Tuesday, April 22, 2014

This Day In Gay Utah History April 22nd

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1903 Steve Hubble was tried in District Court yesterday on the charge of a “Crime Against Nature” committed in this city on February 11 last. This was District Attorney Halvorsen’s first case. The jury brought in a verdict of guilty of assault and sentence to be passed next Friday Deseret News

Jean Sinclair 
1963 Tuesday-Woman Balks at Point in Sinclair Testimony- by Don Beck [Deseret News A-9] Despite a warning from the judge that she would beheld in contempt of court if she refused to answer LaRae Peterson, a state witness, refused to testify regarding relationships between her and Jean Sinclair. Miss Sinclair is on trail in Third District Court in connection with the Jan 5 ambush shotgun slaying  of Donald Leroy Foster, 31, 650 North 2nd West. Mrs. Peterson, a divorcee, who was engaged to the victim, resumed the stand Monday as the murder trail moved into the 6th day after a weekend recess. Hearing Arguments- Whe the court recessed Friday it was listening to arguments by Mrs. Peterson’s attorney and defense attorney Sumner J. Hatch regarding Mrs. Peterson’s refusal to answer direct questions put to her by District Attorney, Jay E. Banks.  When the witness took the stand Monday, Mr. Banks resumed his “bombshell” line of questioning. “have you had any homosexual acts with Jean or she with you?”, Mr. Banks asked. Mrs. Peterson looked towards her attorney Jim Mitsunaga and then refused to answer on the grounds that it would incriminate or discredit her. Instructs Witness- Judge Marcellus K Snow informed the witness that she must answer. Attorneys for both the witness and the defense asked that objections to the order be read into the trial court records. Judge Snow then turned to Mrs Peterson and warned her that if she refused to answer she could be held in contempt of court. After hesitating a few moments, Mrs. Peterson said, “I refuse to answer.”  At this point Mr. Banks continued examining the witness. Before the state stopped questioning Mrs. Peterson at 11:30 a.m., she recounted to the jury the events that occurred the night her fiancée was shot with a shotgun and killed. Went to Movie- She said she, her 9 year old daughter, and the victim had eaten dinner together down town and then went to a show. After the show Mrs. Peterson said she dropped her daughter off at a friend’s before going to  Foster’s apartment at 650 North 3rd West, scene of the shooting. Recounting the moments just before the shooting, Mrs. Peterson told the all male jury that Foster pulled his car into the stall adjacent to a chain link fence.  Earlier he had taken his over coat off and placed it in the back seat, Mrs, Peterson said.  Heard Loud Noise- “I saw him step out of the car, turn down the seat, and reach back for his coat. As he turned his head, I heard a loud noise. At first I thought it was a firecracker,” the witness said. “The noise was accompanied by a flash of light, but I still sat and waited for Don to come around and open the door for me.”  “Then I heard his body slide down the chain link fence. I got out of the car and ran around the front of the auto and saw Don lying on the ground. Blood was pouring out of his jugular vein and I started screaming for help.” “Did you see who fired the gun?” Mr. Banks asked. “No the first person I saw was someone I didn’t know who ran to help me.” Earlier the state introduced into evidence a letter that Mrs. Peterson said she had received from Jean.

1964- Referring to arresting police as “gigolos” city Judge Horace C. Beck, Tuesday dismissed a prostitution charge against a Salt Lake woman on the grounds of police entrapment. Judge Beck granted a motion by defense counsel Summer J. Hatch noting “The crime wouldn’t have happened but for the inducement of the Salt Lake Police Department. The woman was arrested November 15, 1963. Citing the city ordinance (32-1-47) under which the woman was charged, Judge Beck said that under the law the participating officers should be arrested and charged under Sec 2 of the same ordinance. Section 2 states “It shall be unlawful for any person to secure or offer another for the purpose….”  Officers testified they phoned the woman five times, rented a motel room twice, and embellished the room with whiskey bottles. Judge Beck said “Immobilizing five healthy policemen up to 3 days for 1 girl was entrapment of the worse sort.” (04/22/64 page B10 col. 1 SLTribune)

Anne Perry and Pauline Parker
1968- Juliet Hulme also known as Anne Perry, author of murder mysteries, was baptized in California despite her confession to LDS authorities that she had been convicted and imprisoned at the age of 15 years for helping to murder her Lesbian girlfriend’s mother who had been trying to separate the girls. Court documents, her girlfriend’s diary, and the 1994 film Heavenly Creatures described the homoerotic friendship that led to the bludgeoning murder of the mother for trying to separate the girls. Active in LDS women’s organizations, Juliet Hulme became internationally famous as Anne Perry, author of murder mysteries. In 1995 she told a reporter for the Village Voice that she could “love” a woman, but never be “in love” with one.  In June 1954, at the age of 15, Hulme and her best friend Pauline Parker murdered Parker's mother, Honorah Rieper while living in New Zealand. Hulme's parents were in the process of separating and she was supposed to go to South Africa to stay with a relative. On 22 June 1954, the girls and Honora Rieper went for a walk in Victoria Park in their hometown of Christchurch. On an isolated path Hulme dropped an ornamental stone so that Rieper would lean over to retrieve it. Parker had planned to hit her mother with half a brick wrapped in a stocking. The girls presumed that one blow would kill her but it took more than 20. Parker and Hulme stood trial in Christchurch in 1954 and were found guilty on 29 August that year. As they were too young to be considered for the death penalty under New Zealand law at the time, they were convicted and sentenced to be "detained at Her Majesty's pleasure". In practice they were detained at the discretion of the Minister of Justice. They were released separately five years later. Parker and Hulme are not believed to have had any contact since the trial.

Aquatic Park 
1969-In Berkeley, California a police officer fatally shot a 33 year old Gay man, Frank V Bartley, to death in Aquatic Park. Bartley, was shot in the back of the head by Plainclothes Officer Kline of the Berkeley Police Department, who had been posing as a homosexual to entrap men in a Berkeley park. Kline sated Bartley had resisted arrest  and "reached for his groin." The death was ruled accidental. Gay organizations in the California attempted to call attention to the unusually high number of Gay men accidentally shot or beaten to death by police.



David S Monson
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Friday- Metropolitan Community Church of Salt Lake held its dance originally scheduled to be held at  the State Capitol Rotunda at the Unitarian Church at 569 South 1300 East SLC Utah after Lt Governor David S Monson reneged on permission to hold the dance at the capitol.

1981 Terry Allen Vogelsany, 37, has been arranged in 5th circuit court on 4 counts of sex offenses stemming from separate attacks on 4 young boys he allegedly lured into his apartment last January. A parolee from federal penitentiary completing a sentence for sexual offenses. (SLTribune B-4)

1984-The Royal Court of the Golden Spike Empires 5th Annual Golden Spikes Award held at BackStreet. John Meng was given Humanitarian Award for his efforts in starting and maintaining the Gay Help Line. Joe Redburn received the 1st Community Service Award.

1988 JUVENILES ROB MAN, LEAVE HIM IN TRUNK  A Holladay man who picked up two teenage boys near Liberty Park was robbed at knifepoint and then stuffed into the trunk of his car, which the youths drove around and abandoned. The man, 27, parked his car in the Liberty Park area about midnight Monday and was walking around when he met two juveniles, who asked him to drive them above the Capitol "to see the lights of the city," according to a Salt Lake police report. When they arrived in the area of 1500 N. Terrace Hills Drive, one of the teens pulled a knife and placed it against the victim's throat, demanding his wallet, which was in the car and contained about $180. The bandits took the wallet, placed the victim in the trunk and then drove off in the car, abandoning it near 1000 S. Third East with the engine running. Using a crowbar, the victim freed himself and called police, the report said.

1988 There's new hope for homeless Utahns with acquired immune deficiency syndrome. The state's first residence for people with AIDS has opened. Shalom Apartments, operated under the auspices of St. Joseph Villa, accepted its first tenant this week. There are openings for eight or nine more persons."These are people in remission, who have no place to go," said Sister M. Ambrose Naughton, executive director of the nursing home run by the Houston-based Sisters of Charity of the Incarnate Word. Sister Naughton, who requested that the address of the apartments not be disclosed, said the residents must have been diagnosed with AIDS, or AIDS-related complex. But they must be people able to hold down jobs and take care of their own needs. Each will be charged rent, based on a sliding scale, or 25 percent of their available income. Because Shalom is not a hospice, nursing care will not be provided on a regular basis. If the residents require medical or nursing care, the congregation will assist them in getting it at a local hospital. The official opening and dedication of the apartments April 18 by Bishop William K. Weigand of the Catholic Diocese of Salt Lake City followed more than a year of planning by the congregation, which has been
involved in health care since 1866. "We look on working in health care as being an extension of the healing ministry of Christ," said Sister Ambrose. "Wherever we are, if a health need surfaces, we endeavor to respond. "At this time our congregation has made a corporate commitment to reach out to persons with AIDS." Sister Ambrose said this doesn't mean the congregation is condoning the lifestyles of all AIDS patients, including homosexuals and drug abusers. "We are merely reaching out in compassion, in a non-judgmental way, to people who have an illness." Needless to say, the congregation's dedication to this humanitarian effort didn't have unanimous support. The housing plan spurred heated controversy by area neighbors, cautious of the people with the mysterious and fatal disease. Some worried the apartments will cause their property values to plummet. "There has been some fear, but it has been alleviated with education," Sister Ambrose said. Last year St. Joseph Villa administrators held a neighborhood hearing to educate residents about the disease. "Now 90 percent of the people (in the neighborhood) are very supportive of our effort." Although the Shalom Apartments are directed by St. Joseph Villa, Sister Ambrose said an advisory board oversees the housing project. Members of the board
John Gatzemeier
include representatives of St. Joseph Villa, St. Ann's Parish, Catholic Community Services, the Episcopal Diocese of Utah, Holy Cross Hospital, Community Nursing Association, the Roman Catholic Diocese of Salt Lake and AIDS Project Utah, a community-based organization that provides support services to all people affected by the disease. Kayne Pyatt, executive director of AIDS Project Utah, hailed the project. "I think it will be wonderful to have another resource to refer our clients to, especially those without family support." People with AIDS seeing information about the Shalom Apartments can call John Gatzemeier, apartment manager.

1990- RCGSE The Golden Spike Humanitarian Award was given to Stacy Radley by the Royal Court of the Golden Spike Empire of Utah

1994 Page: D1 THEATER DIRECTOR, DESIGNER ARIEL BALLIF DIES AT 67 NOTED
SET DESIGNER, DIRECTOR, PRODUCER ARIEL BALLIF DIES Byline: By Lance S. Gudmundsen THE SALT LAKE TRIBUNE   Ariel Ballif, an influential force on the Utah theater scene for more than three decades, died Thursday at his Salt Lake City home. The 67-year-old artist had been in failing health for several months. Ballif was to have accepted the 1994 Madeleine Award for Distinguished Service at a banquet Sunday for his contributions as a designer, director, teacher and producer. Ruth Draper, who heads the sponsoring Madeleine Arts and Humanities Council, said the event will be held as scheduled at the New Yorker Club, 60 W. Market St. (340 South), Salt Lake City. ``The family feels that Ariel would want `the show to go on.' '' Draper added that the banquet is ``a fitting tribute.''  ``We were talking about the award just yesterday,'' said his longtime friend Tom Carlin. ``Ariel was so thrilled and pleased -- and looking forward to Sunday.''  In one of his last interviews, the University of Utah educator, set designer and founder of Theatre 138, said he returned to Utah in 1962 ``because of the mountains and the people, and I have stayed for the same reasons.'' Sets designed by Ballif were marked by their simplicity and his desire to complement – not overshadow -- the performers. Colleagues cited his astounding versatility in crafting all staging elements of a production -- from sets to costumes; from lighting to special effects. Robert S. Olpin, dean of the U. College of Fine Arts, said Thursday that ``as a visual artist, Ariel Ballif had no peer.'' Untold numbers of fine-arts students ``were influenced by the sheer excellence of his magnificent productions and sets.'' Anne Stewart Mark, a regular in Pioneer Theatre Company productions, said Ballif ``went out on a limb to cast me as an ingenue [in a Theatre 138 production], which had a profound influence on my career.'' The professional actress also recalled Ballif's ``terrific sense of humor, plus an amazing amount of energy . . . his silver hair flying as he oversaw all aspects of each production.'' Charles Morey, artistic director of Pioneer Theatre Company, said Ballif enjoyed ``a true national reputation, and chose to return from the East because he believed in the future of theater in Salt Lake City.''  Ballif's ``style and aesthetics very much influenced'' the U.'s entire theater program, Morey added.  A native Idahoan who spent his youth in Utah, Ballif began his professional career on the East Coast. But he was lured back West after Willam Christensen, founder of Ballet West, told him of an opening on the U. faculty.  He was accompanied to Utah by his business partners, Stewart Falconer and Carlin.    In 1966, the trio founded Theatre 138, Utah's first alternative theater which staged hundreds of productions before it closed in the mid-1980s.    Ballif had intended to retire from the U. theater department in June. A 1948 graduate of Brigham Young University, he earned a master's degree in 1952 from Yale University in New Haven, Conn. After a brief stint on the faculty of Brandeis University in Waltham, Mass., he moved to Virginia to become a designer at the Virginia Museum Theatre in Richmond. After meeting Falconer and Carlin, the trio opened a small dinner theater – The Renaissance -- at Bon Air, Va., in 1958. Between 1962-67, Ballif was an assistant professor in the U. theater department. Shortly after co-founding Theatre 138, he returned to New Haven and joined the Yale Drama School faculty. He left the Ivy League school in 1972 to resume collaborations at the small Salt Lake City theater.  After the closing of Theatre 138, which in its halcyon days staged up to 18 shows a year, Ballif rejoined the U. theater department faculty in 1987. His design career encompassed such diverse productions as ``Chicago'' and ``The Desert Song'' at Theatre 138; ``The Nutcracker'' at Ballet West; and most recently ``O Pioneers'' for Pioneer Theatre Company. As a director, he considered Theatre 138's staging of ``Equus'' one of his finest achievements. Ballif also directed and designed for the Utah Opera Company, Ririe-Woodbury Dance Company, Weber State University and the Babcock Theatre at the U.   His one Broadway experience was in the mid-1950s with an English production called, ``A Pin to See the Peep Show.'' Recalling the New York show, Ballif quipped: ``We had a glorious run -- of three previews.''  Ballif was born May 29, 1926, in Rexburg, Idaho, a son of Ariel S. and Artamesia Romney Ballif. Ballif is survived by his father, Provo; two sisters and a brother: Maralyn Lavenstein of Chicago; Bonnie Stanvill of Provo; Jae Ballif, also of Provo, and 19 nieces and nephews.  He was preceded in death by his mother and a sister, Moana Bennett.  Falconer, his companion of four decades, died in 1993.  Graveside services at East Lawn Memorial Hills in Provo are pending.

1996 Anti-Gay legislation is harming U.S. youths already struggling with sexual issues, former U.S. Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders said at a speech in Arizona ``We can't let lawmakers sit on God's judgment seat and make those decisions for us. I haven't met a politician good enough to make that kind of decision for me,'' Elders said Friday in keynoting a conference at Arizona State University on ``affirming sexual diversity.'' Elders said that 4 in 10 adolescents who try to commit suicide are Gay, lesbian or bisexual. Elders was forced to resign in December 1994 after she spoke openly about masturbation 

Kathy Worthington
1996 The Granite School District refused to distribute videos and pamphlets designed to educate faculty and students on the plight of Gay and lesbian teens.  Kathy J. Worthington, 45, mother of two adult daughters who attended Salt Lake City schools, is distributing the pamphlet and video. The video includes a May 1992 segment from ABC's 20-20, a short documentary called "Straight from the Heart," and excerpts from Network Q, a monthly news broadcast for the Gay community.

2003 (Brandie Balken) FIRST ANNUAL DYKE MARCH Dyke marches have been held in large metropolitan areas since at least the early 1990s, usually the Saturday evening before PRIDE day.  Some of those marches are huge, with thousands of women marching together.  A march on April 24th,
Brandi Balkin
1993, in Washington D.C. drew at least 10,000 women, though some accounts said there were as many as 20,000.  Annual dyke marches in San Francisco and New York draw thousands of women.   Now it's time for the very first Salt Lake march.  Won't you join us? Here is the official email invitation:  Attn. all lesbians and lesbian friendly folk: Utah is launching its FIRST ANNUAL DYKE MARCH WHO: Anyone who wants to come, we encourage groups to attend, and bring  banners or signage, children are welcome!WHEN: June 7th, gather at 6:30 p.m., March begins at 7 p.m.WHERE: Memory Grove. Park at the State Capitol and walk down to the GroveHOW: March will begin at Memory Grove, down City Creek to State Street, South on State (beside our beloved temple) to South Temple, East to 200 East, South to 300 South, and on to Washington Square, where the dance will be in full swing. WHY: It's about time, don't you think?

2003 Utah's Response to the AIDS Epidemic 1981-1986 It is a fact that in 1980, AIDS was virtually unknown on the planet and by 1990, it had killed over 200,000 Gay men. Today Health officials give Gay teenagers only a 50/50 chance of not becoming HIV positive by age 60. The total number of AIDS deaths in San Francisco is now greater than the total number of San Francisco men who died in all the wars of the 20th Century. In Utah alone there has been nearly 1000 deaths attributed to AIDS since records were kept in 1983. My research paper deals with a grassroot attempt to stem and treat the AIDS epidemic in Utah virtually without any official local or statewide assistance. It documents the creation of AIDS organizations by the effected populations due to lack of help by public health officials. It deals with how a health issue became waysided by political intolerance to sexual minorities. Sources for research are local newspaper accounts, oral histories, local Gay periodicals, and first hand knowledge. Ben Edgar Williams 1975-B.A. Social Science BYU Major; History, Minor: Political Science 1991-1997Archivist of the former Utah Stonewall Center's Utah Stonewall Archives now located at the Marriott Library U of U 1987-1990 Triangle Magazine's History Columnist 1987-1992 Co-host of Concerning Gays and Lesbians KRCL FM 911987-Co founder of the Gay and Lesbian Historical Society with Rocky O'Donovan 1992-Founder of the Utah Stonewall Historical Society for Gay and Lesbian Studies. 2002-2003 Co-director and Historian for the Utah Stonewall Historical Society. Gay Political and Social Activist and Historian. Personal acquaintance with Ben Barr, Dr. Patty Reagan, David Sharpton, Duane Dawson, Dr. Kristin Ries and other key players in the AIDS epidemic of the 1980's.

2006 Saturday Now, U. knows this guy - and vice versa By Christy Karras The Salt Lake Tribune Salt Lake Tribune When Larry H. Miller took the podium to speak at the University of Utah on Friday, he looked out on a sea of cowboy hats. "I've been debating how to open this conversation," Miller said. "I feel like saying, 'Howdy.' '' About three-quarters of the 150 or so people gathered in the U.'s Union ballroom wore the hats in silent protest of Miller's decision to ban the movie "Brokeback Mountain" from his theaters because of its homosexual themes. But supporters of the gay community listened politely to Miller's speech about his business success and contributions to education, applauding warmly and laughing at Miller's jokes. "We're wearing the hats to show how individuals were hurt when he didn't show 'Brokeback Mountain,' " said Charles Milne, coordinator for the university's Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Campus Resource Center. But "we're going to be here listening to his speech in celebration of his right to speak." Milne said Miller's refusal to show the movie "sends the message that gay people are not valued members of society. And when you're already feeling like you're not a part of the community . . . It really does affect people's self-esteem." Milne was one of about 30 people who met a day earlier with Miller to discuss concerns that prompted some students to protest Miller as organizers' choice for the speech, part of Discover U Days, a weekend event to get the community acquainted with
Larry Miller, Charles Milne & Bonnie Owens
the university. Miller, owner of several car dealerships and the Utah Jazz, spoke about his rise to wealth and his decision to use some of his money to fund scholarships. Before moving into his planned speech, Miller took a few minutes to describe Thursday's meeting. "Something remarkable happened in this building the other day," he said, tears welling in his eyes. "For two hours, we had a remarkably open dialogue, and I learned a lot." Miller said people on all sides of the issue went into the meeting "with one thing in common: fear and trepidation," but the group quickly established a feeling of respect, if not agreement. He heard stories of ostracism by family members and the community because of sexual orientation. "One of the great lessons learned by me, and maybe others in that room, is that we have a lot more in common than we previously thought, and there's a lot better chance of working out differences - and you'll have to read between the lines here - and not repeating the mistakes of the past." After the speech, James Cook, who wore a Western-style shirt and hat, said he took the comment as a sign that Miller had learned from the negative reaction to his "Brokeback" ban. "I think he's really going to think hard the next time he's thinking of not showing a film," Cook said. "To a small degree, Larry H. Miller had an eye-opening experience . . . he'll realize that his decisions do affect other people." In response to a question from the audience after his speech, Miller said he disagreed with Brigham Young University's recent refusal to meet with students who rallied for awareness of suicide in the gay population. "There's not anything to fear from listening," he said. For gay people, though, "the fear is real, and the fear is justified. And that's not right." He said he might encourage BYU to have the same kind of meeting he did with the U. student group. "I have access to those people, so we'll see what happens." Then he paused. "After that comment, I might not have access to them anymore." Some people at the speech didn't wear hats and supported Miller's original decision. Sage Boyer, who, like Miller, is a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, said she admired him for sticking up for his belief that homosexuality is wrong. "If he is going to be a missionary, how can he promote those ideas in his privately-owned theaters?" she said. "He doesn't want them to feel that they're being targeted, but for him not to bend or compromise with the standards he has set, I think it's really neat." Curtis Howard, who wore a cowboy hat and plaid shirt, said Miller probably doesn't know many gay people and didn't realize the impact of his decision. "It's so easy to hate people because of a stereotype, but at the end of the day, you realize everyone is human," he said.


2006 Deseret Morning News, Saturday, April 22, 2006 Miller kicks off 'Discover U Days' Events today include health fair, golf clinic, 'Red & White' football By Deborah Bulkeley Deseret Morning News Instilling an understanding of the foundations of the Constitution and its role in today's society is essential if America is to survive, Utah Jazz owner Larry Miller said Friday at the University of Utah. Protesters wear cowboy hats Larry Miller encouraged attendees to read up on the nation's history and Constitution. Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret Morning News #151; a dig at Larry Miller's pulling of "Brokeback Mountain." Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret Morning News "We cannot just assume the principles this country was founded on are genetic," Miller said. "They have to be taught. That's what the stakes are." Miller spoke at the kickoff event for the university's first "Discover U Days" event, which opened the campus to the community Friday. It continues today with events including soccer and golf clinics, a community health fair and the annual "Red & White" spring football game. Many of those in the audience wore cowboy hats, a silent protest of Miller's decision
earlier this year to pull the movie "Brokeback Mountain," which focuses on a love affair between gay cowboys. Students standing in the back bore banners reading "Welcome Larry Miller, Higher Education = Dialogue"; and "Love the censor, Hate the censorship." Concerned faculty and students had met with Miller Thursday. At the start of his presentation, Miller said, "I thank those who came to that room. . . . It turned out not only to be a dialogue but an exceptional experience." Miller then turned to the story of his achievements and the importance of giving back to the community. He questioned whether the success of someone like himself, with only a high school education, would have been possible in any other nation. "America is not without its flaws," he said. "In spite of its flaws, it beats the heck out of whatever is second best." He encouraged those in attendance to read up on the nation's history, particularly the Constitutional Convention. "As a society we don't do enough to teach our young people," he said. "We need to do that." Miller said two of his goals have been to help educate people and create high-quality jobs. He said 288 students were studying on scholarships established by him and his wife, Gail. Miller said he hates the bumper sticker proclaiming, "He who dies with the most toys wins." "I hate that because there is more to life than toys, in any form," Miller said. "In certain respects I have been given much. I realize that. It has created a hunger or thirst to give back." During a question-and-answer session, Miller was asked if he'd consider establishing scholarships for gays and lesbians and if he'd consider a scholarship for those with cognitive disabilities. On the gay and lesbian scholarship, Miller said, "We already do that," noting at least 12 of the current 288 scholarship recipients are gay or lesbian. "I do not ask if they are gay or lesbian. It is of no consequence to me." He said he hadn't considered a scholarship for those with cognitive disabilities before, but "I think it's a great idea. We certainly don't want to overlook those people." JoNell Evans, wearing a red hat, told Miller, "I applaud you for your courage of listening." Then he was asked how he'd advise Brigham Young University administrators who recently squelched the efforts of gay rights activists who wanted to hold a forum on campus. Miller said he wouldn't pass judgment on the BYU administration, but, if asked, he'd tell them, "I did it (talked about the issues), and it was painless."


2006 Rep. Frank optimistic on future of gay rights By Matt Canham The Salt Lake Tribune Salt Lake Tribune The incremental march of the gay rights movement is gaining allies and picking up speed. So much so, that U.S. Rep. Barney Frank, D-Mass., an openly gay member of Congress, said young activists will live to see the legalization of same-sex marriage and the triumph over homophobia. Frank spread a message of political optimism weighed down by political realities at the Utah Stonewall Democrats fundraiser late Friday, held on the eve of today's Salt Lake County Democratic Convention. "There is no bigger difference between the two political parties today than on LGBT [lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered] issues," he said, noting that not all Democrats are 100 percent behind gay rights. As an example, he mentioned Utah's 2nd Congressional Rep. Jim Matheson, a Democrat who opposes homosexual marriage. "He doesn't represent the district that I represent," Frank told the crowd, which was peppered with local politicians. "I vote differently than Jim, but he is a decent man." Matheson was not present at the speech. Frank urged the Stonewall Democrats to pressure Matheson to change his views all the way until Election Day, then put the issue aside and vote for "the better candidate." Utah's
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Stonewall Democrats have tried in the past. Upset at Matheson's gay marriage position, the Stonewall Democrats turned their back as Matheson spoke at the 2004 state Democratic Convention. Stonewall Democrat Chairman Mike Picardi said he doesn't expect a protest this year, in part because he doesn't want to hinder Matheson's re-election chances. "You can kill yourself being a one-issue party," Picardi said. While still upset at Matheson's stance against gay marriage, Picardi said his group has easy access to the congressman and a good rapport. Frank laced his off-the-cuff speech with wit, which he not only aimed at far-right Republicans, but also his liberal Massachusetts constituents and even himself. Frank publicly acknowledged his sexuality in 1987 at the age of 47. At the time he was a three-term congressman, fairly secure in his seat. But staffers convinced him to conduct a poll to see how his voters responded to his public outing. The poll asked if voters were disappointed that he was gay. "The majority were not disappointed," Frank said. "The majority of men were disappointed that I was gay and the women couldn't care less. By the way, that is not good for your ego." Other questions asked if voters thought being openly gay would hurt him politically and if they would stop voting for him because of his sexuality. Frank said 42 percent thought his open homosexuality would hinder him and 21 percent said they would stop voting for him. "What they were saying was 'I can handle it, but the other guy can't,' " Frank said. Coming out of the closet was difficult but wasn't as painful as he expected. He believes by coming out, gay people not only help themselves, they also spur political change. When people realize they already know and respect a gay person, they are less likely to oppose gay-rights legislation. When gay people make their sexuality public, Frank said: "We tell the average American that they are not homophobic, they just thought they were supposed to be." And talking about your sexuality is not as uncommon as some people believe it is. Frank said heterosexual people constantly out themselves by saying something about their spouse or pointing out someone they feel is attractive. "Heterosexuals also discuss their sexual nature, but when they do it, it's called talking," he said. To further gay rights, Frank said homosexual people must not only come out of the closet, they must become politically active too, encouraging their loved ones to follow suit. "We don't win this alone," he said. "We win this with the people who love us, who support us." Gay marriage has been legal in Massachusetts for the past two years and while receiving incredible attention when ceremonies first started taking place, Frank said same-sex marriage has become a non issue in his home state. "I can't wait for the day when a person asks me if a gay person should be a Republican or a Democrat and I can say it depends on your economic view," he said. mcanham@...

2006 4th Annual “Awakening Utah” Walk for Suicide Prevention & Awareness Sugarhouse
Jennifer Nuttall 
Park April 22th, 2006  Come walk with the GLBT Community Group! Complete form and turn into Jennifer no later than April 11th with your check for $15.00 made out to: Mental Health Association in Utah You will receive your Pride T-shirt at that time.Meet the group at 11:00 am at the Opening Ceremonies you will get: 1- Walk T Shirt, 1 Pride T-Shirt, Brunch and all Beverages Please wear your Pride T-shirts the day of the Walk for GLBT group visibility! To register:  Pick up a registration form at the GLBT Community Center - 361 N. 300 W. Salt Lake City.  Complete form and turn into Jennifer no later than April 11 th with your check for $10.00 made out to: Mental Health Association in Utah You will receive your Pride T-shirt at that time. Meet the group at 11:00 am at the Opening Ceremonies. Schedule of events: Registration - 10:00am to 11:00am Opening Ceremony - 11:00am to 11:30am 5K Walk - 11:30am to 1:00pm Brunch - 1:00pm to 1:30pm Closing Ceremony - 1:30pm to 2:00pm  For more information, contact Jennifer Nuttall

2008 Gay weddings flourish in a religious stronghold Can Salt Lake City, the capital of Utah and known for its devout Mormon beliefs, be a new home for gay marriage? Times Online, UK/April 22, 2008 By Wendy SloaneThe day had finally dawned. After 12 years of being girlfriend and girlfriend, Holly Miller and P.R. Banks were getting married. Dressed in a cream trouser suit with a sparkly pink top, Holly, 44, looked radiant as she adjusted a silver tiara on her highlighted hair. P.R., who won't reveal her age, looked equally serene, wearing a traditional wedding gown with a matching tiara perched atop her elegant blonde bun. "I take you, P.R., to be my beloved," Holly told P.R., looking into her eyes. In the front row, Holly's mum sat enthralled by the ceremony, held in the upstairs function room of a popular upscale restaurant; her father looked vaguely bored. On the right of the makeshift altar, two of the six ushers standing solemnly in shirtsleeves and ties were women. This was no ordinary gay wedding, if any gay wedding could be construed as ordinary. It took place recently in my hometown of Salt Lake City, Utah, which doesn't have a reputation for being exceptionally progressive or tolerant. The city is known as the seat of Mormonism in the U.S. The religion, established in upstate New York in the 1820s, takes its teachings from the Book of Mormon, an additional scripture of the Bible which tells of a visit by Jesus to North America. In wider terms, Mormonism is associated with strict religious beliefs and polygamy, although the church has disavowed the practice. When I was growing up, my school was about 95 percent Mormon. I was one of three Jewish students in my year and my family was looked down on for drinking coffee and tea, which contain "stimulants" the church is against. I've lost track of the times I was asked when I was planning to convert. This was my first trip back in years from my adopted home of Hampstead, north London. At the moment, Massachusetts is the only American state where civil marriage is legal for gays and lesbians. But surprisingly, Holly and P.R.'s wedding was more than just a public demonstration of their commitment. In September 2005, Salt Lake's then mayor, Rocky
Rocky Anderson

Anderson issued an Executive Order granting same-sex partners in the City proper the same health and other employment benefits available to heterosexual couples. Executive orders have the force of law based on existing statutory powers, and require no outside backing for them to be enforced.  "Fundamental principles of fairness and justice obligated me to grant equal benefits to same-sex domestic partners of employees," Anderson told me. "While my Executive Order granting equal benefits was unpopular in some quarters, even spurring lawsuits, it was the right thing to do."  One couple which has benefited from his laws is MaryEtta Chase, a former Mormon housewife with three grown daughters, and partner Shelle Marchant, whose own mum grew up in a fundamentalist polygamist household. Shelle drives heavy machinery for the City of Salt Lake, and their civil ceremony two years ago means MaryEtta enjoys the same medical benefits Shelle's colleagues' wives get. "It's all about love,"says MaryEtta, stroking Shelle's hand at the reception as the presiding Reverend Bruce Barton of the Metropolitan Community Church, wearing an Indian headdress, danced to the Village People's YMCA with a handful of other guests.  A former Mormon missionary, Reverend Barton has been
Bruce Barton
with his male partner for 30 years and has an eleven-year-old son. He didn't actually come out - to himself or others - until he was almost 30. "I thought I couldn't be gay as the only gays I knew of were flaming queens, and I wasn't," he says. Holly, who works in health care information technology, was one of my most sensible friends while we were growing up. She grew up Baptist and had several long-term girlfriends over the years, but P.R. was obviously The One. "The first time we met, Holly sang and played her guitar for me, and I fell in love," says P.R. "I've been in love her ever since, and I always wanted to get married. For me, this wedding is a dream come true." P.R. also comes from a devout Mormon family. A former care assistant studying to become a hairdresser, she is the youngest of ten children. Although both her parents have died, she doubts they would have attended her wedding to Holly. In fact, only one of her many siblings showed up, an elder brother. A sister had previously agreed to be a bridesmaid but backed out six weeks before the Big Day.  So what's next for Holly and P.R.? In the immediate future, they are going on a week-long Caribbean cruise with Olivia, a travel company that caters to lesbians. "We are so excited! Neither of us have ever been on a cruise before, or to the Caribbean!" Holly told me on her hen night, held in a women's sports bar called Mo Diggity's. "And everyone will be gay!" Now there's a change.

2018 Trans Homo...Gasp! Sexy stories.... sweet, dirty, raw, and insightful, San Francisco Author and Trans-activist Pete Bailey shares real life stories of Gay FTM and Cis Men from his new book "Trans Homo...Gasp! Gay FTM and Cis Men on Sex and Love"  Copies of the book will be available for sale. Have the author sign your copy for a donation that benefits TRANS LIFELINE! this event sponsored by blackBOOTS


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