October 5th
1513-Spanish conquistador Vasco Nunez de Balboa discovered what he
claimed was a colony of cross-dressing males in present day Panama . It was reported that he
massacred them and fed them to his dogs.
John Bennett |
1840-John
Addington Symonds, one of the earliest scholars of homosexual issues was born. He assisted
Havelock Ellis in the writing of "Sexual Inversion”.
1887 Court at Beaver Sept 28 The Case of Thomas Taylor, charged
with Crime against Nature, was called but owing to the absence in Nevada of an
important witness, Mr. Zane asked for a continuance. Mr. Denny objected urging
the hardship upon the defendant of a further continuance. Deseret News
1887 27 Sept- Dismissed yesterday afternoon in the Third district
Court- the indictment against the boy William Paddock, was dismissed on motion
of the District Attorney. He was set at liberty Deseret News
1897 Springville Boy Arrested Special to The Herald Sprlngville,
Utah Oct 4 ThIs afternoon Frank Smith a lad
17 years of age was arrested by order of Sheriff Status on the charge of
committing a crime against nature on the person of Jesse Reynolds a boy 8 years
old. The offense was committed on the
morning of Sept 26 Smith was taken
before. Justice Boyer and waived examination. Bonds in the amount of $500 were
given for his appearance for trial Salt
Lake Herald
Wess Jolley |
1980 Wess Jolley is elected president of Lesbian and Gay Student
Union at University of Utah. He served for two terms.
Spencer W. Kimball |
Victor L. Brown |
1983 Nikki Boyer opens the lesbian bar, Reflections, at 315 W. 400
South in SLC Utah.
1990 The Royal Court of Golden Spike Empire held its annual AIDS
Awareness Week.
Russell M Nelson |
1998- Pres. Hinckley reaffirms stand on moral issues Leader
responds to questions on polygamy, gays By Steve Fidel Deseret
News staff writer The LDS Church's general conference carries gospel instructions
to the world. Church President Gordon B. Hinckley used a Sunday address to
recap questions the world has about the church, whose 168th Semiannual General
Conference closed later in the day, following instructions from dozens of
church leaders. With broadcasts of the conference being beamed by satellite
worldwide, President Hinckley told members Sunday morning, "I simply wish
to set
forth, as simply as I know how, my response to what people are asking
about us." Of a number of frequently asked questions, topics President
Hinckley said he randomly chose to address dealt with the LDS Church doctrine
of deity and the church's position on homosexuality, abortion, polygamy and
spouse and child abuse. Regarding homosexuals, "We love them as sons and
daughters of God," President Hinckley said. "They may have certain
inclinations which are powerful and which may be difficult to control. Most
people have inclinations of some kind or another at various times. If they do
not act upon these inclinations, then they can go forward as do all other
members of the church. If they violate the law of chastity and the moral standards of the church, then they are subject to the discipline of
the church, just as others are."
Tolerating "immoral activity" in same-sex relationships "would
be to make light of the very serious and
sacred foundation of God-sanctioned marriage and its very purpose, the rearing
of families."
Gordon B. Hinckley |
Richard and Renee Van Wagoner |
Wendy Weaver |
Sister Linda Bellemore |
1999 Tuesday DESERET NEWS (Mormon-owned evening daily) Protesters target church activism in California 150 gather outside Temple Square as LDS session ends By Steve Fidel Deseret News staff writer LDS Church members leaving the Sunday morning session of General Conference were greeted outside the south gate of Temple Square by about 150 people holding placards protesting the church's involvement in a California ballot initiative that would reinforce marriage as a relationship between a man and a woman. Utahns for Fairness protest organizer and
2002 David Nelson to Gay Public Forum: Consideration is reportedly
being made by some to
renege on the $2,000 speaking-fee agreement made between
the Utah Pride Inc. leaders and gay E! Network anchor Steve Kmetko who served
in June as the pride- celebration national grand marshal. The fee was promised
to be paid to the pride youth council as a contribution from Kmetko who
otherwise waived his normal fee. Continuing talk of the Gay and Lesbian
Community Center of Utah Inc. acquiring the pride group emphasized this week
that an acquisition was necessary because of pending bankruptcy by the pride
group. The Kmetko fee could be included legally in any bankruptcy by the pride
group, but the written receipt of his in-kind contribution to the group would
need to be nullified. Who among the center and pride leaders wants the job of
telling him, not to mention the youth council members? Corporate acquisitions
like this usually acquire the debt as well as the real and intrinsic valuables.
A bankruptcy by the pride group before an acquisition, however, would erase the
debt and leave the intrinsic value for the center group to take freely. It's
also been suggested that the still-unused pride-label water be given to the
youth council instead of the promised cash. It's worth about $2,000, and could
be sold by them to raise funds. The damage, however, extends well beyond simply
stiffing some gay and lesbian kids in the name of a television celebrity and
making them earn what was given to them. Make no mistake that gay and lesbian
speakers talk to each other and share war stories about the communities they
visit. Our youth will also learn from this experience. Do we really want
national gay and lesbian leaders to know that our promises aren't kept? Do we
want our youth to see bankruptcy as a way out of promises? Meanwhile, recent
certified letters published by the pride group bear the return address of the
center. It would seem that the acquisition is already underway, or, as one
pride leader called it, a "fait accompli." I hope that our center and
pride leaders dismiss the idea of stopping payment on their $2,000 promise
quickly BEFORE this damage is done. If the center group follows through with
its acquisition of the pride group, let them acquire all of it, lock, stock and
barrel, debt included. That's the honorable way to do it. David Nelson
Steve Kmetko |
- Ben Williams to David Nelson: David- If the Pride Day Inc files bankruptcy- its because its board is Bankrupt from ideas and influence within the community. Perhaps it is time for the community to take back Pride Day from those whose see the festival as just another marketable commodity. As a former Kristen Ries Awardee I have been dismayed for years at the direction Gay Pride Day has been going. My main concern has always been "Where is the accountability of the board to the community?" Perhaps it is time to revive the OLD GLCCU [Gay and Lesbian Community Council of Utah]. Even with all its squabbling, bitch fights, intrigue, and hurt feelings, at least everything was above board and there never were "secret meetings", "closed meetings" and reneged promises. Who are the people on the board of the so called Gay and Lesbian Community Center now? Besides having deep pockets and connections to deep pockets are they truly representative of Utah's Gay Community? I was the last “elected" member of the board of the old Stonewall Center. Once the board closed its board to open membership the center collapsed. The Stonewall Coffee Shop is indeed an asset to this community but why is it considered a community center anymore than any other establishment? Is it truly the center of our community? The Old Stonewall Center had a help line, an information and reference desk, a library, and archives that was used by such notables as historian Michael Quinn and the Law Firm of Spence, Moriarity & Schuster of Jackson Hole. The volunteers at the center felt like they were providing valuable service to the community and except for the executive director no one received a dime. Why is the center always closed on days such as Pride Day and holidays when people in crisis need it the most? Where are the volunteers? If I am arrested who could I talk to at the center: If I was contemplating suicide who could I talk to: if I was a middle age man or woman coming out of a marriage who could I talk to; if I was being sexually harassed who could I talk to; if I was attacked who could I talk to? At the new center I suppose it would be the coffee shop manager when not busy serving up lattes. Ben Williams
2003 Some say lesbians'
health suffers from lack of care By Kathy Stephenson The Salt Lake Tribune With
a high risk for depression, alcohol and drug abuse and certain forms of cancer,
lesbian and bisexual women have plenty of reasons to visit a doctor regularly.
Too often, however, it is the fear of discrimination that keeps them from
making that appointment. "Sometimes it's hard to talk about things with
your doctor," said J.C. Graham, one of about 200 people who attended the
Alternative Women's Health Fair at the Salt Lake City Main Library on Saturday.
"You don't know if you will be treated differently." Sponsored by the the Gay and Lesbian
Community Center of Utah, the event brought together 40 health and community
agencies that willingly provide health care services to diverse populations.
"We want to empower them and make them better advocates for their own
health care," says Jennifer Nuttall, director of adult programs at the
center. The nonprofit organization received a grant from the Susan B. Komen
Breast Cancer Foundation to hold the fair. Many lesbians and bisexual women do
not inform their physician of the sexual preference because they fear the
doctor's response, Nuttall said. But sharing the information is critical for an
accurate diagnosis. "If they have a
good relationship with their doctor, they are more likely to follow through on
their health suggestions," she said.
Sue Gore said she is one of the lucky women with a doctor who
understands her medical needs. Still, the Salt Lake City resident was surprised
by some of the health statistics she heard on Saturday. "There are more
risks for gay women than I thought," she said. Because women typically
earn less than men, many lesbians find themselves without insurance or
struggling to pay for medical services, especially for a single mother raising children.
Saturday there were agencies -- Planned Parenthood of Utah to Community Health
Centers Inc., -- that offer services based on ability to pay. Whatever their
income, lesbians should make the call to a doctor, according to the American
College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists. The women's health organization
based in Washington, D.C., said that lesbians may be at an increased risk for
ovarian and uterine cancer if they have never given birth or used oral
contraceptives. Women who have never had children or breast-fed also are at a
higher risk of breast cancer. Cancer of the cervix is less common among
lesbians than heterosexual women, the gynecological group states. Lesbians,
bisexuals and transgendered who do not reveal their homosexuality to family and
friends can also feel isolated. That can lead to sadness and sometimes
depression, making them more open to alcohol and drug abuse, said the group.
Sexually transmitted diseases such as HIV or AIDS are less common in lesbians
than in heterosexual women, but still can be a health risk. The health of the
Utah's gay and lesbian
community was also on the minds of people who attended a special community vigil in Memory Grove on Saturday at dusk. The requiem, sponsored by the Royal Court of the Golden Spike Empire, marked the beginning of the 19th annual AIDS Awareness Week. Volunteers created a ribbon-shaped memorial -- made from 4,237 red paper markers -- that will be on display throughout the week. Each red paper represents Utahns who are HIV positive or who have died from AIDS since 1983, when the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention began keeping statistics.
community was also on the minds of people who attended a special community vigil in Memory Grove on Saturday at dusk. The requiem, sponsored by the Royal Court of the Golden Spike Empire, marked the beginning of the 19th annual AIDS Awareness Week. Volunteers created a ribbon-shaped memorial -- made from 4,237 red paper markers -- that will be on display throughout the week. Each red paper represents Utahns who are HIV positive or who have died from AIDS since 1983, when the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention began keeping statistics.
2005 Wednesday To:
ben@slmetro.com From: "David J.
Moss" Subject: perhaps there are two sides to a story CC:
letters@slmetro.com Mr. Williams: I was
recently forwarded your column entitled 'Homosexuals, The Holocaust and
Utah' and was disappointed to see your
unfair take on the Anne Frank Holocaust Exhibit controversy of 1990. I believe both sides (although stating that
there were only 2 sides oversimplifies things) of that particular situation had
reason to be frustrated as well as uncomfortable (that is not to say both sides
were right, but that is beside the point).
Certainly you, as a 5th-grade school teacher, can understand the need to
exercise sensitive discretion when determining how much information to pass
along to your students regarding various historical events...when to draw the
line. I think that every educator would
have a different line, but few, if any, draw their line with the intention of
hurting the kids they are responsible to teach.
Without getting into a discussion of the relative importance of the
sexual orientation of some of the holocaust victims, my complaint with your
column is more about the tone and personal nature of your accusations. To make
your point that sexual orientation did play a role in whether or not someone
was persecuted and to what extent that persecution continued, is it really
necessary to indirectly describe Mr. Moss as a bigot? Is it really important to sarcastically
mention his death from a heart attack at age 48 as if to claim some moral
vindication over someone that cannot defend himself from your re-hashed
accusations? He is my father and I was 17 when he died suddenly on December 14,
1990. And yes, stress had much to do
with it. He was not a bigot. To the contrary, the fact that he 'stressed'
about that very event (something remember very clearly) indicates that he
recognized that both sides had an argument and deserved to at least be heard,
but that both sides would not be equally pleased with a final position on the
matter. In determining his position, it
simply came down to which would have the greatest positive impact on the school
kids and which would have less negative impact on the school kids. There is much truth about the holocaust that
would not be appropriate to showcase to elementary school-age kids, that is not
to say it is not true and never happened.
It is simply the exercise of filtering some truth that may be difficult
to explain to someone of that sensitive age while still trying to convey the
relevance and impact of what occurred.
Decent, well-meaning people can disagree over these issues. To refer to
him and the others who tended to agree with him on this issue as bigots
devalues your own perspective and credibility as it shows your eagerness to
oversimply the viewpoints of the "other side" by attaching
universally repugnant labels - a safe argument tactic when preaching to those
who value style over substance...especially when considering that your target
is deceased...very weak. Had my father
not considered both sides of this issue and taken the time to discuss it with
the respective groups, perhaps he would have experienced less stress and still
been alive. If only he had attached less
value to the opinions of the two sides of the argument and simply made a
knee-jerk reaction based on his "gut instinct", perhaps education
would have been less stressful. Please understand that as you continue to fight
for your cause, not everyone who disagrees with you is a bigot. If only life
and cultural issues were so simple! Dismissing a person with a differing
opinion than yours with manufactured shock, cheap sarcasm and smug labels
places you all too neatly in the oversimplified, blissfully ignorant world of
5th-grade minds.Regards David Moss
- From: JMoss To: letters@slmetro.com Subject: Since you printed Ben William's article about supposed cencorship with the Anne Frank exhibit, in 1990 I hope you will be glad to print this response. I am one of the sons of James Rex Moss, who he refers to in his article.Defamation of character is always annoying when it is misguided. But it is even more so when the person being defamed is deceased. At the time of the Anne Frank Holocaust exhibit in 1990, my father was serving as the Utah State Superintendent of Education. Those who knew him over the years in government, civic, church and business circles, knew he was a man of principle, integrity, character, and as Rod Decker said so well at his viewing "Utah school teachers have lost a leader. Utah school children have lost a friend." What kind of a person digs up something that happened 15 yrs. ago as a means of trying to promote one's own agenda? The kind of person who 'snuggles in his cozy basement apartment' (two words, by the way that a man should never use!) while my father was working with his heart and soul for the education of children in this state. At the end of his article, Mr. Williams smugly declares that my father died of a heart attack and that "Education is stressfull." It is indeed stressfull Mr. Williams, when you are doing all you can for the betterment of education in Utah, and at the same time having to deal with people like yourself on the sidelines. Throughout his life, my father did what he believed in and acted with character and integrity (though in your book none of that matters because he didn't push the gay agenda!). Though he may have offended some, likeyourself, at times, he did what he thought was right and had many friends on both sides of issues. In the end, my father will continue to be remembered for his goodness,decency, integrity, character and all the good that he did in so many areas of his short 48 yr. life. You, on the other hand, will, more than likely, simply be remembered by a few gay friends as a man who tried to push his own little pet agenda. You may even get a few pink triangles on your coffin. John Moss European Sales
- Michael Aaron" To: "'Ben Edgar Williams'" Subject: RE: perhaps there are two sides to a story Date: Wed, 5 Oct 2005 He sent this to us as well. It is a letter to the editor about your article from issue 9 - back in April/May. You mention that you are a teacher of the 5th grade in the article.His brother also sent a letter. I may let you respond with a single paragraph in the same issue. I'll send the other one as well. –Michael
- Michael Aaron" To: ben@slmetro.com Subject: FW: Here is the other letter.Can you hold on putting these onto the Yahoo group until we publish? Thanks! –Michael Aaron Salt Lake Metro Executive Editor
- "Michael Aaron" To: "'Ben Edgar Williams'" Subject: RE: FW: Date: Thu, 6 Oct 2005 I re-read the article yesterday as well and thought it balanced, even with the caveat at the beginning about you being a rabble-rouser. David Nelson and a friend were in my office and they agreed.-Michael
2014 Fox News SALT LAKE CITY —
There was a new message about same-sex marriage from the 184th semi-annual
General Conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. A member of the LDS Church’s Quorum of the Twelve Apostles,
Dallin H. Oaks, spoke–acknowledging they may lose the legal fight surrounding
same-sex marriage and that they have to think about how to behave if that
happens. “Like the savior, his followers are sometimes confronted by sinful
behavior,” he said during his remarks. “And today, when they hold out for right
and wrong as they understand it, they are sometimes called bigots and
fanatics.” Oaks specifically mentioned same-sex marriage. “Prominent among these today is
the strong tide that is legalizing same-sex marriage in many states, provinces
in the United States and Canada and in many countries around the world,” he
said. Oaks’ message: Mormons should still be against same-sex marriage, but
they might lose the legal battle. “When our positions do not prevail, we should
accept unfavorable results graciously, and practice civility with our
adversaries,” he said.
2017 (KUTV) As the fall general conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints approaches, Tom Christofferson gets ready to celebrate an anniversary. It’s been three years since the 60-year-old Salt Lake City resident was baptized as a member of the church –- his second time around. “I’m a happy gay Mormon,” said Christofferson, brother of Mormon apostle D. Todd Christofferson, in an interview with 2News. “This is where I feel I’m meant to be.” But his journey back to church involved huge sacrifices. In his new book, That We May Be One: A Gay Mormon’s Perspective on Faith & Family, he explains how he gave up the life he'd lived for decades as a gay man and split with his partner of 19 years. "With my other brothers, I was pleased to read a draft manuscript of Tom's book," said Elder D. Todd Christofferson in a statement to 2News. "I love Tom, and I'm pleased to see him tell his personal story as only he can." Tom Christofferson grew up Mormon but in the 1980s came out as gay and asked to be excommunicated. He writes “it was a very hard blow” to his parents but that they -- and his four brothers -- grew to accept his new life. “They were incredible in their ability to love and include and just make sure that I always felt like I had a place,” said Christofferson, “and my partner the same.” Christofferson lived outside the church for decades, eventually settling in Connecticut. In 2007, he started going back to church. “It became really important to me to feel like I was connected to Jesus Christ,” Christofferson said. He said the local ward welcomed him and his partner. But eventually, as things progressed, Christofferson went one way while his partner went another. “It really came to a point where he felt that wasn't the path of happiness for him,” Christofferson said. “It was very hard because he felt that I had chosen the church over him.” In fall 2014, Christofferson was re-baptized. “All of my brothers and their wives were able to be there at the time,” he said. “It was a real celebration, I think, of a journey that had reached a new point.” But Christofferson has taken criticism, with some even saying he's betrayed the LGBT community. “I hope I haven't sold out the gay community,” Christofferson said. “What I'm trying to say is, here's my experience. This is the path that I have felt led to follow and I'm grateful for it.” But his membership in the church hasn’t been completely conflict-free. In November 2015, Mormon leaders announced a new policy that labels members in same-sex marriages as apostates. It also forbids their children from receiving a naming blessing or being baptized until age 18. Christofferson struggled with the policy and spoke about it. His own brother, the apostle, was the public face of it as he defended the change in a video question-and-answer released by the church. Tom Christofferson remembers getting a call at that time from his brother, as recorded in his book. “(Elder Christofferson) then said, ‘If you feel you need to distance yourself from me, I will understand.’ I replied, ‘You have never distanced yourself from me, and I’m sure it hasn’t always been comfortable for you; of course I am not going to back away from you in any way.’” Today, Christofferson said, he still struggles with the policy. “It’s not something that I’ve fully been able to understand or reconcile,” he said, “but I’m willing to keep moving forward in faith that someday I will.” As for his life ahead, Christofferson said he knows it's one he'll likely spend single. But he believes, day by day, he can make it work. “Other people will choose a different way and that's great,” Christofferson said. “I'm happy to support them in what they think is best for their lives as well.” Next Thursday, October 5, Christofferson will take part in a public question-and-answer event at Libby Gardner Hall at the University of Utah. The event will begin at 7:00 p.m.
2017 (KUTV) As the fall general conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints approaches, Tom Christofferson gets ready to celebrate an anniversary. It’s been three years since the 60-year-old Salt Lake City resident was baptized as a member of the church –- his second time around. “I’m a happy gay Mormon,” said Christofferson, brother of Mormon apostle D. Todd Christofferson, in an interview with 2News. “This is where I feel I’m meant to be.” But his journey back to church involved huge sacrifices. In his new book, That We May Be One: A Gay Mormon’s Perspective on Faith & Family, he explains how he gave up the life he'd lived for decades as a gay man and split with his partner of 19 years. "With my other brothers, I was pleased to read a draft manuscript of Tom's book," said Elder D. Todd Christofferson in a statement to 2News. "I love Tom, and I'm pleased to see him tell his personal story as only he can." Tom Christofferson grew up Mormon but in the 1980s came out as gay and asked to be excommunicated. He writes “it was a very hard blow” to his parents but that they -- and his four brothers -- grew to accept his new life. “They were incredible in their ability to love and include and just make sure that I always felt like I had a place,” said Christofferson, “and my partner the same.” Christofferson lived outside the church for decades, eventually settling in Connecticut. In 2007, he started going back to church. “It became really important to me to feel like I was connected to Jesus Christ,” Christofferson said. He said the local ward welcomed him and his partner. But eventually, as things progressed, Christofferson went one way while his partner went another. “It really came to a point where he felt that wasn't the path of happiness for him,” Christofferson said. “It was very hard because he felt that I had chosen the church over him.” In fall 2014, Christofferson was re-baptized. “All of my brothers and their wives were able to be there at the time,” he said. “It was a real celebration, I think, of a journey that had reached a new point.” But Christofferson has taken criticism, with some even saying he's betrayed the LGBT community. “I hope I haven't sold out the gay community,” Christofferson said. “What I'm trying to say is, here's my experience. This is the path that I have felt led to follow and I'm grateful for it.” But his membership in the church hasn’t been completely conflict-free. In November 2015, Mormon leaders announced a new policy that labels members in same-sex marriages as apostates. It also forbids their children from receiving a naming blessing or being baptized until age 18. Christofferson struggled with the policy and spoke about it. His own brother, the apostle, was the public face of it as he defended the change in a video question-and-answer released by the church. Tom Christofferson remembers getting a call at that time from his brother, as recorded in his book. “(Elder Christofferson) then said, ‘If you feel you need to distance yourself from me, I will understand.’ I replied, ‘You have never distanced yourself from me, and I’m sure it hasn’t always been comfortable for you; of course I am not going to back away from you in any way.’” Today, Christofferson said, he still struggles with the policy. “It’s not something that I’ve fully been able to understand or reconcile,” he said, “but I’m willing to keep moving forward in faith that someday I will.” As for his life ahead, Christofferson said he knows it's one he'll likely spend single. But he believes, day by day, he can make it work. “Other people will choose a different way and that's great,” Christofferson said. “I'm happy to support them in what they think is best for their lives as well.” Next Thursday, October 5, Christofferson will take part in a public question-and-answer event at Libby Gardner Hall at the University of Utah. The event will begin at 7:00 p.m.
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