October 23rd
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Maximillian Harden |
1907-On 23 October 1907 the case of Moltke v. Harden opened
in
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Kuno Von Moltke |
a Berlin court. It was the first of six highly publicized trials known
collectively as 'the Eulenberg Affair. Maximillian Harden accused General Kuno
Count von Moltke of being in a homosexual relationship. Moltke filed a civil
suit on this day. The affair centered on journalist Maximilian Harden's
accusations of homosexual conduct between Philipp, Prince of
Eulenburg-Hertefeld, and General Kuno, Graf von Moltke. Eulenburg was a close
friend of the German Emperor, Wilhelm II, who was twelve years his junior,
prior to Wilhelm’s accession to the imperial throne. Upon the accession of
Wilhelm to the thrones of Prussia and Germany, Eulenburg assumed an unofficial
position of immense influence, and among other things, was instrumental in the
appointment of Bernhard von Bülow as head of the foreign office in 1897.
Wilhelm II had
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Phillipp Eulenberg |
long desired the appointment of "his own Bismarck" - a
powerful chancellor who would enact the Kaiser's will - and Eulenburg was the
first to suggest Bülow for this role. Although he was married, Eulenburg was
connected in homosexual liaisons with members of the Kaiser’s inner circle,
including Count Kuno von Moltke, the military commander of Berlin. Sources say
that he continued to have homosexual relationships even after the marriage.
Accusations and counter-accusations quickly multiplied, and the phrase
"Liebenberg Round Table" came to be used for the homosexual circle
around the Kaiser. The affair received wide publicity and is often considered
the biggest domestic scandal of the German Second Empire. in
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Kaiser Wilhelm II |
November 1908,
Kaiser Wilhelm II began a vacation at an aristocrat's estate in the Black
Forest. One evening after dinner, chief of the Military Secretariat Dietrich
von Hülsen-Haeseler was performing a pas seul (dance of one person) dressed in
a woman's ballet tutu when his heart failed and he died. Ottokar von Czernin,
also in attendance, remarked, "In Wilhelm II, I saw a man who, for the
first time in his life, with horror-stricken eyes, looked upon the world as it
really was." Despite the Emperor's fears, the incident, with its
implications of homosexuality at high levels, seemed successfully hushed up.
However between 1906 and 1907, six military officers committed suicide after
being blackmail for homosexual acts, while in the preceding three years, around
twenty officers were convicted by courts-martial, all for their homosexual
acts. Wilhelm II, informed of the growing story, responded by
requiring the resignation of three
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Bernard Bulow |
of fifteen prominent aristocrats, Hohenau,
Lynar, and Moltke, listed as homosexual by the Berlin vice squad; however, the
actual list, not shown to Wilhelm II, contained several hundred names. Moltke's lawyer attempted to file criminal libel against
Harden, but was dismissed and civil libel was suggested. Eulenburg denied any
culpability and presented a self-accusation of violating the applicable
Paragraph 175 to his district attorney who, as hoped and expected, cleared
Eulenburg of all charges in July. Meanwhile Bernhard Prince von Bülow, imperial
chancellor, were accused of or revealed as having homosexual tendencies or
engaging in homosexual
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Magnus Hirshfeld |
activities. Testifying against Moltke were his former wife of nine years,
Lili von Elbe, a soldier named Bollhardt, and the famous sexologist Dr. Magnus Hirschfeld. Elbe
described the lack of conjugal relations, happening only on the first and
second night of their marriage, Moltke's overly close friendship with
Eulenburg, and her ignorance of homosexuality. Hirschfeld, based on von Elbe's
comments and his courtroom observation of Moltke, testified that Moltke most
certainly had a feminine side and was homosexual even if he had never committed
sodomy. On October 29, the court found Moltke homosexual and Harden innocent. However,
the trial was voided on procedural grounds, and the state prosecutor decided to
allow a criminal libel trial. Elbe, through a diagnosis of classical hysteria,
and Hirschfeld, by retracting his earlier testimony, were discredited and
Harden was convicted of libel and sentenced to four months imprisonment. It is felt by historians without Eulenburg's moderate views, Kaiser Wilhelm stumbled into World War I.
1914 Bert Downie [Downey] age 14 of Salt Lake City filed a complaint against Frank
Thompson charging him with assault with intent to commit the “infamous crime
against nature” upon Downie, “who was then and there a male person”. The following year at the age of 15 Downie is arrested with two other teenage boys for stealing over 35 automobile is Salt Lake City. Downie arrested . At the age of 17 he and other boys were arrested for a crime spree of stealing cars and breaking into businesses.
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Julian Eltinge |
1935 Wednesday New York Day by Day by O.O. McIntyre
“Julian
Eltinge, after several sabbatical years of California ranching, has returned to
the make-up box. But no longer in the frilly frocks of a female impersonator.
He has always wanted to play he-man roles and has his chance as a rough old
miner in a Mae West film. There are notable precedents presaging success. After
all James Cagney and Wallace Berry were female impersonators. Ogden Standard Examiner O.O. McIntyre
1884-1938 was a famed New York newspaper columnist of the 1920s and 1930s who
cleverly combined a small town point of view with urban sophistication. For a
quarter of a century, his daily column, “New York Day by Day,” was published in
more than 500 newspapers
1937-Mattachine Society founder Harry Hay's former lover Stanley
Haggart wrote to him after marrying a woman in an attempt to change his
sexuality, "To think it had to take a marriage with its wedding night
experiences to show me where my real affinity lies. Every cell in me screamed
out in protest at my desecration of my body. At that time I knew that I
belonged to you and you to me." Stanley Haggart had a relationship with actor Randolph Scott before Scott broke it off to move in with Cary Grant.
- October 23, 1937 You know me well enough to know that I will go to any
lengths if I feel I am right – if I feel I have something to do. A few weeks
ago my latest effort was to marry Phyllis Ward. Does that shock you to know
this – and that I am now crossing the Atlantic with her – married to her? My
awakening has been horrible and the agony had been almost more than I can bear.
To go back a bit, I got your letter 2 days before the ceremony. Your letter has
struck deep down into the very depths of me – has cut through all pretenses . .
. . To think it had to take a marriage with its wedding night experience to
show me where my real affinity lies. Every cell in me screamed out in protest
at my desecration of my body. At that time I knew that I belonged to you and
you to me. . . . I need your help in straightening this mess out. And it is a mess
– frightful. Phyllis loves me terribly and is such a fine girl. I told her
yesterday of my feelings for you and she realizes from my behavior that a part
of me which she had wanted for herself belonged to you. Our marriage was and is
a perfect set-up . . . wrong in every way. The reason is that I belong with
you, and you with me. Neither of us seems able to help it. Goodness knows I
have done everything possible to keep us apart. Why? I don't know. But I'm
trembling now over the thought of being with you soon. [Stanley
explained that the marriage had been encouraged by a doctor in England who
counselled the couple.] . . . He wanted to know whether I was homosexual
through birth or if it was acquired. Phyllis (not her fault) made me decide that
I could be ‘normal’ and he urged our marriage. Just because of this lack of
truth, this mess has come about. [Stanley worried about his and Harry's
prospects as a couple.] . . . I know the difficulties in our way if we go
onwards together. I will have none of my present life to back me up – all will
desert me. My life with you would have to be enough so that I would not care –
would willingly abandon everything for you. But my darling I have that sweet
certainty that if we were close enough together nothing else would count.
1966 Spence Mendenhall, a 54 year old bachelor of 222 L Street SLC
UT was found dead in his apartment shot 3 times in the head. Remnant of a light
meal with 2 plates and 2 knives and forks, and 3 glasses showed that he had
company. Victim had reported extortion to police. Captain J.L. Smith vice
control commander investigated the crime but the murder remained unsolved.
(05/20/68 SLTribune page 17)
1973 Bartenders registration
favored by three commissioners Deseret News According to Captain Nick
Morgan of the Sheriff office, registration of bartending personnel would
include the same requirements already existing for entertainers, including
female impersonators and go go dancers, who must be licensed and registered
with the Sheriff office.
1979 BYU Security Personnel
Can Operate Off Campus: Gays Protest Power (SLTribune) D-2
1983 Lesbian Mothers, co-parents and lesbians considering
parenthood meetings were held at 20 Rue Jacob Co-op in Salt Lake City
1987 AIDS Awareness Week is sponsored by AIDS Project Utah, Rocky
Mountain Infection Control, Salt Lake Women’s Council of Realtors, KTVX Channel
4, ASUU of the UofU, and the Royal Court of the Golden Spike Empire. The
morality rate of people with AIDS in Utah is higher than in other states
because Utah had no Medicare-approved hospices for the terminally ill.
1987- Jestress XII Chuckles
(Chuck Whyte) presented Now or Never Unity A spectrum of our Community. It was
the 6th annual Unity show. Held at Backstreet Many people at the end joined
hands and sang “We Shall Overcome”. “After work John Reeves picked me up to go
to the Unity Show at Backstreet. Chuck
was going nuts coordinating everything.
Mark LaMar operated the spotlights because the guy Chuck originally had
was sick. The show was a much better than average benefit show. The acts I really liked were Greg Garcia’s
“Kick Your Love Goodbye” sung to the tune
of What I did For Love from Chorus Line, a Lesbian from Puss N Boots
singing I fall to Pieces and a Lesbian from Blue Horizon who also did a live
number. Curtis Jensen, Joe Dewey and John Bennett representing LGSU sang
“Sergeant Safe Sex”
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Sergeant Safe Sex Skit |
and someone from AIDS Project Utah acting as Sergeant Safe
Sex lectured on how to put on a condom. I was the act
leading into the grand
finale and I also followed Clariss Cartier who received a standing ovation and
a call back. When I went on stage I said That was a tough act to follow. Then I
gave a little background on the Names Project and then read Steve Newberger’s
poem he wrote called The Quilt. I
couldn’t see anyone with the spot light in my eyes but I could hear people
shushing other people until the entire bar was silent. I’ve never heard the bar be silent before,
filled with so many people. Steve’s poem must have moved a lot of people. After
the grand finale where everyone in the bar sang We Shall Overcome. (Ben Williams Journal)
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Ben Williams |
- John
Wells Bennett July 25, 2010 Re: Putting my archives together Remember
this? “I have a poor memory, but I DO remember "Sergeant Safe Sex,
Shoot me some cream, you've got the biggest dick that I've ever seen, just
for a tiny weeny roll in the clover, don't make me wish that this night
were over....So put a condom on please, Sergeant Safe Sex make me a
sleeze!"
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David Sharpton |
1988 Sunday Saw David Sharpton at Affirmation and he said that a
new piece of legislation is again trying to push mandatory reporting of HIV
positive people. Ugh! They were showing "Maurice " at Affirmation so
David and I left and went out to get some coffee. The AIDS Project Utah benefit
was canceled tonight according to David because of mismanagement of APU. People
there are ready to lynch Richard Starley. Unfortunately Starley alienated any
support from the Gay Community by catering to the heterosexual establishment.
[Journal of Ben Williams] Richard Starley named Executive Director of AIDS Project Utah
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Margie Adams |
1992 Feminist singer Margie Adam performed on the University of
Utah campus as a benefit for the Utah AIDS Foundation and the University
Student Health Services.
1993-In Helena
Montana the state supreme court ruled that transvestitism is not a sufficient
reason to deny a father joint custody of his 3-year old child.
1994 Sunday, HANSEN SHOULD STOP BASHING GAYS Republican U.S. Rep.
Jim Hansen of Utah said recently in a letter to his supporters that "being
conservative as I am, fund raising isn't as easy for me as it is for my
opponent." He said that all
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Bobbie Coray |
Democrat Bobbie Coray has to do is "pick
up the phone and call . . . some radical homosexual . . .special interest and .
. . boom . . . $1,000 or $5,000 is on her desk the next day. "He's
apparently cavalier enough to risk insulting some of his most conservative
Republicans friends with such intentionally inflammatory statements. I wonder
who he's trying to sway with such homophobic baiting. It probably isn't the
supporters of Terry Dolan, the gay man who founded the National
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Terry Dolan |
Conservative
Political Action Committee and was financially responsible for electing Ronald
Reagan and a Republican control of the U.S. Senate in 1980. Of course not.
Hansen benefitted from the group as well. It couldn't be conservative icon and
former Republican Sen. Barry Goldwater, who serves as a chairman of one of
those "radical homosexual special interests" about which Hansen
wrote. Goldwater enthusiastically and publicly defends his homosexual family
members from the kind of attack in which Hansen is now engaging. Hansen may
want to re-think his campaign tactics. He might not be as supportive of
bisexual, gay and lesbian Utahns as his opponent, but neither is he as
supportive as some of the most conservative Republican and military leaders in
the United States - his friends and supporters. David Nelson Salt Lake City Deseret News
- Closeted Anti-Gay Activist Terry Dolan Dies of AIDS: 1986. Terry Dolan,
who helped to found the National Conservative Political Action Committee, was
pretty well known in elite gay circles. According to Randy Schilts’s And the
Band Played On, when playwright Larry Kramer recognized him at a Washington,
D.C. cocktail party, he walked up to Dolan and threw a drink is his face. “How
dare you come here?” he shouted. “You take the best from our world and then do
all those hateful things against us. You should be ashamed.” Among those awful
things was sending out fundraising letters for NCPAC, which claimed that “Our
nation’s moral fiber is being weakened by the growing homosexual movement and
the fanatical E.R.A. pushers (many of whom publicly brag they are lesbians).”
Meanwhile, Dolan had, at the time of that 1984 encounter with Kramer, had just
ended an affair with a male epidemiologist at the New York City Health
Department, and was then enjoying everything the gay social scene had to offer.
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Orin Hatch |
1994-Sunday -The 1994 awards
banquet of the People With AIDS Coalition of Utah was held. It was the PWACU's
first such dinner, and Sen. Orin Hatch was the recipient of the organization's
first Political Social Award for sponsorship of the 1990 Kennedy-Hatch Bill,
which established the Ryan White Fund. The fund provides support to hospitals,
health-care providers and community organizations to assist those with AIDS.
Accepting the award for Hatch was the Rev. Caryl Marsh, rector of St. Paul's
Episcopal Church in Salt Lake City. During the dinner, Don Austin, PWACU board
member and chairman of the banquet and The 1994 Living With AIDS Conference,
presented the awards. The Kristen Ries Professional Award
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Richard Cottino |
went to Sue Yanik,
supervisor of the HIV Case Management Program for Salt Lake city and county.
Also receiving awards were Richard Cottino, the Red Ribbon Award; David Lewis,
the PWACU volunteer award; and Terry Frank, longtime owner of the Apothecary
Shoppe, the Business Award. Keynote
speaker was writer Carol Lynn Pearson, author of Goodbye, I Love You, which
chronicles her relationship with her former husband, Gerald Pearson, whom she
cared for before his death from AIDS. Representing the Utah AIDS Foundation were board chairwoman Jane
Edwards, Les Stewart, Rick Pace, Myron Avila, Sally Keen, George Miller, Leota
Pearson, Peter Small, John Johnson and Kim Segal. Among those attending were
Dell Larsen, Chad Smith, acting chairman of the board of the PWACU; Bill and
Kim Emerson (he is coordinator of the PWACU), Larry Riemer, Mark Chambers, Joe
Pitti and Scott Morgan, who was accompanied by his parents, MaryBeth Raynes,
Moyne Oviatt, Mike Phillips, Linda Hunt, Maggie Snyder, Deb Caswell, John
Clapp, Dick and Marie Scouler, Jerry and Bente Trapp, Andrew Bills, Cindy Kidd,
Robert Rosvall, Pam Bruce, Lynda Steele and Chris Robertson. Also in the crowd: Shirley Jones, Randy and
Dee Peterson, Lou Arnold, Dick Booth, Adrienne Swain and Chris Smith, Norm and
JoAnn Jacobsen-Wells and Kim Hassibe, who donated the wine for the event. Funds
raised from the party will go to programs offered by the People With AIDS
Coalition of Utah to assist those with AIDS (10-23-94 Page: J8
SLTribune)
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Merrill Cook |
23 October 1996 Deseret
News Archives, Wednesday, October 23, 1996 GAY ISSUE HELPS COOK, MAY HURT
ANDERSON By Bob Bernick Jr., Political
Editor Merrill Cook clearly believes
he's found an issue with which he can hurt Ross Anderson - homosexual nuptials.
Cook, the GOP candidate in the 2nd District, has been running a TV ad the past
week or so that shows Anderson, his Democratic opponent, voting "yes"
for same-sex marriages, Cook voting "no." Cook takes every
opportunity available in debates to mention Anderson's stands on same-sex
marriages. The tactic may be working. Over the past six weeks, an Oct. 7
Deseret News/KSL polled showed, Anderson closed a 20-point lead by Cook to just
under 10 points. But, say several Republicans watching GOP tracking polls, that
movement has stopped, perhaps even reversed itself after Cook started running
the new TV ads. In addition to the TV ads, a week ago an anonymous flier
appeared around town saying gays and lesbians have a candidate they can like in
Anderson. The flier was signed by a made-up gay and lesbian group that doesn't
exist. Anderson said the flier was "hate-mongering" at its worst.
Cook said he had nothing to do with the flier, and Anderson accepts that
denial. Cook's ads, the flier and general talk about what Anderson calls
"a hot-button" topic keeps same-sex marriages on the front political
burner. At a Salt Lake Rotary Club debate Tuesday, the moderator's first question
was on same-sex marriages. After joking about picking that subject, Anderson
went on to say that same-sex marriage just isn't a congressional issue. And
Cook keeps bringing it up just to be divisive and play to some people's
prejudices, said Anderson. Anderson said that as a principle, all Americans
believe in equal rights for all people, regardless of race, gender or sexual
orientation. How that applies to the institution of marriage "is another
question." Said Anderson: "I do believe that we as a nation, as a people,
as a community ought to do what we can to recognize those who have differences
in terms of sexual orientation and try to make things a little easier (for
them). (The state should) provide, if we call it domestic partnerships, it
doesn't have to be called marriage, but at least provide a legal recognition
and dignity in our community for the relationships they choose to enter
into." Anderson said that all Americans, regardless of sexual orientation,
want the same basic things of life, one being to share a close relationship
with another person. "I think that should be encouraged, not discouraged.
"I don't understand why that has become a mainstay of my opponent's
campaign. Because it is not a federal issue," said Anderson. But Cook sees
political pay dirt here. Polling by the Deseret News and KSL-TV shows that
about 60 percent of 2nd District residents say they are members of The Church
of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The LDS Church has taken a moral stand
against same-sex marriages and has joined a lawsuit in Hawaii seeking to stop
the recognition of same-sex marriages in that state. In March 1995, long before
Anderson announced his candidacy or spoke out on same-sex marriages, a Deseret
News/KSL poll conducted by Dan Jones & Associates found that in the 2nd
District, 58 percent of residents opposed legalizing same-sex marriages, 37
percent favored such legalization and 6 percent didn't know. After winning the
Democratic primary, Anderson said that while he believes in equality under the
law,
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Rocky Anderson |
if a same-sex marriage bill comes up for a vote in Congress, he'd poll the
2nd District and vote as citizens wish. But he added that he won't support a
bill he believes is unconstitutional, even if citizens support it. Cook told
Rotarians on Tuesday that he would have voted for the Defense of Marriage Act,
which Anderson opposed. The bill passed Congress and was signed by President
Clinton. Cook said he'd always vote against "the legalization of same-sex
marriages." "I think it is an issue," said Cook. Especially when
Anderson "was one of only two politicians in the state to march in a
gay-rights parade this year," he said. "We ought to have somebody in
Congress who fundamentally believes the way I do" on same-sex marriages.
"We need (someone in Congress) who will vote in a way that will provide
support for families, because we all know that families are breaking apart in
this country. We need to support pro-family legislation," said Cook. He
added that he would never personally - and doesn't think anyone else should -
discriminate against anyone for any reason. Anderson said he did march
"very proudly" in a local Gay Pride Day parade "to show that
there are people in this community who will stand up for those in our community
and their families who are gay or lesbian. They're a large part of our
community. He (Cook) likes to talk a lot about family values. But I can tell
you there are lots of families that are very upset because of the way this
issue is being used for supposed political gain. I don't think (such political
tactics) work in our community," said Anderson. © 1999 Deseret News Publishing Co.
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Kim Duffin |
23 October 1997 One man's
illness and frustrations were the impetus behind a recently published booklet:
Living With HIV/AIDS: A Guide to Planning for the Future and Understanding Your
Rights. The booklet is the brainchild
of Kim Duffin, assistant director of the Salt Lake City Arts Council. Duffin,
diagnosed with AIDS nine years ago, ``was concerned with the details one needs
to address in the situation of having a terminal illness.'' The guide explains a range of issues –
estate planning, emotional health, financial and legal matters -- that they and
their caregivers are likely to encounter during the course of their lives. ``I had done some checking with various
agencies on these issues and ended up having more questions than answers,''
said Duffin, who remains in relative good health. ``I thought if I was having
trouble with this amount of information as a healthy person, it would be
overwhelming for a person who is not well.''
Duffin asked the Utah AIDS Foundation for help and, almost simultaneously,
learned the Disability Law Center was interested in a similar project. ``We had
had a lot of people [with HIV/AIDS] contacting us about all different kinds of
issues,'' said Eric Mitchell, training and publications specialist for the
Disability Law Center. ``Most centered on planning and understanding one's
rights and asserting them.'' Rebecca
Sanchez, of Viaticus Inc., an insurance firm that pays viatical settlements
--before a person dies -- also joined the all-volunteer project. The booklet was condensed from its original
form. ``We realized that the amount of
information was overwhelming. We didn't want it to become something people
weren't interested in reading,'' said Duffin. ``On the other hand, we didn't
want to dumb it down either.'' The
finished product is divided into nine chapters including ``Planning Ahead,''
``Self Advocacy,'' ``Legal Protections,'' ``Entitlement Programs''
``Bibliography'' and a ``Community Resource Directory.'' The resource guide, the first of its kind in
the state, is Utah-specific and contains information on such things as
transportation, benefits advocacy, emergency housing, food and utilities
assistance, food banks and substance abuse centers. ``We wanted to provide local information in
a nonthreatening, accessible way,'' said Duffin. ``It is an ongoing guide. It
is not meant to be read allat once.''
Duffin remembers a particularly painful moment for him. Six years ago,
at a dental appointment, he notice the periodontist was not wearing protective
gloves. ``I told him he needed to be protected, and as
soon as I said that, I was told `this office cannot provide services for you.'
I was out the door in15 minutes. . . .
``The impetus for the resource guide was from my own experience: To let
people know where they can be treated like a human being,'' said Duffin.
``There still is prejudice [against the disease].'' The chapter on discrimination covers such
topics as employment, housing, education, confidentiality and public
accommodations. ``There are things people need to be aware of in terms of legal
regulations, such as what questions a landlord can or cannot ask,'' said
Duffin. A chapter Duffin finds
essential is that of ``self-advocacy.''
Compiled primarily by Mitchell, the chapter encourages people with
HIV/AIDS to keep records and to communicate.
``Often times, because [AIDS] is such an emotional issue, someone may
react aggressively in an area they have concern,'' said Duffin. Utah AIDS physician Kristen Ries proved
invaluable for the chapter dealing with living wills. ``With the input of Dr. Ries, we came to
the conclusion that, whether you have a living will or not, the issue of being
able to communicate with your significant others and doctor throughout the
process is the most guaranteed way of having your wishes met,'' said Duffin.
While the booklet focuses on those with HIV/AIDS, certain aspects apply to
anyone with a terminal illness. Mitchell said the book could also prove
valuable to caregivers and health-care workers. Living with HIV/AIDS: A Guide to Planning
for the Future and Understanding Your Rights is free and will be distributed at
the People With AIDS Coalition of Utah's Living With AIDS Conference, ``Living
Beyond,'' Saturday and Sunday. It is
also available at the Utah AIDS Foundation or by calling the Disability Law
Center, 800-662-9080. Conference In
conjunction with AIDS Awareness Month, the People With AIDS Coalition of Utah
will present its ninth annual ``Living With AIDS Conference, ``Living Beyond,''
at Westminster College of Salt Lake, Gore School of Business Auditorium, 1840
S. 1300 East, Saturday and Sunday. Registration is from 8 to 9 a.m. daily. Registration fee for the conference, open to
the public, is $25. Scholarships are available for people with HIV/AIDS. For
information, call the coalition, 484-220510/23/97Page: C3 ``Living With HIV/AIDS'' book. Booklet Helps HIV/AIDS Patients Know and Exercise Their Rights Byline: BY HELEN FORSBERG THE SALTLAKE TRIBUNE Obituary
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Dr. Kristen Ries |
2003 Salt Lake City summit on gay men's health looks beyond HIV/AIDS The Associated Press Tuesday, October 21, 2003 SALT LAKE CITY -- For so long, discussing the health of gay men meant one topic: AIDS. That was not the case during a summit last weekend on gay men's health issues, sponsored by the Utah AIDS Foundation, Planned Parenthood and members of the gay community. The goal was "to expand the notion of gay men's health beyond HIV," one of the coordinators, David Ferguson, said. "For about 20 years, gay men's health has been equated with a person's HIV status. We're not minimizing HIV, but gay men deal with lots of issues: relationships, spirituality, substance abuse," he said. About 160 people attended the summit, up from 100 over the past two years. Topics addressed by speakers included aging and HIV, fitness, substance abuse, and self-hypnosis. Kristen Ries, an infectious disease physician at the University of Utah Health Sciences Center, touched on other health issues that affect homosexuals during her keynote address. Gay men, for example, use drugs, alcohol and tobacco at a higher rate than the general population and also have a higher incidence of anxiety, suicide and depression. "I understand how that comes about when you think about their childhood," Ries said in regard to the difficulty of coming out and dealing with homophobia. The summit was meant to address the total man, and HIV was not ignored. Ries said she is deeply concerned about the increase of HIV-positive gay men. In 2002, 151 men tested positive for HIV at the clinic. This year, the same number of men tested positive by the end of July. According to the Utah Department of Health, about 1,780 people were living with HIV or AIDS in Utah, as of 2001. This story appeared in The Daily Herald on page B3.
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Michael Mitchell |
2003 [Rocky] Anderson's endorsers said they back him because he is outspoken, inclusive, accessible and supportive of working-class issues. "He is a man who works to make Salt Lake City work. He eats, sleeps and breathes this city," said Michael Mitchell, director of Unity Utah, a gay political action committee. SLTribune
2003 Two 16-year-old Salt Lake City boys sustained minor injuries Wednesday morning when the car they were in crashed into a building, police said. Skid marks stretched for more than 100 feet in front of the Utah AIDS Foundation building, 1408 S. 1100 East, as the driver tried to stop after traveling down residential Browning Avenue. Investigators say the car reached speeds of more than 70 mph. The car -- which belonged to the mother of the driver -- was launched airborne on the entrance to the foundation's driveway, which drops to a throughway under the building. The roof of the car was flattened as the car collided with the underside of the building. The minimal damage to the building did not affect operations at the office, according to Stan Penfold, Utah AIDS Foundation executive director. The teens were cited for reckless behavior, treated for burns from the airbags and taken back to school.
2004 DESERET MORNING NEWS October 23, 2004 Gays' offspring do fine, expert says Support group hears findings at S.L. convention By Elaine Jarvik The research - all the research - shows that the children of gay and lesbian parents turn out fine, says sociologist Judith Stacey. Stacey, the co-author of a controversial mega-analysis of gay parenting research, spoke Friday to the national convention of PFLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays), which is meeting this weekend at the Little America Hotel. "It's amazingly brave and impressive of you to be holding your national conference in this place at this time," Stacey told the 400 attendees, referring to Utah's pending vote on a state amendment to outlaw same-sex marriages. "There's no disagreement . . . that the quality of the parenting is at least as good" by same-sex parents as heterosexual parents, says Stacey, a professor at New York University. Opponents have to turn not to research but to "ideologues," she says, to shore up their case. "They've never been able to say there's any harm done. It's only lies, more lies and the lying liars who tell them." Yes, some of the research indicates that the children of same-sex parents are different than children raised by heterosexual parents, Stacey reports. "But differences aren't problems." One of those differences, she says, is that a "larger minority" of children raised by gay and lesbian parents "will not turn out to be heterosexual." This is the finding, she admits, that made her analysis "incendiary," but it's a finding that doesn't need apologizing for, she says. What it means, she says, is that these children "will have freer opportunities to come to understand their desires and act on them, and that this is a good thing." This is exactly the kind of finding that upsets people like Dr. Bill Maier, a child and family psychologist who is vice president of Focus on Family, based in Colorado Springs, Colo. Maier, contacted by phone on Friday, says he commends Stacey for being willing to say "these kids are not the same," but doesn't agree with her conclusions. PFLAG, he argues, started as a support group for families of gay and lesbian children "but has been co-opted by the gay lobby. . . . My impression is that PFLAG is more interested in attaining their radical political goals than examining the research on homosexuality and what is best for human beings, both children and adults." Stacey was joined Friday by two sets of same-sex parents. Anthony Butterfield and Paul Redd-Butterfield are the parents of 2-year-old twins Lucas and Liam. Chris Johnson and Lorie Hutchinson are the parents of 12-year-old Olivia. "This is not a social experiment, this is our family," said Butterfield, who along with his partner is part of a group of about 50 same-sex parents who have activities once a month, most recently a Halloween party. "Radical gay agenda stuff," he added with a smile. In a question-and-answer session after the panel discussion, Butterfield was asked whether he and his partner act as two fathers or "mother" and father. What his own mother does when she mothers "is not a function of her being a woman," he answered. "If our child falls down, it's not like we both say 'Get up!' We can 'mother.' " Butterfield and Redd-Butterfield became parents via an egg donor and a separate surrogate mother. Sociologist Stacey noted that she recently attended a christening of surrogacy twins at a Catholic church in California. The older sister of these twins explained to her playmates that surrogacy is "when your mommy has a baby for two men." "And the sky didn't fall," Butterfield interjected. PFLAG did not choose Salt Lake City for its national convention this year to coincide with the debate over Amendment 3, says PFLAG interim executive director Ron Schlittler of Washington, D.C. "It just worked out that way." "All these people didn't come to this as radical liberals," he said about the parents who filled the hotel ballroom. "These people have traveled the journey a lot of people are reluctant to take." The group, he says, has "a particular angle on family values we think needs sharing." Article of Butterfields
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2004 SALT LAKE TRIBUNE 'We are going to win,' gay-rights leaders declare at rally Marriage issue: A national convention of supporters of gays gathers in SLC By Kirsten Stewart The Salt Lake Tribune Leaders of the gay rights movement on Friday shared inspiring stories from the front lines of the culture wars at the national conference of Parents, Friends and Families of Lesbians and Gays. They sought to reassure families, who may feel like they're losing ground in the fight to legalize same-sex marriage, that 10 years from now they will be on the right side of history. "When you're in the midst of a movement it can be hard to feel the movement," said panelist Kate Kendall, director of the National Center for Lesbian Rights in San Francisco. "But we are
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moving and we are going to win." About 400 people piled into main ballroom at Salt Lake City's Little America Hotel for the discussion, which was interrupted several times by applause and a standing ovation for longtime lesbian activists Phyllis Lyon, 79, and Del Martin, 83, of San Francisco - the nation's first same-sex couple to be legally wed. Kendall, who was raised Mormon in Ogden, said "it's disappointing" to return home at a time when Utah and 10 other states are considering constitutional amendments that would block recognition of gay marriage. But she takes heart in other victories. From a Massachusetts Supreme Court ruling upholding gay and lesbian unions as constitutional, to same-sex nuptials performed in San Francisco, Kendall traced the beginnings of this country's next "great civil rights movement." She said the photographs broadcast worldwide of the San Francisco weddings "have forever changed the nature of this discourse in this country. No one can think of this as an abstraction after seeing their children, brothers and sisters standing in line for hours to be married, something any other couple in this country can take for granted." There has since been a backlash as legislators have rushed to preempt such weddings in other states. But "while we're the focus of attacks," said Kendall, "this is part of a broad strategy by the conservative right to roll back other civil rights. Immigration, reproductive rights and affirmative action will be next." Freedom to Marry founder Evan Wolfson likened the Massachusetts court ruling to the landmark U.S. Supreme Court Brown v. Board of Education decision to desegregate schools. "People today see that as a luminous moment when our nation did something right. But when it came down, it wasn't greeted with unanimous applause," said Wolfson, recalling the lynchings, freedom rides and political manifestos denouncing the "so-called activist judges" that followed. "We are on that human rights battlefield again," said Wolfson, who believes it's only a matter of time before Americans opposed to gay marriage come around. The drafters of Utah's Amendment 3 represent Americans who are "adamantly against, not just gay marriage, but gay people," said Wolfson. "They could have stopped at sentence one, but couldn't help themselves. What they really want to do is drive gay people out of the public sphere completely." But Wolfson believes that in addition to the third of Americans for gay marriage, there is another third avoiding the debate, but who will eventually "catch the wave" and "join us on the right side of history."
2005 Homosexuality a 'lifestyle,' not a fleeting interest Daily Herald Sunday, October 23, 2005 Editor's note: The Daily Herald asked readers if a gay-straight alliance should be approved at Provo High School. Here are the comments we received:
- Homosexuality a 'lifestyle,' not a fleeting interest -Comparing homosexual clubs to any of the other types of clubs that you mention is like comparing apples and oranges. By their own claims, homosexuals are born that way and cannot change their sexual lifestyle, no matter what. Therefore their lifestyle interests and desires will always be there and they will always want to gather with others like themselves. The other clubs have members who may outgrow their interests and will get on with their lives and other interests. Homosexuality cannot and will not join the "shifting sands of student interest" you speak of, nor will the club. Gary Macomber, Salem-
- Provo residents must stand up, speak out against club People voicing their opinion can make a difference. When the definition of family was challenged, the first-ever Mayday for Marriage rally on Oct. 15, 2004, organized by Ken Hutcherson, an African-American pastor from Seattle, drew a crowd from across the country of an estimated 140,000 to Washington, D.C. What did they do when they were told to do nothing about it? We think all students are free to participate in clubs organized for subjects of educational or recreational interests at Provo High. There is no need for the creation of a club promoting this political agenda. Erin and Carolyn Flinders, Provo-
- Gay-straight club's opponents try to force views on others Yes, they should allow the club to go forward. People say that they don't want the views pushed in their face, or in their children's faces, but living here in Utah I get Mormonism pushed in my face everyday. Even when I don't want to hear it. The LDS Church tries to make every law here in Utah like LDS commandments. Doesn't anyone remember the saying that you shouldn't mix law with religion Tonya Johnson, Salt Lake City-
- Accommodating different people not hurting society According to numerous studies, 10 percent of people throughout the world will grow up to be sexually attracted to those of the same gender. This percentage is about the same as those born left-handed. It has always been this way and will always be. No one knows why, but here's what I do know, that 10 percent of our community doesn't deserve to be alienated simply for being slightly different through no fault of their own. Many accommodations have been made for we who are left-handed. The gay and lesbian citizens of this country deserve the same respect. Charles Anderson, Orem-
- Taxpayers shouldn't pay bill for gay-straight alliance When I went to high school in the early '40s, we never suggested at any time having a gay club at our high school because we knew it wouldn't be tolerated in our schools. After reading about the gay club at Provo High School, as a taxpayer supporting education I am thoroughly disgusted. I just hope they aren't using my money to support that gay club in any way, shape or form. What happened to the good old days when the principals and teachers were supported in making the rules and giving our children a good quality education? Elvin Loader, Provo This story appeared in The Daily Herald on page A5.
2005 Activists manifest daily toll of AIDS Fund the fight: Group asks state and federal governments to set aside more money for a cure Downtown display: The 8,500 shoes in SLC represent victims worldwide who die every day from the disease By Pamela Manson The Salt Lake Tribune With all the medical advances made during the past two decades, many Americans believe the AIDS pandemic is over. But on Saturday, rows and rows of shoes in Salt Lake City's Library Square provided a stark reminder of the toll the disease still takes, with each of the 8,500 shoes representing one person in the world who succumbs to AIDS each day. And they formed the backdrop for a rally calling for more state and federal funding for prevention and treatment of AIDS and HIV, the virus that causes AIDS. About 100 people gathered to welcome a caravan of activists traveling from the West to Washington, D.C., to ask lawmakers for more money to combat the disease. "This display is a brilliant, powerful and
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sobering symbol," state Sen. Scott McCoy, D-Salt Lake City, said at the event, organized by local groups as part of the national Campaign to End AIDS. "We cannot let up for one second the fight to end HIV/AIDS." The Utah lawmaker added that it is good public policy to provide funding for treatment. Salt Lake County Mayor Peter Corroon agreed and called for more awareness about the disease. "The treatment advances are effective only with regular testing," Corroon said.
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Stuart Merrill, of Salt Lake City, one of the organizers of the rally, said the campaign encourages Utah legislators to approve $500,000 a year for the Department of Health to provide medication for the estimated 1,600 state residents living with HIV or AIDS. The money would stop cuts in services in Utah and supplement federal funds used to help people with the disease, he said, adding the impact would be significant. "In this day and age, there are very few people who haven't been touched by AIDS," Merrill said. The shoes in Saturday's display were gathered by individuals, advocacy organizations and private companies. They will be donated to women's shelters, rehabilitation centers and charities.
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Stephen Eiche & Derek Streeter |
2008 Together for 19 years: A St.
George couple, Mormon and Catholic, married in California The Salt Lake Tribune
By Rosemary Winters Springdale - Many newlyweds advertise their nuptials with
tin cans strung from the rear bumper and a shaving-cream message in the car
window. Derek Streeter and Stephen Eiche strapped "Just Married"
signs to their backs and marched in a parade.
In Springdale for the Southern Utah Pride Festival, the St. George
couple celebrated their recent California wedding after being together for 19
years. Their T-shirts declared the marriage date: Aug. 30, 2008. "We have talked about this for a really
long time," Streeter said. "If it had been legally recognized, we
would have done it in 1989."
Streeter and Eiche are one of a number of gay couples who have traveled
to California from Utah - even from conservative Washington County, which the
U.S. Census Bureau mistakenly estimates has zero same-sex-partner households -
to be married. A California Supreme
Court ruling legalized the unions in May, although the decision could be
overturned by a ballot measure on Election Day, and the state began issuing
marriage licenses to same-sex couples June 17.
Streeter took that as a sign. He popped the question to Eiche in a
birthday card on that very day. Eiche's sister staged the wedding at her Poway
home in San Diego County, where the pair frequently visits to spend time with
Eiche's family, including his mother.
"For us, it was like getting married in our hometown," Eiche
said. "We knew in St. George it would never happen." The story of how
they met is almost as unlikely. Eiche, 46, grew up in Tomahawk, Wis., one of 12
children in a devout Catholic family. He enlisted in the U.S. Air Force and
eventually landed at Clearfield's Hill Air Force Base as a computer
specialist. Streeter, 59, hails from
London, where as a teenager he joined The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day
Saints. He served an LDS mission in France and later worked at the Missionary
Training Center in Provo for 16 years. Both came from backgrounds - religious
and military - that discouraged being openly gay. Both had moved to Salt Lake
City in hopes of finding a more welcoming community. One Sunday in 1989, they
locked eyes at St. Mark's Cathedral, a downtown Episcopal church. Eiche and
Streeter insist the age-old cliché is true: It was love at first sight. They count that day, April 23, as their
anniversary. As theater lovers, they relish that it's also considered to be
Shakespeare's birthday. The couple settled in St. George after an eight-year
stint in Minnesota that left them weary of cold weather. Streeter directs an
English as Second Language program in Cedar City, and Eiche works as an
accountant for a St. George paving company. They spend weekends visiting art
galleries, attending plays and exploring Utah's National Parks. They make
frequent Saturday trips to nearby Las Vegas - not to gamble, but to shop. The
gregarious couple are well known - even in San Diego, where they visit several
times a year to see family. "Everyone just loves them out here," said
Eiche's sister Norma Flood, who hosted the couple's wedding in Poway.
"Most of the store owners in San Diego know Steve and Derek. I'll go
places and no one really knows me, but everyone knows them." George and Cherie Stoddard threw
an impromptu reception at their Ivins home after learning about Eiche's and
Streeter's marriage. "They are as committed a couple as I've known in my
lifetime," said George Stoddard, who is a marriage and family counselor.
"It's a huge thing for them personally, but also, I believe, for the
institution of marriage." Stoddard has donated to efforts in California to
defeat Proposition 8, the fall ballot initiative that would stop gay marriage
in California. If the proposition passes, California Attorney General Jerry
Brown has said in published reports, it would not be retroactive: Same-sex
marriages, like Eiche's and Streeter's, that already have been performed still
would be recognized. But backers of the gay-marriage ban argue, in the official
voters' information guide, that a "yes" vote on Proposition 8 means
"only marriage between a man and a woman will be valid or recognized in
California, regardless of when or where performed." It's possible the issue
would be settled in court. The ballot measure prompted Streeter and Eiche to be
married before November - they gave Eiche's sister about a month's notice to
prep her backyard for the Labor Day weekend wedding. The couple asked a
Unitarian Universalist minister to officiate. They wanted their marriage
recognized by a church, even if it is ultimately dissolved in California.
"We have a commitment that is, and has been, very strong and sure,"
Streeter said. "For now, at least, we are recognized by a church . . . and
a government." After November, they know their marriage still will be
valid in Massachusetts, New York and Connecticut. And, maybe, California.
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2010 McEntee: Harsh words about gays rekindle a mother’s anger By Peg Mcentee The Salt Lake Tribune P Mike Urrutia wrote his note in the car he had started in a closed garage. “I’m just tired. Please let me go.” He was Marilyn Smith’s firstborn, her only son. He was a tender boy, and she recognized early “that he wasn’t real boyish.” But she’d grown up in a tiny Mormon community in Idaho where no one ever even thought about people being gay. “I wasn’t exposed to national newspapers,” Marilyn said. “We had the Lincoln County Journal, you know? And I read that for the gossip around town.” And she never developed much interest in the rest of the world until Mike grew up and introduced his mother to the often devastating complexities of growing up gay in a highly conservative state and faith. Mike died by suicide on Oct. 21, 2001. He was 38. Marilyn’s anguish was renewed earlier this month when LDS Church apostle Boyd K. Packer gave a conference talk on same-sex attraction and gay marriage. Gay-rights advocates cried foul and staged protests; Packer later made substantive changes to the speech to soften and correct it. Marilyn was anything but mollified, so a few days later we sat down at her kitchen table to talk. Thirty years ago, the family moved to Sandy, where Mike had a tough time in high school. He skipped classes and hated P.E., but her only response was that he absolutely had to go to school. “I never asked the right questions. I never tried to understand what was behind what was going on with him,” she says. “When he got a little older, he started being angry.” He couldn’t express what was going on inside, and didn’t feel like anyone would understand if he did. But Mike decided to go on an
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LDS mission, and got a job to earn the money. At 17, he came home and announced he’d told their bishop he thought he was gay. Mike’s dad went to see the bishop; it never occurred to either parent that Marilyn should go, too. “Because I’m this dutiful little Mormon wife,” she said. “That’s how you did things.” So the bishop and Mike’s father arranged to get him “treatment.” They could get things right, and Mike could go on his mission. As Mike wrote in his suicide note, “The Mormon Church sent a 17-yr-old boy into electroshock therapy.” Marilyn said Mike was shown pornography with electrodes attached to his penis. “Perhaps they don’t use that same technique anymore but they did it then and it contributed to my son’s depression and consequent suicide,” she said. By the time Mike finished his mission, his parents had split up. “When he came back, he was just a tortured young man,” Marilyn said. He got into drugs — “a really horrible time,” she said. She still had three daughters to raise, and was working all hours as a personal assistant to an abusive businessman. There just was no time to worry about Mike, she said as her tears fell. “I was trying to survive.” Mike lived at home for a while, then stayed with friends. Finally, he got an apartment in downtown Salt Lake City. “He was so proud of that. He had a job as a cook. He wanted to be a chef,” Marilyn said. “He developed relationships, friendships.” The lonely boy had found some semblance of balance — right until some public figure would say something demeaning about gays, Marilyn says. Then he’d go into a dark funk. He talked about moving to Oregon or California, but never did. As the years went by, Marilyn’s daughters married, had children. In 2000, Mike cooked a beautiful Thanksgiving dinner for the whole family, “which I think was part of his farewell,” Marilyn says. As is often the case with suicide, Mike had given up on therapy for his severe depression and stopped taking his medication. He self-isolated and wouldn’t return his mother’s phone calls. “He was pulling back,” she said. In his note, Mike wrote: “Cremation and no Mormon religion at my funeral. Ashes scattered in the Mtns or along Oregon Wash. Coast.” Marilyn still has his ashes.She’s left the LDS Church and considers herself an atheist. She’s retired, and lives alone with a couple of friendly little dogs. On one wall is a photo of her little boy. On another, a portrait of a dark-haired, handsome man. “You always think: ‘What should I have done? What could I have done?’ I have to keep telling myself, ‘You can’t change anything, and you have to
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move on.’ ” But then someone like Packer, or the openly anti-gay state Sen. Chris Buttars, “says something totally stupid and it just brings it all back. I walk around the house talking to myself and just ranting.” Mental health counselors were no help. She finds some of her relatives well-meaning but clueless. One told her, “I loved Mike, even if he was gay.” Marilyn was aghast. “What do you mean, ‘even if he was gay’? ” she said. “I loved Mike because he was my son, because he was a wonderful young man.” Every now and then, Mike would come to his mother’s house and they’d cook together. He helped her understand there’s more to a meal than meat and potatoes. “I think about him when I’m cooking, experimenting with herbs and things in my garden,” she said. “I feel like he’s here with me.” Peg McEntee is a columnist. Reach her at pegmcentee@sltrib.com.
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2015 Utah artist Trevor Southey, who celebrated
human form and became a gay Mormon icon, dies at 75 From BYU teacher to LGBT icon, Southey, who
died Tuesday at 75, inspired a generation. By Sean P. Means | The Salt Lake Tribune Trevor Southey, a Utah artist who celebrated
the human form and inspired a generation of students, artists and gay Mormons,
died Tuesday in a Salt Lake City hospice. He was 75. "He had a real love
of the figure, of the body," said Gretchen Dietrich, executive director of
the Utah Museum of Fine Arts. "He loved people, and he loved painting and
drawing and sculpting people." Utah Sen. Jim Dabakis, a longtime friend of
the artist, said Southey was perhaps the first major Utah Mormon figure to come
out as gay. The matter-of-fact way he did it, Dabakis said, made him an icon
for the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community in predominantly LDS
Utah. "When he came out, because of the supreme honesty," Dabakis
said, "I think it threw off a lot of people. … He gave a lot of people the
courage to say, 'If he can tell the truth, why can't we?' " Troy Williams,
executive director of Equality Utah, called Southey "a magical human being
who used his art to uplift and inspire. As a gay Mormon artist, he always
acknowledged human suffering and responded by bringing beauty and kindness to
the world." Southey was born in Rhodesia (now Zimbabwe) in 1940, descended
from European colonists who settled in Cape Town, South Africa, in the 17th
century. He converted to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints after
hearing four missionaries singing in harmony and upon learning of the Mormon
belief in the divinity of
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man. After a stint in art school in Sussex, England,
Southey emigrated to America, studying at Brigham Young University in Provo. He
received two degrees at BYU and taught there through 1977. His specialty was
the human figure, which was considered old- fashioned in the late 20th century,
Dietrich said. "He was doing figurative painting when nobody was doing
figurative painting." Southey captured much in the details of his
figurative paintings. "Yes, you're looking at a painted portrait of a
person," Dietrich said. "But in the other details, you're actually
telling many different stories about that person: Who they are, what they
value, who they love." Southey's treatment of the human form sometimes was
at odds with attitudes at LDS Church-owned BYU. He was not allowed to let his
art students draw from nude models. Once Southey submitted a nude painting to a
BYU faculty show, Dabakis said, and the dean persuaded him to paint over the
naughty bits with latex paint — which the students quickly figured out how to
peel off. "I've always expressed my ideals as if I were living and
painting in Renaissance Italy, not puritanical heartland America," Southey
told The Salt Lake Tribune in 2010. Southey's work attracted controversy in
1981, when Salt Lake City International
Airport commissioned a mural. The
finished work, "Flight Aspiration," depicted a nude man and woman
airborne through a deep-blue sky. "He was really proud of it, because it
was awesome," his daughter Marianna Southey said. "But people were
slapping luggage stickers on the offending bits." A local anti-porn group,
Citizens for True Freedom, protested the mural, saying it would incite people
to rape or murder. Airport authorities ultimately took down the mural,
replacing it with a smaller Southey work, an innocuous landscape. ("Flight
Aspiration" is now in the permanent collection of the Utah Museum of Fine
Arts.) Dabakis met Southey when the artist came onto Dabakis' radio show to
talk about the controversy. Dabakis joked that Southey was a terrible interview
subject: When Dabakis asked about the anti-porn group's accusations, Southey
replied, "Well, they do have a point." "It was so much the soul
of Trevor," Dabakis said. "He refused to see evil. He refused to see
ugliness. He refused to look at a world that wasn't idyllic, where beauty
didn't reign." Dabakis, who owned a Park City art gallery that represented
Southey, said the artist's honesty sometimes cost him business. Once, Dabakis
recalled, he had nearly sold one of Southey's works to a client, until the
artist started pointing out the flaws in his own work. "I can't say how
many sales we lost," Dabakis said, "because he talked a client out of
a painting." In 1982, at age 42, Southey went public that he was gay. The
decision ended his marriage to Elaine. In 1985, Southey relocated to the San
Francisco Bay Area and ultimately was joined there by his adult children. Southey
moved back to Provo in 2013 because of his health — he had been diagnosed with
prostate cancer a decade earlier, and Parkinson's disease around 2010. His
children, one by one, also moved back to Utah. For the past year, he lived in
hospice in Salt Lake City.
"I like
to say I've lived five lives in one body," Southey said in 2010, "and
the artist's life is just one of those."
Southey is survived by his ex-wife, Elaine
Fish Walton; their four children: Marianna Southey, Kevin Southey, Sarah
Southey and Susanna Cornaby; and six grandchildren. A memorial service is
scheduled for Sunday, Nov. 8, at 3 p.m., in the Dumke Auditorium of the Utah
Museum of Fine Arts, 410 Campus Center Drive, University of Utah, Salt Lake
City.
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