of the Utah delegation of the March on Washington
Committee meet with Rep. Wayne Owens in Washington ,
D.C.
1987-The National
AIDS Network held a ceremony to honor volunteers in the fight against AIDS.
Among those present were Gary Collins, actresses Morgan Fairchild and Whoopi
Goldberg, playwright Harvey Fierstein, and Congressman Gerry Studds.
1988 A Time For Us kick off show for AIDS Awareness Week sponsored by the Royal Court of the Golden Spoke Empire held at Puss N Boots.
1988 A Time For Us kick off show for AIDS Awareness Week sponsored by the Royal Court of the Golden Spoke Empire held at Puss N Boots.
1990 Tuesday- Utah AIDS Foundation for theater buffs- a benefit performance by Salt
Lake Acting Company of M Butterfly for the Utah AIDS Foundation. This homoerotic play is not to be
missed. Warning ! Male nudity!
Billy Graham |
1993-Episcopal bishop E. Otis Charles, 67, who had been
bishop of Utah from 1971-1986,
publicly came out. In Utah , Charles served as
Chair of the Board of St. Mark¹s Hospital, Salt Lake City and of Rowland Hall-St. Mark's
School. He also functioned as Bishop-in-charge of the Episcopal Church in
Navajoland. He was instrumental in establishing Hospice of Salt Lake City and
took a leading role in creating a coalition of opposition to the development of
Utah and Nevada
as the launching site for the MX missile Originally from New
Jersey , he served first as a priest in Connecticut . From 1968 until 1982 he was a
member of the Standing Liturgical Commission, which developed the 1979 edition
of the Book of Common Prayer. In the House of Bishops, Charles was chair of the
Prayer Book Committee and a member of the Bishops' Committee on Racism. Charles
became Dean of the Episcopal Divinity School in 1985. Charles also has
significant academic achievements, including a Doctorate of Divinity, and a
Doctorate of Sacred Theology. After his retirement in 1993, Charles publicly
came out as gay, the first Christian bishop ever to take such a step. He
currently resides with his husband in San Francisco ,
where he helped to found the California
branch of the Oasis Commission.
E. Otis Charles |
1996
Page: B3 Plant Flowers to Remember Victims Byline: BY STEVE GREEN SPECIAL TO
THE TRIBUNE OGDEN -- They were barred
from planting flowers for AIDS victims on Utah County property, but were
welcome to do so at parks in Ogden and Salt Lake City. And plant they did. Members of the Utah AIDS
Foundation and the People With Aids
Coalition of Utah planted 400 flower bulbs Saturday along the Ogden River
Parkway.The effort came on the heels of planting 4,000 crocus bulbs Tuesday at
City Creek Canyon in Salt Lake City.
``We're still hoping to do something in Utah County,'' said Barbara
Shaw, executive director of the Utah AIDS Foundation, referring to a decision
last week by the Utah County Commission to deny a request to display a memorial
plaque on county property to draw attention to people who have died from the
incurable disease or who have contracted HIV, which causes AIDS. The crocuses, as well as tulips and
daffodils, will bloom in the spring as a living memorial to people who have died or suffer from AIDS and HIV.
Ogden-area members of the AIDS foundation hope to erect a plaque at the
site by Dec. 1, designated World AIDS Day.
Audrey Combe of South Ogden planted flowers in honor of her son, Jeffery
Fuller, and his partner, Phillip Virtuoso, who died from AIDS and are buried next to each other in
North Ogden. Virtuoso, 52, died in 1992.
Fuller, 39, died last year. ``Jeffery
would be so proud of his mom. Phillip would be proud of me,'' Combe said.``They
were wonderful companions. I loved them both.'' Combe said she hopes the flower memorial
will help family members of people with
AIDS cope. ``I wish more people would not be ashamed of their
children,'' she said. The Utah Health
Department says 1,305 cases of AIDS have been diagnosed in Utah since 1983, 94%
of them on the Wasatch Front. Another 776 HIV diagnoses have been made. Shaw said an estimate of people in Utah who
are HIV-positive but don't know it ranges from 2,000 to 6,000. ``We believe we can stop it,'' she said.
``We know how to prevent this virus.''
People can get AIDS by not taking protective measures before sex and by
sharing drug needles. People needing
information about AIDS prevention, diagnosis and treatment are urged tocall
their area health department or the AIDSFoundation at (800)-865-5004, or
487-2323 in the Salt Lake area.
1997 Thursday, S.L. hate-crimes detectives probe AIDS Coalition
graffiti Associated Press Salt Lake police hate-crime detectives are
investigating a vandalism at the offices of the People with AIDS Coalition of
Utah. Vandals scrawled anti-gay graffiti and drew lewd pictures on a sign
posted on the coalition's door, director Pam Mazaheri said Wednesday.
"This is offensive," Mazaheri said. "This is the first time this
has happened since I became director" in August. The incident was reported
to Salt Lake police and referred to detectives
who handle hate crimes. "Some people just don't understand that this is
not a gay disease," Mazaheri said. "The single largest increase in
HIV infection is occurring among heterosexuals." Mazaheri named director of PWAC Utah
1998 The People
With AIDS Coalition of Utah will
present its Fifth Annual Community Awards Banquet at the Hilton Hotel
Adolf Hitler and Eva Braun Hitler |
9 October 2000 The Salt Lake Tribune Page: B2 East High Students
Honored In 'Coming Out Day' Party BY LORI BUTTARS THE SALT LAKE TRIBUNE Fresh on the heels of
the decision to reinstate Gay clubs in Salt Lake City schools, students from
East High School were honored Sunday at Utah's National Coming Out Day celebration
at Sugar House Park. "They've fought the battle for four long years,"
said organizer Gareth Atkinson. "Now, every child in Utah knows that it's OK to be Gay, thanks to
the East High Gay, Straight Alliance." Natalie Taylor, East High student organizer,
accepted the award. "This award is for all of you previous students,"
she said. "I know we have it much easier today because of what you went
through." Sunday's celebration attracted about 1,000 Utahns, who gathered
for a barbecue and to listen to politicians. The celebration has been held
every year since Oct. 11, 1987, when the Human Rights Campaign for Gay Lesbian
Bisexual and Transgendered people marched on Washington , D.C.
With the November election just around the corner, the celebration took on a political
theme. Guest speakers included Salt Lake Mayor Rocky Anderson and state Rep.
Jackie Biskupski. The only politician who spoke that is running for office in
November was Karen Crompton, candidate for the new Salt Lake County mayor. Atkinson said that
Crompton's opponent, Nancy Workman, was not invited because of "statements
she's made publicly that don't put her in harmony with what we are doing here
today." Anderson
outlined some of the changes that have occurred in the area of Gay rights since
the Stonewall riots in 1969. He got a big cheer from the crowd when he
concluded with his own executive order "to promote and retain people of
diversity" with in city government. "Hopefully, one day, the rest of
the country will be looking at Salt
Lake City and saying 'If they can do it there, we can
do it, ' " he said. "Wouldn't that be something?" Salt Lake
County has had a similar
policy for 10 years, Crompton noted as she vowed to include "everybody in
as we come together as 15 communities in one county." As the state's first
openly Gay legislator, Biskupski shared her own coming-out story, which she
said did not occur until she decided to run for public office. "Hiding was
stifling for me," she said. "I'm happier . . . I'm able to share and
be more in control of my own life and it's time that we all felt we are more in
control of our own lives." Thirteen years after the first National Coming
Out Day, things are getting easier for Utah
Gays and lesbians, Atkinson said, adding that "the battle is far from over."
He called on Utah
leaders to get behind hate-crime legislation that would include sexual
orientation along with racial, religious and other special interest groups. "Things have changed, the reversal by
the school board to include a club for Gays, chief among them," he said.
"We also have politicians in our midst today. Thirteen years ago, we were
talking at them. Now we are talking with them."
2003 The Utah Stonewall Historical Society's Quarterly Board
Meeting was held 9 October 2003. In attendance were Mike Romero, Mark Swonson,
Chuck Whyte and Ben Williams. New Business Cancellation of Honor's Banquet was
discussed with remaining executive committee agreeing to assume any financial
responsibility. It was agreed to let Eric Marcus retain his plane ticket and
refund Jim Dabakis' generous contribution. Other fiduciary expenses will be
addressed as they are presented. Cathy Cartwright emailed that she was unable
to attend but that the awards were almost ready. It was agreed that the awards
will till be presented to the honorees either at a private function or a public
one in January. Mark Swonson, Secretary, reported that The Pillar was very
understanding and cooperative with canceling advertisements for the event.
Chuck Whyte, Treasurer, reported that he is in contact with the Sheraton to
settle any contractual obligations. Ben Williams, Historian, reported that from
email correspondence, it appeared that Eric Marcus was somewhat relieved to not
have to heading to SLC the day after his graduation and was very sympathetic to
our position. Chad Keller's resignation
from the board was accepted and Ben Williams was nominated to serve as
temporary director until January's Quarterly Meeting. He accepted. It was
proposed and passed: That membership fees will be rescinded and refunded. The
Yahoo Group Site will be open to all individuals who abide by our mission
statement. Monthly meetings will be suspended until January. The UHSH will be a
cyberspace entity until further notice The USHS will focus primarily as an
educational resource to the Lambda Community rather then fundraising events.
The executive committee thanked in absence Chad Keller as being a co founder of
the UHSU and wished him good luck on future endeavors.
Rebecca Walker |
Adam Benson |
2003 The Daily Utah Chronicle -
Opinion Gay and lesbian community should respect rights of opposition By Bart Gatrell
With the rainbow flags waving in the breeze, there couldn't be a better time
for a voice of reason as mine to speak on such an important issue. For freshman
and transfer students, let me bring you up to speed. When the flags came up
last year during Gay Pride Week, I wrote a letter that opposed their display,
which I perceived as excessive freedom of speech. An information booth or desk
outside the Union is totally cool-I just thought the flags were too much
because other groups would never be allowed the same privilege. I believe in
equality. However, some of my fans called me a right-wing Christian fanatic and
other ugly things. So if they're going to make it a religious issue, I'll
reluctantly play along. And since members of the gay and lesbian community
pride themselves on promoting an open dialogue, I'm sure they'll welcome this
article. Hopefully, they'll respond more appropriately then their tirade of
last year that followed my letter. In this column, I hope to give some guidance
and explanation to both the gay and lesbian community and the Christian right.
Jesus of Nazareth and his followers taught tolerance and love, but they also
taught obedience-and homosexuality, along with adultery, sorcery, lying, lust
and other actions, is a sin. The gay and lesbian community are not the only
target of the Christian right today. I admit that they are the most persecuted
of these behavioral groups, but it pales in comparison to other groups'
suffering. Members of the gay and lesbian community use the term "diversity"
as a nice buzzword because it is difficult to oppose and it places them in the
same camp of other persecuted minority groups. The problem is that instead of
seeing "sexual diversity," some of us see "sexual perversity."
In reality, there is no sexual diversity in the United States because some
sexual acts are so perverse they are illegal. Where are their freedoms? Why are
they not socially acceptable? It's all about perceptions, and some of us
perceive homosexuality as being perverse. If the gay and lesbian community
doesn't defend all sexual activities or try to make them legal, then they're
hypocrites. And if someone doesn't draw the line, who's to say that in a few
decades from now, illegal practices will become acceptable through grass roots protest?
Should homosexuality be illegal? No, but being opposed to "sexual
diversity" is not the same as opposition to "racial diversity,"
and you know it. The First Amendment guarantees me the right to label any
practice morally wrong. However, the Fourth Amendment states that people have
the right "to be secure in their persons, houses, papers and
effects," and "shall not be violated" without due process of
law. Therefore, any "Christian" that conducts his or her own form of
vigilante justice against the gay and lesbian community should be thrown in
jail for hate crimes. On the other hand, the gay and lesbian community should
never use the deaths of Matthew Shepard and Brandon Teena to silence any form
of opposition-and it does. Where's the open dialogue in that? It's no different
from the Zionists using the Holocaust to expunge Palestine of its native
inhabitants since 1948. So why does the gay and lesbian community meet so much
resistance? First of all, Christian groups today resist practices they view as
immoral-and homosexuality is a practice, along with drug use, pornography and
gambling. Secondly, anyone who tries to make his or her private behavior into a
public lifestyle is asking for trouble. Let's hope that the Christian right and
the gay and lesbian community keep their debate in a legal framework-let
democracy work. As far as this article and last year's letter is concerned, I'm
not sorry for what I've said. I am sorry if you are offended, but I tried to
explain in the simplest way I know how. Maybe I don't understand your point of
view. Then again, maybe you don't understand my point of view. Maybe we should
all try to understand each other.
2003 The Daily Utah Chronicle -
Opinion Tolerance is not enough, pride is the best means for healing.By Kristopher
Cannon Though people may find me at various protests and rallies, I usually
lack the enthusiasm to shout slogans like, "We're here and we're
queer"-possibly because I find my queer identity fiercely evident. In
trying to cope with the social responses to my queer identity, life becomes a
battle to constantly heal wounds-not always physical wounds, but more often
wounds of social alienation and rupture. This is to address those that create
the wounds with the enactment of homophobic candor, whether intentional or
not-those who wade in the shallow end of the acceptance pool. Because these
wounds originate at a societal level, the responses to most adequately heal
them generally arise through public address. With the many problems that arise
because of social biases against lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer and
otherwise questioning individuals, and the escalation from these biases to
crimes of hate, a public venue to affirm and dispel myths is necessary. Gay
pride functions as one of the most visible and large venues to assist in this
endeavor. Queer pride offers me, and many others, a response to the biased and
hateful individuals within our society. Pride offers not only the visibility of
self-love that each queer person has, but a reassurance of the communal dignity
that queers and their allies share. University Pride provides this same
function in the university community. I actually wonder why anyone would find
offense seeing two men kiss. I can probably say that with ease because I am homosexual,
but it still baffles me. It seems that there is a social pressure by many
people to condemn such behavior because of moral convictions that reassert
heteronormativity within the world community.
I would never advocate anyone to deny their his or her convictions, yet
question how queers within the community even affect these people who appear to
be so morally appalled. Kathryn Stockton asserts, and I concur, that it
requires identity displacement for anyone to be psychologically harmed from the
visibility of homosexuality or queerness. It seems that the archnemesis to
queerness in Utah, Gayle Ruzicka, confuses herself for one of the homosexually
engaged when she sees two women holding hands at the mall. Merely seeing such
an act would have no psychologically damaging affects on Ms. Ruzicka, unless of
course she is somehow confusing her identity with one of the homosexually
engaged-and from all of the nasty and hateful comments that seep from her
mouth, I have no reason to believe that she is confused. Ruzicka actually has
the power to enact her biased opinions because she embodies so many powers from
"the man." This force comes from the white, heterosexual, Christian,
middle- and upper-class male persona. Every pride movement by a marginalized
group attempts to disengage the hierarchal power of "the man" and
create a more equal society. Queers just happen to be one of the largest
populations remaining that is wounded by an overwhelming assumption that our
subjugation is acceptable. So many people find ease in laughing at sitcoms like
"Will & Grace" or the queer eyes that are making over so many
straight guys, but lend little assistance to enact hate crimes legislation or
befriend an estranged transgender classmate. Think about how the visibility of
queers actually affects your life, your identity and your moral actions. You
may find that you are not morally responsible for the actions of others and
that the actions of others are not immediately affecting your physical or
psychological well-being. From here, we may find the social Neosporin to heal
the many wounds that marginalized groups embody. This Neosporin will not come
from tolerance or acceptance, but the pride and celebration of individual
difference.
Sue Ann Post |
2004 Subject: Mormon humorist Robert Kirby on Gay Marriage
Kirby: A political hot button headache By
Robert Kirby Salt Lake Tribune Columnist
Rusty and I have been friends for more than 30 years. The fact that he
is a homosexual only rarely comes up, usually when I want to tease him about
some stupid gay stereotype. This time he brought it up by reminding me to take
some time to vote against something horrible called Proposition 3. ''What's
that?'' I asked. Seriously, I didn't know. It was the wrong thing to say. Rusty
went off on a tirade about whether or not he should be allowed to marry another
guy: Prop. 3, a constitutional amendment that would further prohibit them from
tying the knot, was unnecessary, unfair and probably fascist. ''Wow, I didn't
even know you were dating somebody?'' ''I'm not,'' he said. ''Then what's the
big deal?'' This was worth another hour of political harangue that did less to
inform than it did to give me a migraine. It was worse than the time I told
Bammer's daughter that the importance I placed on the spotted owl was somewhere
below that of a ham sandwich. I hate it when stuff I don't care about becomes a
political hot button, in this case whether or not homosexuals should be allowed
to marry. It's fine with me as long as they don't register someplace pricey.
Being indifferent was OK for a while. But I vote. And now that some fathead has
decided to put it on the ballot, I have to choose a side. I could rely on
theology to help me make up my mind. Most churches including my own say that
homosexuality is a sin. But I don't care about that, either. I have my own
problems with lust. As a committed heterosexual, it's a full time job for me
just to keep from mentally undressing
attractive female parishioners during church. I spend so much time
trying not to do that I really don't have time to worry about what gays are
doing. But maybe it's time that I did. I can't imagine homosexuals ever causing
more pain and bloodletting in the world than organized religion already has,
but I could be wrong. I was wrong about disco. While it is possible that
homosexual marriages will cheapen and degrade heterosexual marriage, I'm just a
little fuzzy on exactly how. Gay sex - which has been
going on for a long time - hasn't done a thing to cheapen or degrade my
attraction toward the opposite sex. Maybe gays - who can't reproduce
''naturally'' - will eventually destroy the family as we know it. This would be
the same family we know that already ends in divorce half the time, right? I am
completely open to the possibility that socially accepted homosexual marriages
could bring upon us the wrath of God. But maybe this wouldn't be such a big
deal if other non-sexually specific things weren't already bothering him; stuff
like greed, bigotry and hatred. Proposition 3 is a tricky issue. How am I going
to vote on it? I think the best answer now is the same one I would have given
back when I was falling in love and deciding whom to marry: None of your
business.
Robert Kirby |
2005 RCGSE AIDS WEEK EVENTS Octoberfest at The Trapp,
4:00-6:00pm, $5.00
2005 PWACU Awards Reception This event honors
those who have made a diffference in our community and who have been assistance
to the PWACU Organization.
2006 Homosexual officers work to overcome stereotypes By Michael N.
Westley The Salt Lake Tribune Article Police officers must work hard to earn
the respect and trust of their peers. For those that are gay, the challenge
increases, as they work to overcome stereotypes within their departments and
the community. Such were the sentiments of a five-officer panel who spoke
Saturday during a session of the 6th annual Gay Men's Health Summit in Salt Lake City on
Saturday. The group shared their stories about being gay in law enforcement and
warned of the dangers of the "party and play" phenomena - ingesting
crystal meth and having unprotected sex - which has plagued the gay community
in recent years. Two of the officers asked not to be
named but the other three,
Capt. Tracy Tingey of South Salt Lake police, Corbet Ford of the Salt Lake
County Sheriff's Office and Tim May, of Clearfield Police, were proud to go
public about their homosexuality. "It's important for us to prove
ourselves on the streets," said Tingey, who was dragged from the closet
more than 20 years ago by other officers who could see that his internal
conflict was affecting his work. Now, he said, he is supported by his
department and his partner is treated just like any other spouse. The men
agreed that overall, they are embraced by their counterparts and valued most
for their dedication to their jobs. Though they are allowed to work within the
gay community, none of the men were in uniform - which, they said is a product
of police officials who remain hesitant to allow openly gay cops to fully
represent their departments
Corbett Ford |
Julie Jensen |
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