Friday, July 11, 2014

This Day In Gay Utah History July 11th

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1897 Ogden Standard Examiner Random References page 5 Eddie Ross, the lost boy from Salt Lake who was identified by Chief Davenport at Corinne and who was held by Marshal Hadley as a witness against some hoboes up there, was returned home last night. The tramps were held without bail to answer to the charge of sodomy committed upon the boy.

1969 Friday- - “The Movement to Restore Decency” lecture was sponsored by the John Birch Society. Mrs. Delun E. Tischner’s addressed criticized sex education in Utah’s schools and the use of sensitivity training by professional organizations. “The use of sensitivity training by various agencies including a local hospital, the U of U, and BYU where some students are taking sensitivity training against their wishes, including police officers, teachers, and nurses until they are broken down.” (07/11/69 SLTribune page B5)

1984-Mayor Ray Flynn of Boston signed a gay rights ordinance.

Tom Waddell
1987-Tom Waddell died of complications from AIDS. He was an Olympic athlete, physician, and founder of the Gay Games.

1987- Debra Robinson opened a woman / mixed bar Your Place or Mine at  559 South 300 West Salt Lake City.  “I want this to be a mixed bar where women and men together feel comfortable and at home. There is just no way am I going to discourage or hold back the men from here. We all need and like each other. Our non-separatism makes Salt Lake City unique,” said owner Debbie Robinson.

1988 Monday-Mark LaMarr went to a Gay Pride Planning meeting today and he said that  Bruce Barton is getting the Kristen Reis Award at Gay Pride Day this year. No one is suppose to know yet. [Journal of Ben Williams]

1988 Monday, July 11, 1988 GUNSHOT KILLS HOLLADAY MAN  A Holladay man died Monday morning of a gunshot wound suffered late Sunday in Jordan Park. Police have no suspects. Gordon L. Winslow, 46, 2064 E. 4675 South, was shot once in the chest while apparently lighting firecrackers in the park, 1000 S. Ninth West. Witnesses told police they heard firecrackers throughout the evening Sunday. About 10:30 p.m., the witnesses observed a man on his hands and knees near a van, which was parked between a playground and the south fence of the International Peace Gardens. Several shots were fired, then two people, possibly
juveniles, were seen running away, according to police reports. A short time later, the man got in the van and tried to exit the park but crashed into a fence. The witnesses ran to help and noticed Winslow was injured, said homicide squad Sgt. Don Bell. They asked him what had happened and he replied, "Nothing." When police arrived, Winslow, lying on the van's floor but still conscious, told officers he didn't know why he was shot but said he thought one of his assailants called the other "Mario." "He had a chance to tell us everything that went on but he didn't," Bell said. Spent illegal fireworks were found in the van, but no weapons were recovered. Winslow, who was wearing only a pair of shorts, was taken to LDS Hospital, where he died about 6:15 a.m., a hospital spokesman said.

1990-Hong Kong decriminalized homosexual acts between consenting adults.

1991 Saturday Carla Gourdin and Debbie Rosenberg had a holy union performed at the South Valley Unitarian Universalists Church and a reception at the Northwest Community Center near the State Fair Grounds.

1998-The Vatican condemned a decision by municipal authorities in Pisa Italy to recognize a lesbian marriage. The women had been together for eleven years.


1999  Alternative Gardening Club's Annual pool party


1999 MORMON ANTI GAY MARRIAGE Salt Lake Tribune Debates Over Gay Marriage Miss Basic Civil Rights Point BY PHILIP DE ROCHAMBEAU      The recent appeal to California Mormons by their Church leaders to contribute monies to a political cause against same-sex marriages has again brought this divisive issue to the table.  In a letter authorized by the highest leaders of the LDS Church, the California Area Presidency asked Church leaders to read a letter during church services asking all members to "do all you can by donating your means and time to assure a successful vote" in support of a California ballot proposition scheduled for the March 2000 elections. This proposition would allow the state not to recognize same-sex marriages and thus work to prevent future same-sex marriage initiatives from getting off the ground.  The tremendous support for the initiative by the LDS Church – along with the California Conference of Catholic Bishops and the Assemblies of God area churches – is a grim reminder that many important issues do not neatly fit into a "church and state" separation. Although the LDS Church sees this as a moral rather than political issue, the matter of the LDS Church using its considerable resources to influence decisions is an issue that merits separate examination, although – unlike the Christian Coalition – the Church never endorses specific candidates or political parties.  Much more pertinent is the issue of whether or not marriage, including same-sex marriage, is still a matter for debate by churches or whether it belongs in the realm of the constitutional interpretations of the courts. At one time, marriage was in the hands of churches, however, as churches ceased to control governments, marriage became one of the most important provinces of the state.  It is no longer the local parishes that contain wedding certificates, but rather the county governments.  No church has the legal authority to marry people in our society.  That right exists solely with the state.  Thus, while churches may facilitate at weddings, and religion may play an important role in that wedding, all of it is meaningless without the sanction of the state. By allowing the state to control marriage (and divorce), the churches no longer have the authority to make decisions regarding basic marital rights such as insurance benefits, tax benefits, name changes, inheritances, property rights, etc.  Although a majority of Americans (and many employers) believes that same-sex couples should not be discriminated against, the same majority does not exist for taking the final step of condoning same-sex marriages – and maybe never will.  Nevertheless, public opinion should not be a factor in any matter of justice or injustice.  For almost 100 years after African-Americans won their freedom, they still were denied many rights – including the right to marry the person of their choosing.  Miscegenation laws (laws against interracial marriage) existed in many states and offenders were still being prosecuted through the1960s. In its landmark decision, the Supreme Court ruled miscegenation laws unconstitutional in 1967 in the case of Loving vs. Virginia.  Justice Earl Warren, writing for the majority, made frequent reference to the 14th Amendment and its guarantee that "the freedom to marry has long been recognized as one of the vital personal rights essential to the orderly pursuit of happiness ... "  When interracial marriages finally become legal in 1968, a Gallup poll indicated that over 70 percent of Americans did not approve of interracial marriage.  To this day, a significant number of people still disapprove of interracial marriage, but justice must not be based upon polls and public opinion – even if politics is.  The true function of our democracy is not to impose the will of the majority, but rather to protect the rights of the minorities. Unfortunately, feeling so threatened by such a radical change to present society, many people view same-sex marriage as granting a "special privilege"t o homosexuals.  The reality is quite the opposite:  this debate is not about special rights for homosexuals, but rather about not taking away the basic constitutional rights all Americans should enjoy.  The right to marry is a right granted by the state to all individuals – and it is the state that has determined the legalities concerning age of consent, incestuous marriages, and polygamy.  (Utah history demonstrates vividly how impossible it is for a church to promote marriages that go against the laws of the state.) The foundation for this point of view was solidified when the Supreme Court struck down Colorado's Amendment No. 25, which sought to ban anti-discrimination laws against homosexuals.  First quoting Justice John Marshall Harlan's dissent in the 1896 case of Plessy vs. Ferguson, Justice Anthony Kennedy wrote that the Constitution "neither knows nor tolerates classes among citizens."  Although a foreign concept a century ago, no one can deny that today's gay and lesbian population make up a very large class –larger than either Mormons or Jews in this country.  We all should remember that Nazi Germany very effectively removed marriage and other frights from Jews, homosexuals, and other classes.     Much more relevant to the present debate, however, the Supreme Court decision on the Colorado case (Romer vs. Evans, May 1996) deals with the specific concerns of whether laws protecting homosexuals are giving them "special rights" or not.  In the majority opinion, Justice Kennedy wrote, "To the contrary, the amendment imposes a special disability upon those persons alone.  Homosexuals are forbidden the safeguards that others enjoy or may seek without constraint." Let us not be confused. The debate over propositions such as the present California initiative and the congressional 1996 Defense of Marriage Act are not concerned with giving "special rights" to gays and lesbians. Rather, they specifically target gays and lesbians for special discrimination from the rights that virtually all other Americans enjoy.  It is ironic that I, a minister who has the authority of the state to perform marriage ceremonies, do not have the right to have one of my own. The Rev. Philip de Rochambeau is a columnist for Whosoever, an on-line magazine for gay and lesbian Christians.

2001 Rocky Says Salt Lake can be better Deseret News by Diane Urbani Sal Lake City needs to fix itself, Mayor Rocky Anderson says, and in a 22 minute speech he gave a breakneck run down how that could be done. Anderson said, “we still have plenty to do to improve our city for everyone, “who lives or considers living here.”  “Two weeks ago we heard a wake up call about understanding diversity,” the mayor began. A group of salt Lakers protested the Gay Pride Month display of books at the Day-Riverside Library, June 21. “I don’t want my kids to grow up thinking it’s OK to be gay,” Anderson quoted one protester as saying.

2003 Cache Valley Alliances 12th Annual - BEAR RIVER FRUIT FLOAT - River Trip and Camping When:  July 11 – 13 Where:  Oneida Narrows, North of Preston, Idaho

Rocky Anderson 
2003 Deseret News Rocky regrets oversight -  In April, when I asked Blythe Nobleman, a communications expert, to join the mayor's office as the minority affairs and communications coordinator, I anticipated that her appointment would generate a healthy dialogue about the definition of "minority" and the need for greater inclusiveness. Although Blythe is not a member of the ethnic minority community, she is a lesbian. Our view is that we must work for greater inclusiveness for all people who are subject to discrimination, including the ethnic, gay and lesbian and disability communities. Soon after the job announcement, a limited
Blythe Nobleman
hiring freeze was instituted for all open city positions, including the minority affairs position.  After reviewing staffing issues in our office, we identified a critical need for assistance not only with minority affairs but also with communications responsibilities. We changed the job description for the open position to better reflect our needs and to achieve greater efficiencies. Blythe was interviewed and hired, without notifying previous applicants of the change in the job description. Looking back, I understand the frustration and disappointment felt by those who had previously applied for the minority affairs liaison position. I apologize to those who were not notified of the position change. I have learned a great deal from this and certainly will never permit such a situation to be repeated.  Rocky Anderson Salt Lake City mayor

2003 Friday Subject: from the Utah AIDS foundation Kathy Worthington Subj: Toilet Paper drive  Right now, the Utah AIDS Foundation foodbank is completely out of toilet paper. New medical advances are prolonging lives and supporting long term health for our clients.  But as our clients live longer, they also face significant financial hardships.  Even UAF clients who are eligible for food stamps struggle to make ends meet each month.  And food stamps don't cover personal care items like soap, shampoo, laundry detergent, shaving supplies, feminine hygiene products, toothpaste, and baby diapers.  Even the simplest item, like toilet paper, becomes a luxury. Here's why your donation of personal care items to the Utah AIDS Foundation is so important: when we are out of a personal care item, our clients must simply go without it.  They often have no other recourse.  When we don't have something as simple as toilet paper, neither do they. Please bring your donation of toilet paper to the Utah AIDS Foundation, at 1408 South 1100 East, in Salt Lake City.  Every roll helps.

2003 Friday Subject: RCGSE EVENTS: This Weekend (July 11 - 13) Mark Thrash FRIDAY, JULY 11 Mr. Gay Utah, Hunter Down, presents "Organized Chaos" at the ALL NEW Paper Moon* located on 3737 S. State Street at 9:00 PM - $5.00 donation to the Cancer Fund. SUNDAY, JULY 13 "Irreverent Sundays" RCGSE Dinner was cancelled due to a scheduling conflict with The Trapp* but join us in two weeks - July 27 for another fun afternoon and meal. Hope to see you soon! Mark Thrash Emperor 28 *A private club for members.

2007 The Mountain West Flag Football League Kick’s off it’s 3rd Season. The MWFFL will host a Football Clinic & Register Players on July 11, 2007 @ 6:30pm @ Sugarhouse Park’s soccer field for all persons interested in playing. League play will be on Wednesday nights also @ sugarhouse pk/ soccer field July 18 – Aug. 22;  with a final tournament on Aug. 29th. MWFFL had 66 participants in 2006’s Fall season; men and women. The Mountain West Flag Football League (MWFFL) is the gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and friends flag football league; open to all ability levels.    MWFFL is a part of the Salt Lake City Gay Athletic Association & The National Gay Flag Football League; with members from: Los Angeles, New York, San Diego, Washington D.C., Chicago, Phoenix, Atlanta, Chicago, Boston, Michigan, Fort Lauderdale & Texas. The Mountain West Flag Football League was formed to promote the positive social, athletic and competitive spirit of American Flag Football. Through our league, our events and most importantly our members, we also seek to foster and augment the self-respect of gay and lesbian persons and to engender respect and understanding from the larger community. While particular emphasis is placed on these specific goals, it is a fundamental principle of the MWFFL that all activities, social and athletic, are conducted to be inclusive in nature and that no individual shall be excluded from participating on the basis of sexual orientation, gender, religion, nationality, ethnic origin, political beliefs, athletic ability, physical challenge, or HIV status.

2009 1st Protest over Gay Kiss at LDS Plaza by Eric Ethington Tonight the first of 4 (scheduled) protests took place at the LDS-owned Main Street Plaza over the controversy of a gay kiss. Earlier this week a gay couple were asked to leave the LDS owned plaza due to a kiss, which LDS Church officials claimed was not allowed on their property. When the couple refused to leave until the currently-kissing straight couples were also asked to leave, the police were called and the couple were cited for trespassing. The first protest over this abusive treatment was organized very quickly by local U of U student Alec Gherke, who himself is straight. His group of about 15 people donned pink armbands and triangles, hand-cuffed themselves and marched into the plaza singing LDS hymns and primary songs including “Love One Another” and “I am a Child of God.” After about 2 circuits around the plaza, 7 LDS secret-service imitating security guards (complete with ear-wigs) told the group that they were to leave immedietely or “we will be forced to arrest you.” Many in the group, including one active LDS member made passionate pleas that the LDS Church’s current stance and hypocritical rules are not in standing with the teachings of their own prophets nor the teachings of God. Below are some of the highlight clips. Please forgive the poor video and sound quality as all I had with me was my handheld camera. There will be continuous postings of videos as fast as I can upload them, so keep checking back! This one is mid-protest as the marchers sing through the plaza.

2010 Survey shows some LGBT residents don’t feel safe By Rosemary Winters The Salt Lake Tribune A gay man arrested for kidnapping after being severely beaten by his neighbors. A Salt Lake City bar fight where a same-sex couple was assaulted and called derogatory slurs. A kiss between two men on the LDS Church’s Main Street Plaza that resulted in trespassing charges. These and other incidents of violence or perceived discrimination against people who are lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender has made many in the community question their own safety. On Tuesday, the Utah Pride Center will address issues relating to law enforcement, the justice system and discrimination safeguards at a town-hall meeting. Speakers include Salt Lake City Prosecutor Sim Gill and West Valley City police Sgt. Julie Jorgensen. “We can only sit back and listen for so long to complaints from the community without addressing them,” said Michael Westley, spokesman for the center. “There’s some healing that needs to be done and some communication that needs to take place.” South Salt Lake resident David James “DJ” Bell ultimately was acquitted of kidnapping his neighbor’s young children. Now, two years later, his seven alleged attackers have been charged with felony riot — some also have been charged with assault — and are awaiting trial. Last year, the Salt Lake City prosecutor dropped trespassing charges against Derek Jones and Matt Aune, but their Main Street Plaza kiss and scuffle with LDS security guards drew national attention. Salt Lake City police are still investigating the alleged assault of Ryan Gray and Kevin Burns at Piper Down Pub in April. No arrests have been made. On Friday, the Utah Pride Center released a survey of nearly 500 people, most of whom identify as LGBT, about safety and protection from bias. The surveys were gathered at the Utah Pride Festival in June and on the center’s website. Fewer than half the respondents said they feel safe at school, in restaurants or at non-LGBT-specific bars. They were more likely to feel safe at home (91 percent), work (52 percent) or at LGBT bars (67 percent). The Utah Pride Center plans to offer training at mainstream bars on how to create a safer environment for LGBT patrons. Political leaders, including Salt Lake City Mayor Ralph Becker, may have enhanced some LGBT residents’ sense of well-being. In the survey, 70 percent of respondents said passage of anti-discrimination ordinances in Salt Lake City, Salt Lake County and other places has increased their sense of safety. “It was one of the first times I can remember any elected official in Utah standing up and telling me I was worth something,” said Eric Ethington, 25, a bisexual Salt Lake City resident and a community activist. Jorgensen, the West Valley City police officer, said she hopes her city’s recent passage of such measures, which ban housing and employment discrimination based on a person’s sexual orientation or gender identity, improves how LGBT residents view the city and law enforcement. “We want all the people who are living in and visiting West Valley City to feel safe,” she said. Jorgensen is a member of the LGBT Public Safety Committee, which has representatives of law enforcement agencies from Weber County to Cottonwood Heights. Members serve as liaisons between their police departments and the LGBT community. The committee and Equality Utah collaborated with the Utah Pride Center on Tuesday’s town hall and the survey. The survey also showed that only 34 percent of respondents believe they are protected against discrimination based on sexual orientation when reporting a domestic-violence dispute. “From these results, we know that in spite of our efforts, people don’t understand that law enforcement is trained to deal with same-sex partners in domestic violence,” said a statement from Capt. Kyle Jones, a member of the Salt Lake City Police Department and the LGBT Public Safety Committee. “We need to [educate] more.”

2010 Utah Male Naturists A Nonsexual Social Nudist Group for Men -A message to all members of Utah Male Naturists Sorry - forgot to put an event together for this. Lots interested though, so I guess I'd better, lol. Come join us for poker and a movie night at JeepNekkid's. Last time we were having too much fun and forgot to play poker or watch a movie. Oh well. Let's do it this time, haha.  Bring a munchie to share, but not tortilla chips. I have lots of those. Perhaps a salsa or dip or 9? bring whatever you want to drink. Bring a towel. If you want to play poker, bring a ten. If you're a paid member ($10 for the calendar year), that's it. If you're not, please bring a fiver.BUT WAIT THERE'S MORE. I'm in a sociable mood, so let's start a deck party at 4. Poker and movie will start at 6:30. Hot tub is available. Deck is half shade, half sun til 5:30. Shade afterwards. I have some cheap beer if you are strapped. I'll get the disco ball going too. We like to go to Tavernacle at 9ish.

2010 Official Message from the Queen Mother of the Americas Empress Nicole the Great July 11, 2010 Speaker Nancy Pelosi Supports Milk Stamp Campaign It is with great pride that I inform you all that the Speaker of the U.S. House of Representatives, the Honorable Nancy Pelosi has endorsed and given her full support of our International Court System's campaign to get the U.S. Postal Service to issue a stamp in honor of Harvey Milk. Speaker Pelosi joins federal, state and local Democrat and Republican elected officials who have joined our non-partisan communities and people's national campaign to get a Milk stamp. Enclosed if the official letter Speaker Pelosi wrote to the U.S. Postal Service.  For more information on the International Court System's campaign for a U.S. stamp in honor of Harvey Milk please visit our website.  I thank you all from the bottom of my heart for your continued support of this important project and campaign. Keep sending those letters! Empress Nicole the Great Queen Mother I of the Americas

Timothy J. Tillery
2010 Timothy J. Tilley (December 5, 1989 - July 11, 2010) OGDEN – Timothy Joshua Tilley, 20, died Sunday, July 11, 2010. He was born December 5, 1989 in Ogden, a son of William Lewis and Ria Wallitt Tilley. Tim graduated from Nuames Charter School and was a student at Weber State University at the time of his death. He was a member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church and had a devotion to St. Benedict. Tim loved to drive. He also loved to write science fiction and fantasy stories. Tim will be deeply missed by all of his family and friends. Memorial Mass will be held Friday at 10 a.m. at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church, 514 – 24th Street, with Father Ken Vialpando officiating.
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2014 Same-sex couples married in Utah may have rights in 10 days If the U.S. Supreme Court doesn’t intervene, married couples may apply for benefits in 10 days. BY MARISSA LANG THE SALT LAKE TRIBUNE In 10 days, same-sex couples married in Utah may be able to apply for spousal benefits. A federal appeals court Friday denied Utah’s request for a stay that would have indefinitely halted all movement toward providing gay and lesbian spouses benefits, pending the state’s appeal of a lower court’s ruling that ordered Utah to honor those unions. A three-judge panel at the 10th Circuit Court of Appeals denied the state’s request late Friday, but also extended a temporary stay through July 21, giving the state time to ask the U.S. Supreme Court to intervene. That gives Utah 10 days to appeal to Justice Sonia Sotomayor, who oversees the circuit, and reiterate its argument that allowing same-sex couples to receive spousal benefits before a federal appeals court has ruled on whether the state is legally obligated to do so would undermine the legal system and the state’s right to an appeal. And that’s exactly what the state is going to do. In a statement released by the attorney general’s office, Utah announced its intention to promptly file an application for a stay with the U.S. Supreme Court “to avoid uncertainty.” “The State recognizes that pending cases regarding same-sex marriage in Utah impact the lives of many individuals and families and is diligently seeking uniform certainty through proper and orderly legal processes until Kitchen v. Herbert is resolved,” the statement said, referencing Utah’s other pending same-sex marriage appeal aimed at reviving a voter-approved ban on gay and lesbian unions. While the state’s intentions were not surprising to
Jonell Evans and Stacia Ireland
Jonell Evans, for whom the marriage recognition suit is named, or her wife Stacia Ireland, the women said, it doesn’t make it easier to accept. “We’ve all waited our whole life for these rights,” Evans told The Tribune. “We’d like not to, but we’ll continue to wait if we must.” Evans and Ireland, who hadn’t heard about the 10th Circuit’s decision until contacted by a reporter, said they were filled with hope. “It feels like [marriage] was ours for a few days and then it was ripped away from us. Now we might get to have it back,” Evans said, her voice cracking with emotion. “We have to celebrate each victory before we cry over each delay.” Ireland, who has suffered heart problems and worries Evans won’t be legally protected should her health again take a turn for the worse, added there are Utah families who can’t afford more delays. “We have tears of joy for all Utah families,” Ireland said. “It is time for our state leaders to defend our constitutional rights for marriage equality.” Lawyers with the American Civil Liberties Union, who represent the four plaintiff couples in the case, said they are prepared to respond to the state’s request with a brief opposing any further delay granting same-sex couples married in Utah with rights and benefits of their opposite-sex counterparts. “The 10th set a pretty tight schedule, and we’re happy for the expedience to get more resolution for the hundreds of couples who are affected,” ACLU attorney Leah Farrell said. “These are families and marriages that are being lived every day. Letting them proceed with their lives and have the protections that marriage allows can only be a benefit for our community.” In order to persuade the 10th Circuit judges to grant a stay in the first place, Utah was required to demonstrate how allowing married same-sex couples to apply for spousal benefits would have caused “irreparable harm.” The state also had to demonstrate a strong likelihood of success in its appeal — demonstrating that U.S. District Judge Dale A. Kimball had abused his discretion by ordering Utah to recognize gay and lesbian marriages performed in the state. The court ruled Friday it had not done so. “We conclude that [Utah has] not made showings sufficient to warrant a stay pending appeal,” the order stated. The decision came from the same three judges who last month affirmed that Utah’s ban on same-sex unions violated the Fourteenth Amendment of the federal constitution and denied citizens their constitutional rights to due process and equal protection. But as in last month’s ruling, the judges were divided. Judges Carlos F. Lucero and Jerome A. Holmes, who authored the majority opinion last month, outlining why Utah’s gay marriage ban was deemed unconstitutional, also seem to have authored the court’s denial of Utah’s request for a stay. Judge Paul J. Kelly, who wrote a dissent that took issue with the characterization of marriage as a “fundamental right,” issued another dissent Friday, in which he argued allowing same-sex couples to apply for spousal benefits would add to “the chaos begun by the district court in Kitchen.” Kelly wrote there would be multiple types of harm done to Utah should gay and lesbian spouses begin to apply for in-state benefits before the appeal had been settled. “In denying a stay pending appeal, this court is running roughshod over state laws which are currently in force. It is disingenuous to contend that the state will suffer no harm if the matter is not stayed; undoing what is about to be done will be labyrinthine and has the very real possibility to moot important issues that deserve serious consideration,” he wrote. “A stay would simply maintain the status quo until this case ... comes to a resolution via the normal legal process.” If the country’s high court does not act to impose a stay in the Evans v. Utah lawsuit come 8 a.m. on July 21, gay and lesbian couples married in Utah may begin to apply for in-state benefits, which includes the right to adopt. More than 1,000 couples married in Utah during a 17-day window when such unions were legal following U.S. District Judge Robert J. Shelby’s landmark ruling on Dec. 20. The weddings stopped when the U.S. Supreme Court intervened and issued a stay in that case, halting any further same-sex marriages. The 10th Circuit Court of Appeals had denied Utah a stay in that case, too, before ruling against the state five months later. Utah has announced its intent to appeal that case to the U.S. Supreme Court, making it the first challenge of a state ban on same-sex marriage to come before the nation’s nine justices.
Gyll Huff


2015  Brandon's Big Gay Blog Gyll Huff, the Artist Who Found His Medium SL CITY Weekly

It was with a great deal of sadness and shock that I learned Gyll Huff was found dead in his home July 10. Gyll was a dear friend and sometime co-conspirator of mine. It's hard to believe that this man is dead. I was gonna say, "I've known him for most of my life," but that seemed so maudlin and overwrought. He would have made a good joke about it. But I did the arithmetic and found it's true: Gyll has been a part of my life for 64 percent of my lifespan. I met Gyll when I was a teenager. It was the '80s; I was alienated—what else could I have been as a teenager in the '80s?—I felt like an outsider in my own community. I felt I was too weird even to be among the freaks of society. Gyll was truly the first person I ever met who let his own freak flag fly, and who even invited me into his crazy, creative, brilliant world. I realized then that it is possible to live your own life on your own terms, and that revelation made a huge impact on my psyche. Ever since then, I've done my best to live up to Gyll's example, at least to the extent I've been capable. Gyll was one-of-a-kind and a sort of mad genius. In Mondo Utah, filmmaker Trent Harris described Gyll—to the best of my recollection ... my eyes are so blurry at the moment, I haven't been able to locate my copy of the book on its shelf—as "an artist without a medium." Which is the perfect epigram—and possibly epigraph, epithet and epitaph—for Gyll. He lived his life as an artist true to his vision, even though it seems the state of the world and technology and art has still yet to evolve sufficiently to offer the substance that would allow Gyll fully to express that vision. I'm gonna say Gyll was an artist, and his medium was Life. One of my favorite City Weekly cover stories was Shane Johnson's  "Extremist Makeover." I have an enormous blown-up poster of John Kilbourn's (award-winning) cartoon cover illustration hanging behind my desk at work—it features camped-up caricatures of Gayle Ruzicka, Chris Buttars and LaVar Christensen. Gyll Huff and Walter Larrabee both graciously agreed to talk to Shane for this story. Shane showed them images of the three anti-gay firebrands, and asked them to offer a campy, off-the-wall "Queer Eye for the Legislative Guy" makeover. I had the feeling that Shane wasn't accustomed to dealing with such, ahem, colorful individuals—he mostly wrote hard-hitting, well-reported stories about crime, corruption, government policy and the law—but to his credit, he was game. After Gyll and Walter left the CW office, he and I had a Q&A during which I offered to explain what "crinolines" are, and the fact that all chaps are assless—otherwise, they'd just be pants. Above is a photo I took the last time I saw Gyll. It was April 1, 2015. April Fool's Day, which somehow seems like a holiday appropriate for a final meeting between Gyll and me. I loved Gyll, and he taught me a lot about the artistic medium of Life.   A memorial service is still in the planning stages. Updates will come as they are available.


2018 Mormon church makes historic donation to LGBTQ support group Affirmation for suicide prevention training The LDS Foundation, the charitable division of the Mormon church, has donated $25,000 to an LGBTQ support group to pay for suicide prevention training.  The gift is being called historic by Affirmation members, who say it marks the first time The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has worked with the independent support group for gay Mormons.  “Over the past decade, we have really spent a lot of time building a productive relationship with the LDS Church to create a safe space for LGBTQ people,” Affirmation President Carson Tueller said in an interview.
Carson  Tueller
While Affirmation and the church may have differences in some areas, on at least one topic — suicide prevention — they have found common ground.  “This is one of those places where our missions overlap and mesh,” Tueller said. “This is a good steppingstone and shows a certain amount of trust that has been built.” More than just making history, though, the donation also could save lives, said Tueller, because it will allow Affirmation leaders to become certified suicide prevention trainers. “We hope that this LDS Foundation grant to Affirmation will aid in suicide prevention amongst LGBTQ+ Mormons throughout the world and also be an encouragement to LDS members, bishops, Young Men and Young Women presidencies, and others working with Mormon youth to take advantage of these training opportunities with us,” Tueller said in a news release. “We can’t do this alone,” he added, “Only by working together can we begin to reach everybody who needs to be reached both in and out of the church.”  One of the leading suicide prevention training institutes, QPR — Question, Persuade and Refer — will train Affirmation leaders, who in turn will train members across the globe in English, Spanish and Portuguese.  “We are committed to working with community partners to help prevent suicide and hope this contribution will support this important cause,” LDS Church spokesman Doug Andersen said in a statement. “We are mindful of those who are struggling and encourage them to reach out for help.” Affirmation was founded in 1977 at a time when admission of same-sex attraction among the Mormon faithful was a matter of inner turmoil, deep shame and religious rejection — even a cause for suicide.
A group of activists at Brigham Young University wanted to assure gay Mormons they were loved and not alone, while striving to stop them from killing themselves. Before long, chapters emerged in Salt Lake City, Denver, Los Angeles and ultimately across the country as well as overseas. At the time, the LDS Church viewed their sexuality as perverse and sinful, and their love as unholy. Any acceptance of gays had to be whispered. Since then, there has been a sea change between the LDS Church and its gay members.  Today’s LDS Church says being gay is not a sin, though acting on it is. It continues to oppose gay marriage, though it did support Salt Lake City’s and Utah’s anti-discrimination measures. In 2015, the Utah-based faith put forth a policy that labeled same-sex Mormon couples “apostates” and generally barred their offspring from religious rituals such as baptism until they turn 18. Some argue that controversial move actually propelled the LDS gay rights movement forward. Tueller said one of Affirmation’s top strategic priorities in 2018 has been to better equip its members and leaders with information about trauma as well as suicide prevention. in February, Affirmation leaders met with the LDS Public Affairs Department to request funding of suicide trainings. In April, the LDS Foundation awarded the full $25,000 requested. Over the next three years, suicide prevention trainers will conduct trainings at every Affirmation conference held throughout the world. Affirmation will also make online trainings on trauma and suicide prevention available at no cost to Affirmation members and others. Utah’s youth suicide rate has grown at an alarming pace, according to recent studies conducted by the federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. The state’s suicide rate among young adults ages 10 to 17 had
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more than doubled from 2011 to 2015. It had grown at an annual clip nearly four times faster than the national average. In all, 150 youths died by suicide over the five-year period. Last week, the LDS Church released a new series of videos calling for compassion and love for those experiencing suicidal thoughts and feeling marginalized. Mormon apostle Dale G. Renlund also denounced as “totally false” the “old sectarian notion that suicide is a sin and that someone who commits suicide is banished to hell forever.” If you or someone you know is struggling with depression or suicidal thoughts, call The Trevor Project on 866-488-7386 or visit their website where you can talk to someone via text or chat.

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