Monday, September 30, 2013

This Day In Gay Utah History September 30



September 30th

1896 Frank Merrill, Patsy Calvey, and James Owens the tramps bound over from Justice De Moisy’s court on a complaint charging them with  a “Crime Against Nature” came before Judge Hatch to plead not guilty. Provo Daily Enquirer 



1950- Salt Lake City Police reports state that 30 people were arrested for disorderly conduct along with two sex offenses during the month of September (SLTribune 10/7/50 page 19 pg.1) Disorderly conduct covered public lewdness.

1958 The Salt Lake Tribune editor opposes prison sentences for men arrested for homosexual activities and urged local courts to give suspended sentences and professional counseling to all those convicted of homosexual conduct.  A Wise Court Policy- City Judge Arthur J. Mays the other day out lined his policy in dealing with homosexual cases brought before his court.  Due to increase activity by the police anti-vice squad, there has been a considerable increase in such cases in recent months.  Judge Mays noted a wide difference of opinion among psychiatric experts as whether homosexuals can be ‘rehabilitated”.  But he said he had decided on a policy of giving offenders the chance for rehabilitation if they would cooperate in accepting psychiatric help.  Under such circumstances the judge said he is inclined to suspend the jail sentences if it is as periodic checks by the court indicate the defendant is cooperating and medical reports indicate no further trouble from the man the court is to be expected.  We think Judge Mays is to be commended on this attitude.  Homosexuality is a social evil which must be fought.  But experience proves that confinement in jail or prison proves that confinement in jail or prison is no answer.  Indeed it may spread the “disease” through new contacts in the artificial monosexual confines of such institution.  Rehabilitation through medical treatment is not sure as Judge Mays indicated.  But some are helped thereby and every effort should be made to achieve such a real “cure” for the problem rather than continue the pattern of jail or prison sentences which either moves the homosexual repeatedly in and out of institutions or impels him to move to other areas in search of an easier police climate (09/30/58 Page 12 Col. 2 SLTribune)
1967 Sgt. Gene P. Young, a 12 year veteran of the Salt Lake City Vice department was recognized  for his efforts in recent vice raids on liquor clubs and prostitution which he planned and organized.  Officer had only been a member of vice control for past the 16 months. (09/30/67 SLTribune page 23)

Leather David
Created 1966 for grand opening
of Fe-Bes the 1st Leather Bar
on Folsom Street
1970- The California State liquor authorities closed down Fe-Be's, a leather bar in San Francisco. It would re-open the next year.

1970- The Advocate reported the case of a Gay man who was severely beaten by New York City police during a Gay Liberation Front demonstration because a policeman ordered him to move and he turned the wrong way.

1985-Four female impersonators were arrested for performing in Meridian Mississippi.

1985- A Gay Australian man who had been living in the US with his partner, Richard Adams, for 11 years was deported by a federal court on the grounds that he was a homosexual. An Immigration and Naturalization Service official argued that a loving relationship cannot exist between "faggots."

1987-Sen. Lowell Weicker (R-CT) and Rep Ted Weiss (D-NY) criticized President Reagan for being unresponsive toward the AIDS epidemic.
Connell O'Donovan

1990 Sunday- Connell Rocky O'Donovan and Robert Erichhssen became first Gay people married under the care of the Salt Lake's Society of Friends (Quakers).

Gayle Ruzicka
1992-The Salt Lake City county board of commissioners approved two ordinances that prohibit anti-gay discrimination in employment and services. They ordinances were the first bans on anti-gay bias enacted in UtahFollowing clashes in and out of the Salt Lake County Commission chambers Wednesday night, advocates and opponents of Utah's first gay and lesbian anti-discrimination law agreed on one thing: They have just begun to fight. "This sets an important precedent," said Dale Sorenson, executive director of Gay and Lesbian Democrats. "We plan to take this to the Legislature and every other county and city.""It definitely sets a precedent," Gayle Ruzicka of the Eagle Forum conceded, "but it's the wrong one." She and other opponents said they were caught off guard by the county's "hasty" action but promised they will be ready next time. As about two dozen supporters waved yellow "Vote Yes" placards and cheered, commissioners voted 2-1 to enact the ordinance, which prohibits discrimination based on "age, marital status, color, national origin, sex, sexual orientation, race or religion" in county government services and employment.  Commissioner Mike Stewart, the sole Republican on the panel, voted "no," arguing that federal and state laws already protect individuals against discrimination. Noting that the county's legal staff had also expressed reservations, Stewart urged his colleagues to "consider this with reflective reason rather than glands and hormones." Commissioner Randy 
Randy Horiuchi
Horiuchi responded that the importance of including sexual orientation in anti-discrimination laws has been recognized by more than 100 jurisdictions around the nation. And he explained that he agreed to sponsor the ordinance because he understands discrimination from first-hand experience as a member of a racial minority and wants no part of it in Salt Lake County government.
  Commission Chairman Jim Bradley echoed that sentiment, saying, "Today, I'm voting against intolerance, discrimination and intimidation. This ordinance is non-judgmental, as I believe government should be."  The ordinance was written by David Nelson, founder of Gay and 
Angela Nutt, Dale Sorenson,
 David Nelson
Lesbian Utah Democrats, who said federal and state laws don't offer the protection claimed by Stewart and the county's lawyers. "They are flat-out wrong," Nelson said. "The Supreme Court has said that sexual orientation is not a protected class, which means the county's 300 gay and lesbian employees could have been fired without recourse." Besides rejecting Nelson's contention that 10 percent of the county's work force is homosexual, Ruzicka took exception to the proponents' arguments that the law helps everyone and harms no one. "It hurts us as parents," she said. For example, she said, the county could assign a homosexual counselor to a troubled youth, and parents would be forced to accept the decision. "There will be lawsuits over this." She and others also expressed fears that the ordinance officially encourages and condones homosexuality. Nelson scoffed at that, saying, "It doesn't encourage homosexuality any more than religious protection encourages her (Ruzicka's) Mormonism." As the debate outside the commission chambers degenerated into name-calling, both sides promised to escalate the battle in the next arena. Opponents characterized the county's action as a left-wing aberration and predicted such laws would be less well received elsewhere. "Their minds were already made up," Ruzicka said. "Next time, we'll hopefully have more reasonable elected officials to deal with. Next time, we'll be there." FIGHT OVER MEASURE `JUST BEGINNING' By Joe Costanzo, Staff Writer Published: Thursday, Oct. 1 1992 12:00 a.m. MDT Deseret News

1992 On Sept. 30, Salt Lake County citizen David Nelson writes and proposes a bill to the county Board of Commissioners which would amend the county Code of Ordinances by prohibiting discrimination in county-government employment and services based on age, marital status, color, national origin, sex, sexual orientation, race or religion. Commissioner Randy Horiuchi sponsors the bill. Commissioners vote 2-1 for the bill, and it is adopted as county Ordinance No. 1212. It becomes the first law in the state that prohibits discrimination based on sexual orientation

John Bennett
1995-  Lesbian, Gay Chorus Now in its third year, the 50-voice Lesbian and Gay Chorus of Salt Lake City begins a season of concerts, benefits and fund-raisers. A Sept. 30 concert at the Art Barn, 54 Finch Lane (1330 East), Salt Lake City, will raise funds for the Salt Lake Guadalupe Center. The choir's traditional holiday program is Dec. 15 at First Baptist Church, 777 S. 1300 East, Salt Lake City. During   Pride Week, usually the second week in June, the choir will sing music written by gay and lesbian composers.  Also in June, the ensemble plans a trip to Tampa, Fla., for the Gay and Lesbian Association of Choruses' Festival V -- one of 90 invited ensembles from across the United States. Music director Meloni Gunderson said the singers also perform for area church services, and at memorial services, conferences and community events throughout the year.    .Page: E3 Salt Lake Tribune. John Bennett President of teh Gay and Lesbian Chorus of Salt Lake City.

1996    Armed robber Penisimani ``Ben'' Po'uha, 19, is doing prison time for forcing one of his victims to perform oral sex on him during a Salt Lake County crime spree in March. While awaiting trial, he forced a fellow inmate to commit a similar act at the Salt Lake County Jail, according to new charges filed Friday in 3rd District Court. Po'uha and John Rory Gonzales, 34, allegedly assaulted the 32-year-old inmate on July 3 by jabbing a pencil into the man's throat and forcing him to commit oral sex on each of them, sodomy charges allege. The attack occurred the day after the victim was jailed for violating the probation he was granted on a drug conviction. He since has been sent to Utah State Prison. Gonzales is awaiting an Oct. 28 sentencing for a drug conviction. 09/30/96 Page: D2  SEX INMATE CRIMES 

1997-A letter from US Roman Catholic bishops was released which said that homosexual orientation is not chosen and that parents of gay and lesbian children must not reject them. "Always Our Children: A Pastoral Message To Parents Of Homosexual Children And Suggestions For Pastoral Ministers - A Statement of the Bishops' Committee on Marriage and Family" The purpose of this pastoral message is to reach out to parents trying to cope with the discovery of homosexuality in their adolescent or adult child. It urges families to draw upon the reservoirs of faith, hope, and love as they face uncharted futures. It asks them to recognize that the Church offers enormous spiritual resources to strengthen and support them at this moment in their family's life and in the days to come. This message is not intended for advocacy purposes or to serve a particular agenda. It is not to be understood as an endorsement of what some call a "homosexual lifestyle." Always Our Children is an outstretched hand of the bishops' Committee on Marriage and Family to parents and other family members, offering them a fresh look at the grace present in family life and the unfailing mercy of Christ our Lord.  Full Text of Letter

2005 Friday Miss Gay Utah Shardone is hosting "Absolutely SINful"  A Gospel type show at the Paper Moon.  Show time is 9pm and $5 for members and $6 for non members. Proceeds to benefit the Wade DeForest aka Felicia Children Young Adult Fund

Jennifer Fulton
2006 Did she or didn't she? Writer spins her own mystery By Brooke Adams The Salt Lake Tribune Here's a mystery: Did a lesbian author of detective novels really infiltrate the polygamous sect led by Warren S. Jeffs as research for her latest book? Jennifer Fulton makes that claim in an interview published recently on AfterEllen .com, a Web site that covers lesbian and bisexual women who work in entertainment and media. The author said she spent two weeks living with a family in the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, posing as a widow with two daughters in search of a husband who practices The Principle, as plural marriage is called. Fulton said the ploy helped her bring authenticity to her novel Grave Silence - at risk to her life. The FLDS are a notoriously closed polygamous sect whose members shun outsiders and do not proselytize. Women who have left the community said Fulton's claim is pure fiction. "I don't think there is a remote possibility that could be accurate," said Carolyn Jessop, a former plural wife who left the FLDS faith in 2003. "It is absolutely taboo to bring outsiders in." Adds LuAnn Fischer, who left the FLDS in 2000: "There is no way that would happen. They don't convert anybody because The Principle is so hard to live." Fulton declined an interview request with The Salt Lake Tribune, saying she never intended to go public with her escapade but did so only to please her publisher. "Were I to provide now what verification I can to a reporter like yourself for a formal interview, I would have no choice but to compromise people who have done me no harm including sources whose anonymity was the basis of their advice and help to me," Fulton wrote in an e-mail. "I already feel bad about the manner in which I gained access to this community, so I don't want to make matters worse." Fulton, who wrote Grave Silence under the name Rose Beecham, said she spent six years researching the FLDS sect. She told AfterEllen.com that her interest was tripped after she stumbled onto the community during a road trip and that every detail in the book is as she "witnessed" it. Grave Silence, published in December, follows Montezuma County Sheriff's detective Jude Devine as she investigates the murder of a pregnant teenager. The trail leads to a polygamous FLDS sect in Utah, and one family in particular that lives on the "Gathering for Zion Ranch." Current events involving the FLDS and their society – widely covered in daily media - figure prominently in the story line, from the sect's purchase of properties in Mancos, Colo., and elsewhere, to Jeffs' debut on the FBI's "Most Wanted" fugitive list and Utah's move to decertify polygamous police officers. Utah gets a drubbing in the story, described as unwilling to go after polygamists because fundamentalist Mormons are "a snapshot of what the Mormon church used to be before they reinvented themselves." Fulton told AfterEllen.com she first contacted Mormon friends who introduced her to teens who had fled the FLDS community. She then corresponded with a woman who had left the faith and that woman arranged for her to meet relatives who, in turn, introduced her to other relatives. That family allowed her to become a "participant" in their household, where she carried out household chores and baby-sat under the direction of the "head wife." Fulton said she witnessed a "high level of psychological and physical abuse," though the family tried to make a good impression. "I was inspected and 'interviewed' by a couple of powerful men in the community, and then introduced to several men willing to become my husband," Fulton told AfterEllen.com. "Usually a husband is assigned, but in my case they made quite a thing out of how I would have a choice." She also claimed that the host family would have "curried favor" with Jeffs if it had been able to bring her daughters into the faith. Fulton told the online publication that "silence and complicity have enabled this Taliban-like community to flourish on American soil, and I will not be a party to that." However, Fulton apparently now has decided silence is necessary. She also admitted fabricating a few things in her AfterEllen.com interview. In her e-mail to the Tribune Fulton said she "tossed in" remarks aimed at "convincing insiders that this is probably bogus. "Anyone who has researched the FLDS for six years, as I have, does not make such 'mistakes' unless with a purpose. Mine was to ensure my sources are never compromised," wrote Fulton, who is the author of 12 lesbian novels and lives in Colorado. She also writes under the name Grace Lennox. Jessop and Fischer believe that is all a shtick to help Fulton sell her book and that the "mistakes" she made are with the facts, particularly in her interview. An example: Fulton describes helping a woman give birth in "filthy conditions" because the FLDS don't use doctors. The community in fact operates a birth clinic and, when problems occur, go to hospitals in St. George and in Salt Lake City for help. Another: Fulton said she is "haunted" by a baby graveyard and repeats an unfounded rumor that it is filled mostly with children "murdered by their parents." There is no factual basis for the claim about the cemetery, where children and even stillborn babies have been buried since the 1950s. In a recent story about the cemetery, the St. George Spectrum quoted Mohave County, Ariz., Investigator Gary Engels as saying the rumors are unfounded. "There is no indication of anything wrong going on there," Engels said. "I think it's a combination of a very high birth rate for the population and maybe the health of the mothers." And one more: Faithful FLDS men currently don't choose their wives. The FLDS practice placement marriages, with women and men assigned to matches by Jeffs, who is believed to be guided by God in his matchmaking. "She's done her research and read enough books to come up with generalities," said Fischer. "The psychological or whatever abuse, wouldn't people be on their best behavior? It's just unbelievable." Jessop said that the FLDS "is not a cult that goes out and recruits people in. These men are not going to bring a gentile [as outsiders are called] into their families." Or even allow strangers into their homes. Most FLDS consecrate their homes - and often their vehicles and yards - in a religious ceremony and believe allowing an outsider to come in will defile the residences. "If someone comes into the home with an unclean spirit it contaminates the home and they would have to go through and completely clean and rededicate that home," said Jessop, describing it as a laborious process. So, the plot thickens.

Dan Fair

2009 DJ Bell By Jesse Fruhwirth Salt Lake City weekly DJ Bell, 31, formerly of South Salt Lake, was facing 30 years to life in prison, accused by his neighbors of kidnapping two children on July 4, 2008. Minutes after being accused, he and his partner, Dan Fair, were severely beaten, but no charges have been filed against the attackers. A 3rd District Court jury in Salt Lake City acquitted Bell on Sept. 25.
Question- When did you realize the investigation was focusing on you as a kidnapper, not as an assault victim? 
DJ-There’s a lot I don’t remember after being beat. I didn’t realize until I already had been incarcerated a couple days. I wondered, “What am I doing here?” I wondered why I couldn’t hear out of my right ear and wondered why I had been arrested. I found out from my sister that no arrests had been made on [the childen’s] family side. 
Question-Do you believe that homophobia played a role in the investigation and prosecution of this case? 
DJ-Absolutely. As soon as the words “pedophile” and “faggot” were used at the same time—the South Salt Lake Police officer heard that accusation from the state’s witnesses—the police automatically dropped all thought of it being a beating and automatically started going with the pedophile theory. 
Question What would you like to see happen to your attackers? I think some should be prosecuted for aggravated assault, but there are two in particular that we would like to see brought up on charges of attempted murder. There was one female at the party that was calling them off. Some stopped and walked away. There were two others that did not. They left Dan with such injuries that both the original doctor and [his] reconstructive surgeon said it was clear that they had tried to kill him. 
Question-How did you afford your robust legal team? 
DJ-My parents had to leverage their home and used up all their savings. Now my parents are flat broke. We were lucky enough to get attorneys that believed in me. They decided to take it for a much lower rate. Our entire investigation staff worked for free. Two expert witnesses did it for free, and one did it for a nominal fee. 
Question-Does this experience make you feel differently about children? 
DJ- It’s best to just leave children alone, especially for a gay person, because there is still that stigma. Unless you are a family member, do not interact with other people’s children. It’s not safe.

2016 The 4th annual Moab Drag Hike! We caravan to Windows Arches in the park and then it's an easy, short walk to the north Window. Meet in Drag at La Quinta parking lot (815 South Main Street) at 5:00 promptly.


2017 Allies Dinner 2017 will be an unforgettable night. Come for an evening of inspiration and entertainment! Join together with friends as we look to the work ahead. Save the date for the Allies Dinner 2017 on Saturday, Sept. 30 at the Salt Palace in Salt Lake City, UT! Tickets and tables go on sale on August 1 to the general public when our keynote is announced! The funds raised from the Allies Dinner benefits our 501(c)4 organization, which supports our advocacy and lobbying efforts on Utah's Capitol Hill. Are you interested in sponsoring Allies Dinner? Email mindy@equalityutah.org. We want everyone to be able to join us, so several donors have made scholarship tickets possible. Questions? Give us a call at 801-355-3479. This event is ADA accessible, please email info@equalityutah.org for accommodations.

2017 SL Tribune By Peggy Fletcher Stack (1 Oct 2017) Mormon opposition to gay marriage will never change, says apostle Oaks, citing ‘statement of eternal truth’ The LDS Church’s opposition to gay marriage is not born of a current legal or political position, a high-ranking Mormon apostle said Saturday. It’s a divine decree that will stand forever. That firm stance may increasingly put Latter-day Saints at odds with family and friends in the U.S. and abroad, Dallin H. Oaks conceded, and pose an inner conflict for members. “We must try to balance the competing demands of following the gospel law in our personal lives and teachings,” he said, “even as we seek to show love for all.” Oaks’ speech came during the Saturday morning session of the 187th Semiannual General Conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Thousands filled the cavernous Conference Center in downtown Salt Lake City and millions more watched the proceedings via satellite in LDS chapels or streamed on the internet in many nations. Absent was a significant figure: church President Thomas S. Monson. The ailing 90-year-old Monson missed some sessions in April, but this time, church officials confirmed, the man considered a “prophet, seer and revelator” by millions of devout Mormons will not attend any sessions of the twice-yearly gathering, which started a week ago with a women’s session. It is the first time that has happened during Monson’s nearly 10-year tenure as leader of the global religion. Another top official, apostle Robert D. Hales, was also absent Saturday. Hales, 85, has been hospitalized for several days and will be unable to attend the fall conference. President Henry B. Eyring, first counselor in the faith’s governing First Presidency, conducted the Saturday morning session and announced that Monson was viewing the proceedings from his nearby home.  It was during that session that Oaks laid out the church’s views on marriage and family. The faith’s 1995 document, “The Family: A Proclamation to the World ” set the Utah-based church apart, the apostle said, from some “current laws, practices and advocacy of the world in which we live,” specifically mentioning “cohabitation without marriage, same-sex marriage and the raising of children involved in such relationships.” Among other statements, that proclamation declared that “marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God” and that “gender is an essential characteristic of individual premortal, mortal and eternal identity and purpose.” The document also calls for the nearly 16 million-member church to promote official “measures designed to maintain and strengthen the family as the fundamental unit of society.” Based on those views, the Mormon church opposed all efforts to make gay marriage legal until the U.S. Supreme Court supported it as the law of the land in 2015. The apostle, a former Utah Supreme Court justice and second in the line of succession to lead the LDS Church, conceded that “the actions of those who try to follow God’s plan of salvation can cause misunderstanding or even conflict with family members or friends who do not believe its principles.” “Such conflict is always so,” he added. “ … But whatever the cause of conflict with those who do not understand or believe God’s plan, those who do are always commanded to choose the Lord’s way instead of the world’s way.” Oaks lamented the “rapid and increasing public acceptance of cohabitation without marriage and same-sex marriage.” He also bemoaned the rising number of young people who are born to parents who are not legally married, pointing to the proclamation statement that children “are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity.” The apostle defended LDS anti-gay marriage activism, acknowledging that “corresponding media advocacy, education and even occupational requirements pose difficult challenges for Latter-day Saints.” Those who do not believe in Mormon teachings about heaven and righteous living, Oaks noted, “consider this family proclamation as just a statement of policy that should be changed.” Latter-day Saints, however, see it as “a statement of eternal truth, the will of the Lord for his children. It has been the basis of church teaching and practice for the last 22 years and will continue so for the future.” The proclamation was created by the church’s all-male Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, then tweaked and approved by the First Presidency in a “revelatory process,” he said, “Language was proposed, reviewed and revised. Prayerfully we continually pleaded with the Lord for his inspiration on what we should say and how we should say it.” Even so, the proclamation has not been canonized in Mormon scripture. When the late apostle Boyd K. Packer referred to the document in a 2010 conference address, stating that it “qualifies according to scriptural definition as a revelation,” that description later was deleted in the online edition of his talk. The final version of Packer’s talk simply called the proclamation “a guide that members of the church would do well to read and to follow.” Yet, Oaks insisted, it continues to — and forever will — represent Mormon views on the family. Other speeches Saturday discussed repentance, the importance of each contribution in local congregations, and the value of Mormonism’s signature scripture, the Book of Mormon. Rather than the more traditional term for deity, Heavenly Father, several speakers referred to Heavenly Parents, reflecting Mormon belief in a Heavenly Mother. Apostle Gary L. Stevenson used the recent eclipse as a metaphor for seeing through “gospel glasses.” “In the same manner that the very small moon can block the magnificent sun, extinguishing its light and warmth,” Stevenson said, “a spiritual eclipse can occur when we allow minor and troublesome obstructions — those we face in our daily lives — to get so close that they block out the magnitude, brightness and warmth of the light of Jesus Christ and his gospel. “In a sermon about humility, apostle Quentin L. Cook reiterated the church’s view that all humans are equal before God. “His doctrine is clear,” said Cook, quoting the Book of Mormon, which declares “all are alike unto God,” including “black and white, bond and free, male and female.” Anyone who “claims superiority ... because of characteristics like race, sex, nationality, language or economic circumstances,” he said, “is morally wrong and does not understand the Lord’s true purpose for all of our father’s children.” Fellow apostle Jeffrey R. Holland warned listeners about beating themselves up due to misunderstanding Jesus’ command to be perfect — “even as your Father ... in heaven is perfect.” “I believe in his perfection, and I know we are his spiritual sons and daughters with divine potential to become as he is,” the apostle said. “I also know that as children of God we should not demean and vilify ourselves, as if beating up on ourselves is somehow going to make us the person God wants us to become.” No, Holland said emphatically. “With a willingness to repent and a desire for increased righteousness in our hearts, I would hope we could pursue personal improvement in a way that doesn’t include getting ulcers or anorexia, feeling depressed or demolishing our self-esteem.” Jesus did not intend his statement about perfection to be “a verbal hammer for battering us about our shortcomings,” he said. “No, I believe he intended it to be a tribute to who and what God the Eternal Father is and what we can achieve with him in eternity.” Mortals may not be able to demonstrate perfection the Father and Son have achieved, Holland said, “but it is not too much for them to ask that we be more God-like in little things, that we speak and act, love and forgive, repent and improve at least at [a] level of perfection which it is clearly within our ability to do.” Followers of Jesus should “strive for steady improvement,” he said, “without obsessing over what behavioral scientists call ‘toxic perfectionism.’” Every one of us aspires to a more Christlike life than we often succeed in living,” he pointed out. “If we admit that honestly and are trying to improve, we are not hypocrites; we are human.” If believers persevere, Holland counseled, then “somewhere in eternity our refinement will be finished and complete, which is the New Testament meaning of perfection.” Bonnie Oscarson, general president of the Young Women organization for girls between ages 12 and 17, praised LDS volunteers providing aid to those who have been devastated by recent hurricanes and earthquakes. But Oscarson urged her listeners to look for opportunities to serve in their local congregations, neighborhoods and communities as well. “What good does it do to save the world if we neglect the needs of those closest to us and those whom we love the most? How much value is there in fixing the world if the people around us are falling apart and we don’t notice?” she asked. “Heavenly Father may have placed those who need us closest to us, knowing that we are best suited to meet their needs.” Believers should not attend church services for what they might get, she said, but for what they can give.  “I can guarantee that there will always be someone at every church meeting you attend who is lonely, who is going through challenges and needs a friend, or who feels like he or she doesn’t belong,” said Oscarson, Saturday’s only female speaker. “You have something important to contribute to every meeting or activity, and the Lord desires for you to look around at your peers and then minister as he would.”


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