Thursday, June 19, 2014

This Day In Gay Utah History June 19th

19 June
1975-The American Medical Association passed a resolution urging all states to repeal laws criminalizing homosexual acts between consenting adults. -
1975 A judge in Catskill New York awarded permanent custody of a 13-year-old boy to his father, a gay minister. His reasoning was that the father does not abuse the child in any way, contrary to what he sees out of many "so-called straight people."
Jerry Falwell
1983-In Lynchburg Virginia, Jerry Falwell told his followers that AIDS is a punishment from God, and that no medication could halt the judgement of God. Episcopal bishop Paul Moore of New York criticized Falwell for using an epidemic as a political weapon.

1988-Sunday- BEACH PARTY with Frankie Avalon and Annette Funicello Look a Like Contest held at The Sun 

1988 I went to Affirmation tonight and they had another video on Phil Donahue. Nothing special. I just went to announce the Beyond Stonewall Retreat and the Romanovski and Phillips Concert on Tuesday [Journal of Ben Williams]

1991 On Channel 7 KUED Peter Adair’s "Absolutely Positive" was shown. Poor poor Gay people. We suffer so much, and yet not only survive, but also keep our compassion and dignity. [Journal of Ben Williams]

1989-The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force announced that executive director Jeff Levi
Urvashi Vaid
would be leaving and he would be replaced by Urvashi Vaid.

1998-Governor Tony Knowles of Alaska vetoed a bill which would have criminalized sex by anyone who was HIV positive, even if the virus was not transmitted.

1998-A Superior Court judge in San Francisco ruled that a regulation that bars gays and lesbians from serving in the California National Guard was unconstitutional. The suit had been brought by Lt. Andrew Holmes.

1999 Saturday The Annual  "Walk for Life" Utah AIDS Foundation fund-raiser was held with portions of the  NAMES Project Utah AIDS Memorial Quilt being displayed.

2003    Salt  Lake Tribune Section: Utah    Page: B4 Students push for a gay/straight chapter at Logan school Alliance: Principal says the time is right for such a club in northern Utah, but it may take until fall By Shane Johnson    The Salt Lake Tribune A proposed Logan High School chapter of the national Gay/Straight Alliance caught school officials off guard, but they say they will work with students to make the club a reality.  "It was a lot worse my freshman year, but now I don't even interact with those people," said junior Mark Sailor of the harassment he endures for being gay. He is one of the students trying to start the club. But the climate of intolerance is enough that he and friend Jessica Liddell are pushing for the support group, which would pro- vide support for marginalized gay and lesbian students and promote tolerance and acceptance. Principal Charles Nelson agrees that some at the school harbor an intolerant attitude toward gays and lesbians. "I don't think I would describe it as hostile, but I would certainly describe it as unfriendly," he said Monday. Nelson said the time is right for such a club at the northern Utah school, but it may take the better part of the summer to reconcile district policy and state and federal law before a charter can be drafted and voted on by the school's faculty and the student senate, neither of which will meet until fall. Similar issues were raised in 1996 when the Salt Lake City School Board banned all nonacademic clubs to block East High School students from starting their own Gay/Straight Alliance. A protracted battle ended in 2000 when the board reinstated the clubs, succumbing to public and legal pressures. Nelson said the Logan School District does not want to refight that battle, but added that "with a conservative northern Utah community, there is going to be a lot of emotion involved with it." Sailor and Liddell approached school administrators in April with their idea for the club. Nelson initially told them that the proposal was out of line with new district policies that deny access to clubs that "materially or substantially . . . involve human sexuality." To be in compliance with the rules, the students would have to create an organization with a more generic name, and with a mission statement that would fight discrimination in general, not just that based on sexual orientation, Sailor said.    But Liddell said an umbrella group addressing other forms of discrimination would miss the mark.  "It is widely understood that race discrimination is not OK, where [discrimination based on sexual orientation] is something that is just not talked about." The students -- both standouts on the school's debate team -- do not foresee the need for legal action, but they have not ruled it out if their proposal is ultimately denied, Sailor said.

2003 Ben Williams  to Cathy Cartwright -I created an archive at the old Utah Stonewall Center which surreptitiously was disposed of and am very reticent to create another physical archives.  Some of the material was saved and donated to the U of U Marriott Library but all the artifacts disappeared. Chad Keller's idea is more of a museum and my concept is more research librarianish! You are correct about creating a quick "What to save and what not" List. Clutter is the bane of every collection but then again people's garbage is an archaeologist dream. Give me some time to think about what would be useful and I will post it here. PS I travel so if your group would ever like a presentation on historical subjects I would be happy to oblige.  Best Wishes Ben Williams

2003  "Hard Times for Man in OSH; Charges Pending By Cara Wieser Daily Chronicle A man was detained in Orson Spencer Hall after allegedly exposing himself repeatedly while in a state of sexual arousal. U Police were called, but the man was released after the complainant asked for time to think about whether or not to press charges."

2004 ANNUAL WALK FOR LIFE Just a reminder that the 16th Annual Walk For Life, a fundraiser for the Utah AIDS Foundation, is on Saturday June 19 in downtown Salt Lake City This year, the event will begin and end inside the Folk & Bluegrass Festival on Saturday, June 19.  The Walk begins at 6pm.  Please visit www.utahaids.org for all the info (including Registration/Pledge Forms, this year's route, the schedule for the Folk & Bluegrass Festival).  Plan now to get your friends, family and co-workers together to walk and raise funds for UAF. AND... Plan to join us on Tuesday, June 15 at Madstone Theatres for our pre-registration party.  Register at 6pm, pick up your Walk For Life t-shirt, and see the Madstone flick of your choice that night absolutely free!

2005 Dear Friends, Acquaintances, and Social Butterflies, You are cordially invited to the GRAND OPENING of Room 32's Alternative lifestyle Gay Night HOSTED BY PONYBOY, DJ TROIXx from  New York, New York and Myself MISS GAY UTAH 22 Legacy Vaughn. I very excited to be a part of this event, and not just this one event but also every Sunday of the the month. The New and amazing atmosphere, and group of people who Own, Operate, and attend Room 32 you would think would be enough. But also because, The Owners and I have decided to give every Sundays earnings at the door to a Charity, or organization inside the GLBTQQ community or one that might not be directly in the community but is also beneficial to helping us in whatever positive way they can. This Sunday the Owners, along with my Partners, and I have decided assist The GLBTQQCU, (The Center) and since The Royal Court was one of the "Fore Fathers" ( or is that Fore Drag Queens? Hmmmm?) I am asking you to assist me in keeping The Center and all of its assets alive for future generations. As they are who we count on to keep our organization alive after we have all retired. Not just that but for various other positive, important, and beneficial reasons for our community.  In Final, I have to ask for your help on my own behalf. This awesome events and the Sundays to follow is a dream come true for me, and it is the course of study I am taking in the spring of 06'. As I hope to graduate with a diploma in Theatre and Events Management. I need your help in supporting me and this Rockin Sunday night it would be most appreciated as I hope to help others while expanding my horizons in education. So please join me this Sunday  and many more to come, As Room 32, PONYBOY, DJ TOIXx, and I Miss Gay Utah 22 and Newly Queen of Room 32 Legacy Vaughn present Sinners And Saints this Sunday and every Sunday at Room 32.  FREE BOTTLE OF CHAMPAGNE FOR ALL PARTIES  OF 5+ that RSVP before Sunday!!!!!!'

2009 Diversity is an article of faith for Utah gay-friendly church South Valley » Transgender minister leads flock of LGBT and straight congregants. By Rosemary Winters The Salt Lake
Sean Dennison
Tribune Cottonwood Heights » The Rev. Sean Parker Dennison knows how it feels to struggle to fit, to blend, to belong. Now, Dennison greets a variety of people -- young and old, gay and straight, Anglo and non-Anglo -- to Sunday services at the South Valley Unitarian Universalist Society, a religious community that bills itself as "intentionally diverse."  On the chapel's exterior hangs a giant rainbow flag with the label "hate-free zone," a welcome mat for at least one sometimes-marginalized community that has found refuge at the church: lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people. Dennison himself is transgender. As a young woman in Iowa, he "tried on every single feminine identity" he could find, from "fundamentalist Christian" high-school girl to "butch dyke," before realizing his true self is a man, not a woman. Dennison, 43, had his epiphany when he began attending a Berkeley, Calif., seminary to be a Unitarian Universalist minister. He came out a year later in 1997. "I went to the president of the seminary, scared to death, thinking she might kick me out," he recalls. "When I'm scared, I tend to overcompensate. I marched into her office and said, 'You and the school are going to have the privilege of watching me transition from female to male.' " The president told him, "How wonderful. Tell me about it."  Dennison says he then "burst into tears because she believed me. I didn't even believe me." In 2002, he found his first "settled" ministry at the South Valley church in Cottonwood Heights. As a transgender minister, even in the liberal Unitarian Universalist religion, it took a little longer for him to find a long-term post. "Who would've thought it would be in Salt Lake City?" he says. "They were just ready here. And I think there is something to them feeling like outsiders in the culture of Salt Lake City that made them have a different way of looking at me being different than the normal minister."  Dennison's congregation has embraced the push for civil rights for LGBT people in Utah. Members of the church hoisted a giant rainbow flag in Salt Lake City's pride parade earlier this month. South Valley signed onto Equality Utah's Common Ground Initiative -- a legislative campaign crafted around LDS Church statements about certain rights for same-sex couples, short of marriage, that the Mormon leadership does not oppose. The LDS Church has not endorsed the push, which fizzled in the 2009 Legislature but will return in 2010. Dennison testified on behalf of one of the bills at a House committee hearing, quoting the Bible and the Book of Mormon. Still, members of South Valley congregation -- 150 adults and 60 children -- are quick to point out theirs is not a "gay church." About 10 percent to 15 percent of attendees are LGBT, estimates Dennison. Unitarian Universalists -- UUs, as they like to call themselves -- welcome everyone. That was an important factor for Darin Adams when he adopted the faith in Connecticut a few years ago. A former Mormon who left his church and his wife of eight years after coming out as gay, Adams felt a "void." He missed having a community where he could talk about spiritual things. He typed "gay-friendly church" -- intentionally avoiding "gay church" -- into Google. He found the Unitarian Universalist church in Westport, Conn. He began attending the Cottonwood Heights chapel last year after moving to Pleasant Grove. "Everyone's welcoming. Everyone is loved and valued," says Adams, 36. "That's a powerful thing and something that didn't exist in my previous church." South Valley also has provided support to Robyn Taylor-Granda and her husband, Eddie Granda, as they've worked to adopt five Ecuadorean orphans, who also are Eddie's half-siblings. The kids, ages 11 to 18, arrived in Cottonwood Heights in March. Church members have donated cash, clothing and gift cards to help the couple -- both of whom recently lost their jobs -- provide for the kids. "Everyone's been really involved," says Taylor-Granda, who also has an 8-year-old daughter and a 13-year-old son. "It's a congregation of people who want to be useful and want to give something back."  The kids enjoy coming to church even though they don't speak English, Taylor-Granda says. They like the social aspect of the meetings, which often are followed by pancake breakfasts or other gatherings. The kids, she says, ask her, "Do you guys have parties every Sunday?"  There aren't parties every week. But South Valley does celebrate diversity -- every day. About South Valley Unitarian Universalist Society What » Unitarians encourage a wide spectrum of belief and even doubt. Although not a Christian denomination, the church welcomes Christians, along with those from other faith traditions. Where » 6876 S. 2000 East, Cottonwood Heights. When » Sunday service is at 10:30 a.m.

2010 McEntee: Jim Dabakis -- from talk radio to Russian art The Salt Lake Tribune As a kid,
Jim Dabakis
 Jim Dabakis wanted nothing more than to be a radio talk show host. So he hustled a nonpaying job at a little AM station in Salt Lake City, working all hours at no pay to learn the fundamentals, and finally made it to the mic. Such paid gigs would last 13 years, earning Jim the voice he'd yearned for. He also developed a sideline there, leading tours to the Soviet Union. He didn't make much money, but he scraped enough together to buy a little stake in some stations. In the mid-1990s, Clear Channel swept through, buying small stations. For the first time in his life, Jim was a rich guy. The radio was passion No. 1. There would be many more to come -- travel, education, LGBT rights and art. Specifically, Russian impressionism, made by hugely talented, impoverished Russian artists who had never earned a shred of respect in their homeland. Jim grew up in Springfield, Mass., and joined the LDS Church there as a means of playing basketball, his partner, Stephen Justesen, told me. He tried Brigham Young University, didn't last, and served a mission. "When I got my patriarchal blessing, he told me I'd be called to serve among my people," Jim says, laughing. "They sent me to San Francisco."  Later, he met Stephen, and together they moved to Budapest, Hungary, and tore through Eastern Europe, ending up in St. Petersburg, Russia. Jim met professors at a Soviet university that was ditching its Marxist-Leninist curriculum for business education, and they asked him to teach some classes. That led to a series of micro-businesses involving Jim and the students, with operations that still exist in Europe and Asia. But they retained roots in Utah, where Jim helped found Equality Utah and the Utah Pride Center. Jim also played a role in last year's discussions with LDS Church representatives, which resulted in the faith's endorsement of Salt Lake City's ordinance protecting sexual minorities from job or housing discrimination. Today, Jim and Stephen have a home in Holladay and an apartment in St. Petersburg. Every year, they'll rent an apartment for four months or so in, say, Mumbai, Shanghai or Tehran, and Jim writes long e-mails home about his adventures. Like the time in China when a gaggle of hair stylists found Jim, who emerged with purple hair, except for the orange-green streaks. Or in India, where he fell in with a huge crowd of snake charmers ("Snakes everywhere -- mostly cobras!" he wrote) protesting a new law banning snake charming. Anti-animal abuse activists were behind it, Jim wrote, and had convinced the government that snake charming is cruel to animals. Jim wound up on a four-day cobra-hunting expedition and survived. He asked one of his new friends what he thought about the people who pushed the law through. He reflected, and said, "I wish they would all be reborn as cockroaches." For Jim and Stephen, the Russian art saga began in 1990 in St. Petersburg, when a young artist told Jim of an extraordinary collection he'd seen in a Moscow hospital. With the Soviet Union having collapsed, Jim sent search teams throughout the region, looking for that art and other artists and their work. The undertaking spanned years, but ultimately, Jim obtained the Hospital Collection (one ballerina piece remains at the McCune Mansion in Salt Lake City) and much more. On Friday, I joined Jim at the Thomas Kearns McCarthey Gallery in Park City, which features dozens of Russian paintings, drawings, lithographs and the most ornate matryoshka, or Russian nesting dolls, that I've ever seen. The work is incomparable. I was taken most by Grigoriy Leontievich Chainokov, who sought out the villages that over time were abandoned by everyone but the old people. In one painting, a man sits in a rough, tiny home and sharpens his scythe. I came back to it time and again.
I asked Jim about how he and his partners got the paintings out of Russia. Working through the bureaucracy, he said. No one wanted any questions about the validity of the acquisitions.  "Every painting we've ever gotten out of Russia we've done officially ... and sometimes we haven't gotten pieces out," he said. Jim and his working partners have made money on the art, but that wasn't the only point. "The big deal about all of this is, we were so lucky to happen to stumble into Russia in the 1980s and be part of the discovering of a whole genre of art that the world didn't know about," he said. But the American critics and experts were dismissive, Jim said, until the paintings began selling at European auctions. "When the prices went up, suddenly those critics said 'Wow, maybe there is something to this.' " Jim said. Well, I'm certainly no art expert, but I think so. Jim has opened another set of eyes to the artists who, as he put it, "were painting for their souls." Peg McEntee is a columnist


Dr. Kristen Ries
2017 (KUTV) Dr. Kristen Ries was on the forefront of the HIV/AIDS epidemic in Utah. She was the first doctor who would treat patients with the disease. Ries moved to Utah in 1981, the same day the disease was described. Her specialty just happened to be infectious diseases. "I said, 'I think this is an infectious disease. I better follow this carefully because it's going to be big," Ries recalled. As the disease progressed in the state, Ries saw her fellow doctors turn away patients with HIV. "Even one of my friends and colleagues told me, 'Your patients deserve it,'" said Ries. But Ries would treat them and wasn't afraid to touch her patients. By 1985-1986, she saw her first 50 patients. "We really believed that every person deserved care, no matter what," she said. Ries also witnessed a social bias against the people who contracted HIV. Many of her patients were gay, but they weren't the only ones who had HIV. Ries also treated drug users, transplant patients who got it from blood transfusions, and more. "I just thought of them as people because I think all people were people first and foremost," she said. "It doesn't matter what group they belonged to." Ries says it was a "miracle" that she arrived in Utah when she did, although she describes it as "being in the right place, at the right time, with the right training." She looks back on her career and her time with patients with great emotion. "I feel really good about what we were able to do and where we are now," she said. "I'm really glad to have met people from all walks of life. And they've made me a better person." But that time can also be painful for her to remember. Ries worked virtually alone for the first 10 years of the epidemic until Maggie Snyder, a PA, joined her. "She says I promised her we'd be done every day by five and weekends off," Ries laughed. "But it turned out we were both working 24/7." Snyder eventually ended up becoming her wife as well. "Once we retired, I think it took us two years to realize we probably had post-traumatic stress," said Ries. "We feel really good about what we did and wish we could do more even now." Ries' upbringing was a great influence on her. She grew up on a farm in Pennsylvania, where her family was "quite poor." Her parents were Quakers. "My mother, my father, they were always looking out for other people. And I think it just becomes a part of you," she said. Ries has no doubt saved many lives, and nearly every week she meets one of her patients or a family member of a patient who thanks her for her work. "It makes you feel almost inadequate, like you should have done more," she said. "I think many people would be much happier if they gave more to other people."
Charles Frost

2017  Charles Frost facilitated a meeting at Gay Men Aloud on The Epidemic of Gay Loneliness at the downtown Salt Lake Library.Because of construction at the Baptist Ward, the meeting was held at the Salt Lake Main Library 

  • Ked Kirkham Thank you for this thought provoking topic and discussion. There is no way that all its nuance can be covered in on meeting, or with one outcome. I have some feelings about the short mention at the beginning. Professionally I am required to have 2 CEU hours each license period on suicide prevention. I wonder if any of you has the DOPL approval to lead such a discussion, or barring that, know of a qualified course that would be GLBT specific. Again, thank you for last evening's discussion.



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