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Sunday, October 27, 2013

This Day In Gay Utah History October 27

October 27th
Sigmund Freud

1903-In "Die Zeit", Sigmund Freud was quoted as saying homosexuals are not sick and should not be treated as sick.

1951-French postal service issued stamps with gay poets and lovers Paul Verlaine and Arthur Rimbaud. Rimbaud and Verlaine began a short and torrid affair when Rimbaud was 16 years old. They led a wild, vagabond-like life spiced by absinthe and hashish. Ten years older than Rimbaud, Verlaine abandoned his wife and child and fled to London with Rimbaud. Their love affair was made into a movie "Total Eclipse" featuring Leobardo diCaprio as the young Arthur Rimbaud.

1957 Salt Lake City Gay Activist Charles “Chuck” Whyte born. Charles E. Whyte served on the Central City Neighborhood Council Board Member, was  Salt Lake Citizens Congress Board's Chair, Crossroads Urban Center Board Member, Community Development Block Grant Board Member Service Awards Golden Spike Community Award, Golden Spike Humanitarian Award, DIG (Diversity Is Great) Life Time Achievement Award and Dr. Kristen Ries Community Service Award, 
Mike Sperry
  • 2005 SLC Emperor 29 wrote: Hi Ben, This is Mike Sperry. I wanted to ask a favor of you. I am considering nominating Chuck for a national award that the court system gives out.  To do this I need to create some type of "resume" of all the charitable work/contributions he has done over the last 25 years. He is quite proud of that anniversary. And I; I am indebted to him for all of the emotional support he has given me this year. Come reign or shine ;-) But I think he has gotten every award this city has to offer. I have read the bios on some of their past recipients, and Chuck outshines many of them in my opinion. I really think he has a shot at winning this award. So, that brings me (the long way round) to the point of this letter.  Everyone that have contacted trying to piece the info together says to contact you. That you have pretty much all of this recorded somewhere.  Would you help me out with this? Sincerely, Mike 
  • CHUCK WHYTE; 1999 LIFETIME ACHIEVEMENT AWARD RECIPIENT Presenter
    Chuck Whyte
    PATTY REAGAN 1998 Lifetime Achievement Recipient Chuck has been a longtime activist in Salt Lake. As a volunteer or in a leadership position he is always willing to do whatever needs to be done, no matter how large or how menial the task. He has served on the boards of the Gay and Lesbian Community Center of Utah, Utah Pride Day, Royal Court of the Golden Spike Empire, Gay and Lesbian Community Council of Utah and has served in many capacities for other organizations such as the Metropolitan Community Church (MCC), the Unity Show and the Crossroads Urban Center Food Bank. His love of community has always shone through his work. Chuck has been a part of the Royal Court for 18 years. He has received many honors and titles through this organization, the first Gay/ lesbian social organization in Utah. He is the lifetime titleholder of the Keeper of the Lights for Life - for as long as they shall shine. Chuck produced the Unity Show from 1982 to 1990. He was a Board member from 1986-88. His former Court titles include Jestress IX, Imperial Cord X and Rice Patty Prince; Jestress XII, Jestress XIII, Jestress XIV, Grand Duke Regent XV, Honorary Prince of Love, Strength and Vanity; Prince Protector XVI, Royal Gossip XVII, Keeper of the Unity of the Red Ribbon and the Prince's Chatty Kathy Doll XXIII. Chuck has a long record of service on community boards, including the Chair of the Salt Lake Citizens Congress, addressing housing, utility and toxic waste issues; an executive board member of the Central City Neighborhood Community Council; on the board of the Crossroads Urban Center; and appointed to the Community Development Block Grant Committee by former mayor Palmer DePaulis. Chuck is a former deacon of the Resurrection MCC, and is a former Vista volunteer, which is a domestic arm of the Peace Corp. He served as treasurer of the Pride Day Committee, and Vice Chair of the Gay and Lesbian Community Council of Utah for two years.Chuck has received two other community awards: the Golden Spike Community Service Award, and the Dr. Kristen Ries Community Service Award. He is a current board member of 'The Center", our exciting new GLBT community center. Every time Chuck thinks he would like to "retire" from all this community service, his love of community brings him back into the areas where he can be of assistance. He does so much work for us, behind the scenes and out of the limelight, and that is what we as a diverse community need. Chuck states that his one wish is that everyone could be as lucky as he to have family, community and church people who love and support him. In fact, his mother has come from California to be here tonight -and we feel lucky that she gave him birth those 41 years ago - thanks to both of you.
Midge Decter
Arthur Evans
1970-Forty members of the Gay Activist Alliance invaded the offices of Harper magazine to protest an article which presented homosexuality as a mental illness. GAA president Arthur Evans verbally attacked editor Midge Decter for publishing an article which would add to the suffering of homosexuals. The protest led to a three part television news series on gay liberation.

1979 Women Aware, a Lesbian-Feminist organization, sponsored a “Womyn’s Dance” at the First Unitarian Church on 13th East in Salt Lake City, Utah


John Lorenzini
1987 John Lorenzini of the National AIDS Action Council spoke at the University of Utah in the Opin student Union.  Lorenzini was the director of the Persons With AIDS Alliance and fought for more education about AIDS, including teenage outreach and changing the health communities to see AIDS as not just a “gay plague.” The John Lorenzini AIDS Hero Award was named in his honor for being  civil disobedience activist who protested an indifferent attitude about AIDS by the Reagan Administration by chaining himself to a door of the old San Francisco Federal Building.
 

1988-Thursday-Matt Wilson hosted a Halloween Party for Gay Fathers. Matt Wilson proponent of The Mythopoetic Men's Movement based on the teachings of Robert Bly; that Men should celebrate their differences from women, rather than feeling guilty about them;  that men  are discouraged from expressing their emotions and that Male inexpressivity is an epidemic and does not correspond to their "deep masculine" natures.

1990-US Congress repealed a law barring homosexuals from being admitted to the United States on grounds of mental illness.

1992- The Federal Court of Canada ordered the military to lift the ban on gay and lesbian service personnel. The Defense Department declined to appeal the decision.

Allen Schindler
1993- Allen Schindler, a Gay American sailor, was beaten to death by his shipmates. Allen R. Schindler, Jr. (December 13, 1969—October 27, 1992) was an American Radioman Petty Officer Third Class in the United States Navy and a victim of a hate crime because he was gay. He was killed in a public toilet in Sasebo, Nagasaki, Japan by shipmate Terry M. Helvey, who acted with the aid of an accomplice, Charles Vins, in what Esquire called a "brutal murder". The case became synonymous with the gays in the military debate that had been brewing in the United States culminating in the "Don't ask, don't tell" bill. According to several of his friends, Schindler had complained repeatedly of anti-gay harassment to his chain of command in March and April 1992, citing incidents such as the gluing-shut of his locker and frequent comments from shipmates such as "There's a faggot on this ship and he should die". Schindler had begun the separation process to leave the Navy, but his superiors insisted he remain on his ship until the process was finished. Though he knew his safety was at risk, Schindler obeyed orders. While on transport from San Diego, California to Sasebo, the Belleau Wood made a brief stop in Pearl Harbor, Hawaii. Afterward en route to Japan, Schindler made a personal prank announcement "2-Q-T-2-B-S-T-R-8” (too cute to be straight) on secure lines reaching much of the Pacific Fleet. "When he appeared at captain's mast for the unauthorized radio message, he requested that the hearing be closed. It was open, with two hundred to three hundred people in attendance." Schindler was put on restrictive leave and was unable to leave the ship until a few months after arriving at Sasebo and four days before his death. Airman Apprentice Terry M. Helvey who was a member of the ship's weather department (OA Division, Operations Department) stomped Schindler to death in a toilet in a park in Sasebo, Nagasaki. Schindler had "at least four fatal injuries to the head, chest, and abdomen," his head was crushed, ribs broken, and his penis cut, and he had "sneaker-tread marks stamped on his forehead and chest" destroying "every organ in his body" leaving behind a "nearly-unrecognizable corpse." Schindler was left lying on the bathroom floor until the Shore Patrol and the key witness to the incident (Jonathan W.) carried out Schindler's body to the nearby Albuquerque Bridge. Jonathan W. witnessed the murder while using the restroom. He noticed Helvey jumping on Schindler's body while singing, and blood gushing from Schindler's mouth while he attempted to breathe. The key witness was requested to explain in detail to the military court what the crime scene looked like, but would not because Schindler's mother and sister were present in the courtroom. "The Navy was less than forthcoming about the details of the killing, both to the news media and to the victim's family, especially his mother, Dorothy Hajdys." In the wake of Schindler's murder, the Navy denied that it had received any complaints of harassment and refused to speak publicly about the case or to release the Japanese police report on the murder. The medical examiner compared Schindler's injuries to those sustained by a victim of a fatal horse trampling saying they were worse "than the damage to a person who’d been stomped by a horse; they were similar to what might be sustained in a high-speed car crash or a low-speed aircraft accident." During the trial Helvey denied that he killed Schindler because he was gay, stating, "I did not attack him because he was homosexual" but evidence presented by Navy investigator, Kennon F. Privette, from the interrogation of Helvey the day after the murder showed otherwise. "He said he hated homosexuals. He was disgusted by them," Privette said. On killing Schindler, Privette quoted Helvey as saying: "I don't regret it. I'd do it again. ... He deserved it." "Under a court-approved bargain in exchange for his pleading guilty to "inflicting great bodily harm," the maximum penalty is lifetime imprisonment. Under the original charge, it was death." After the trial, Helvey was convicted of murder and Douglas J. Bradt, the captain who kept the incident quiet was demoted and transferred to Florida. Helvey is now serving a life sentence in the military prison at the United States Disciplinary Barracks at Fort Leavenworth, Kansas, although by statute, he is granted a clemency hearing every year. Helvey's accomplice, Charles Vins, was allowed to plea bargain as guilty to three lesser offenses, including failure to report a serious crime and to testify truthfully against Terry Helvey, and served a 78-day sentence before receiving a general discharge from the Navy.

1997-BET-TV withdrew an invitation to Keith Boykin to appear on a show with Angie and Debbie Winans. The Winans objected to his presence on the show, which featured their anti-gay song "It's Not Natural." Once the highest-ranking openly gay person in the Clinton White House, Boykin helped organize and participated in the nation's first meeting between gay and lesbian leaders and a U.S. President.

1999- Democratic presidential nomination candidates Al Gore and Bill Bradley promised that if elected they would do everything in their power to ensure equal rights for gay and lesbian Americans.

Michael Westley
2005 Chilling out at Ice: A hot start for a new dance club REVIEW By Michael N. Westley The Salt Lake Tribune Club Ice got off to a heated start Wednesday night with a capacity crowd that exceeded even management's expectations. By 10:30 p.m., a line stretched from the building's main entrance on 500 West around the corner to 100 south. There was plenty of buzz about what to expect. Inside, Ice doesn't disappoint. The club's new owners, a collection of local and out-of-state investors, capitalized on the building's well-planned layout. The largest structural change involved moving the stage in the main dance hall toward the west side of the building and inserting two large barn-style doors on the east end of the floor that can swing open and effectively turn two dance floors into one great dance hall. It's a change that fits well with Ice's "meta-club" motif – meta standing for metamorphosis. Its multiroom design and upstairs balconies and bars make it ideal for opening and closing areas depending on the format to keep a fresh appearance. "It will be constantly changing. We don't want a stagnant atmosphere," said one of the club's general managers, who goes by Johnny New York. Decor inside the "meta" club is stark, almost bordering on dull. Gone are the outlandish colors and frills of the former Club Axis, replaced with an ocean of gray, black and white. Though simple, the new look is fresh and modern and creates a clean backdrop that allows the clientele to be the focal point. Salt Lake City residents Kelly Shutran and Jessica Forsyth ventured to Ice on Wednesday for ladies night. "This is a better atmosphere [than Axis]. It feels like a more sophisticated, high-end club," Shutran said. The club's standout feature is a dance floor cooled by several jets that spray liquid nitrogen in tall foggy columns - a feature that Ice's owners claim is used in only six other clubs in the U.S. "Everyone who walks in here will be treated like [a] VIP," New York said. "Regardless of the night or the format, everyone is welcome." The club's massive security force, members of which stood at every possible doorway or staircase, was friendly and helpful. The bartenders seemed overwhelmed by the crowd, but it was an exceptionally smooth opening night. Ice will host a ladies night Wednesdays, an alternative lifestyle night Fridays and a general dance night Saturdays with Top 40 and hip- hop music. Drinks are moderately priced and the cover charge will typically be about $5; a VIP admission will also be available (price TBA) that includes valet parking, coat check and access to a private lounge with bar. The club's dress code, which prohibits baseball hats, jerseys, athletic attire and old sneakers, is strictly enforced. Where: 108 S. 500 West When: Doors open at 9:30 p.m. on Wednesdays, Fridays and Saturdays Cost: Cover charge up to $10 Bottom line: The newest addition to Salt Lake City's dance club scene is sleek and friendly and features an innovative nitrogen-cooled dance floor. Arrive early to beat the line, which is sure to wrap around the corner.

2005 Transgender Community Meeting: GLBT Community Center's Multi-Purpose Room Thursday, Please come to this community meeting where we will discuss the Transgender resources and groups already available in the community, where the gaps in services lie, and how we can go forward in a more unified manner to begin to address these needs. Please help me spread the word to all the people you know!

Jerry Buie & John Cottrell
2006 Need A Break? Come enjoy a relaxing weekend retreat in Spring City, Utah at the Wind Walker Ranch, October 27-29. This will be a gathering of gay men to explore our personal relationship with ourselves. Through group activities and dialog, discover the masks we wear and the negative messages we carry.  Through traditional rituals, we will expel those messages and adopt new and positive images and messages about ourselves. The weekend will include discussion groups, activities, movement, socializing, and will end with a traditional Native American sweat lodge. It only costs $350 which covers your room, your meals, and the retreat activities. If you bunk with a friend, they receive $100 off  the retreat cost. You don't need to bring much. We'll take care of you. The Wind Walker  Ranch has comfortable accommodations and will serve us ranch-style hearty meals. Bring an open mind and the willingness to explore and  try something new. This will be a weekend you'll remember for a long time. For more information, please visit our website: www.queerspirit. org  or contact one of the facilitators: Jerry Buie (jerrybuie@mac. com) or  John Cottrell (skiutjohn@yahoo. com). It's not too soon to register. Do it today! Celebrating Queer Spirit A Gay Men's Retreat October 27-29 Wind Walker Ranch - Spring City, UT $350

Cyber Sluts
2006 Dear Community Members: On Friday, the Cyber Sluts will host a show at the PaperMoon.*  With any of the CyberSlut shows, it is always entertaining and never a dull moment. The cost is $5.00 at the door.  I am asking that you consider spending your Friday evening with this entertaining group of individuals.  I believe that the CyberSluts are a group that contributes greatly to our community. They have been present at events within the community that directly benefit other community members or other service organizations. Now it is our time to show our appreciation to them for all of their outstanding support towards every one of us!  Thanks, hope to see you there. In Service, Kim Russo Emperor XXXI



27 October 2008 SPRINGDALE - Many newlyweds advertise their nuptials with tin cans strung from the rear bumper and a shaving-cream message in the car window. Derek Streeter and Stephen Eiche strapped "Just Married" signs to their backs and marched in a parade. In Springdale for the Southern Utah Pride Festival, the St. George couple celebrated their recent California wedding after being together for 19 years. Their T-shirts declared the marriage date: Aug. 30, 2008. "We have talked about this for a really long time," Streeter said. "If it had been legally recognized, we would have done it in 1989."

Streeter and Eiche are one of a number of gay couples who have traveled to California from Utah - even from conservative Washington County, which the U.S. Census Bureau mistakenly estimates has zero same-sex-partner households - to be married.  A California Supreme Court ruling legalized the unions in May, although the decision could be overturned by a ballot measure on Election Day, and the state began issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples June 17. Streeter took that as a sign. He popped the question to Eiche in a birthday card on that very day. Eiche's sister staged the wedding at her Poway home in San Diego County, where the pair frequently visits to spend time with Eiche's family, including his mother.  "For us, it was like getting married in our hometown," Eiche said. "We knew in St. George it would never happen." The story of how they met is almost as unlikely. Eiche, 46, grew up in Tomahawk, Wis., one of 12 children in a devout Catholic family. He enlisted in the U.S. Air Force and eventually landed at Clearfield's Hill Air Force Base as a computer specialist. Streeter, 59, hails from London, where as a teenager he joined The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He served an LDS mission in France and later worked at the Missionary Training Center in Provo for 16 years. Both came from backgrounds - religious and military - that discouraged being openly gay. Both had moved to Salt Lake City in hopes of finding a more welcoming community. One Sunday in 1989, they locked eyes at St. Mark's Cathedral, a downtown Episcopal church. Eiche and Streeter insist the age-old cliché is true: It was love at first sight. They count that day, April 23, as their anniversary. As theater lovers, they relish that it's also considered to be Shakespeare's birthday. The couple settled in St. George after an eight-year stint in Minnesota that left them weary of cold weather. Streeter directs an English as Second Language program in Cedar City, and Eiche works as an accountant for a St. George paving company. They spend weekends visiting art galleries, attending plays and exploring Utah's National Parks. They make frequent Saturday trips to nearby Las Vegas - not to gamble, but to shop. The gregarious couple are well known - even in San Diego, where they visit several times a year to see family. "Everyone just loves them out here," said Eiche's sister Norma Flood, who hosted the couple's wedding in Poway. "Most of the store owners in San Diego know Steve and Derek. I'll go places and no one really knows me, but everyone knows them." George and Cherie Stoddard threw an impromptu reception at their Ivins home after learning about Eiche's and Streeter's marriage. "They are as committed a couple as I've known in my lifetime," said George Stoddard, who is a marriage and family counselor. "It's a huge thing for them personally, but also, I believe, for the institution of marriage." Stoddard has donated to efforts in California to defeat Proposition 8, the fall ballot initiative that would stop gay marriage in California. If the proposition passes, California Attorney General Jerry Brown has said in published reports, it would not be retroactive: Same-sex marriages, like Eiche's and Streeter's, that already have been performed still would be recognized. But backers of the gay-marriage ban argue, in the official voters' information guide, that a "yes" vote on Proposition 8 means "only marriage between a man and a woman will be valid or recognized in California, regardless of when or where performed." It's possible the issue would be settled in court. The ballot measure prompted Streeter and Eiche to be married before November - they gave Eiche's sister about a month's notice to prep her backyard for the Labor Day weekend wedding. The couple asked a Unitarian Universalist minister to officiate. They wanted their marriage recognized by a church, even if it is ultimately dissolved in California. "We have a commitment that is, and has been, very strong and sure," Streeter said. "For now, at least, we are recognized by a church . . . and a government." After November, they know their marriage still will be valid in Massachusetts, New York and Connecticut.  And, maybe, California.



[Derek Streeter and his lover Stephen Eiche were married in California in 2008 and live in St. George-Derek Streeter, St George, Utah - Proposition 8 in California As a member of the LDS church, I am sad to see its leaders straying so far from the teachings of Christ about tolerance and love. John tells us that anyone who loves is born of God. He doesn’t make exceptions to this, so gay people in committed relationships are born of God. I was married to my partner, Steve, in California on August 30 because California has recognized that our love and commitment is just as valid as a straight relationship in the eyes of the world and in the eyes of God. It’s really too bad that you are using an amendment to take away basic rights from us when it is absolutely clear from scripture that we are loved in the eyes of God. Perhaps you need to study His words better. You have strayed away from His teachings and committed yourselves to hate and division, and turned your faces from God.]

2009 Gay groups disagree with Elder Oaks Published: Friday, Oct. 16, 2009 11:25 p.m. MDT Four gay advocacy groups that include Mormons and former church members released a joint statement Friday disagreeing with points made earlier this week in a speech on freedom of religion by Elder Dallin H. Oaks of the Quorum of Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The statement called the church's decision to advocate for traditional marriage an attempt to force its belief system on others and strip existing rights from people and religions. The statement was signed by the Foundation for Reconciliation/LDSapology.org, Mormons for Marriage, Affirmation: Gay and Lesbian Mormons and the LDS Safe Space Coalition. The groups called for the LDS Church to reconsider the funding it has provided for public campaigns to support traditional marriage.

Joni Weiss
2009 Q Salt Lake Joni Weiss: Putting the T at the Center by Joselle Vandergriff Joni Weiss has only been back in the state of her birth four years, but based on the service she has given to Utah’s gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community, you would think she had never left. At present, Weiss is a member of the Pride Interfaith Council, the organization that puts together gay and transgender-affirming religious and spiritual gatherings—most notably the Utah Pride Festival’s annual interfaith service and the Community Inroads Alliance, an organization dedicated to supporting gay and transgender-friendly businesses and their work in the community. This January, she also became a member of the Utah Pride Center’s board of directors, 17 individuals who handle a number of the center’s most vital tasks, such as helping bring in funding. After joining, Weiss helped the board undertake another important job, one that she was surprised the board wasn’t doing already: Starting a diversity committee. “You wouldn’t think we’d need one, but we now have one to focus on issues for people of color and transgender people and bisexual people. Those parts of the community who tend to feel a little bit left out,” said Weiss, who identifies both as transgender and pansexual—that is, attracted to people regardless of gender identity or biological sex. “Being new to the board, I guess the diversity committee is the biggest thing I’ve been involved with, and just in general trying to represent the transgender community and bisexual community on the board in discussions and board meetings,” she continued. It’s a lot for one person to have taken on in just four years. Although Weiss grew up in Salt Lake City, she moved to Denver at age thirty shortly after marrying. “When I got married my wife and I decided we didn’t want to [stay here],” said Weiss, who was observed male at birth. “The Mormon influence was kind of hard for her and the pressure to have children was great and neither of us liked that, so we wanted to get away.” For the next 18 years, Weiss worked for AT & T until her job was outsourced to IBM after 2000 (“they sold me with the furniture to IBM,” she jokes). She describes her current job with the computer giant as a “jack of all trades” position. “I’m a bottle washer. I do some training, I do some training documentation, some automated programming for an internal product at IBM, which is my favorite piece. If I had to [say anything in particular], it would be that, and production support.”  When Weiss came out as transgender in 2005 and began the process of transitioning, she said the company supported her every step of the way. “They are very supportive of transgender and gay people,” she explained. “They have human resource policies that protected me once I came out and they had a program in place within HR that assisted me in coming out. It was very well orchestrated.” Although she didn’t come out until later in life, Weiss said she had known she was “female inside for most of my life.” “In kindergarten I didn’t want to play with the boys, I knew I would rather hang out with my sister and her girlfriends,” she explained. “What was I supposed to do as a boy wasn’t really fun for me … and when puberty hit I would cross dress and I would feel more comfortable in a dress. I wanted to do what all the girls were doing, but I couldn’t. So I knew then that something was wrong, but I still didn’t know what transgender was.” Weiss didn’t know the term until roughly 2003 or 2004, when she began doing some research on the internet.  She describes one Web site, run by engineer and computer scientist Lynn Conway as particularly helpful in teaching her what transgender meant.  “I really struggled with [being transgender] because I thought it was wrong and I didn’t think that I would be able to come out and do anything about it,” Weiss explained. “I prayed and prayed — I’ve always been a spiritual person — for it to go away all my life. And it just never happened. … and when it didn’t go away was when it really hit me that I didn’t really have any other choices. I had to come out and face whatever the consequences were.” When Weiss came out in March of 2007, she and her wife divorced. More happily, she began involving herself with the local gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community, attending workshops, making friends, and volunteering for a number of groups, such as the Human Rights Campaign’s L Word night at Mo Diggity’s (a lesbian sports bar that closed its doors in 2008) and the Sundance Film Festival’s Queer Lounge, the independent film festival’s annual queer-friendly forum.  “It wasn’t very long before there were people who were newer to coming out than I was,” she laughs. In volunteering and in making and talking to her new friends, Weiss said she began realizing that the transgender community in Utah had a lot of unmet needs—including the need to socialize with and meet people “outside a support group environment.” “It just really struck me that it was hard for people like me to realize that there are people like us out here,” she said. So when Weiss’ friend and Utah Pride Center board member at large Brenda Larsen asked her to consider applying for the board, Weiss took her up on the offer. She was elected to the board last November and says she looks forward to several more years of advocating for bisexual and transgender people as a board member. When not busy at her job or with her duties for any number of volunteer organizations, Weiss said that she spends much of her time “cat-proofing” her house for the litter of kittens she cares for and playing the drums for a band she describes as a combination of “rhythm and blues and rock and roll.” But no matter what she does, Weiss is dedicated to helping the community — which is often largely focused on issues pertaining to white, lesbian or gay people — find ways to welcome and serve all of its members.

2013 Meet David Pruden M.A the new Director of NARTH (The National Association for Research & Therapy of Homosexuality) a self described “non-profit, educational organization dedicated to affirming a complementary, male-female model of gender and sexuality NARTH explains in their mission statement “clients have the right to claim a gay identity, or to diminish their homosexuality and to develop their heterosexual potential.” They claim to attain this through years of reparative therapy, (also used interchangeably with the terms conversion therapy and sexual brokenness) a practice the American Psychiatric Association says can “lead to depression, anxiety and self destructive behavior, may reinforce self hatred and suicide.” David Pruden, is the former executive director of Salt Lake City-based Evergreen International. A former member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, describes his experience of Mormon conversion therapy at  Evergreen International under Prudens leadership and calls it a “sucide mill” He states: Of the 15 men that were with me [in the Evergreen program] in the Denver area, one third of those men committed suicide. … The success statistics in Evergreen are based on how many people are still going to the meetings. They don’t care if you’re feeling better. Success is if you’re still going to church, you’re paying your tithing … you haven’t divorced your wife. In 2010, George Rekers, a psychologist and  scientific adviser to NARTH, was photographed at Miami International Airport with a 20-year-old male prostitute who had accompanied him on a 10-day European vacation. Rekers insisted he had hired the man, who advertised his services on Rentboy.com, merely to carry his luggage. The man disagreed. He told reporters he had given Rekers daily nude massages that included genital contact. Conmen, grifters, and murderers the lot of them. 




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Saturday, October 26, 2013

This Day In Gay Utah History October 26

October 26th
1907- . Paul Adolf Näcke (1851 1913) was a German psychiatrist and criminologist. Näcke is known for his numerous scholarly writings on homosexuality. He introduced the concept of narcissism as a neologism in the psychiatric discussion of the turn of the century. Dr Paul Naecke wrote that while he believed homosexuality was a sign of arrested development, homosexuals show no more signs of abnormality or degeneracy than heterosexuals

1950 Thursday- Donald E. Getz (1915-1994) of 86 Broadway was sentenced to 60 days in the city jail by Judge Arthur J. Mays (1894-1972) in Salt Lake City Police Court Wednesday as a result of disorderly conduct charges. Getz was arrested by Salt Lake Police at 10:40 p.m. Tuesday and pleaded guilty in police court on Wednesday. 
C.H. Hardin Branch

1957 Saturday- Better diagnostic and treatment facilities at existing institutions would serve better to control the problem of sex offenders than establishing a separate institution for them, said Dr. C.H. Hardin Branch, professor of psychiatric at the U of U College of Medicine and Walter Achuff former acting warden of the Utah State Prison. The University of Utah's Department of Psychiatry was founded by Dr. C.H. Hardin Branch in 1948.   10/26/57 SLTribune Page 17 Col. 2)

1962-Police raided a drag ball in New York City. Dozens were arrested on charges of indecent exposure.

1973- 20 year old Gay Youth activist Mark Segal interrupted
Mark Segal
The Today Show to protest stereotypical portrayals of gays on NBC. It was his third arrest. He 
is the president of the National Gay Newspaper Guild and sometimes called as "the dean of gay American journalism". In 1972, after being thrown out of dance competition for dancing with a male lover, Segal crashed the evening news broadcast of WPVI-TV, an act that became known as a "zap" and that he helped popularize. He repeated the action during many other television broadcasts. He is the founder of Gay Raiders, a Philadelphia based activism group, and the Philadelphia Gay News. In 1975 he went on a hunger strike on behalf of the passage of a law to guarantee equal rights for homosexuals. In 1988 he had a televised debate with a Philadelphia city councilman, Francis Rafferty, about Gay Pride Month.

Romanovsky & Phillips
1986 Singers and Gay activists Romanovsky and Phillips performed a benefit for AIDS Project Utah.
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1989-In Springfield Missouri a college production of "The Normal Heart" drew strong protest, resulting in all eight performances selling out in four hours. On opening night the theatre received bomb threats and the home of a supporter of the production was destroyed by arson.

1990- A gay U.S. Army colonel was discharged and sentenced to 90 days in Leavenworth for appearing in drag at an AIDS benefit and kissing another man.

1990 Friday The Bridge held a party at Club Detours at 32 Exchange Place Salt Lake City to celebrate its first issue.

1991 V. Martel Anderson (1970 - 1991) committed suicide Bountiful -- Vernon Martel Anderson, age 21, passed away October 26, 1991 at his home. Born August 27, 1970 in Granger, He graduated from Bountiful High School in 1988. He attended the University of Utah for 2 years. Was employed by A.R.U.P. [Associated Regional and University Pathologists, Inc. laboratories at the University of Utah] and enjoyed his work very much.

1992-Portland Oregon police chief Tom Potter testified before a state senate committee, saying many victims of anti-gay assaults do not report the crimes because of fear that their identities will be made public.

1996 Awards dinner raises funds for coalition, salutes `a lot of hard work.' THOSE WHO QUIETLY FIGHT AIDS BATTLE HONORED By Jason Mathis, Staff Writer Honoring those who quietly serve was the theme of an AIDS awards dinner Friday night at the Salt Lake Hilton.Close to 300 people attended the 1996 Community Awards Banquet hosted by the People With AIDS Coalition Of Utah. All proceeds go to helping people whose lives are impacted by AIDS."I just wanted to do something about it," said Katherine Zimmer, who bought a table with friends. "AIDS is such a frustrating thing. It's completely preventable and yet it's such a tragic disease."The $45-a-plate event is the coalition's major fund-raiser for the year. But it wasn't the main purpose of the evening, said Don Austin, chairman of the planning committee."Not only is this a fund-raiser for the coalition," he said, "but it's really a celebration of people who are just putting in a lot of hard work daily."Austin said this year's award winners were special because they made a big impact without seeking any glory. Award recipients were honored for volunteer work, compassionate medical assistance or because of sustained financial and material contributions, Austin said.Terrlynn Crenshaw, Anne Stromness, George Peppinger, Kindly Gifts, Steven Black, Richard Carter and Julie Mohr all received awards. Cori Sutherland, director of the coalition, said they hoped to raise $25,000 from the event.The non-profit coalition works with the Utah AIDS Foundation to provide education and support services for people impacted by HIV/AIDS. Forty to 50 percent of their funding comes from the annual banquet, Sutherland said.The program included a silent auction, dinner, award presentations and a speech by the Rev. Dr. Barbara King. Music was provided by Elise West, who donated a portion of CD sales at the event to the coalition.The banquet is held annually in conjunction with a conference on living with AIDS. The theme of this year's conference is"healing is in your hands" and will be held today and Sunday at Westminster College in the Gore School of Business.


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The Collision of Sex & Gender; Of Men, Women, and Those Living Somewhere In Between; Women, men and the people living in between- One night in 1970, when he was 19, Max Ganz put on a wig, a dress and women's shoes and walked across his small Arkansas town. He was fairly sure he was a transvestite. He fit the descriptions he had read a couple of years earlier in Dick Tracy's Crimestopper Textbook and in a magazine article that described new electroshock therapies designed to burn away the horrid madness that drove men to dress like women. He had dressed in his sister's and mother's clothing since he was a little boy. But never had he been so bold as to venture outdoors. ``I'm walking across town, navigating from shadow to shadow, hoping that no one would see me because they would probably recognize me,'' says Ganz, which is not his real name. He still lived with his parents. ``It seemed my dad's business associates were appearing at every window. The Ku Klux Klan was just down the street. I thought if I was caught, the whole world would collapse. Mr. Electroshock was waiting for me. I was basically in a combat mode, facing the risk.'' Now middle-aged, Ganz heads An Engendered Species, a Salt Lake City support group ``for those who travel freely between Venus and Mars.'' The risk is still there, but now Ganz faces it with humor -- he took his female name, Deborah Dean, from a girl he dated in high school -- understanding and a desire to change social attitudes about those who cross gender lines. While the group is open to anyone who likes to wear the clothes of the opposite sex, the 35 members are all male. They are professionals, blue-collar workers, semi-professional athletes and men in the military. Ganz doesn't know the men's sexual orientations -- ``that's not really what we're about,'' he says -- but he notes that sex researchers claim 80 percent of all cross-dressers are heterosexual. ``Usually, before they call us, they think they are the only people on Earth who do this,'' says Ganz. ``We're pretty much like square dancers or Shriners. We're just normal people, but we want to express the women within.'' A group co-founder who goes by the name Aere adds: ``For me, the genie is out of the bottle. Once you've experienced freedom, it's hard to go back to repression.''  

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A few ``transgendered'' individuals are entertainers, but most are average, private people. They range from those who occasionally don clothing of the opposite sex to those who undergo extensive sex-changing surgery. Bean Robinson, a professor with the University of Minnesota Medical School's program in human sexuality, says one in 20 people cross-dress. One in 30,000 adult males and one in 100,000 adult females have had their sex changed surgically. Knowing the difference between sex and gender is crucial to understanding transgendereds. Put simply, sex is biology, gender is attitude. Sex is determined by chromosomes, hormones and genitalia. Tradition says there are males, females and ``intersexed,'' those born in between. But Brown University geneticist Anne Fausto-Sterling says sex is more extensive: ``Biologically speaking, there are many gradations running from female to male; and depending on how one calls the shots, one can argue that along that spectrum lie at least five sexes -- and perhaps even more,'' she says. Gender variations are marked by manner and behavior, mix-and-match modes of expression. People show this through their clothes, cosmetics, hairstyles, body language and conversational style. Western society allows females far more latitude in gender expression than males -- witness women's free adaptation of menswear, for example. At the same time, certain behaviors such as directness and overt independence are still labeled masculine in some communities and cultures. Crossing sex and gender boundaries can be risky, says Nancy Nangeroni. She is a board member of the Boston-based International Foundation for Gender Education. ``Unfortunately, the transgender community suffers from severe victimization,'' she says. ``Transgendered folk are much more likely than others to commit suicide, to be murdered, to be fired from their jobs, to be beaten up and to be hurt in many more ways, some as blatant as open ridicule, some as insidious as nonhiring.'' Diagnosed With a Disorder: Critics say the medical community has a hand in that victimization. They deny -- and resent -- the implication that something is wrong with them just because they can't be shoehorned into a binary gender system. The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, the fundamental text for psychotherapists, labels some brands of gender nonconformism as disorders. ``Gender dysphoria,'' for example, is defined as a disturbance of gender identity, a sense of incongruity between anatomical and psychological sex. Katherine K. Wilson of the Gender Identity Center of Colorado in Lakewood, Colo., says that assuming transgendereds are disordered legitimizes intolerance in the community, workplace and courts. That argument is giving shape to the transgendered community's political awakening of the 1990s. It is reminiscent of that in the gay community before 1973, when American psychiatrists and psychologists declassified homosexuality as a mental disorder. The roots of this assertiveness reach back nearly 30 years. In 1968, biochemical researcher Virginia Prince began publishing her magazine,
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Transvestia. It was the first of its kind: a non-erotic publication for cross-dressers and their spouses. In 1980, Prince joined with an organization that came to be known as the Society for the Second Self, or Tri-Ess. It primarily serves transgendered people who do not want sex-reassignment surgery. In 1987, the first International Foundation for Gender Education conference convened. The organization, based near Boston, covers the spectrum of the transgendered population: transsexuals, cross-dressers, those who live as the opposite sex without surgery, ungendereds, and their spouses and partners. Today, there are about 20 national transgendered-education groups and many more local organizations providing social and political support to this little-understood segment of society.  The movement is a long time coming, says Dallas Denny, who founded the Atlanta-based American Educational Gender Information Service, or AEGIS, in 1990. ``When you get political, you get a great sense of pride in yourself,'' says Denny, herself a transsexual. ``People struggle with this, often for decades. It can't be cured. It is not a disease. It is just a way to be human. People are just trying to live their lives with dignity and respect for themselves.'' That isn't easy, given the truculence of the defenders of gender polarity. To them, gender lines are clearly drawn: There are women, and there are men. Ambiguity is unacceptable -- a soul-killing dilemma for the many who don't fit easily into either mold. Aere, of An Engendered Species, notes that it may be easier to come out gay than as a cross-dresser. And while transgendereds and gay drag queens have been a staple of entertainment forever, their acceptance -- even with gays and lesbians -- often stops at the stage. ``It's totally acceptable in the gay
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community to be a drag queen. It's almost mainstream,'' says Renee Rinaldi, former executive director of the Utah Stonewall Center in Salt Lake City. ``But the moment men dress like women in their own lives, the community is uncomfortable.''  Somewhere In Between: The spectrum of gender includes: -- Those who have always considered themselves female, or male. -- Females who have thought of themselves as men or boys. -- Males who have considered themselves female. -- ``Othergendered,'' neither man nor woman but some other gender. -- ``Ungendered,'' neither man nor woman nor any gender at all. -- ``Bigendered,'' or gender-blended, male and female at once. The term transsexual first gained wide acceptance in 1953, when endocrinologist Harry Benjamin presented a paper at a major medical conference on gender. Sex researcher Alfred Kinsey had coined the term five years earlier, but it was Benjamin's paper and the subsequent media popularization of the term that spurred medical and public recognition of transsexuals as a category distinct from transvestites. Another significant event in transgender history
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occurred in 1953: Ex-serviceman George Jorgensen went to Denmark for sex-change surgery and returned as Christine Jorgensen, America's first publicly recognized transsexual. Since then, those who believe they were born in the ``wrong'' body have increasingly sought surgery to align their sexual and gender identities. With other sex researchers, Benjamin developed protocols for those seeking sex-change surgery. In 1979, the attendees of the Sixth International Gender Dysphoria Symposium in San Diego adopted guidelines under the lengthy name ``The Harry Benjamin Standards of Care for the Hormonal and Surgical Sex Reassignment of Gender Dysphoric Persons.'' The standards require an individual to be evaluated psychologically, medically and socially for at least one year and perhaps many more before he or she is deemed ready for the surgery. At the core of the standards is whether the patient has had a persistent feeling of being in the wrong body. A gender-disorder diagnosis is necessary. That doesn't sit well with some therapists, such as Sheila Dickson, a Phoenix psychologist who says transgendered people make up about a third of her clients. In fact, she says, the standards -- already revised three times -- are now undergoing further ``sweeping'' revisions. Dickson believes gender dysphoria is a medical condition; at the same time, she counsels her patients to accept all their gender aspects. ``I usually have to help them understand it is not an either/or situation,'' she says. ``There is an amazing spectrum of gender identities out there and how you want to express it and live it.'' Adds Dallas Denny: ``The process of sex reassignment, which has moved people inevitably toward surgery, is right for some people but not for others. A lot of people want to live as transsexuals without surgery for a variety of reasons.'' Ambiguous, With Attitude: A politically emergent group questioning the value of sex surgery is intersexuals, those born sexually ambiguous. This obscure population gained visibility this year after the publication of an account in The Archives of Pediatric and Adolescent Medicine that challenged long-held assumptions about the relationship between culture and gender. In 1973, sexologist John Money of Johns Hopkins University in Baltimore published a report about an infant boy whose penis accidentally was cut off. Surgeons created ``female'' genitalia for the child and she was reared as a girl, ``Joan,'' ignorant of her sexual beginnings. In his account, Money exhibited the case as proof that infants are sexually neutral at birth and that sexual identification is acquired, like language, in early childhood. It turned out, though, that at age 14 ``Joan'' denied her female identity, became ``John'' and eventually underwent surgery to try to restore the lost genitals. In April this year, Milton Diamond, a physician with the University of Hawaii-Manoa in Honolulu, and Keith Sigmundson, a doctor with the Ministry of Health in Victoria, British Columbia, published their follow-up on ``John/Joan'' that refuted Money's earlier assertions. The two physicians suggested that rather than resorting to immediate sex-assignment surgery, intersex children should be allowed a say in what, if any, surgery to have. That also is the position held by the San Francisco-based Intersex Society of North America, a support group founded four years ago for intersex people, many of whom had genital surgery without informed consent. According to ISNA, one in every 2,000 babies is born with ambiguous genitalia, and more than 2,000 surgeries are performed each year in the United States to assign a sex to intersex patients. Geneticist Anne Fausto-Sterling says intersexuals fall into three categories: true hermaphrodites, who have both testicular and ovarian tissue, often due to abnormal chromosomes; female pseudohermaphrodites, genetic females whose external sex organs appear masculine after prenatal exposure to testosterone; and male pseudohermaphrodites, genetic males who don't become fully masculine, either because they didn't produce the necessary hormones or because their tissues didn't respond properly to hormones while still in the womb. When these babies are born, the surgeons move in. The general policy has been to proceed with sex-assignment surgery as soon as possible so the child does not have to experience ambiguity. According to ISNA, about 90 percent of the time, the child is made female because surgeons find it easier and more acceptable to make a small penis into a clitoris than a large clitoris into a small penis. This attitude angers ISNA. Executive director Cheryl Chase says, ``Genital surgery damages sexual function, compounding the difficulty of being different in the first place.'' Calling themselves ``Hermaphrodites With Attitude,'' ISNA members have posted their stories on the Internet. The first large group of intersexuals who received early childhood surgery are now reaching their 40s. Their activism has prompted pediatric urologists to rethink their views on early sex-assignment surgery. They also are asking the fundamental question: Just how do we define ``male'' and female''? Dictionaries say females bear young, males beget them. The definitions also say males and females are those who have male and female qualities. But, of course, there are females who don't have children and males who don't beget them. And all people are made up of ``male'' and ``female'' qualities. So it is fair to say that all people are transgendered. And while those who undergo sex-change surgery to live as the opposite gender are regarded as sexual radicals, they also are deeply conservative. No one goes to greater lengths than they to square sex with gender. To Change or Not: A segment of the transgendered community is taking issue with the idea that a person can be ``born into the wrong body.'' That attitude, the critics say, reinforces the assumption that sex and gender can only be binary. To them, no body is ``wrong,'' nor should people have to hew to a gender identity, a gender role or a sexual orientation based on their genitals. Scott Gerdes, a 43-year-old female-to-male transsexual, counters that such political arguments are pointless and divisive. ``I don't appreciate it when I hear people put down surgery and those of us who want it. If I want to, let me. It's personal,'' says Gerdes, a spokesman for the International Foundation for Gender Education. ``We just want to blend in and live.'' For Gerdes' colleague Nancy Cain, blending in has gotten easier since she began taking hormone shots and living full time as a woman. But the 43-year-old has yet to decide how far to go with her transformation. Born a boy, ``I knew I was transsexual at 19,'' Cain says. ``I just stayed drunk for years and didn't deal with it.'' As with many transgendereds, middle age forced a change. ``I lost my job, I had to get glasses and I thought, `Screw it. I might as well live as a woman,' '' she says. Cain still has male genitalia. She identifies as a bisexual, but lived as a gay man for about 10 years. She now lives with a woman who once was her wife -- but that was when Cain was living as a man and cross-dressing. ``I often ask myself, `What am I doing?' '' says Cain. ``If I'm going out with a woman, does that make me a lesbian or a heterosexual? I don't know.'' Cain has been on hormones long enough that she definitely looks like a woman. She says she is terrified of sex-reassignment surgery, but hasn't totally ruled it out. For her, being able to ``pass'' without being ``read'' -- that is, without onlookers realizing she is a man in a dress -- may be enough. Not so for Gerdes. Born a girl, he was suicidal as a teen-ager because he couldn't reconcile his brain with his body. ``I was afraid to tell anybody,'' he says. ``I thought they would toss me in the loony bin.'' At 26, he came out to his family. ``I said, `I know this is going to be strange to hear. But I have felt male as long as I can remember. And I have recently found out there is something I can do that will help me, physically and mentally. And that is what I'm going to do.' ``I made sure they all knew it wasn't their fault, that it was a good thing that would help me. I remember my dad looking at me, looking at the ground, looking at me, then saying, `Well, if that's what you have to do to be happy, go ahead.' My mom said, `But you're such a pretty girl.' '' Gerdes has legally been a man for 11 years. He had his first surgery three years ago, and will definitely go all the way. ``That's right for me, but not for everybody,'' he says. ``If I needed a third ear to be male, that's what I would have. It happens to be a penis. It doesn't have a personality. It's not a choice. It's not a like or dislike. I would just feel more complete. ``People are afraid to look at that,'' says Gerdes. ``I'm not sure of what they are afraid of. Living without being true to yourself is hell.''

1997  A brief history of transgenderism Salt Lake Tribune PATTY HENETZ  Some of the earliest accounts of transgenderism are from ancient Greece and Rome. The Roman emperor Nero is said to have married a castrated slave after murdering his pregnant wife. In Greek myths, males are turned to females for punishment, though the punishment is of questionable value since the transformed women report greater sexual pleasure in their new roles. Transsexual priestesses known as gallae served a female Phrygian deity believed to date back to the Stone Age. North American Indian tribes traditionally have been tolerant of cross-gendereds, known as Two-Spirits. Many African tribes have worshiped intersexual deities, and male-to-female shamans have been documented in South America. Evidence of Amazon warriors has been found in Asia. And transgendered political groups such as the Welsh Rebeccas and the Irish Molly Maguires were peasant militants. Perhaps the most famous transgendered person is Joan of Arc, the 15th-century insurrectionist called homasse, a slur meaning masculine woman. At age 17, dressed in men's clothing, Joan led her peasant army in a rout of the English from what would become the liberated nation-state of France. At English urging, the Roman Catholic Church condemned Joan for her paganism -- and her cross-dressing, which particularly provoked Grand Inquisitors. Told she could not attend Mass before her execution unless she wore women's clothes, Joan agreed. But for some reason -- historians say guards may have hidden her female attire to sabotage her -- Joan wore men's clothes. The priests, deciding Joan was a witch trying to appropriate the power of men, set her on fire. On May 30, 1491, she was burned at the stake. Afterward, bystanders raked her charred clothing off her corpse to see that she was indeed female. Rudolf Dekker and Lotte van de Pol, scholars at Erasmus University in Rotterdam, argue that in early modern Europe, women who dressed like men were not merely curiosities but rather part of a deeply rooted tradition, especially in the Netherlands, England and  Germany. To pass themselves off as men was an option for women who had fallen onto bad times, wanted to enlist in the army or wanted to marry other women. By the close of the 17th century, cross-dressers in England were publicly humiliated, hanged or both. But in 18th-century France, a member of Louis XV's court lived his first 49 years as a man and her last 34 years as a woman. While many believed the Chevalier d'Eon -- sent on spy missions to Russian in the guise of a woman -- was born female, an autopsy showed him to be a biological male. In 1953, ex-serviceman George Jorgensen went to Denmark and came home to America as Christine Jorgensen, media sensation. By the 1980s, the public embraced androgynous stars such as David Bowie, Boy George, Prince, Grace Jones and Madonna. Yet jazz musician Billy Tipton, a woman who lived as a man, died in 1989 of a bleeding ulcer rather than go to a doctor who might reveal his secret -- which a coroner did instead. From Shakespeare to Mrs. Doubtfire, from Little Richard to RuPaul, the stage has been the safest public space for transgendereds and those acting like them. For nearly 20 years at midnight showings of ``The Rocky Horror Picture Show,'' moviegoers worldwide have dressed in costumes to celebrate Frank N. Furter, the sweet transvestite from Transsexual, Transylvania. In Salt Lake City, the annual Royal Court of the Golden Spike Empire drag ball nets some $20,000 a year for AIDS charity and scholarships, says Jeff Kosewski, Royal Court emperor and organization co-president. The ball, once underground, now convenes in the Salt Palace; two years ago, ballgoers peacefully shared the Palace with a massive bowlers' convention. But even such generally accepted transgender activities have their critics. According to an unsigned article in the November 1995 issue of The Journal of Gender Studies, drag performances are little more than gender minstrel shows that debase women by endowing them with artifice and then belittling it. ``Breasts, elaborately coiffured hair, exaggerated make-up and mannerisms are deployed as props in a performance,'' the author says. ``The man in a frock looks preposterous, but this is just a shadow of the essential preposterousness of the female body itself.'' "This last paragraph can be true, but women can also be honored, It depends upon how one does it" -- Deborah Dean

1998 The LDS Church gave $600,000 to the political-action group Save Traditional Marriage ’98 according to a report in the Honolulu Advertiser.

2003 SUNDAY Gay Navajos are walking a cultural tightrope By Leslie Hoffman The Associated Press  WINDOW ROCK, Ariz. -- Darrell Joe sits across the table over a Denny's breakfast, cup of coffee in hand, rattling off projects he is working on and programs he wants to start in his new job with the Navajo Nation's AIDS office. He is a respected 30-year-old professional in a high-profile position, his calendar filled with meetings and conferences. There is an ease in his voice. He knows who he is and what he wants. He is happy. But it wasn't always like this.     Joe remembers when his journey began: when he and his cousins, playmates growing up in the small Navajo community of Iyanbito, N.M., went off to school.     That's when other kids started hurling words like "fag" and "queer" at him. Soon, some of his cousins were embarrassed to be seen with him. "That's when I started to think, 'OK, I'm different.' I couldn't figure it out, and I think that's when I started pretending that I lived in certain worlds," he said. His search for a place to belong both as a gay man and as a Navajo would take him far from his home and his culture to an urban existence in Western society -- and back again. Joe is one of the growing number of gay, lesbian and bisexual Navajos walking a cultural tightrope, uniting elements of Navajo and Western culture to
establish a place for themselves.   "They sort of had to create their own world," said Wesley Thomas, an assistant professor of anthropology at Indiana University who specializes in American Indian gender studies. The modern view of homosexuality in the Navajo Nation is shaped both by tribal tradition and Western influence, according to Thomas. Navajo origin stories embrace the idea of cross-gender identities. In some of these stories, men with feminine characteristics are known as "nadleeh" -- they dressed like women and were considered important religious figures with a special role in ceremonies. They also shared in conventional female duties, such as cooking or caring for children. In Navajo tradition, sexual relationships between nadleeh and non-nadleeh men were considered heterosexual. "In the Western gay culture, you have men who look like any other guy and behave like men and that's their identity as a gay male," said Jack Jackson Jr., a gay Navajo who serves in the Arizona House of Representatives. "On the reservation . . . you see a lot of gay men who look more feminine and act more feminine, and it seems it's from their upbringing in a more traditional way." A modest number of nadleeh have lived openly as transvestites on the reservation for generations, said Harry Walters, an anthropologist who teaches Navajo culture at Dine College in Tsaile, Ariz. Some in the community now see "nadleeh" as an early manifestation of homosexuality, and use it as a broad term for anyone who isn't heterosexual.   Yet Thomas and Walters said the traditional understanding of nadleeh is disappearing, in part because the cultural significance has not been passed from one generation to the next -- but also because of changing attitudes.     With the arrival of Western religious influences, Navajo families began to hide away homosexual relatives or encourage them to live a heterosexual lifestyle, Thomas said. "The nadleeh were very much a part of Navajo culture right into the late 1800s," said Thomas, who is also a gay tribal member. "Now we have children and grandchildren who dismiss [nadleeh] as part of Navajo culture. It was . . . relegated to something that was part of Western culture and not Navajo.     "There is now a search by these Navajo gays and lesbians to find out who they are," he said.  With that search has come an attempt to organize. Melvin Harrison, head of the Chinle-based Navajo AIDS Network, said there wasn't a community for homosexual, bisexual or transgender Navajos when he began HIV prevention work on the reservation in 1988. "Ten years ago, 15 years ago, there was no place for these individuals to go," Harrison said. "That's the big change I've seen is that we have people who come to our office just to get a hug, to laugh, to wear makeup. Then they wash up and go home and be their other selves." To celebrate National Coming Out Day earlier this month, the network's office in Gallup, N.M., organized a coming-out party at a nearby state park. More than 50 people showed up for the third annual event, which included a drag show and a dance. No one can remember a formal organization that served homosexual, bisexual or transgender Navajos before the network's formation in 1990. Homosexuality is simply not discussed within the traditionally discreet Navajo Nation. "It's always been accepted, but deep down it's seen as something that's not normal," Walters said. Some credit the traditional nadleeh teachings for greater tolerance among older generations. Joe said his grandmother, for instance, always knew he was different but never judged or ostracized him.     Still, the homophobic attitudes that first emerged with the decline of the nadleeh persist today, although tribal members disagree to what extent.  Pernell Sam, a transgender Navajo from the small town of Many Farms near Chinle, said the 2-inch scar on his back is painful proof. The 28-year-old was stabbed at a party seven years ago by a man who he said used to call him "fag" and "queer" in high school.  "They never caught that guy," Sam said. "I still see him around."    Countless tribal members stay in the closet, fearing that kind of backlash, Harrison and others said. As a result, it's hard to know just how large the gay community is on the reservation.  As a young man, Joe was simply too afraid of the reaction he might get from friends, classmates and others if he came out. A cross-country athletic scholarship to college in Idaho was his ticket away from the reservation. Eventually, Joe set out for San Francisco. There, a stint as a volunteer with an AIDS prevention organization led to a career. But something was still missing. "I was living in two worlds," Joe said. He returned to Gallup, eager to reconnect with his culture and help the local AIDS prevention effort, using models from his work in San Francisco. That work led to the Naa Ts'iilid Hozho, or Beauty Rainbow Project. The HIV prevention group, which is part of the Navajo AIDS Network, targets the homosexual, bisexual and transgender community. The rainbow is a symbol in both Navajo religion and the Western gay movement. Beauty Rainbow Project is both a public health effort and an important support network. "As far as the gay community on the Navajo reservation, we're it," said Marco Arviso, who heads the group of about 20 people. Pernell Sam said he revealed his identity 10 years ago and will not go back in the closet. "It's too hard," he said. Sam is dressed in a plain gray cotton top and white pants, his face flawlessly smooth with strong feminine lines defining his cheekbones -- all changes from hormones he's taking in the hopes of someday getting a sex change. His personal mission is to help other Navajos understand.  "I have nothing to hide," he said.
   
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2010 High-ranking LDS leader weighs in on same-sex attraction By Peggy Fletcher Stack The Salt Lake Tribune Dieter F. Uchtdorf of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, waves to the crowd after the afternoon session of the 180th Semiannual General Conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints Saturday, April 3, 2010. Mormons may not know until the hereafter what causes same-sex attraction, but “God loves all his children” and expects everyone to do the same, an LDS Church leader said Sunday. While the message — delivered to more than 200,000 Utah Mormons — may not seem significant, the messenger was. As second counselor in the governing First Presidency, Dieter F. Uchtdorf is one of the highest-ranking leaders in the hierarchy of the nearly 14 million member Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to address the thorny topic of whether same-sex attraction is inborn. The gentle tone and emphasis of Uchtdorf’s remarks — spoken at the Conference Center in downtown Salt Lake City and beamed to dozens of church buildings — came in the wake of an earlier speech by Boyd K. Packer, senior member of the LDS Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. In Packer’s original General Conference speech earlier this month, he said, “Some suppose that they were pre-set and cannot overcome what they feel are inborn tendencies toward the impure and unnatural. Not so.” Packer later changed “tendencies” to “temptations” on the church’s website. Still, Packer’s speech generated national controversy and protests from those inside and outside the Salt Lake City-based faith, many of whom saw the apostle’s statements as contributing to the self-loathing and suicides of gays. In response to the outcry, LDS spokesman Michael Otterson issued a strongly worded condemnation of bullying and belittling of gays, saying, “Their struggle is our struggle.” On Sunday, Uchtdorf reiterated the church’s position that it doesn’t know the cause of homosexuality and that it doesn’t matter. “Many questions in life, however, including some related to same-gender attractions, must await a future answer, even in the next life,” Uchtdorf said. “Until then, the truth is, God loves all his children, and because he loves us, we can trust him and keep his commandments.” Some audience members welcomed Uchtdorf’s approach, which seemed more consistent with the church’s position. “It seemed fairly close to the line we’ve been getting lately — the idea that the practice is sinful, but homosexual tendencies are acceptable within the church as long as people don’t act on them,” said Jennie Pulsipher, a Mormon who watched the regional conference via satellite at her east-side Salt Lake City stake center. “He also emphasized that [gays] should be treated lovingly as children of God.” Ty Mansfield sees
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Uchtdorf’s remarks as representing the church’s future. “We’re going to be hearing more and more statements like this, calling church members to a greater expression of compassion and kindness,” said Mansfield, who writes at northstarlds.org, a website for believing Mormon gays. “Doctrine will remain the same, but we’ll see a pretty radical shift in the culture of the church in how we relate both to the issue of same-sex attraction and to those who experience homosexual feelings. We’ve made some significant strides over the last few years, and I think this is only the beginning.” Though he wasn’t in the audience, Brigham Young University microbiologist Bill Bradshaw was pleased to hear of Uchtdorf’s remarks. “I totally agree that no matter what the cause or what we eventually find out is the definitive explanation, it doesn’t alter our opportunities nor obligations to treat our gay brothers and sisters like everyone else — with Christian kindness,” said Bradshaw, who, with his wife, Marge, directs Family Fellowship, a support group for LDS parents of gays and lesbians. That compassionate approach, he said, “resonates with me.” Yet Bradshaw, who has a gay son, believes a wait-and-see approach to causality belies a mountain of scientific research. “I have spent a long time investigating the published evidence from empirical studies, and I know that the overwhelming evidence strongly favors the position that sexual orientation is
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programmed by biological mechanisms,” he said. “The evidence that it’s a choice or that it’s programmed by social or psychological forces is lacking.” On Monday, Bradshaw lectured about the topic in a BYU bioethics class, explaining all the research he has uncovered in recent years. The question of cause inevitably leads to the next question — the issue of change, he said. “The evidence shows overwhelmingly that orientation is not amenable to change.” During Sunday’s wide-ranging address, Uchtdorf did not mention the issue of same-sex attractions changing or anything else related to the issue. But the German leader did allude obliquely to the question of immigration by calling himself a “legal alien.” He thanked Utahns for welcoming him and his family to the Salt Lake Valley in 1999 when he was called for an “overseas assignment,” but he expected to return to his home in Europe one day. Then, in 2004, he became an apostle, a lifetime position. He and his wife, Harriet, realized, he said, that “the ‘Wild West’ was now our final destination.” “You are and have been for generations wonderful examples,” he said, “of integrating foreign people into your neighborhoods and communities.” Utah’s dominant religion hasn’t taken a definitive position on the immigration debate. Instead, LDS leaders have called for “compassion” and encouraged “careful reflection and civil discourse” when discussing the issue.

2015 Marian Edmonds-Allen resigns as Utah Pride Center director





When Marian Edmonds-Allen was chosen to be the executive director of the Utah Pride Center, which has been struggling with personnel, financial and public perception issues, a squeal and a collective sigh of relief could be heard from Utah’s lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans* and ally community. Community leaders expressed hope that she could bring the Center to new heights, as she did with the Ogden OUTreach Resources Center a few years ago. In the past three months since her selection, her calendar has been full of meetings with community stakeholders, members of the community, press and anyone who had an idea to share. Today, she gave notice of her resignation, effective immediately. “After an 11-week assessment of the Utah Pride Center, it is my recommendation that it be predominantly community-led and operated,” Edmonds-Allen said. “To prolong existing resources for the benefit of the community, I have recommended that the executive director position be eliminated.” The board of the Center is still determining what are their next steps. “When Marian accepted the position, the board was very clear about the status of the Pride Center in terms of tasks at-hand around programming, financial status, fundraising, the Pride Festival, capital campaign, board development … all of those things,” said board chair Kent Frogley. “We had communicated those things at a 30,000-foot level. Marian came in, dug deeper into those, and assessed and evaluated what needed to be done and presented us with a  fairly comprehensive statement on where she thought greater focus and greater resources needed to be brought to bear. At the same time she indicated that she made the decision that she didn’t want to take that task on.” “We are disappointed,” Frogley continued. “She had made a lot of progress with a lot of the stakeholders of the community who partnered with the Pride Center. People responded to her very positively, as the board did. We are disappointed that she ultimately decided it was something that she wasn’t willing to do.” At a rebranding ceremony at the Pride Center on National Coming Out Day Oct. 11, Edmonds-Allen was given a long standing ovation. She didn’t, however, give her talk on the future of the Center, as promotional material had indicated. That might have been, however, because the event went an hour longer than anticipated. In an August interview with QSaltLake, Edmonds-Allen’s stated her vision for the Center that could be summed up with one word: Extension. She wanted to extend people’s knowledge about the Center; to extend the hand of cooperation and collaboration to other LGBT-centered partners and others in the broader community; and to extend the Center’s role both in effectiveness and geographic reach. Community Liaison & Volunteer Manager Jimmy Lee also left last Friday, after being with the Center since December, 2012. “It’s been a great process of learning and unlearning as I’ve engaged in this work,” Lee said.

2015 Ex-Utah Pride Center director’s resignation letter alleges financial troubles, struggles with board Marian Edmonds-Allen Resigned as executive director of the Utah Pride Center
By Jennifer Dobner The Salt Lake Tribune  Published: October 27, 2015   Surprise move • Marian Edmonds-Allen held the leadership position for just 11 weeks. A resignation letter from the former executive director of the Utah Pride Center describes a rocky relationship with the board and concerns for “unsustainable operating conditions” that she says leave the resource for the gay and transgender community on shaky ground. Those conditions include: “financial crisis, lack of support from donors, absence of development programs or plans, lack of strategic planning and the dismal state of the programs and services of UPC,” according to the resignation letter of Marian Edmonds-Allen. She resigned abruptly Monday after 11 weeks on the job. The decision “blindsided” the board, but the breadth of the center’s challenges are not a surprise to anyone, board president Kent Frogley said Tuesday. “This was all stuff we told her when she started in August,” he said, adding that the board believed it had set out specific goals for a variety of center needs, including fundraising, development, hiring priorities, programming and increasing the profitability of the annual Pride Festival. “I would be the first to admit that the challenges facing the Pride Center are not easy things,” said Frogley. “But we try to be as positive and as clear as we can about the things that need to be done.” Despite her short tenure, Frogley said Edmonds-Allen had made great strides, including launching a new website, initiating new community outreach and overseeing an effort to make the Salt Lake City center more inviting. “The feedback from everybody about her was really positive,” he said. “They like her energy … she’s great.” Edmonds-Allen — a former pastor and a longtime gay- and transgender-community advocate who ran a drop-in center for LGBT teens in Ogden and worked with national Family Acceptance Project — was hailed for her reputation for collaboration when the board selected her in July. The choice followed two years of tumult for the center, which lost a previous director amid allegations of financial mismanagement — later determined to be unfounded — and saw numerous other staff changes, including two interim directors. Edmonds-Allen could not be reached for comment on Tuesday, but in a Facebook post, she said she had recommended the board move ahead by terminating the executive-director position and allow the center to be community-led and operated. To me, community comes first, period,” she said in the post.  Frogley doesn’t think such an elimination is viable. The busy center, he said, supports many constituencies, and “you have to have somebody to keep the wheels on the bus.” A difference in communication and/or working styles may be at the heart of the split, Frogley said. In her letter, Edmonds-Allen says the board had been verbally supportive and provided some direction, but had also acted to undermine moves aimed at ensuring the center’s stability. The board also failed to respond quickly to security concerns stemming from the discovery that the center bookkeeper had been accused in a civil lawsuit of embezzling more than $200,000 from a previous employer, she said. Frogley disputes the characterization of the board, and his policy is to provide direction and “then get out of the way.” He also said that while there was some lag time between the notification of the bookkeeper’s troubles and the woman’s firing, it’s because information was being gathered about the allegations. “I think [Edmonds-Allen] honestly brought her best game,” Frogley said. “And whatever communication issues there were ultimately resulted in a decision that it was better to get out rather than drag something out that you knew in your heart isn’t a fit.”

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