2 April
1887 Joseph Apodach [Apodacca] indicted for a
“Crime Against Nature” plead not guilty. Trial set for April 22nd. Provo Daily
Enquirer
1970 Charles Champlin Film Critic
for LA Times review of Boys In The Band printed in
SLTribune “Its content is historic, in that the joys and sorrows of adult male homosexuals have never to my knowledge been treated so unreservedly and unevasively in a movie aimed for a commercial rather than a cultist market…Crowley’s tale is of an odd squad of queers gathers for a birthday party which becomes a drunken hell night largely because of the arrival of the host’s pal from the straight world. The question is whether the cold college chum is the prince of a fellow he takes himself to be or a latent princess. The answer remains ambiguous but meantime we’ve all had a good look at the anguish behind the mincing gaiety.”
SLTribune “Its content is historic, in that the joys and sorrows of adult male homosexuals have never to my knowledge been treated so unreservedly and unevasively in a movie aimed for a commercial rather than a cultist market…Crowley’s tale is of an odd squad of queers gathers for a birthday party which becomes a drunken hell night largely because of the arrival of the host’s pal from the straight world. The question is whether the cold college chum is the prince of a fellow he takes himself to be or a latent princess. The answer remains ambiguous but meantime we’ve all had a good look at the anguish behind the mincing gaiety.”
1974-Gay photographer Robert Opel
streaked across the stage during the Academy Awards during the announcement of
the award for best picture.
Approximately one billion viewers worldwide were tuned in. Robert Opel (23 October 1939 – 7
July 1979) was a photographer and art gallery owner most famous as the man who
streaked during the 46th Academy Awards in 1974. He sneaked backstage posing as
a journalist (he had worked as a photographer for the well-known LGBT
publication The Advocate, shortly before) and ran naked past David Niven
flashing a peace sign while Niven was introducing Elizabeth Taylor. Unfazed, Niven turned to the
audience and quipped, "Well, ladies and gentlemen, that was almost bound
to happen... But isn't it fascinating to think that probably the only laugh
that man will ever get in his life is by stripping off and showing his
shortcomings?" Later, some evidence arose
suggesting that Opel's appearance was facilitated by the show's producer Jack
Haley, Jr. as a stunt. Robert Metzler, the show's business manager, believed
that the incident had been planned in some way. During the dress rehearsal,
Niven had asked Metzler's wife to borrow a pen so he could write down the famous
ad-lib. Opel apparently had to cut through an expensive seamless background
curtain in order to reach the stage. The episode made Opel something
of a celebrity. Producer Allan Carr even asked him to streak at a party for
Rudolph Nureyev. In March 1978, Opel opened
"Fey-Way Studios," a gallery of gay male art, at 1287 Howard Street
in San Francisco. The gallery helped bring such erotic gay artists as Tom of
Finland and Robert Mapplethorpe to national attention. Opel was murdered on the
night of July 7, 1979, during a robbery of the studio, by Robert E. Kelly and
Maurice Keenan.
1976-The owner of a New Jersey
dinner theater canceled The Boys in the Band when he learned it was about
homosexuality.
1977 J. Richard Clarke, 2nd Counselor in Presiding Bishopric April 1977, "Ministering to Needs through LDS Social Services", Ensign, May 1977, p. 85 [Read a letter from a self-hating Gay man who had a poor relationship with his father.] "It should go without saying that many of these problems would be alleviated if parents would spend more time teaching and rearing their children. Related to the story that I gave at the beginning of my talk is evidence of a clinical researcher who, after studying 850 individual cases, stated: "Homosexuality would not occur where there is a normal, loving father-and-son relationship." Any of our people living in righteousness would normally avoid being involved in these problems."
Spencer Kimball |
1978 Spencer W. Kimball, LDS Church
President April 1978, "Listen to the Prophets, Ensign, May 1978, p. 76
"Once the carnal in man is no longer checked by the restraints of family
life and by real religion, there comes an avalanche of appetites which gathers
momentum that is truly frightening. As one jars loose and begins to roll down
hill, still another breaks loose, whether it is an increase in homosexuality,
corruption, drugs, or abortion. Each began as an appetite that needed to be
checked but which went unchecked. Thus misery achieves a ghastly
monument."
1985 AIDS Utah’s First
AIDS Case of Year Reported A male
intravenous drug user is being treated for AIDS, He was Utah’s first reported AIDS case this year. This brings to 11 the number who suffered from the incurable disease. Ten of the victims are male, and seven of them were homosexual or bisexual. Three of the men were intravenous drug users. The one woman received a blood transfusion out of States. Of the 11 cases six have died. (SL Tribune C1-2)
intravenous drug user is being treated for AIDS, He was Utah’s first reported AIDS case this year. This brings to 11 the number who suffered from the incurable disease. Ten of the victims are male, and seven of them were homosexual or bisexual. Three of the men were intravenous drug users. The one woman received a blood transfusion out of States. Of the 11 cases six have died. (SL Tribune C1-2)
1990 Lesbian and Gay Student Union hosted a BYU linguist
who had U of U students fill out a survey and form regarding Gay terminology
and jargon.
1993- Gay and Lesbian Community
Council of Utah met at the Utah Stonewall Center with out Shane Jones, police
liaison to the council, His absence being the main topic discussed.
1993- Wasatch Affirmation held
its Gathering of the Lavender Saints during Mormon April General Conference
weekend. A Mission Reunion for all Sisters and Elders was held at Aardvark’s
Cabernet with a dance afterwards. Richard Morris acting as DJ.
1995 Wasatch Affirmation
sponsored a Sunday fireside at the Stonewall Center. Guest speakers will be Ron
and Adonna Schow, who assisted with editing of the 1991 book Peculiar People.
Todd Koolmo |
Jim Dabakis |
1999 The Wasatch Chapter
of Affirmation held 7th Gay and Lesbian Missionary Reunion held at the
Metropolitan Community Church, 823 South 600 East in Salt Lake City. Guest
speaker was Jim Dubakis ."Dabakis came to Utah from Massachusetts to go to
college in 1971. Coming here was a
necessity as there are no good institutions of higher learning in
Massachusetts, at least that's the reason Jim gives." He is a return missionary
and was active in Affirmation in it's beginnings years. Dabakis was involved in
radio and television from 1976 to 1989, and he has worked for all three major
network television stations in Salt Lake as well as numerous talk radio
stations. Dabakis was awarded a
Columbia-Dupont award (the highest award given in broadcast journalism) as well
as an Emmy for his efforts. He has been
a guest on several national television shows including NBC's Today Show, CNN's
Crossfire and The Phil Donahue Show. In 1989 he quit and moved to Eastern
Europe. In the 1990s Dabakis has become
an international art dealer. In the past
two years he has been a driving force in fund raising and getting the Gay &
Lesbian Community Center of Utah built and running. Entertainment will include
a short play written for the reunion and is entitled "Cruising
Lingo," performed by The Provo Company.
The play makes references to the BYU film Johnny Lingo, and promises to
be a lot of fun - not profound. Conference Sunday Fireside
2003 Kathy Worthington wrote to
Ben Williams, “Thanks for the article, I was finally able to read the one you
sent me. Unfortunately it doesn't tell what I thought it did; how to resign
from the church. I know that issue was
covered by the news media at the time, maybe it was a day or two later, after
the QN (Queer Nation) people 'visited' the church office building. Guess I'll have to ask around. Or maybe the
church just told them how to resign, but it never made the news. I know that I wrote about it in the WCN
(Women Community News).
2004 Wade A. DeForest (Empress 25
Felicia of the Royal Court of the Golden Spike Empire) and former President of
the RCGSE Board of Directors, died of lymphoma cancer Felicia Empress 25's
passing utstonewallh... Dear Fellow
Courtiers & Community Supporters--As most of you are aware, Empress 25 and
former President of the Board of Directors, Felicia, has been battling lymphoma
cancer since September `03. It was originally anticipated that remaining
chemotherapy treatments would remove the cancer from her body by the end of
February `04. After a recent relapse, the lymphoma cancer moved into her bone marrow with results far too severe
to continue with additional treatments. At 6:30am, in the company of her loving
family and the comforts of her home here in Salt Lake City, Felicia passed
away. Please keep her family in your thoughts and prayers. There will be
services held in Salt Lake City. We will keep you posted as more information is
available. In addition, a memoriam will be held at the Salt Lake City
Coronation on Sunday, May 30. Please send any correspondence to our Court
mailing address: RCGSE – Salt Lake c/o Felicia P.O. Box 11793 SLC, UT 84147 In
Service... Mark Thrash Emperor 28
• 2004
Wade A. DeForest Wade A.DeForest 1970 ~ 2004 Wade Adam DeForest, 33, of Salt
Lake City, passed away April 2, 2004, after a courageous battle with cancer.
Funeral
services are pending. Funeral Directors, Neil O'Donnell and Sons.
Published in the Salt Lake Tribune on 4/4/2004. Services for Empress 25 Felicia
(Wade Deforest) have been scheduled: Saturday, April 10, 2:30 pm Neil O'Donnell
& Sons 372 East 100 South Salt Lake City, UT 84111 Wade Adam DeForest 1970
~ 2004 Wade Adam DeForest, 33, passed away on April 2, 2004, at his home in
Salt Lake after a six-month courageous battle with cancer. Wade was born on
July 2, 1970 in Honolulu, HI to Paulette Fee (step-father Dennis) and Clyde
DeForest (step-mother Trina). He graduated from Snake River High School and
attended Rick's College in Idaho. He was a talented artist and won awards and
scholarships for his work. He was active in the speech and debate clubs in
school, and won many awards. He worked at Gem Insurance, O.C. Tanner and Utah
Food Services as a Banquet Planner in Salt Lake City. He was an active member
of the Royal Court of the Golden Spike Empire, and was well known in the
community for his volunteer work. Wade had an incredible zest for life, and his
very being radiated the ALOHA spirit. Making friends came easy for Wade, and he
had many. He was loved and will be missed by all who knew him. He is survived
by his parents, brother Bryce DeForest, sister-in-law Sarah Jo, and nephew
Kawika Jo. The family wishes to thank the nurses and doctors on the 5th Floor
at the U of U Hospital for all the love and care they gave to Wade. Funeral
services will be at 2:30 p.m., Saturday, April 10th at the Neil O'Donnell &
Son's Mortuary in Salt Lake, and his ashes will be placed in the Pacific Ocean
at Honaunau-Kona, HI on his birthday. Published in the Salt Lake Tribune on
4/7/2004. TRIBUTES:
Wade DeForest |
• I
have not seen Wade in many years. Despite that, I will never forget what a
PLEASURE it was to work with him at Holiday Inn. He made a not so great place
to work at GREAT. Probably one of the funniest people I had ever met. I did not
know he was sick... Sorry we did not stay in touch. I am very sad to hear of
his passing. Lisa (Salt Lake City, UT ) April 4, 2004
• How
much more fun and glamorous Heaven will be now that you are there. Til we meet
Again Ben Williams (SLC) April 4, 2004
• Heaven
will be brighter, more glorious and everyone will have a personal shopper!
We'll all miss Wade! Mare Mare Shepherd (SLC, UT ) April 5, 2004
• My
heart goes out to Wade's family & friends. He will definitely be missed. He
was one of a kind. Chris Nelson (Bountiful, UT ) April 5, 2004
• When
Wade walked into a room the energy of that room changed. He always had a way of
making anybody feel good about themselves. He was and always will be held in
high regards by everybody who's life he has touched. I will miss him deeply
cary hasler (west valley, UT ) April 7, 2004
• Wade
- You were always the one that made me laugh! What a wonderful spirit. I am
truly sadden by this news, but grateful for knowing you. Luv-Meghann Meghann
Griggs (Salt Lake City, UT ) April 7, 2004
• What
a classy act... Oz will never be the same without you, but we all know that you
are Somewhere Over The Rainbow drinking a cocktail for us! Thanks for doing
your best to make Glinda pretty...tough job. I will miss your devilish smile
and wonderful wit. Glad you are at peace. You will be greatly missed by all.
All my best to your family. Tell my Brother hello... Michael (SLC, UT ) April
7, 2004
• Wade
taught me the true meaning of friendship. He forced me to meet people and
always made sure I was included in whatever group he was with. Wade had a way
of putting people at ease and he always made them feel included and special.
Wade will always be one of my best and dearest friends. Rhett Larsen (West
Jordan, UT ) April 7, 2004
• Wade!
You always brightened my day when I saw you, and everytime you walked into a
room with your wonderful smile it was very contagious, you made us all smile. I
Love you!!!! Michelle Vreeken (SLC, UT ) April 7, 2004
• What
an incredible life experience it is to have you a part of my life forever. Your
joyous energy is still an inspiration to me. It's rare when someone not only
touches our hearts but our souls as well. Until we meet again my dear friend.
Hello. Jeff Freedman XVII (Pittsburgh, PA ) April 7, 2004
• Our
thoughts and prayers are with his family at this time. Wade was such a dynamic
individual; fun, vivacious and loved life to its fullest. As we are all
saddened by his passing I am sure he is enjoying the company of his loved ones
and enjoying that reunion. With our deepest sympathies Micheal and Aaron Aaron
Lewis (SLC, UT ) April 7, 2004
• Wade!
you always brightened my day when I saw you and always put a smile on my face
when you walked into a room. You are going to be missed very much. LOVE YOU!!!!
Michelle Vreeken (SLC, UT ) April 7, 2004
• To
Wade's family, Please know that he was universally loved, and truly an
inspiration to all. Witty, caring, and sincere. We will always feel his
absence. To the rest, Be ready for when we catch up with him; can you imagine
the reunion show? Mike and Alfredo (Salt Lake City, UT ) April 7, 2004
• Thanks
for all you did for the community and everyone. You will be missed by all.
HUNTER DOWN (SLC, UT ) April 7, 2004
•
I worked very closely with Wade when he was a Human Resource Assistant at O.C.
Tanner Co.. What a character he was! I am very sorry for your loss. Sandy
Vaseleou (Sandy, UT ) April 7, 2004
• Wade
was always a bright light on an otherwise dreary day at O. C. Tanner. My heart
goes out to his family and MANY close friends. Penny Penny Armitage (West
Jordan) April 7, 2004
• I
have such fond memories of working with Wade while I was at the Utah Symphony -
he was always a favorite! He was a true professional, and at the same time full
of fun and wit. I will never forget his rendition of Betsy Ross at the Symphony
Holiday Party in 2001, the wig, the dress and the facial hair were remarkable.
I still laugh hysterically at that Yankee Doodle evening! I will miss Wade and
his beautiful smile. My best to his family and his Utah Foods family. Laurel
Ingham (Salt Lake City, UT ) April 7, 2004
• I
miss you so much, Wade! You inspired me and you were such a funny and warm
person. I thank God you've gone home and are no longer suffering! Till we meet
again. I love you! Doug Tollstrup (Salt Lake City, UT ) April 7, 2004
• Even
though, I had meet Wade once and been around the court, he was a character with
a great attitude. I wish the best to his family. Crystlll Blue-Ashton Benoit
Stilleto DeVine Vain (Pocatello, ID ) April 7, 2004
• Wade!
God must of needed a new sun ray. You are a ray of sunshine over the Pacific
Ocean know shining like you always did. The short time I knew you, you had such
an impact. Your BRIGHT smile and enthusiasm was contagious. Tami Gallagher :0)
O.C. Tanner Company Tami Gallagher (Salt Lake City, UT ) April 7, 2004
• Wade,
you're only a breath away, but I know you're now closer to all of us. This
world grew a bit darker, but the stars are sparkling more than ever! Thanks for
the laughter and love. Till our paths cross again... Chad Keller (Salt Lake
City) April 7, 2004
• Wade
brought humor and fun into everything he did at Tanner. The loss to us is
immeasurable, as is our gain in having known him for a short while. Holly
Fisher (Salt Lake City, UT ) April 7, 2004
• I
will never forget you my Friend (I don't think you would let me anyway) I am
sure there is a stage in heaven and you are showing them all how it's done
(snap). What a great life you had a what a great friend you were. Love, Miss
Geri Geri Cordova (Salt Lake City, UT ) April 7, 2004
• fillie
thank you for all of your encouragement, and for teaching me to ignore the
drama, you truely touched my heart and taught me a lot i will miss you! to his
mother thank you for giving us such an amazing person to have in our lives. i
will never forget you!! MacKenzie (ogden, UT ) April 9, 2004
• My
thoughts and prayers go out to friends and loved ones that were so close to
him. May his journey continue upwards and that his love & memory remain
here on earth. Brenda Harris (Stockton, CA ) April 8, 2004
• Wade,
you were truly a person who loved life and lived it loud, where ever you went
there was sure to be laughter, we will miss your smile...Love Brat and Danny
Ricky (Brat) Montoya & Danny Entler (Salt Lake City, UT ) April 8, 2004
• My
Friend. You have and will forever be in my heart. I am very thank-ful that you
came into my life.Fly free Watch over us and know you will truly be missed.
Your lil nut.... Rainier XXVI SHELLEY Shelley Denton (Seattle, WA ) April 8,
2004
• Our
most heartfelt sympathy at this time. May God be with you and comfort you as he
is Wade now. You will be in our prayers. Sometimes the end is really a new
beginning. In Love, UGRA Board 2004 Utah Gay Rodeo Association (Salt Lake City,
UT ) April 8, 2004
• Wade,
You were one of the funniest people that I ever knew. You had such a bright,
fun filled spirit. You you be greatly missed. I'm happy that you are now in a
place of peace, with no more pain. God Bless Darren Hanks (Salt Lake City, UT )
April 8, 2004
• People
such as yourself will ensure that one day everybody will be recognized for
their life's legacy, not oppressed for their differences. Thank You and sweet
dreams while you rest. J Wilkes (Salt Lake City, UT) April 8, 2004
• Wade,
darling. The world was brighter with you in it. The memory of you will live on
in the many lives you have touched. Thank you for being a bright spot in my
experience. David Ferguson (SLC, UT ) April 8, 2004
• Empress!
You were the heart... and the mind that lit the Golden Spike Empire! Your
intelligence, Witt, charity, kindness... and
happiness touched us all! Blessed are the Hawaiian Islands for having
gifted us with you for a wondrous season! Empress LEILA LEILA VINDEL
(WASHINGTON DC, VA ) April 8, 2004
• Wade,
You were a man of great integrity. I will always remember you for the person
you were, committed, focused, non-judgmental, and fun. I loved being able to be
among those who got to know you, you were truly a gift in life. Bruce Butler
Emperor 23 & 26, Eugene Bruce Butler (Everett, WA ) April 8, 2004
• Wade,
you will be truly missed by all those who you touched and inspired through your
leadership, kindness, and love you showed to others. Mark Swonson (Salt Lake
City) April 8, 2004
• To
the funniest entertainer, and one of the warmest people I know...thank you for
always being open and accepting. I will always feel comfort in knowing that you
have been a part of my life, and that you will continue to glow in our hearts.
Miss MeMe Jenkins (Seattle, WA ) April 8, 2004
• Hey
Baby, Get the stage ready for us. And order me a Drink. You will be missed by
many. With much love,Paris Paris (Salt Lake City, VA ) April 8, 2004
• You
will truly be missed... your smile & gentle nature made us feel very much
at home. You were an inspiration to many and will always continue to do so as
you watch & guide all of us... With love & prayers, MATT & ALEKSA
(SEATTLE, WA ) April 8, 2004
• Dearest
Fillie, You are the person I will always remember as having that larger than
life smile in every situation. I will miss those larger then life purses, your
smile, your laughter and the devotion you had to everyone you met. Thank you so
much for your hug last year and reminding me that it's ok to smile. "It's
all good gurl" he said once then smiled, turned on his heel and waved
across the room. There was a rainbow today, it was definately you....storm
clouds all around and you were showing off again. I love you. Makayla Barrandey
PRXXII (Salt Lake City, UT ) April 8, 2004
•
We will miss the laughs, the smiles and the jokes. What a wonderful person. We
have an angel watching over us Love Jazmine and Robert E&E 29 of Denver
Jazmine James Robert Flores (Denver, CO ) April 7, 2004
• WADE
YOU WILL BE IN EVERYBODYS HEARTS YOU GOING TO BE MISSED.TO HIS FAMILY I WILL
PRAY FOR ALL OF YOU. NEFI DARELLI(MURRAY,UTAH) April 7, 2004
• Wade
will always be remembered in my heart and prayers, I had the pleasure of being
able to spend time in his company and share many laughs. I will always remember
him smiling and laughing, and sharing a kind word . Celine Martin (Madera, CA )
April 7, 2004
• You
are missed by all my dear friend. I am blessed to have known you and will never
forget you. Mahalo for your smile and your wit and your contagious zest for
life. You made me laugh, smile, think, and you made me act to make this
community a better one. Thank you for adding so much fun and meaning to my
life. I'm gonna miss you. Gary Holstein (Salt Lake City, UT ) April 7, 2004
• My
heart goes out to Wades Family and Friends. I worked with Wade at O.C. Tanner
for a short time. However, during this time I worked with Wade, I have some
great memories. He was always so full of life, laughter and smiles. Wade will
truly be missed and never forgotten. Laura Gallegos (Salt Lake City, UT ) April
7, 2004
• Someone
in Texas loves you. We will miss you surely. Good bye my "Pacific Islander
Friend" From your "Chicana Baby". John John Green (Dallas, TX )
April 7, 2004
• Wade,
The world has lost a beautiful, vibrant, entertaining, flashy, sexy,
courageous, caring, funny, loving, spirit. I selfishly wish you were still
here, however I know it was time to spread your wings. Thanks for being my
friend! I'm a better person for having known you! Love you , as you liked to
call me Sherry,Shauna, or whatever... Sheryl Thornblad (Salt Lake, UT ) April
7, 2004
• My
dearest Wade, It only seemed like yesterday I truly got to know you as a
person. You don't know how much you meant to Mackie and I and we will never
forget you. Now we truly do have an Angel looking over us. To the DeForest
Family, Wade was a very special person in so many people's lives. He touched so
many people with his love for life, his smile and his laughter. He had a way to
make every person he met feel so special. Whenever you needed his advice, Wade
would be there for you. I truly hope the DeForest family knows how much Wade
was loved by all and will be truly missed by all. Until we meet again my
friend, MAHALO. Tim Hile (Colorado Springs, CO ) April 9, 2004
• To
Wade's family....you raised a wonderful son. For the short time he was on this
earth he made such a lasting impression on those who knew him. You should be
very proud. Felicia...you always made us smile. Your outrageous sense of humor
always made the room happy. You will be one of the brightest stars in the
heavens. Love Always,.....Kim & Karen Keesler Kim & Karen Keesler (Roy,
UT ) April 9, 2004
• An
angel from earth is now watching us from the heavens. "Mahalo". To
Wade's mother, thank you for raising a loving and caring son. Chuck Whyte (Salt
Lake City, UT ) April 9, 2004
• What
the world is now lacking- Heaven is welcoming. Wade, you made my stay in SLC
the best I could ever wish for. You always had a smiling face, a cheerful
attitude....and you were a performer that could never be topped. I will miss
you and can't wait to see you again. Save me a seat down front, I may be a
little late. Love ya, man! Cody Cosby (Blanding, UT ) April 10, 2004
• Best
wishes and condolences from Taylor Maid - Empress 26 of Boise, Idhao Ron
Peterson (Boise, ID ) April 9, 2004
• It
is not often in life that we meet extraordinary people who change our lives and
help us strive to become more than we ever hope to be. Wade was one of those
remarkable people. As I look back on my life I can honestly say that my life
has been richer with wade in it. Wade, thank you for the long talks, letting me
cry on your shoulder, letting me yell at you when the world tried to push me
down and then picking me up, dusting me off and sending me back in for another
round. Thank you most of all for just letting me be me and for sharing your
friendship with me. I miss you! Chaise Manhattan (Boise, ID ) April 9, 2004
• I
am deeply saddened to hear of this trememdous loss. I worked with Wade for a
short time in Human Resources at O.C. Tanner. Wade made my day more pleasurable
with him in it. I will miss your vibrant young colorful spirit. Felicia you go
girl! Keep doing what you do best, making people smile! Mary Moroyoqui-Harris
(Salt Lake City, UT ) April 13, 2004
• It
is not often that we meet people who are so remarkable that they impact our
lives so much that they want us to strive to our best. Wade was one such
person. Thank you Wade for always helping me strive to do better, accepting me
for I am, and most of all for being such a wonderful friend and confidant. I
will miss you dearly. Chaise Chris Smith (Boise, ID )April 12, 2004
• I
am saddened to hear of this tremendous loss. Thoughts of Wade bring a smile to
my face. He was such a delight to be around. He could always make me laugh. He
also worked very hard to give back to our community. I will miss him so much. I
love you honey! Jackie- Jackie Biskupski (Salt Lake City, UT )April 12, 2004
• I
am very sad to hear of Felicia's passing. She is at peace now. Her smile and
laugh will be remembered forever. Laura O'Rourke (Lincoln, CA )April 11, 2004
Aloha to all of Wade's Friends: Thank you for sharing your feelings and
experiences with my son Wade Adam. I am overwhelmed with your messages. I am so
happy each of you had an opportunity to know him. Wade was a special person,
full of life and aloha to all he met. I was honored to meet many of you at
Wade's funeral services, and I appreciate all the comments made during and
after the services. I want to thank you all for the cards and flowers we
received. I returned to Idaho Falls Sunday, and put the urn containing Wade's
ashes on the dining room table. Then I surrounded the urn with all the
beautiful floral arrangements we received. On or about July 2 (Wade's
birthday), friends and family members will take the urn in one of two canoes
and paddle out to sea where Wade's ashes will be released. After the canoes
return to shore, we will have a traditional Hawaiian Luau with Kalua-Pig,
Chicken Long Rice, Lomi Salmon, Poke (raw tuna), haupia (coconut pudding), poi,
fried or barbequed fish, salad, drinks and dessert. We welcome all of Wade's
friends to Hawaii, and will help to make your trip enjoyable. Please let me
know if you will be able to attend and if I can help in any way. My email
address is noted below. Mahalo (thank you) and God be with you all. All my
love, Wade's mother Paula Fee and Family Paula Fee (Idaho Falls, ID) April 15,
2004 feep@ida.net
2005 Affirmation: Gay and Lesbian Mormons and Reconciliation held their annual Fireside and Mission Reunion at the Metropolitan Community Church, 823 South 600 East. The Fireside featured writer Loren Jenner author of Spirited Yearling Wounded is a true story about a Mormon woman in the Mountain West who tries to take her life when she realizes that she’s attracted to other women.
2005 All, Come help tthe Utah
Bears celebrate the 1 year Anniversary of Club 161, Our Home Bar. Club 161 will be paying special thanks to the
UBA and the Wasatch Leatherman's Association for our support of the Bar. It is going to be a great time for all.
2005 Salt Lake Community College presents The Kinsey Sicks, America’s
Favorite Dragapella Beautyshop Quartet!
A feast of music and comedy which combines award winning a cappella
singing, sharp satire and over-the-top drag.
KINSEY SICKS BENEFIT PERFORMANCE On Saturday, April 2nd at the Grand
Theater, Salt Lake Community College presents The Kinsey Sicks, America’s
Favorite Dragapella Beautyshop Quartet as part of the school-wide
Multi-Cultural & Diversity Programming initiative. For over a decade, The
Kinsey Sicks have served up a feast of music and comedy to audiences across the
United States. Combining award winning a
cappella singing, sharp satire and over-the-top drag, The Kinsey Sicks have
headlined at fine arts venues, colleges, national fundraisers and corporate
events. The one-night-only Salt Lake Community College show begins at 8:00 p.m.
at the Grand Theatre, South City Campus, 1575 South State Street. Tickets are free for SLCC students with
current school ID, $5 for other students with current school ID and $10 for all
other tickets until March 30th. After
March 30th all tickets will be $10.
Tickets can be purchased at the Grand Theater (957.3322). For more information about this event contact
Gordon Storrs at 957.4562. Any proceeds of the show will be donated to the Utah
AIDS Foundation and The Gay & Lesbian Community Center of Utah
2006 Sunday After Conference Sunday Fireside &
Mission Reunion Affirmation: Gay and
Lesbian Mormons and Reconciliation announce their annual Fireside and Mission Reunion. The event will take place
April 2, 2005, and will be held in Salt Lake City at the Metropolitan Community
Church, 823 South 600 East. It will
start at 5:00 with a potluck followed by a Fireside that will feature writer Loren Jenner. Please bring a
favorite casserole, salad or desert
for the potluck. Drinks provided by the chapter Our guest
speaker has two books currently in print. Spirited Yearling Wounded is a true
story about a Mormon woman in the Mountain West who tries to take her life when
she realizes that she’s attracted to other women. Spirited comes face to face
with questions like, do I live my life according to church doctrine and repress
my sexuality to become a Goddess in the afterlife? Do I honor my essence and
express my sexual orientation with integrity only to be among murderers and
adulterers when I die? Can I be rehabilitated, or does the quest for
rehabilitation encourage the repression of my spirit? Is it more important who
I love, what I am or how I love? Spirited Yearling Wounded brings hope to the
suffering soul and clarity to those who seek understanding about their loved
one's sexual orientation. Meet Angel Warrior, a brave, young spiritual warrior
who sails from her homeland in search of wholeness. She shipwrecks on a
mysterious land, bonds with the Dancing Mist of her dreams, fords through
treacherous streams and journeys to the core of her soul. Warrior in The Mist
depicts a young spiritual warrior who goes on a quest to battle her own internalized homophobia.
Angel Warrior struggles with the internalized belief that she is not worthy of
life and love because she is a
woman-loving-woman. The hero myth illustrates in a Kahlil Gibran-ish,
prose poetic voice what some people feel
at one time or another during their self-reflective
journeys. Loren coordinates the seasons, times of day and healing process all at once in a mythological
prose, capturing the cyclical nature of
life and death. Not only can it help one who struggles with internalized homophobia, but also anyone who
cannot face or accept a part of
themselves. Please join us for and evening of celebration and
sharing. More about Loren can be found at her website
_http://www.lorenjenner.com/_ (http://www.lorenjenner.com/) Wasatch Affirmation
is the Utah chapter of Affirmation, a non-profit fellowship serving Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual,
Transgendered and Intersexed Latter-day
Saints since 1977. The Wasatch Chapter aims to provide a safe, inclusive space
for GLBTI people from Mormon backgrounds
who live along the Wasatch Front. We
affirm that live as a GLBTI person can
be positive and is not incompatible with
spirituality. At the same time,
we are a diverse group who embrace a
variety of lifestyles and hold a variety of attitudes towards
spirituality, religion, morality and
politics. We are united chiefly by our desire to interact with others who share
our dual background -- Mormon and GLBTI -- and who therefore share the
unique struggle and blessings which that
duality engenders. For more information, visit Affirmation on-line at _www.affirmation.org_
(http://www.affirmation.org)
Fran Pruyn |
2020
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