Tuesday, January 7, 2014

This Day In Gay Utah History January 7th

January 7
1887 The Police Court Report in the Salt Lake Tribune ran an article, “A Pitiful Array of Youthful Scapegraces.” [“graceless and good for nothing”].  Sitting on the court bench of Judge Pyper’s court, waiting for sentencing again were Willie Paddock and John Ledford along with Dan Henry, Luzon Adams, Willie Adams, Arthur Curtis, and George Bubbles. Bubbles would be in all later accounts referred to as Richard Bubbles or even Dickie Turpin Bubbles.  As he is described as always chewing gum, Bubbles may not have even been his real name. All these boys were from eleven to fourteen years old. In this police court report, the boys were referred sarcastically as “precious cherubim”, and as “two more darlings”, however the reporters comments that some of the boys legs dangled from the bench paint a more poignant picture of the drama unfolding in the court room on 6 January 1887.   The youths, Dan Henry, John Ledford, and Willie Paddock, were charged with assault “upon an inoffensive boy, George W. Ritter”, to which charge Henry and Ledford pleaded guilty.  The sentencing was suspended for the time. Henry and Ledford, with Arthur Curtis, Luzon Adams, and Willie Adams were charged with larceny. Luzon Adams pleaded not guilty and began to cry while the other boys braced up according to the court reporter. George (Richard Bubbles) was charged with receiving stolen property. On the evening of January 5th, Arthur Curtis and Dan Henry entered the store of Sarah Neal, on the corner of Third West and Second South Streets in Salt Lake City. After buying five cents worth of candy at the store upon going out, they had left the door so that the bell would not ring. Later when the store employees were in the back of the house, “these two stole in and carried off the till containing $3.50 and a pistol valued at $1.00.” Dumping the money into Henry’s pocket, Curtis threw the empty drawer away and rejoining the other youngsters on the opposite corner. They thieves “started off for a secure place to divide the plunder”, when police officer Smith, ran across them and witnessed the young bunch of hooligans beating the Ritter boy.  Office Smith, who had been sent over to the Presbyterian Church to drive away the Modocs Indians, who had been disturbing their Wednesday meeting, came upon the miscreants and began questioning them.  Suspecting there was more to the beatings, Smith arrested Henry and Ledford and at the same time discovered from Ritter that there had been a theft. The other boys including Richard “George” Bubbles were then arrested also. Bubbles was held on a separate charge of receiving the money from the boys as a sort of bank or stakeholder. The court reporter stated that Bubbles spent the afternoon on the court’s bench “chewing gum as though his acquittal depended upon the number of times he kept his jaws moving per minute.” In court Lazon Adams showed that he refused participation in the theft or in a share in the profits even though admitting that he a member of the youthful gang. He was accordingly discharged with a lecture by the court. Adams however was not all that innocent for he had been one of the boys before Judge Zane recently for vandalism, in which he received a suspended sentence.  Dan Henry told the court that he had been released from jail the previous Christmas evening and Ledford and Curtis admitted that they had been out of jail for just about two weeks.  The judge said that having no choice in the matter, he would have to send the youths to city jail which could be up to one hundred days with a fine of $99 in each case.  At the end of the article the reporter made an editorial comment after remarking that the court said “it was like passing judgment on babies, to sentence boys of such tender years, but nearly twenty houses had been broken into in the last few weeks, and racket had got to be stopped.” It was pointed out to the readers that in the courtroom, “the lack of Territorial House of Correction was sadly felt, for boys ought to have different treatment from adults.” (7 January 1887 Salt Lake Tribune No 70 Vol. XXXII) “Willie Paddock, the notorious little tough who was one of the trio to beat an unoffensive child named George W. Ritter, was fined $25 by Justice Pyper and as he could not rustle up the cash, Willie gave his fond parents a chance to whistle “Willie We Have Missed You” for 25 long and uneventful days.” (8 January 1887 Salt Lake Tribune No 71 Vol. XXXII) “Richard Bubbles, the chewing gum, stolen money receiving fiend, pleaded not guilty and had his agony continued until Monday next. Richard will chew gum meanwhile in the jug.” (8 January 1887 Salt Lake Tribune No 71 Vol. XXXII) It is paradoxical that while locked up in city jail for larceny, on January 8th the youths committed sodomy with another prisoner named David Prior for which they became charged with a felony. A man named LeBaron Havington witnessed the sexual act and testified  in the case against the boys for committing homosexual acts with David Prior.  “LeBaron Havington [real name Alonzo Harrington LeBaron] was arraigned as a vagrant; a clear case of jealousy among the prophets. His case was also put over until Monday. An appeal was noted in the Willie Paddock case to the Third District Court. (9 January 1887 Salt Lake Tribune No 72 Vol. XXXII)  LaBaron was a 71 year old man who died in 1891. An article in the Deseret News dated Saturday  31 of January had the following information. DIED IN HIS TENT About noon today, word was received at police headquarters that an old man name Havington, who for some time past had lived in a tent in the foothills above the city, had been "found dead" in his bed. In company with a police officer, Undertaker Skewes went to the place where the body lay. It was yet warm, and was brought to the city and taken to the undertaking establishment of Skewes and Son. An inquest was to be held this afternoon. Havington was about seventy-five years of age. It is supposed he died of natural death.” In an articled titled, “Busted Bubbles” the Tribune reported on Richard Bubbles being charged with receiving stolen property. “That bold, bad, bumptious boy, Dick Turpin Bubbles, charged with acting Fagin to Ledford’s Oliver Twist, next effervesced to the surface for sentencing. He burst with a loud explosion when court bound him over in $100 to the Grand Jury. (11 January 1887 Salt Lake Tribune No 74 Vol. XXXII) The next record of Richard Bubbles is found in Case 382 in February 1887 when he is charged with receiving stolen property, the gun that was taken from Sarah Neal’s store.  Then in Case 388 dated 23 February 1887 in Third District Court William Paddock, Richard Bubbles, Arthur Curtis, Dan Henry, and John Leadford were indicted by a Grand Jury of  committing a crime against nature. “The People of the Territory of Utah against William Paddock, Richard Bubbles, Arthur Curtis, Dan Henry, and John Leadford.  William Paddock, Richard Bubbles, Arthur Curtis, Dan Henry, and John Leadford Are accused by the Grand Jury of this court by this indictment of the crime of against nature. William Paddock, Richard Bubbles, Arthur Curtis, Dan Henry, and John Leadford on the eight day of January A.D. eighteen hundred and eight-seven at the county of Salt Lake in said Territory of Utah in and upon one David Prior feloniously did make an assault, and there and then feloniously, wickedly and against the order of nature had a venereal affair with the said David Prior and there and then feloniously carnally knew him the said David Prior, and then and there feloniously and wickedly did commit and perpetrate the detestable and abominable crime against nature.” “In the District Court of the Third Judicial of the Territory of Utah The People of United States in the Territory of Utah To the U.S. Marshall for the Territory Greeting: An indictment having been found on the 23rd day of February A.D. eighteen hundred and eighty-seven in the District Court for the Third Judicial District in and for the Territory of Utah charging William Paddock, Richard Bubbles, Arthur Curtis, Dan Henry, and John Ledford with the crime of “The Crime Against Nature”. You are therefore commanded to forthwith arrest above named William Paddock Richard Bubbles, Arthur Curtis, Dan Henry, and John Ledford and bring them before that court to answer said indictment or if the Court has adjourned for the term, that you keep, or cause them to be safely kept in custody until the further order of this Court; or if they required it, that you take them before William McKay U.S. Commissioners to be admitted to bail in the sum of $500.00 23 Feb 1887 C. S. Zane. The defendants were brought before Judge Zane of the Third District on April 22, 1887 and Richard Bubbles pled not guilty to both charges of receiving stolen property and committing sodomy. Since the Sodomy charge was the more serious of the two and carried a greater penalty the charges of larceny were dismissed. “In 3rd District Court the case of people vs Richard Bubble indicted for Grand Larceny was dismissed.”  (SL Tribune 23 April 1887 Vol. VXXXIII No. 8) According to the Tribune reporter who covered the trial of “the case of people vs. William Paddock, Richard Bubbles, Arthur Curtis, Dan Henry, John Leadford, a crime against nature”, all persons except the jurors were excluded from the room during the examination. The Prosecution dismissed the charges of sodomy against John Leadford and Dan Henry both who were only about 12 years of age.  William Paddock was absent from the courtroom for since the February indictment, he “was judged insane and is confined to the Territorial Insane Asylum.” This left Richard Bubbles and Arthur Curtis alone to bear the blunt of the prosecutor’s case against the original defendants. Reporter left out all the details of the case saying that they were of “the most disgusting character and unfit for publication.” However the reporter did mention that the crime was committed when the defendants were imprisoned in the city jail for larceny.  The reporter however seemed content to flesh out his report by mentioning the antics of one of the witnesses. Le Baron Havington prepared an essay he wanted to read to the court as a “preface to this testimony”. The request was denied by the court, but evidently the reporter was privileged to it. He stated that it was “a long account of his (Havington’s)  “persecutions” which he says were prompted by malice, and that it contained “statement and scrapes of ancient history …touching upon crimes of the ancients.” And that “altogether the epistle was a curious affair and gave evidence of a peculiarly disordered mind.”  LeBaron was a polygamist but by 1887 was a vagrant. The witnesses in the case are not listed as being for the plaintiff or the defendants. There were only three plaintiffs, David Prior, Judge George Pyper, and LeBaron Havington and certainly Judge Pyper was not a witness. The Salt Lake Tribune reported: “The case on the testimony of witness, the argument of counsel, and charge of the court was submitted to the jury and a verdict of guilty with a recommendation to the mercy of the court on account of the extreme youth of the defendants was returned. A stay of proceeding was granted for ten days.” The actual verdict read: In the District Court of the Third Judicial District, Territory of Utah County of Salt Lake The People of the Territory Plaintiff against Richard Bubbles and Arthur Curtis etal Defendants Verdict: We the Jurors impaneled in the above case find the Defendants Richard Bubbles and Arthur Curtis Guilty as charged in the Indictment and recommend them to the mercy of the court. Dated April 22nd 1887 J M Darling Foreman Filed April 22nd 1887 JM Zane.  It appears that William Paddock was released from the Insane Asylum because on July 21, 1887 a warrant for his arrest was issued by the Third District Court to Utah County so that he could be tried on the February 23rd indictment. In the District Court of the Third Judicial of the Territory of Utah The People of United States in the Territory of Utah To the U.S. Marshall for the Territory Greeting: An indictment having been found on the 23rd day of February A.D. eighteen hundred and eighty-seven in the District Court for the Third Judicial District in and for the Territory of Utah charging William Paddock, Richard Bubbles, Arthur Curtis, Dan Henry, and John Ledford with the crime of “The Crime Against Nature”. You are therefore to forthwith arrest above named William Paddock and bring him before that court to answer said indictment or if the Court has adjourned for the term, that you keep, or  cause him to be safely kept in custody until the further order of this Court; or if he required it, that you take him before 21st July 1887 J.M. Zane.  On July 22 Paddock was in custody but on 1 August 1887 his grandmother Julia A. Cole and mother  Cornelia Paddock, secured a bond of $500 for William Paddock’s bail and on the 5 August 1887 he released from Jail.  In 1888, William Paddock, Arthur Curtis, Dan Henry, and Luzon (Lucon) Adams all were indicted for burglary in case file 448 in the Third District Court. Bubbles is not mentioned again in criminal court records which does not necessarily mean that he left his life of juvenile crimes behind. I suspect that Bubbles is simply an alias for a preteen who loved to chew gum. 1888 William Paddock appeared in court for burglary case 448  1889 William Paddock breaking and entering 1888 Arthur Curtis appeared in court for burglary case 448 1888 Dan Henry appeared in court for burglary case 448 1888 Lucon Adams appeared in court for burglary case 448 1890 Lucan  Adams appeared in court for burglary case 632.

1970 An injunction was filed to block the showing of the movie Vixen. The complaint filed in 3rd District Court charged that the film shown at Cinema Theater 47 West Broadway “is obscene and lewd in that it depicts activities to appeal to the prurient interests”. Sam Bartzos was named as defendant. (01/08/1970 SLTribune B12)

1971-The National Commission on Reform of Federal Criminal Laws recommended to President Nixon the repeal of all sodomy laws involving consenting adults.

1975-Two men in Phoenix AZ applied for and received a marriage license and were married. A judge later voided the marriage. A local newspaper published their address and they were forced to move due to constant harassment, including a man breaking into their apartment and threatening to stab them to death.

1977- The Board of Directors of Metropolitan Community Church of Salt Lake voted to hold a dance April 22 at the State Capitol Rotunda. 

1987- Wednesday- The first AIDS Consortium was organized by AIDS Project Utah to enable representatives of various AIDS support services to share information, eliminate needless duplication of services, and establish a useful network with one another. Meeting held at St. Joseph’s Villa with Jeffrey Burkhardt, a member of the Board of directors of APU conducting the meeting.

Steve
Breckenbury
1988-Thursday- Gay Fathers formed by Steve Breckenbury to discuss challenges of being Gay and at the same time a father. “I called Steve Breckenbury to see how his group went.  He said only Ned, Scott Anderson, and himself showed for the first meeting.  I told Steve not to be discouraged because from little acorns mighty oaks grow.  The trick of a successful group, I’ve found, is consistency, commitment, and leadership.” [1988 Journal of Ben Williams]

1988- John Bennett was re-elected as chair of GLCCU. Satu Servigna elected Vice-Chair, and Jim Hunsaker Sec-Treasurer. Michael Aaron founder of the Anti-Violence Project resigned because he was moving out of state. Lyle Bradley assumed head of the AVP. Floyd Gamble was elected chair of the Gay Pride Day subcommittee.  Chuck Whyte named coordinator of a community wide food drive for the food bank at Crossroads Urban Center. “I went to community council at 7 p.m. and it actually got over on time at 9:30.  John Reeves made the comment that he thought the council very penitent. Anyway we held elections at the end of the meeting and John Bennett was reelected as Chair person, Satu Servigna as Vice Chair, and Jim Hunsaker was elected as Secretary Treasurer.  Lyle Bradley declined nominations to any position as did David Nelson, Michael Aaron, and Graham Bell. Becky Moorman was nominated several times which is interesting  David, Michael, and Graham all seemed very contrite well except for Graham who of course had his moments of bitchiness.   He can’t help it.  Michael Aaron relinquished his Anti-Violence Project to the Council which agreed to operate it as a subcommittee. The rumor is that Michael and David are moving out of state.  It seems to me that the real struggle in the Gay Community is between its organizations and it’s activists who really represent no one but their own interests. That is why Lyle Bradley could muster so little support even though he is a good man and really committed to the community.  But he has no organization behind him.  Also he hasn’t worked well with the organizations that are out there. Bruce Harmon echoed my sentiments when he said he though that people in leadership positions should have connections in the community and not just be independents. I agree. Floyd Gamble was appointed head of the Pride Day 1988 Committee. I made a motion that the Gay and Lesbian Community Council be the keeper of a resource list for the Gay Community and that they have an active outreach to new groups. The motion was accepted and passed. Dave Malmstrom approached me at the meeting and wanted to get together with Unconditional Support to sponsor a dance in February, perhaps a Valentines dance. I also reminded him about doing a show for KRCL on the 23rd. Bob McIntier said that he is doing an investigative story on the LDS Church’s involvement with shock therapy in the 1970’s as practiced on Gay victims at BYU. From talking to heads of different organizations there definitely is an interest in having a retreat this summer as an inter community event.  Ben Barr especially showed interest in the idea. He also said that he would be at the steering committee meeting on the 11th for The Names Project.  I said to him that I really would like to turn it over to someone else to really do it justice.  He said that he would like to farm it out or at least some of the panels to different groups such as an elementary school as a project for the baby that just recently died of AIDS. Anyway Resurrection Metropolitan Community Church wanted the community council to sponsor another Romanovski and Phillips concert and after some foot dragging, the majority voted to incur the expense involved which would be anywhere from $500 to a $1000.  The Lovebirds said that they would put on a show to help with the fundraising. I supported the concert because of the boost to the morale of the community they provide. I said if this event flies then it would be nice to start promoting other Gay groups especially women music.  Anyway this meeting was not in any way shape or form as raucous as December’s meeting.  The Wasatch Leather Men were out in full force. Both Randy Olsen and John Reeves came as representatives of US.  Beau Chaine called me yesterday about tonight’s agenda and I had called him back saying that according to the agenda the Gay Help Line wasn’t going to be discussed so Beau decided not to attend. However at the meeting tonight it was on the agenda handed out but both Graham Bell and I agreed that it was not appropriate to discuss the matter with out Beau’s input especially when the agenda that was mailed out did not list it as a topic of discussion.  I committed Unconditional Support to some form of a talent show in March for a fund raiser for the Community Council.  I have to discuss it with the group to figure out what we will do. Off the top of head I can see Mike Anderson or Ken Francis doing a strip tease.  It was a pretty good turn out tonight with perhaps 40 people or more.” [1988 Journal of Ben Williams]

1996- - Les Stewart  My picture on this page means that I have finally died. After at least one previous brush with the Grim Reaper, AIDS did the trick, as I have always known it would. This was no "valiant battle." I hated the whole thing. I was born long ago on 23 October 1945, and grew up in Springville, Utah. I am preceded in death by 170,000 people in this nation who have died of AIDS, many of them brave and resilient souls, who have fought against impossible medical and numbing social odds. In a strange way, I am proud to be numbered among such incredible people. I am survived by Josh, my dog, and a large extended family. My best legacy survives me: three amazing children, Jon, Sara, and Zach, who have been the joys of my life. They have turned out very well. Each, in their own respect are people I admire and treasure, a credit to themselves, they will make the world a better place.   I am also survived by a number of dear friends: people I have looked up to and admired and been blessed by having the affection returned. They have truly been family, too. I thank by business associates, throughout the west and across the nation, lasting and important relationships for many years going. Much gratitude goes to Dr. Kristen Ries and Maggie Snyder, PA. They are smart, competent and caring. If you have to do the AIDS thing, you want to do it with these two. If I could afford it, I would name you all. I hope that I have done a decent job in conveying how I have liked and loved you for your friendship and support through my difficulties without seeing it in print. In addition, I will miss: Cooking for friends, watching the garden wake up in the spring, talking (too much!), dirty jokes, the beauty of nature around me, great music, fixing things, building things, and planting things. Please skip the flowers. Lovely as they are, in a few days, they will be as dead as I am. Instead send more than you might have spent on flowers to the Utah AIDS Foundation, 1408 So. 1100 East, S.L.C., Utah 84105. There are still many (too, too many) behind me. The dollars will be put to good use. Besides, it's a write off.

1996 Our wonderful loving son, brother, uncle and friend, David Earl Gregg, age 38, died peacefully at home January 7, 1996 surrounded by his family and friends after a courageous and stubborn fight against HIV. David was born January 25, 1957 in Salt Lake City. He was a very talented artist who worked within the art field and his paintings and drawings are enjoyed by many. David had a great love for all animals, especially his two babies, Buffy and Buck. He was known for his keen sense of humor, wit and generous nature. David is loved and remembered by his parents, Joann Barton and Roy Zerull, Special thanks to Dr. Kristen Reis, Maggie Snyder, Alice Foy, Karen Watanabe and Alma Miller for their special love and care. Viewing will be held at Deseret Mortuary, 36 East 700 South, Wednesday, January 10, 6 to 8 p.m. Funeral services conducted Thursday, January 11, 12 noon, at Rose Park North Stake, 1200 West 1155 North, South Chapel. Friends and family are also invited to a celebration of David's life Thursday evening from 6 to 8 p.m. at the home of Dale Barton and Lindsay Lewis, 1645 E. Wasatch Circle (1300 So.) Interment: Holladay Memorial Park.

1997 Page: B1 Keywords: UT, Universities & Colleges, Educators-Teachers-Faculty, Social Issues, Social Trends, Employment, Medical Insurance   U. to Study `Domestic Partners' Benefits; Benefits Plan to Be Studied at U. Byline: BY BRENT ISRAELSEN THE SALT LAKE TRIBUNE    Apparently undaunted by legislative criticism of their liberal bent, University of Utah professors on Monday voted to study a plan that would extend employee benefits to unmarried partners.  The plan calls for ``domestic partners'' to become eligible for about a dozen benefits the U. offers to its 16,600 employees.
Kathryn Stockton
``Domestic partners'' would include gay and lesbian partners as well as unmarried heterosexual companions. ``It is fair to be compensated the way others are compensated,'' said Kathryn Stockton, an English professor and a lesbian.    Some other members of the U.'s Academic Senate, composed of faculty from all of the university's colleges, expressed opposition to such a policy, on grounds of fairness and social responsibility.    The issue first surfaced in the fall of 1995, when the senate directed its salaries committee to explore whether fringe benefits should be extended to domestic partners. Some senators noted that the U.'s nepotism policy specifically prohibits domestic partners from getting employment at the U. Since the U. treats domestic partners like family, it should extend benefits to them, the senators argued.    Last fall, the committee released five options, one of which called for domestic partners to be allowed benefits.   
Patty Reagan
Senator Patty Reagan, a professor of health education and women's studies, made a motion in December to adopt the domestic-partner option, but student senator Joseph Burggraaf moved to table the issue. Rather than consider either of those motions, the senate on Monday voted to send the proposal back to the committee, which will study how and whether such a policy would work at the U. The committee was directed to report back to the senate in May.    Since moving for the adoption of a domestic-partner policy last month, Reagan has became somewhat of a champion of its cause. In a memo to the senate chairwoman, Reagan noted that giving benefits to domestic partners would be a progressive act of fairness. ``We are a community of well educated persons committed to fair play in our professional lives. We expect this in our classroom, among our colleagues and within our professional organizations,'' Reagan said. The U. offers 13 benefits to its employees, from retirement and health insurance to funeral leave and reduced tuition. Of those, 12 could be extended to domestic partners without going through the Legislature. The only one that would require legislative change is the state retirement plan, which currently offers pension benefits only to a spouse upon the death of an employee. Reagan, like Stockton, argues that giving benefits to domestic employees is needed to keep the U. competitive in its recruitment. ``Some very qualified and sought after candidates will seek employment only at institutions that offer benefits that include domestic partners.'' Susan Jurow, executive director of the College and Universities Personnel Association (CUPA), agreed.  ``Some companies that offer this benefit use it as a recruitment and retention tool. It's a benefit that allows you to be competitive on an equal footing,'' said Jurow. CUPA, which represents human-resource departments at 1,600 colleges in the United States and Canada, plans to survey the colleges on their benefits programs in the coming year. A survey conducted by the U. human-resources department found that three of 12 large research universities west of the Mississippi offer benefits for domestic partners. They are the University of Iowa, the University of Minnesota and the University of New Mexico. A 1994 article in the human-resources journal Employee Benefits and Practices said at least 47 universities nationwide have domestic-partner benefits. None is in Utah. Additionally, Reagan said hundreds of agencies, businesses and local governments give benefits to domestic partners.  ``IBM, Lotus and Disney have all found that including domestic partners only enhances their organizations and improves morale and productivity,'' Reagan said.  Several professors on Monday spoke against the plan, calling it unfair, politically ill-timed and contrary to what a university should stand for.
Robert Bullough
Robert Bullough, a professor of educational studies, said the issue is not one of rights, but one of ``what kind of community we want to live in.'' ``Social institutions are supposed to stand for something,'' Bullough said in an interview after Monday's senate meeting. ``The U. should support marriage.'' Bullough's remarks about community prompted history Professor Dorothee Kocks to say, ``We all live in numerous overlapping communities . . . In a democracy, we must always err on the side of greater inclusion.'' Anthropology Professor James O'Connell said questions of equity should go beyond domestic partners to single employees, who, because they are single, do not receive as many benefits as married employees. For example, the U. pays $2,500 more a year to a married employee with family than to a single employee. Math Professor Don Tucker said the nepotism argument does not wash with him because his older son falls under the nepotism rule but is ineligible for most of the U.'s benefits. Another concern expressed by faculty was the cost. Extending benefits to a larger number of people would mean that existing benefits or even salaries would have to be reduced. Reagan, however, quoted an American Bar Association Journal article that showed fewer than 1 percent of employees at Brown University signed up for domestic-partner benefits.

1998-Wednesday- The Salt Lake City Council races already have started. Just ask Katharine Steffensen. She intends to kick the bums out of office who voted Tuesday night to schedule the imminent death of a new anti-discrimination ordinance that protects gay and lesbian city employees. Her targets? Councilmen Carlton Christensen, Keith Christensen, Bryce Jolley and Roger Thompson. `They're not leaders. They're moral cowards,'' says Steffensen, a member of Parents, Friends and Family of Lesbians and Gays. She plans to campaign against Keith Christensen, who represents her neighborhood, four years from now. Carlton Christensen, Keith Christensen and Thompson all were elected in November. They won't face re-election until 2001. Jolley is up for re-election in 1999. But Steffensen is undaunted. ``I have more respect for Gayle Ruzicka [the leader of Utah's conservative Eagle Forum] than I do for these men. At least you know where she's coming from. These guys aren't brave enough to call a spade a spade and admit that they're bigots.'' On the contrary, insisted the two Christensens, Jolley and Thompson. They argued the new law was flawed, the rush to pass it late last year was disturbing and they abhor discrimination. Either way, the month-old law is set for repeal at the council's Tuesday meeting. Unless one of the men who wants to repeal the law changes his mind, ``sexual orientation'' will be stripped from the ordinance and a more generic law will be crafted. Salt Lake City was the first Utah municipality to adopt such an ordinance. Salt Lake County and the University of Utah have similar policies, but state and federal laws are more general in their protections for employees. Cities nationwide, including tiny Troy, Idaho; Denver and Phoenix have adopted anti-discrimination ordinances with similar wording. And businesses like Delta Air Lines, Sears, Nordstrom and REI have the same employee protections. But a different council voted 5 to 2 to approve the ordinance Dec. 9 that prohibits discrimination ``against an otherwise qualified employee or applicant based on race, color, national origin, sex, religion, age, sexual orientation or disability.'' Three of those council members are gone. And now Jolley, the ordinance's most vocal opponent, is in charge. (Tuesday, the new council elected him chairman.)  He brushed aside the pleas of Deeda Seed, Joanne Milner and Tom Rogan to wait, study the issue and then change the ordinance. It was a satisfying moment for the councilman who two months ago asked the council to consider his list of 21 moral and legal questions before adopting the ordinance, but was rebuffed. ``My passion for repealing this ordinance came from the lack of process, consideration and discussion before it was passed,'' Jolley said. ``I made the same plea for time two months ago, but I was ignored. I was hurt and offended by that lack of respect.   ``We need to take a look at the ordinance and start the process properly,'' Jolley said. ``It's imperative that this law be repealed.'' Keith Christensen agreed. ``I want an adequate and complete ordinance,'' he said. ``Yeah, there's a need to protect our employees against discrimination. Just give protection to everybody, not a few protected classes, and I'll be happy.''  And Thompson, who refused for months to say where he stood on the issue, backed them up, swinging the vote. ``It appears to me that this is an ordinance looking for acts of discrimination instead of acts of discrimination seeking a remedy,'' Thompson said.  Two years ago, as a member of the Salt Lake City School Board, Thompson voted to allow East High School's Gay-Straight Student Alliance to meet in the school. He lost his school board re-election bid the same year. He says that vote proves he is not homophobic. But Doug Wortham, a gay Rowland Hall-St. Mark's teacher who lives in Thompson's council district, was skeptical. ``This is about moral views that are based in religion,'' Wortham said. ``Anything else is a camouflage. This just sends the message that gays and lesbians, regardless of the rhetoric behind the council members' statements, are not full, equal citizens.'' Seed, who promised when she was elected two years ago to push the ordinance, was somber after the council meeting. ``The discussion tonight was not entirely honest,'' Seed said. ``These men believe that homosexuality is immoral. They won't come out and say that. They're hiding behind legal arguments. ``I'm sad. We're sending entirely the wrong message to residents and taking a step away from human rights.''  ( 01/07/1998 Salt Lake Tribune Page: D1)

1999-Human Rights Campaign's head Elizabeth Birch and her partner, Hilary Rosen, adopted newborn twins, evoking criticism from right-wing groups.

2000 Education board bans bias in Utah Activists unaware of months-old policy by Peter Freiberg Washington Blade January 7, 2000  Washington, DC  With so little fanfare that even Gay activists didn’t know about it, one of the nation’s most conservative states – Utah – has joined only four other states in approving a regulation that bans anti-Gay discrimination by school  personnel. Utah’s Board of Education approved the change in its ethical code last May, but activists did not find out until November during a court hearing on a lawsuit seeking to guarantee the right of public school students to meet in Gay-straight alliances and to express Gay-positive viewpoints in curricular-related clubs. In seeking dismissal of the lawsuit, Salt Lake City school board attorneys asserted that students’ Gay-positive views would not be silenced and pointed to the new statewide rule prohibiting discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation. “Nobody knew about this [code change],” said Stephen Clark, attorney for the American Civil Liberties Union of Utah. “Obviously, it’s a very positive development, if it’s applied, followed, and given meaning.” The Utah code change, which is similar to regulations on the books in Pennsylvania, Florida, Alaska, and Connecticut, added sexual orientation to the list of categories on which teachers, administrators, and other school personnel are barred from discriminating against students or co-workers.
  • Up Date on High School Clubs There are three Gay Straight Alliances up and running. They are located at East High, West High and Copper Hills High School. If you know of students looking for a support group please forward this information to Richard Teerlink. Also if you know of teachers, councilors, administrators who would like to start a Gay Straight Alliance, call the same number. These teachers do not have to be gay to do this job; in fact it might diffuse some problems. If you know of students who are being harassed or are in need of support, please give GLSEN (Richard’s number) a call.
Robert Kelshaw
2000 By Rodger L. Hardy Deseret News PROVO -- Outgoing Brigham Young University Police Chief Robert Kelshaw cited health concerns as "the main decider" in his decision to step aside after 38 years with the university's police department -- 26 of them as chief. Kelshaw, 59, suffers from chronic fatigue and Meniere's syndrome, a disease that affects the inner ear and can affect balance and hearing.Kelshaw was replaced by Larry Stott, who took the reins Monday. "We've been doing a handoff," Stott said, describing the transition taking place in the police department. Stott, 51, recently retired as assistant chief of the Salt Lake City Police Department. "For a long time I've wanted to be a chief," he said. "This is the best police chief job in the state and probably the country." Kelshaw said the biggest challenge facing Stott is dealing with troublesome visitors on campus. That's been one of the chief problems in policing the LDS Church--owned campus, Kelshaw said. But it's not unusual. Up to 80 percent of police action on college campuses around the nation involves non-students, he said, with theft the most common campus crime. Kelshaw set up a student security system three years ago that has reduced problems caused by non-students. About 100 students were hired and trained to work as security officers. The uniformed -- but unarmed -- students are charged with being additional eyes and ears for the police force's 25 certified officers. The initial cost to start the program was about $100,000, Kelshaw said. The police force has added only four officers since Kelshaw joined the force part-time as a freshman student back in 1961. The student security officers' duties encompass late night work and surveillance. That includes the "safe walk" program that provides students -- usually coeds who feel threatened or uncomfortable -- with an escort to help them to a safe environment. Student security officers are also allowed to stop and interview people wandering the campus late at night. However, a certified officer also has to be there, Kelshaw said. "It's amazing how many people they've stopped (that) had lengthy records," he said. Using students to bolster the police force has become a curiosity among other college campus police agencies, Kelshaw said. He calls it his biggest success, made necessary because of the police department's limited manpower. Getting a full-time police officer position approved is "next to impossible," he said. "We have always used as many students as we can." Reserve officers from other police agencies around Utah County also fill in. Many of them once worked for the department before moving on to another police force, he said. Stott said his plan is "to stay the course for at least six months." Stott said he will then meet with the rest of the department leaders to set new goals. "I'm not going to make decisions in a vacuum," Stott said. Kelshaw has served BYU as a police officer for 38 years, working his way up through the ranks until he was named chief in 1974. He has served in the top post longer than any other police chief in Utah, Stott said. While the police force hasn't grown much during his third-of-a-century tenure with the department, the police budget has doubled. Kelshaw won't say what the budget is, but he admitted it averages about $1 million less than comparable campuses. Unlike a city police agency, the BYU force has responsibility for what goes on inside the buildings as well as outside, Stott said. "This is a different animal completely." Kelshaw said his greatest moments involved watching students who'd been in trouble with police correct their behavior and eventually graduate. His most tragic moment was reading the will of a suicide victim to the parents shortly after the incident. The
Maryland freshman's death in 1988 is one of only two shootings in BYU history. At the mother's request, he allowed her to read the message for herself. "I let her sit at my desk and read it. Those stains on the matting on my desk are from the salt in her tears." The biggest change in BYU police work involves the major reduction of drug and alcohol use that was prevalent in the 1960s, Kelshaw said. Much of the abuse was by non-students, he said. However, when the LDS Church began requiring potential students to get approval from their ecclesiastical leaders before they could enroll, police work became much easier. "That made a very, very positive impact," Kelshaw said. As for the new chief? "A lot of proactive things are done here," Stott said. "I like the quality of life and intend to participate in the activities of the university." Change at the top for BYU police<BR> Kelshaw cites health reasons for decision to retire after 38 years

2003-Page-Lake Powell Pride Events 2003 1st Annual Summer of Pride "Pride through Peace" June 7 - September 7, 2003 Pride Events 2003 Houseboat Vacations Specify men’s or women’s boat. 6 Days 5 Nights June 8 – 13 Don't forget Flagstaff's Pride in the Pines festival on June 14! 7 Days 6 Nights August 29 - September 5Don’t forget the Page / Lake Powell Pride festival on September 6!*  Hiking Adventure DATE: TBD* Grand Circle Adventure DATE: TBD* Sporting Challenge On and off road Bicycle Races Track Baseball Swimming (subject to NPS approval)Water Skiing (subject to NPS approval) Triathlon (subject to NPS approval) DATE: TBD * Parade and Festival DATE: September 6 Early registration for all events, especially houseboat vacations is highly recommended. Space is limited. For more information or to pre-register for these events, send email to: info@pagepride.org Or Mail to: Page Lake Powell Pride P.O. Box 7156Page, AZ 86040-7156 Special discounted rates may be available for event volunteers. Watch for updates at: www.pagepride.org.

2003 Picture Perfect Developing a photo collection detailing the history of the Utah GLBT Community. By David Hurst-member of the Utah Stonewall Historical Society  Remember the day the Nazi's showed up to Gay Pride Day in Murray Park, and the circle of gay people that surrounded them in peace? Do you remember the night of the sashing of the first Mr. Utah Leather or the first UGRA Rodeo? How sharp is your memory of the DIG Awards, the last Gay Pride march and rally, The Utah Stonewall Center, the first exhibition of the AIDS memorial quilt, Mountain/Desert States Gay and Lesbian Conference, or last Halloween party at the Deer Hunter or Sun Tavern (old or new)? Most of us have great memories of these and many similar moments in the history of the GLBT community. The details often differ in the folklore and legend of the GLBT community. But somewhere tucked away in boxes and drawers in the basements and storage units of the GLBT community is photos that forever have captured those many important and diverse moments in time. Photos are an important part of the history of our community. They are a "picture perfect" compliment to the many written and oral histories of the GLBT community. These small squares of chemically developed paper bring to life some of the detail of events that have become history of our community. They rekindle the memories of the great strength and unity of a growing Utah GLBT community or remind us of the happy moments with friends we have lost. Importantly they remind us of our journey as a community. The Utah Stonewall Historical Society is looking for the photos that tell the story of the Utah GLBT Community, and for photographers willing to help us capture history on film. Individuals or organizations are being encouraged to share their photo collections. A print is always the best, but with modern technology, individuals and GLBT organizations are encouraged to loan to us for scanning their many photos of GLBT events or GLBT Allies events where our community was focused on or a participant. Photographs may be brought to Angles (511 W 200 S, SLC) anytime or to the monthly meeting of the Utah Stonewall Historical Society held the third Wednesday of each month at Angles. As a donor you will be noted as the photographer and will be forever entered into the annuals of the GLBT community. We will be very careful, and promise their safe return. All photos will be crossed referenced and matched to events in the Utah Stonewall Historical database for future use in sharing the accurate history of our great community in literature, documentaries, and exhibits. Open your photo albums and help us create a great photographic legacy of the GLBT people of Utah. No photo too large or small, to good or bad. Bring your Photos in to Angles January 1 to February 15 for a _Mocha at half price (minimum 24 photos per visit one visit per day) to be given or scanned into the archives of the Utah Stonewall Historical Society. Ask about the USHS and Angle Shutterbug Card for great discounts as a regular customer.

2005  Big dreams motivate support-group leader Big dreams motivate coalition director By
Toni Johnson
Michael N. Westley The Salt Lake Tribune When Toni Johnson dreams of the future, she sees a three-story building with places to exercise, a library and comfortable rooms to hold seminars. As the director of the People with AIDS Coalition of Utah, it's her job to dream big - and being slapped with a dose of her mortality at a young age helps her do it. Each day she fights to live, while fighting to help others living with HIV/AIDS lead better lives. She contracted the virus through unprotected sex. "I was 21 and wanting to have a good time. And I got HIV," Johnson said. Since her diagnosis in June 1993, Johnson has seen her share of the dark side of her illness. She told her parents, learned about the virus, was fired when her co-workers became uneasy with her HIV status, got married, got divorced, sued her former employer, started her own accounting firm and attended countless funerals for those who helped her along the way. "I'm not afraid to die. I'm afraid of the way I might die," Johnson said. Johnson's illness is not easy to manage. Despite a naturally strong immune system, a lung infection settles in like clockwork every winter, and energy is a valuable commodity. She washes her hands frequently and knows whether cleaning products include bleach or anti-bacterial agents. Her diet has changed and dating starts with an uncomfortable conversation about HIV. But her passion for the PWACU, based in Salt Lake City, keeps her moving. She became a board member in 1998 and took the director's chair in 2001. She oversees an annual conference and quarterly seminars, publishes a monthly newsletter, offers a resource library, support groups and recreation programs for the more than 1,800 people living with AIDS in Utah. Her dreams of the future are not for her - they are for the coalition. Her own focus stays on the day-to-day. "It's kind of nice to be so aware of my mortality," she said, "because it makes me aware of what's really important in my life." Information on the coalition and its services is available at http://www.pwacu.org. mwestley@sltrib.com

2005 TSubject: [slmetro_staff] Metro Writer/Staff Meeting Happy New Year! A reminder that we are planning our quarterly staff/writers meeting for this Monday, January 10, at 6:00 p.m. We will meet at the Salt Lake Metro office (352 S. Denver Street, Suite 350 - near 400 S 400 W) and expect the meeting to last about an hour. Pizza will be provided. Agenda topics to include: * the results of our recent readers poll * 2005 editorial calendar * upcoming special events * "State of the Company" report Of course, we'll also have Q&A time, a chance to meet and mingle with your fellow writers and staff, and I will set aside time for one-on-one meetings with anyone who wishes to chat after the formal meeting. I hope everyone will be able to attend. If you have any questions, please call me during my office hours (1-5 p.m., Mon-Fri) at 323-9500 or you can reach me by cell phone at 520-1398. Thanks, Jere Keys Editor, Salt Lake Metro

2006 From the Deseret news--Grieg Smith, senior vice president and ad director for the NAC, said notification to pull the listing came too late to remove it from Friday's paper. It has been pulled from ads for papers today and Sunday, he said. Calls to Miller and a spokesperson were not returned Friday. Cal Gunderson, manager of the Jordan Commons Megaplex, was reached by phone but declined to comment. A check of the theater's online and telephone listings showed that "Brokeback Mountain" had indeed been removed from screening. Conservative groups lauded the apparent decision to not show the film. Others said it was a decision that would deny Utahns a chance to see a true work of art. "I think it sets an example for all the people in Utah and, like I said before, he's my new hero," said Gayle Ruzicka, president of the Utah Eagle Forum. "It's such a terrible show, and it is such a horrible message. I just think (pulling the show) tells the young people especially that maybe there is something wrong with this show."

2006 Saturday-'Brokeback' gets boot A no-show at megaplex in Sandy By Sean P. Means and Sheena McFarland The Salt Lake Tribune - SANDY - Carol Adams just wanted to watch a movie and have a burrito. But Adams learned Friday the movie she wanted to see - the R- rated Western gay romance "Brokeback Mountain" - had been pulled from screens at the MegaPlex 17 at Jordan Commons. Management at the MegaPlex 17 decided late Thursday afternoon not to open "Brokeback Mountain" on Friday as scheduled. Word of the decision arrived at area newspapers by e-mail at 5:39 p.m. Thursday, too late for Friday papers that still listed MegaPlex's screening times for the film.  "I even called in advance yesterday, and they said the first showing was at 12:45 p.m.," said Karen Tiblier, of Sandy, who went to Jordan Commons with a friend to catch a matinee of "Brokeback Mountain." I just had a feeling that they wouldn't show it here, and then I saw that it was and I was surprised," Tiblier said. "Now I'm being surprised again." Adams, who moved to Sandy from Washington state more than a year ago, said "this is the first time I've been slapped in the face with what I believe to be closemindedness. . . . This movie has gotten stellar reviews, and it's already up for boatloads of awards. Not showing this film says bigotry and fear." Neither theater management nor Jordan Commons' owner, auto magnate and Utah Jazz owner Larry H. Miller, returned calls seeking comment. The only official explanation was a typed message posted at the MegaPlex ticket window: "There has been a change in booking and we will not be showing 'Brokeback Mountain.' We apologize for any inconvenience." In an interview with KCPW-FM reporter Jonathan Brown, which was taped Thursday afternoon and aired Friday, Miller said booking a movie like "Brokeback Mountain" was a business decision. "It's something that I have to let the market speak to some degree," Miller told Brown. "I don't think I'm qualified to be the community censor." However, Brown said Friday that Miller was unaware of the storyline of "Brokeback Mountain" - about two Wyoming cowboys who maintain a hidden romance for two decades - until Brown described it to him Thursday, less than two hours before the schedule change was announced. Other new movies with R-rated content - such as the marijuana- fueled comedy "Grandma's Boy" and the grisly horror movie "Hostel" - opened on schedule at the MegaPlex 17. Officials for Focus Features, the movie's distributor, were incensed. "Only hours prior to opening 'Brokeback Mountain,' [the theater management] reneged on their licensing agreement with Focus Features and refused to open the film today as scheduled," the company said in a statement. "Given the gigantic grosses already being posted in Salt Lake City for 'Brokeback Mountain,' this is their loss. We are thrilled that the film . . . is now being embraced by such a huge audience in Salt Lake City, regardless of the deplorable business practices of this one theater." Mike Thompson, executive director of the gay-rights group Equality Utah, said, "It's disappointing that bias would prevent a beautiful and award-winning film such as 'Brokeback Mountain' from being made available to the residents of Utah." The movie, starring Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal, set box-office records for the Broadway Centre Cinemas when it opened Dec. 30. Tori Baker, executive director of the Salt Lake Film Society (the nonprofit group that runs the Broadway and Tower theaters), said "Brokeback Mountain" made $46,000 over the four-day New Year's weekend - placing the Broadway 10th nationwide for per-screen average. Baker said Focus Features, the movie's distributor, "is falling off their chair about [the numbers]." Focus Features has been releasing "Brokeback Mountain" slowly across the country, building up positive reviews to counter the marketing hurdle of selling a gay romance to middle America. But better-than-expected box office prompted Focus to speed up the national release, up to nearly 500 screens this weekend – including the Century 16 in South Salt Lake and the Cinemark 24 at Jordan Landing. The Utah Film Critics Society named "Brokeback Mountain" the year's best movie, and also gave top honors to director Ang Lee. The movie has received similar honors from critics' groups nationwide, as well as seven Golden Globe nominations, four Screen Actors Guild nominations, and nominations for Directors Guild, Writers Guild and Producers Guild awards. Adams, not wanting to cancel her weekly "Mom's day out," chose to watch a movie she has already seen, "The Chronicles of Narnia: The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe." But she said the "Brokeback Mountain" incident may change her moveigoing habits. "There are some new theaters around here and they show all the same movies," Adams said. "I may end up going there." spmeans@sltrib.com smcfarland@sltrib.com

2006 Read the last two paragraphs if not the entire article to realize what Larry Miller is really afraid of. Article Last Updated: 1/07/2006 03:25 PM Why 'Brokeback Mountain' is so frightening Leonard Pitts Salt Lake Tribune I went to see ''Brokeback Mountain'' last week, mainly to prove to myself that I could. This was after reading a New York Times piece by Larry David of ''Seinfeld'' and ''Curb Your Enthusiasm'' fame in which he wrote that, though he loves gay people and supports both gay marriage and gay divorce, he does not plan to see this critically praised movie about gay cowboys. David said he's discomfited by the idea of watching two men fall in love and fears it might make him gay by osmosis. ''Not,'' he added, ''that there's anything wrong with that.'' It strikes me that David's essay amounted to the smiley-face liberal version of what is being said more bluntly in conservative circles. ''Gay love story carries a high 'ick' factor'' reads the headline of a story on the American Family Association Web site. It quotes a prediction that people will leave the theater vomiting. How asinine, I think. Yeah, says a little voice in my head, but if that's how you feel, why haven't you been to ''Brokeback Mountain''? Now look, I say, and suddenly there's this wheedling tone to my voice, some of my best friends are gay. Heck, my own brother's gay. But you know, we are talking about a love story between two guys, and they might be kissing and, you know, touching and . . . stuff. The little voice falls silent. It is a put-your-money-where-your- mouth-is silence. So I went to see ''Brokeback.'' And I can report that it was as shattering and powerful as advertised. People were moved. Nobody threw up. Which brings me back to that ick factor. I find myself wondering if this primeval revulsion doesn't speak less to our antipathy toward homosexuality than to our fears about masculinity. I mean, while a movie about two women in love would surely be controversial, I doubt it would present the visceral threat ''Brokeback Mountain'' does for some of us. I doubt Larry David would be scared to see it. Indeed, the idea of women who can't keep their hands off each other is a staple of so-called men's entertainment. Visit a magazine stand if you don't believe me. Point being, when it's women, we - meaning straight men - tend to find it titillating, exotic, arousing in its very forbiddance. When it's men, we - meaning straight men and women - tend to react as if somebody dropped a snake in the bed. Small wonder the FBI reports that while 902 men were reported victims of sexual orientation hate crimes in 2004, only 212 women were. We seem prone to find male homosexuality the more clear and present danger, the more urgent betrayal of some fundamental . . . something. Some will say it's - and I will finesse this for a general audience - the nature of man-to-man sex some of us find off-putting. I think it's more basic than that. I think gay men threaten our very conception of masculinity. The amazing thing about ''Brokeback Mountain'' is its willingness to make that threat, directly and overtly. These are not cute gays, funny gays, ''Queer Eye for the Straight Guy'' gays. These are ''cowboys,'' and there is no figure in American lore more iconically male. Think Clint Eastwood, John Wayne, the Marlboro Man. The cowboy is our very embodiment of male virtues. In offering us cowboys who are gay, then, ''Brokeback Mountain'' commits heresy, but it is knowing heresy, matter-of-fact heresy. Nor is it the sex (what little there is) that makes it heretical. Rather, it's the emotion, the fact that the movie dares you to deny these men their humanity. Or their love. Ultimately, I think, that's what the Larry Davids among us sense. And why for them, ''Brokeback Mountain'' might be the most frightening movie ever made.
  • Sunday 8 Jan, 2006 10:31 am posted by David Nelson Because of your refusal to exhibit the film "Brokeback Mountain," I won’t patronize or spend any money at your businesses including: Delta Center, Fanzz Sports Apparel and More, Jordan Commons, KJZZ Television, Larry H. Miller Group, Larry H. Miller Automotive Group, Megaplex Theatres, Miller Motorsportspark,  Prestige Financial, Utah Jazz NBA Basketball ...and tell everyone I can to do the same. As a longtime friend of your mother, Larry, I believe that she'll agree with me that this is the most hateful and petty thing you've ever done. I believe that, if you fail to fulfill your contractual promise to exhibit the film, you're less of an honorable citizen than even I thought possible. Clean up your act. David Nelson Salt Lake City Jan. 7, 2006
  • Mon Jan 9, 2006 3:14 pm posted by Jere Keys David, Thanks for starting this. I've also written a letter to the Larry H Miller group and hope others will as well.  Jere
2007 Dear Affirmation/ Reconciliation member, Please join us for our first 2007 event, a Discussion/Workshop - "Letters To God" - led by Craig Steiner, Affirmation- SLC's Co-director. Description of Event:      When he was dealing with the challenge of being both gay and religiously Mormon, Affirmation: SLC co-director Craig Steiner was challenged by a friend to write a letter to God, telling Him everything without holding back - just being totally honest in all his feelings and inner conflicts.  The process proved to be very healing. Hear about Craig's experience, and consider writing your own letter to God as you seek to heal your own relationship and move forward along your own path. [No one will be forced to participate, write a letter, or share what they have written - there is no pressure.  But those who may wish to share are welcome to.] We look forward to your joining us for a thought-provoking evening.  Regards, Brian, Craig, Duane, and Rick Co-workers in Affirmation- SLC Host:  Affirmation SLC Location:   Metropolitan Community Church 823 South 600 East, Salt Lake City, UT When:  Sunday, January 7, 5:00pm

2007 Deseret Morning News, Sunday, January 07, 2007 God alone can judge souls In
Terry O'Brien
response to Sid Williams' comments about my friend Carol Lynn Pearson's alleged confused message for gays to "come and continue to sin" (Readers' Forum, Jan. 3), had he read her loving book, "No More Goodbyes," he would have learned that there is no sin in being homosexual, and that many gay people have never even acted upon their unchosen condition, having learned to accept themselves after struggling mightily, without success, to change it. If, as Williams suggests, God weeps over our poor choices, in light of many sins heterosexuals commit, he would be weeping nonstop. If God weeps at all, it must be over the sin of uninformed and cruel judgments like Williams' that drive so many of our young gay people to end their lives. Terry J. O'Brien Provo


2007   HRC is hosting a fabulous LWord Season Premier party at MoDiggity's this Sunday. There will be FREE fun stuff from Lword like a necklace, back massager and episode 2. There will also be drawing for season 3 DVD set and LWord CDs. WHAT: HRC's LWord Season premier party WHERE: MoDiggity's (a private club for members) WHEN: Sunday, January 7th TIME: 3pm, 5pm, and 7pm COST: $5 donation Be the first to see LWord episode one and two!!!!

2010 B-I-N-G-O By Hattie MacLeod Salt Lake City weekly Looking for a Friday night activity sans alcohol, but not willing to sacrifice giddy high jinks and the presence of a few good drag queens? Then dust off your lucky bingo marker and head to the Columbus Community Center (2531 S. 400 East, 801-412-3295) for Gay Bingo, put on the second Friday of every month and hosted by Utah’s drag troupe The Utah Cyber Sluts.  The gaudily-garbed Utah Cyber Sluts formed in 2000 and launched their popular bingo night two years later. According to Cyber Slut Ida Slapter, the goal of the group and Gay Bingo Night is to bridge gaps by benefiting organizations in and out of the gay community. A different Utah nonprofit is the spotlighted at each event.  On bingo night, individuals ranging from fresh 20-somethings to seniors pack the auditorium to raise dollar bills in the air, eager to hand them to wigged and boa-draped queens with a punk-rock edge. Bring plenty of cash and prepare yourself to leave covered in glittered kiss marks, a handful of prizes ranging from Rice-A-Roni to “personal massagers” from local sponsors and an aching stomach from laughing. In the mood for something more traditional? Reserve a table at Annie’s Dinner and Bingo Club (4151 S. Redwood Road, 801-266-0255) or Southgate Dinner & Bingo, (3725 S. 900 East, 801-266-6025).

2014 Suit filed to allow same-sex marriages in Arizona THE ASSOCIATED PRESS PUBLISHED: PHOENIX • Four couples have filed a class-action lawsuit seeking to make same-sex marriage legal in Arizona. The suit filed Monday claims a voter-approved ban on gay marriage is unconstitutional. It seeks to allow same-sex couples to be married and recognize same-sex marriages conducted in other states. Phoenix radio station KTAR reports the suit names Arizona Gov. Jan Brewer and Attorney General Tom Horne among the defendants. Some of the couples who filed the suit are legally married in other states. Should the plaintiffs win the case, Arizona would become the 19th state to recognize same-sex marriages. New Mexico and Utah legalized gay marriage last month. However, the U.S. Supreme Court put a hold on same-sex marriage in Utah on Monday.

2018 Two years ago, senior apostle Russell M. Nelson stared straight into a camera at Brigham Young University-Hawaii and confidently confessed to a worldwide assembly of Mormon millennials that social science research bothers him. “I am less interested in what the experts have to say about you,” the LDS prophet-in-waiting told a Young Adult global gathering via computers and satellites, “than what the Lord has told me about you.” Among other divine messages, Nelson said, the church’s hotly disputed November 2015 policy — declaring same-sex LDS couples “apostates” and barring their children from Mormon rituals until they are 18 or older — was a “revelation.” It cannot be a coincidence that Nelson gave this landmark speech, and on this topic, to a gathering of 20- and 30-somethings. The former heart surgeon, no doubt, is well aware of the statistics regarding millions of young people dropping out of organized religion, and, if the research is right, churches’ treatment of gays ranks among the biggest reasons. With the recent death of Thomas S. Monson at age 90, Nelson is poised to become the next president of the nearly 16 million-member Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He is 93 and would be the second-oldest apostle to assume the Mormon presidency in history. In fact, Nelson is 13 years older than Monson was when he stepped into the role in 2008. To millennials, that means their church still will be run by a man old enough to be their great-grandfather. The generation gap seems to be “widening in the LDS Church,” said Mormon writer and researcher Jana Riess. “We have a younger church than most other homegrown, nonimmigrant-based religions such as Islam and Hinduism.” The new “prophet, seer and revelator” will be “more than 70 years older than missionaries who are going out to preach Mormonism,” she said. And his views on social issues were formed in a very different America. For several years, Riess has conducted a multigenerational survey of Mormons, including questions about temple attendance, LDS General Conference watching, activity in the church, marriage, race, gender and same-sex marriage. Her sample size was 1,696, including 1,156 current and 540 former Mormons. Her findings will be published by Oxford University Press next year in a volume titled “The Next Mormons.” Mormon millennials, born in the 1980s and ’90s, “are mostly married and, among those who do get married, the age of marriage has not shifted,” Riess’ survey showed, but they “grew up in smaller families and are more politically balanced than previous LDS generations.” The LDS Church, as a whole, remains one of the most reliably Republican faith groups. But Mormon millennials are spread far more evenly across the partisan playing field, with 46 percent identifying as Republican or leaning that way, 41 percent as Democratic and 13 percent as independent. When it comes to supporting their church financially, seven in 10 millennials pay a “full tithe” but many donate a “tenth” of their net income rather than from their gross. They are strong believers in God (about 90 percent) and 82 percent say they feel the presence of deity “at least once a week.” But millennials’ views of same-sex marriage are markedly different than earlier generations. In the 18-26 age bracket, more than 40 percent support gay marriage, double the 20 percent backing among Mormons age 52 and over. Of the former Mormons in the Riess’ millennial cohort, LGBT issues were the third most commonly cited reason for their decision to drop out. Overall, young adult Mormons are not as liberal as non-Mormons their age, she said, but they are “clearly more progressive than Mormons who are over 51, and even more so than Mormons over retirement age.” The divide between aged apostles and young believers could be mitigated somewhat, the writer suggested, if the Utah-based faith took a more multigenerational approach to leadership as it did in the past. After all, Monson was 36 when he was tapped as an apostle and Boyd K. Packer was 45. “It would help,” Riess said, “by having younger men in the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles.” Nelson surely is aware of this trend — which could be why he chose the Young Adult venue to defend the gay stance and counsel his listeners to look to their leaders for answers. He first described the process of arriving at what some have called “the exclusion policy.” After same-sex marriage became legal in a number of countries, including the United States, Nelson explained, the LDS Church’s top 15 leaders wrestled with what to do, weighed the ramifications, fasted, prayed, met in the temple and sought God’s guidance on the issue. Balancing their understanding of Mormon doctrine about the “plan of salvation,” which is built on male-female eternal marriage, with compassion for children of same-sex couples, he said, “we considered countless permutations and combinations of possible scenarios that could arise.” Ultimately, then-President Monson declared that the policy reflected “the mind of the Lord and the will of the Lord.” At that moment, Nelson said, each of the apostles “felt a spiritual confirmation.” Nelson urged his listeners to look to Mormon authorities to help guide them in these challenging times. “Prophets see ahead. They see the harrowing dangers the adversary has placed or will yet place in our path,” he said. “Prophets also foresee the grand possibilities and privileges awaiting those who listen with the intent to obey.” The young people might not always understand “every declaration of a living prophet,” he added. “But when you know a prophet is a prophet, you can approach the Lord in humility and faith and ask for your own witness about whatever his prophet has proclaimed.” He warned the audience that some might tear down their faith. “The somber reality is that there are ‘servants of Satan’ embedded throughout society,” he said. “So be very careful about whose counsel you follow.” It is not hard for Ashleigh Allan Read, a 31-year-old BYU graduate, to heed the warnings of the future LDS prophet. Read has seen friends leave the faith over the same-sex marriage policy, but she accepts it as revelation. Mormon authorities’ explanation that it is “respectful of gay couples,” she said, “makes sense to me — not wanting to pit children against their parents, being taught one thing at church and another at home.” The Provo resident also sees “good signs of progress” in her religion — with women serving in top councils, for example, and the church’s endorsement of the LoveLoud Concert in Orem to raise money for LGBTQ organizations. These elderly apostles have been making strides, Read said, “in relating to younger people. They all have Twitter accounts and hold face-to-face online gatherings.” Change may be slow, but she’s OK with the direction the church is moving. Read also doesn’t mind the age difference between Nelson and the millennials in his future flock. “Elder Nelson is a pioneering heart surgeon and a man of science, and he believes in God,” she said. ”It gives him a unique perspective and ability to relate to scientists, to non-Mormons and to skeptics because he has lived in their communities.” The young wife has never felt anything but love from Nelson’s sermons. He is “upbeat and fun,” Read said, “and doesn’t come across as a stuffy old dude. “ Even though, she said, “he’s older than my grandparents.” SALT LAKE TRIBUNE Peggy Fletcher Stack

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